tuM November 13.1996 2 Campus Opinion College drinking not cool From Ihe Editor The front page of this edition carries a story on college drinking which talks about area universities’ crackdown on students drinking. A story CD the same subject appeared in the News and Observer a few weeks ago and the responses I heard about that one were not positive. I heard things like: Everybody drinks, making more rules isn’t going to stop it, it’s not that big of a deal, it's just what students do. If that's just what students do, then let me tell you what alcohol does to students. Five students died last year in the Phi Gamma Delta fire; maybe they could have gotten out iii time had diey not been intoxicated. A letter from the same fraternity to prospective pledges promised almost certain sex with drunk, semi-conscious girls. A drunk UNC student fell to her deatli while climbing up the side of a building a few y^ars ago. Students are involved in countless drunk driving incidents and gang r^s/date rapes at fraternity parties. Should 1 go on? Id light of all the horrid things than can and recently have come about as a result of alcohol, I Just want to know why getting drunk is such a great thing. What would ha[^n if students went out on a Thursday night aud didn 't get drunk? They would probably siiU go get something to eat, go visit friends and maybe Ml end up hanging out at someone’s apartmeut. Would they still have fun? Of course, and they would even be able to remember that fun in the rooming. The problem is that people don’tknow how to haveagood time withoutalcc^l anymore. Tliey may not be alcoholics, but they are still addicted to it. and they love it enough to pour their money into it They have partied so much that they can't have fun without being drunk. And that' sjust plain sad. I’ve bad friends tell me some of their great drunk stories: one peed on herself, one almost killed herself driving home, one made a fool of himself by professing his feelings fw a girl, one threw up non-stop for 12 hours, one got so dehydrated she had to go to the emergency room, one had sex with some chick he had never met before and didn’t even like the next morning. Are these events supposed to sound glamorous, fuu and evoke green envy in those of us who missed out? Too bad, because tliey don’t. They sound stupid and self-destructive. Having a few drinks socially is not a problem. Celebrating your 21 birthday at a bar is not a problem, llie problem comes when you hit the point of losing self-control and having no desire to get it back. And all too often tliat is becoming the norm. Peopteread those horrorstories about drunken accidents in the newspaper and they sigh and turn the page, positive it will never happen to them. Yeah. Right. That’s exactly what the girl who fell off the building thought the night she died. Letter to the editor... Rebuttal to "Meredith students are stereotyped" Dear Editor, As senior class officers it is our job to help the senior class in their selection of graduation speakers. We have been working diligently since last November collecting suggestions and chasingdownleads. Back in May our first speakerchoice was DixieCarter.She is extremely expensive, and we quickly found she would not be an option. Tlie class then decided to try for Barbara Bush with the understanding that a backup speaker was necessary because Bush cannot commit before April. She unfortunately had a previous engagement. Our speaker ou liold graciously declined so we could try for another “big name” speaker. Joima Anderson, sfflior class president. Dr. Cindy Edwards, convocation chair, Dr. Jo Gugliemi, senior class adviser, and Dr. Weems had ameeting to explore other options. Hiey decided theclass should look into inviting an astronaut, as suggested by one of our class members. NASA wrote us back and was unable ^ even consider our invitation until we sent specific information about (be engagement. During this time, we tbuud out there was a slim chance that we could invite Tq>per Gore. Since it is so important that theclass get a say in tl)e graduation speaker, the officers tookthe infonnationlromNASAand Gore back to the class. Themajority of theclass racedopursueinviiingGore with (he understanding that this would be tlie saineanaugement as with Barbara Bush with a speaker on hok}. Hie class of 1997 has had a critical role in all decisions made about thecomineucemeiu speat^. Since we s(arted this process 12 months ago, we have given (he class many o^rtunities to nominate and vote on a speaker. We have bad many suggestions at class meetings, which have been crucial to the information process. Class meeting attendance is important to ensure the students are receiving all infonnation ilrstiiand. We realize that it is not always possible to be at class meetings, and we have uied to filter this information through newsletters, the Herald and the availability of ourselves. We have taken EVERY suggestion into consideration. Time has been an important part of the selection process and wearehaj^y tijai ourclass has been so involved.Weare here to serve andaddress allquestions and issues. If anyone has further questions or concerns about the commencement speaker for May, please feel free to contact Jonna Anderson at x7891 or any of tlie other class officers. Sincerely, the Senior Class Officers RbSln Edtiorial PoiK TJk pajjerf pipKSacdi in tmm IV the F Evcrittuc j tKunber. AH siruwnt* «le^ CTMii in tuinf, ilUllltil. Md Meredith By Tory Hoke Up and at 'em, Luna! Rise and shine! ant Does your mama know how you act in the morning? ywe/JVwW Hom poian WITH H*LfAfAuf \, JOBBVFO Preparing for Job Search Leam skills and techniques ro make the most of this important aspca of you job search. Plan to attend! How to Soil Yourself in the Job Interview, Thursday, November 14, 4:00-5:00pm, Career Center, Gradxiate Study Event Don’t miss this opportunity to learn. .Wou' to Write Winning Graduate School Applications, Friday, November 15,10:00am, Career Center. Presented by Dr. Jean Jackson, vice-president for Student Development. Jobs! Don't forget to check out the job listings and coop/inteniship opportunities listed in the Career Center, 2nd floor Paik Center.