Carolina Ballet Presents Halloween Repertoire With Raleigh based Carolina Ballet dancing to the music composed by J. Mark Scearce, Head of the music department at NG State University, Dracula has moved into Raleigh and can been welcomed into his new home at A. J. Fletcher Theater of the Progress Energy Center of the Per forming Arts in downtown Raleigh. Carolina Ballet premiered two spine-chilling ballets - Dracula (Bram Stoker) and The Masque of the Red Death (Edgar Allen Poe) on Thurs day, October 14. The dramatic ballet, complete with a costumed audience and a narrator, is not the usual type of classical ballet. Artistic Director Robert Weiss admits that he had been thinking of presenting a new Dracula for several years but the current in terest in vampire lore sweeping the country is what ultimately led him to begin plans for creating a new pro duction for the Carolina Ballet danc ers. To compliment Dracula, Robert Weiss choreographed a new ballet to Edgar Allen Poe’s macabre tale The Masque of the Red Death to open the program. Weiss explains that since the program leads up to Halloween he Lyn Triplett, Staff Writer felt that the Poe short stoiy added its ■own eerie drama to the evening. The music for both short bal lets was specially commissioned by J. Mark Scearce, who is head of the music department at NCSU. Scearce has collaborated several times with Carolina Ballet and is an accomplished composer in various areas of musical entertainment. Both ballets on the Dracula program will be accompanied by live music conducted by Alfred E. Sturgis. In the spirit of Halloween, pa trons are encouraged to wear costumes to the production the final weekend - October 30 and 31. Student tickets are only $10.00 with a student ID. For show times and further informa tion regarding the Dracula program may be obtained by calling the Caro lina Ballet box office at 919 719-0090 or visiting www.carolinaballet.com. Ask Gigi ^.D'ehr Gigi, A few weeks ago, a friend of mine committed suicide after his parents turned on him when he told them he was gay. I’m still shaken up about it, yet after 20 years, I'm finally ready to tell my parents that I’m a lesbian. Like my friend's parents, mine are veiy* consemitive, and I’m afraid they’ll disown me when I tell them. How can I make this discussion go as smoothly as possible? Sincerely, Nervous Wreck Dear Nervous Wreck. I’m very' sorr>' to hear the tragic news about your friend, and I can imagine that your stress over this issue is compounded in light of that terrible event. I suggest you pick a time to talk when your parents are tranquil. Choose a quiet \ ■place free of distractions. Approach the topic with an attitude that shows open confidence in their ability' to accept your orientation, even if your feelings don’t's; i-eflcct that optimism. If you begin the conversation with an angry tone and d&i'''' fensive attitude, your parents are more likely to act defensive in response. Ask! them to allow you a few uninterrupted minutes to say everything you need to . say, and then deliver the message using a lot of “I” language in a calm, level ton of voice. Then, regardless of their responses, let them get all their w'ords out in , - the open. Validate their feelings by saying that you undenstand their difficulty in ; accepting your sexual orientation and that it is okay if they need some time to ^ reflect on it. Then leave them be for awhile. It might be necessary to physically,' , ‘ leave the discussion site, even if it's your house. Need on-campus support? Con- ■' fide in anyone who has a “SafeZone” sticker on his or her office door. Good luck! Yours truly', Advertise Here! Email heraldadvertising@meredith.edu