Meredith Herald Volume X, Issue 13 December 1,1993 Raleigh, North Carolina Stress spells distress at end of fall semester Counseling Center ojfers tips to get through finals December isone of the most stress* All months of the year for college students. Academic pressures are ris ing as the semester comes to its hair- raising climax! As final exams, projects and papers approach, so do anxiety, fear, depression and guilt. With the end of the semester often comes a depletion of funds, and it occurs to you that you’ve hardly be gun your holiday shopping. The holi day season itself can bring on a whole set of stressors. Seasonal parties and community and church responsibili ties create additional social demands. Many will experience the “holiday blues” related to family conflicts, losses and separation. Stress is the physical and psycho logical response of the body as it at tempts to deal with internal and exter nal demands perceived to be threaten ing or dangerous, There is good stress and badstress. Fliysiological responses of the body, such as increased heart and breathing rates and flow of hor mones, prepare us to act in response to stressors. In this way stress can help us in meeting physical chal lenges, solving problems and reaching goals. However, on going exposure to threatening situations trig gers a contin ued depen- dence on the adrenaline surge, making us feel that we’re in a chronic state of “fight or flight.” Recognizing and eliminating the stressors, in life is the best way to protect ourselves from the mental and physical wear-and-tear that stress causes. The causes of stress are varied and can change rapidly. Some of the most common stressors are those cre ated out of personal demands we place onourselves, . such as per fectionism, control, pas sivity, impa tience and ri gidity. Often these traits turn into ex ternal pres- sures, for in- stance when we are not able to be assertive about saying “no,” then become stressed by being over committed. similarly, by acting out a need to please others, we may end up feeling frustrated or unsatisfied. A ith the end of the semester often comes a depletion of funds, and it occurs to you that you've hardly begun your holiday shopping. counselor can help you identify per sonality/behavior patterns which may be contributing to increased stress and poor management. Once you’ verecognized the stres sors in your life, you can learn to monitor your response to sU’ess. Lis ten to your body and tiie wariung signals it’s trying to send you. Allow some time for quiet and relaxation. Take care of your body with regular meals, sleep and exercise. The Coun seling Center can assist you in learn ing to set healthy limits for yourself through acquiring skills in time man agement, problem-solving, prioritiz ing and relaxation. Confidence and a strong sense of self are essential in stress management. Building self-es teem through self-nurturing and by learning to eliminate negative self talk, are furtiier ways to reduce the impaa of sttess in your life. Music professor delivers lecture by Addie Tschamler Dr. James Fogle, from the De partment of Music, Speech, and The ater, presented the Faculty Distin guished Lecture Monday night, No vember 22, in Jones Auditorium. Dr. Fogle received a Bachelor of Arts degree from Elon College and contin ued into graduate school at the Uni versity of North Carolina at Chapel Hill where he earned his Master of Arts degree and Doctor of Philoso phy. Dr.Fogleinstructspianolessons, courses in music history and litera ture, and directs the music graduate program at Meredith. He also gives lectures throughout North Carolina on a regular basis. “Reach for the sky!” Fogle pro claimed he began his lecture and “journey into the romantic imagina tions of E.T.A. Hoffmann and Robert Schumann.” Fogle presented Hoffmann, musician and writer, and Schumann, musician, parallel to one another in “imagery and mood.” He began the journey with a vivid de scription of Johannes Kreisler, a char acter created by Hoffmann. As music filled the die room the audience was encouraged to “reach beyond the boundaries of this hall, beyond the boundaries of your life, into the heav ens.” Fogle touched base with such imagery and symbolism of music from Kriesteriana, and Kater Murr, describ ing them in comparison with Hoffmann’s essays. A very poetic and descriptive sum marization flowed witii each topic of consideration in Fogle ’ s lecture. From “Kreisler’s Tom-Cat Murr’s Existen tial Feelings,” through “the mysteri- see LECTURE page seven Tribal Life comes to Meredith The Native American History class put this teepee up the week before Thanksgiving in conjunction with their study of the Plains Indiaie.