THE PENDULUM ■ rt. *•* f ,Ot PAGE 1'1 // WEDNESDAY, CX^TOBER 6, 2010 1 I Blind belief: Religious believers fail simple tests of faith Ashley Fahey Columnist Atheists and agnostics take the gold medal when it comes to knowledge of religion. After a recent survey conducted by the independent Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life, it was found that on average, half the questions about basic religion fundamentals were answered incorrectly by the more than 3,000 Americans polled. Even after external factors such as education and age were taken into consideration, atheists and agnostics, followed by Jews and Mormons, scored the highest on the survey. Questions that were asked included Jesus’ birthplace and the Dalai Lama’s religion, and most were formatted in a multiple choice format. An interesting conclusion that was derived from the survey dealt with confusion in regards to religion and the classroom. Only approximately one-third of the individuals surveyed knew that public schools were allowed to offer a world religions course and less than one fourth knew that a teacher could read from the Bible in the classroom if it is used in a literary context. There were many ironic results from the survey as well. For instance, 53 percent of Protestants could not accurately identify the man who started the Protestant Reformation. Forty-five percent of Catholics did not know that, according to the Catholic doctrine, the sacramental bread and wine of communion represents the body and blood of Christ. It is unfathomable that people call themselves true followers of a religion if they are unable to identify basic fundamentals of the said religion. Sure, a Christian isn’t expected to have every verse of the Bible memorized, but having knowledge of the basics is a necessity. Although this survey should not label or brand those who are devout followers or have an enriched knowledge of religion, it is interesting to note that atheists and agnostics scored higher than religiously- affiliated individuals. Many atheists and agnostics identify themselves as such because they have drawn their own conclusions about religion after educating themselves about it. I think it is completely fine to be spiritual and to believe in a deity (or multiple deities) if that is one’s wholehearted belief. But in order to be considered a follower of a specific religion, education and examination of that religion is pertinent. Otherwise, one would essentially be claiming they believe in something that they either are ignorant to or have misconceptions about. Also, there needs to be clearer lines as to what the boundaries are between “teaching and preaching.” As the survey illustrated, there is much confusion and a few misconceptions about how religion can be approached in the classroom. In fact, perhaps this is a root for the results of this survey. A lack of religion education about Christianity and world religions in schools could be causing Americans to be confused or simply ignorant to the basic principles of the world’s most popular religions. And while world religions courses are commonly offered at public and private schools alike, this survey illustrates that not many people are aware that these courses are available. Perhaps there needs to be a bigger emphasis on basic religion education in the classroom. Perhaps religiously- affiliated individuals should pay closer attention to the doctrines that make up what they claim to believe in. But no matter what, one thing remains constant: education and religion are perpetually intertwined and in order to understand religion, understanding the principles is essential. Responsible upbringing creates secure, socially conscious young adults Parenting can affect students’ world views Rachel South mayd Columnist In my first week at Elon University, a professor warned my class that in college, C’s were comparable to high school A’s, and we needed to adjust our expectations because no one would be there to hold our hand. This past weekend, many of these hand- holders roamed across the campus: parents. Parents come in many forms. There are the helicopters, the naggers, the “best friends,” the absentees, the “let them figure it out on their own”-ers. But then there are the ones that fall somewhere in the middle. Those guardians who know when to hold on and when to let go. The best sort of parenting occurs when children are given realistic expectations, but are never limited in their attempts to reach for extraordinary goals. Praise is given when earned, but not in excess, because that is not the case in real life. Children don’t walk on water, but then again, neither do parents. By keeping commendation in check, children are taught to keep their expectations within normal limits and to hold themselves to a higher standard. But good parenting isn’t about letting your kids run free and make their own mistakes — rules and consequences for breaking those rules are vital elements of the parenting experience. If a kid never touches a garbage can at home, what makes you think he or she will be inclined to do so in college? If Peter breaks Mom’s favorite vase, he should be the one to compensate for it, whether it’s picking up extra chores or simply shelling out the cash to replace it. But the punishment should fit the crime, and circumstances should be taken into account. I don’t think any child can flourish under the iron fist of tyrannous parents, nor do I think a kid who gets a mere slap on the wrist for racking up a $1,000 cell phone bill will be inclined to stop texting every joke from “The Office” to each of his 400 contacts. I grew up with parents who fit most of the positive descriptions I've given. I am not trying to say they raised a perfect kid, by any means. What I do mean is that I think I’m better off for the approach they took during my adolescence. At times, it’s easy to mistake their distance for coldness, or lack of caring, but its really just the opposite. They wanted to raise children who could think for themselves, who work to please themselves, not others and realize that the greatest self-image one can achieve is one that is self-attained and self-assured. They taught me that irresponsibility and complete dependency on others is a weakness that will inevitably pile up, manifesting itself like the stench of three-week old Cookout in the bottom of an un-emptied dorm room trash can. Music content-tells story about relevant social issues Jennifer McAllister Guest Columnist The chorus from Rhianna and Eminem’s chart topping song “Love the Way You Lie” is a song that makes me, well, quite frankly, extremely irritated. “Just gonna stand there and watch me burn/But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts/ Just gonna stand there and hear me cry/ But that’s alright because I love the way you lie.” When I watch the music video, which portrays a passionate and violent fight between two lovers, and hear the lyrics, which describe acts such as tying someone to a bed and throwing someone to the floor, I become enraged, upset and thoroughly shocked. When I continue to listen to the song, I sink even further into disbelief when I realize Rhianna, a survivor of domestic abuse, and Eminem, who allegedly took part in domestic violence disputes, collaborated on this song. And you know what? The fact that I get so angry is OK; that’s the whole point of this video. But I disagree completely with the people who say this song is “glamorizing" and making the horrific realities of domestic abuse seem normal. On the contrary, I believe it’s finally bringing into light an issue that has plagued many women for centuries. By talking about this issue in such a public forum and bringing to the forefront of Americans minds an issue that is very often overlooked, the video is finally encouraging all of us to confront and help defeat this problem. 1 also think that in many ways, it is encouraging and assisting many current victims of domestic violence to come forward and get help. When an issue seems taboo in the minds of Americans, like domestic violence, many are afraid to step forward, even if it’s purely because they don’t know where to get the support they need. This video, or any video that addresses these controversial and avoided topics, helps victims realize it is not OK to be living like this, and that they are not alone. Other people across the globe experience the same thing daily, and more people are abused and die from something that can be largely prevented if people had the courage to speak up. This video is supposed to spark controversial debates and heated arguments. That is the only way for people to realize the very real horrors of this frighteningly common circumstance. In this way, it is the media’s responsibility to play a part in helping people realize that this behavior is not acceptable or normal, but that it is unfortunately common. The media needs to open Pandora’s Box and reveal to society that these problems are becoming too much a part of the typical American life. The media needs to promote changes in people’s thinking, and therefore needs to also directly help raise awareness. If used in the right way, the media is the most powerful tool we have to help others. I do not think “Love the Way You Lie” was supposed to encourage the younger generation to beat their wives or hurt their loved ones because Eminem and Rhianna make it sound good. The fact that Rhianna was the singer of these deep lyrics should be a direct signal that this music video was not supposed to make abuse look cool. It’s not a publicity stunt. This video helps legitimize the actual feelings that someone in this position has felt to the mass majority who have no idea of how much domestic abuse the victims have to suffer. I! pm mas iplsiam m w a asm iSito www.pendulumopinions.wordpress.com