=== VOLUME I. OXFORD, X, a, WFDXFSDAY, OCTOBICR 20, 1875. NUMRER 42. OUXWAKD A»OM,SiIIi|«. A very great outcry is being made just now by sober peo))le against the excessive display and extravagance of the fashionable inode oi dress, and the press and the pulpit are both invoked to lend their aid in putting down what seems to bo a portentous and growing ewl. There is, per haps, some extravagance in all this demmeiatiou. It would br well to settle the palneiples of dre.S3 in a moderate and liberal tone, for in this, as in all other questions, there is a good deal to bo said on both sides. Many Christians believe that plainness and simplicity of attire is the only and absolute rule for all Christian woruen, being one of the duties most clearly taught in the Bible. They quote St. Peter triumphant!)', and argue that to dress gaily and sumptuously is ])rima facie evidence of woHdJi- ness and vanit)-. I am not at all sura that this is so. If we search the Scriptures for indications of God’s will and pleasure in the matter of dross, we shall find mucli tliat seems to look with eomphiceucy on splendor of at tire, and advocates attention to e.xterna!s. When the olim-ch is described in its faii-est, most al luring and most ti'iumphant form, it is as a bride adorned with ei'e- rv circumstance of elegance. The nmdei woman in t!ie Book of I'r'iverbs Is commended for tire ricnije.5S and good taste of her at tire. (jud liiuiself represents liim- •seii as ducking his church as a man would his beloved spouse With ornaments and jewels of Jnice. In msiiig' these figures the tsci'ipture condescends to tlie nat ural and innocent instincts of the Inmiaii heart. Dre.ss i.s an iiu- jiortHiit element in the canditions of life. We cannot ignore it. No denunciation nor severity of crit- ici.sm can destroy its influence founded deep in human nature, and mo doubt intended to- serve iiiqioitant purjioses. Tliey who deckle it as of no consequence, and unm'orthy the attention of a ‘rational issiiiortal creature,’must ha\-e gotie through life blind, or liave studied the book of nature and of Providence with a pervert ed mind. Dress is a subject of especial importance to woman. God meant her to he lovely and attractive ; to have influence, that .she may use it for good: to chai-m, that she may charm wisely. I believe it is the duty of every woman to make herself agreeable and to look as well as slio can. The married woman ivho neglects her dresses well, in good taste, and becomingly, has an immense ad vantage over the wowau who iloes not. So much being settled in favor of attention to dress, the next point is, what are its limitations i How far may a Christian woman c-ouforin to the mode, and yet re tain her consi.stency and an uu- wouuded coii.science! Common sense must defiuo some of these limits. We'are to con sider what we can afford, wiuit is suitable to our station in life, and to the date written down in tlie f.iinily Bible opposite our name. Tliere ought to be a certain truth fulness in dress. More is proba bly said about extravagance than there is need for. Cheap goods are plentiful, and a forty-cout poplin made up with all the in tricacies of polonaise and flounce, is quite as effective at a little dis tance as a much costlier article. As I write I see a “calico” going by my door made up as elabor ately as if it were an Irish poplin. It looks very prettily. The young girl who has it on will wear it for a “second-best dress” for half the winter. Her best dices will not cost over thirty cents—her hat, which to be sure is prodigiously tall and bas a red rose and a black feather, will not cost more than, four dollars. She looks rather sliowy to be sure, but uo one can say she is (h-ess- ed eitraviigautly. She propably could not buy a low-crowned hat if she tiled, and she would lock rather queer ivitJi it if she had it. Yet, when censors begin their de- tiunciatioii, they' generally liave in mind somo .such figure of a young woman in moderate cir- cum,stances dj'e^,sed, as they sup- pe.se, in imitatiou of a milliouire’s ilaughter, person sins against her marriage '^n,’ but we can insist that it vows. The young woman wlio is indifierent to her appearance and the impression she makes on others, is deficient in the finest in stincts of her sex, and does what she can to defeat one of the ends for whicli she was created. There can be no sin in studying the be coming and availing one’s self of the aids of dress in heightening Ihe charms of nature. I am much more inclined to call it a Chris tian duty to dress well. What ever increases a good woman’s in fluence enlarges lier means of do ing good; and, all other thinus heiug equal, the woman who Tlie mode of dress just uoiv is showy. It is hai'dly jiossible to make even “a calico” up plainly. 'Good taste and modesty must be called in. I think some of the looped over-skirts are picturesque, but we ought to remember that the fashions are designed in the hot-beds of Parisian vice and fol ly. Some of the figures in the fashion plates of Demorest, and Godey, and Le.s]ie, and the rest, are simply inousti'oue, A modest eye, though it be artistically an uncultivated one, will detect at once the e-ustumes which liave been devised b)' a wanton imagi nation and w'liich offend the fine sense of parity. Some of them seem designed to exhibit woman merely as an animal, dressed for exhibition with no other tliau the lowest animal motives. We cannot ignore the ‘fasli- secrated to God’s service when she gave herself to Him. Tlie que.stioii “can I afford it ?” ought always to bo supplemented ivilh “ought I. to afford it f’ The ar ticle may be tasteful and suitalile, and cveiy ivay reasonable. So far, so good. But if it bo also superfluous, it will hardly be an act of self denial to surrender it, ill consideration of the claims of the church of God, and tlie calls of charity on every baud, 'i’o every woman’s own' eouscievu'O wo must leave it, and wo recom mend that it should bo made the siicject of serious reliecliou. It is not a ti-iliing matter by any means. How to dress Woll, bow far to bo guided by fashion, and how much to speud, are quesiions' that will require some balancing of motive to answer. Not one in fifty who would de cide as did a frioud of mine who, having been recently married, was about to make a visit with her husband to a distant city to bo inti'oduoed to a numerous cir cle of new connections. Her wardrobe was prepared with somo care, all but the bonnet. That was to bo bought after her arrival Meantime an agent for jij of our church boards preached for us, and presented the claims and ne cessities of Foroiirii Missions in such moving terms that my friend eliall be modest. It must bo mod est if we mean it to be attrac tive. Every Christian woman and indeed 1 may sii)', every sensible wom.an who knows hoiv weak hu man nature is, will keep very strict guard over the natural and laudable desire to look well and be attractive. It lies very near the borders of vanity and supreme selfishness, fatally near for many of tlie sex. Slio who makes a conscience of dressing well must also make a conscience ql not misapplying and WKStiug her time and money wliicli she cou- deliberately luiiided to him the sum she had devoted to the pur chase of a new bonnet, and w'ore for tlie next six mouths a very plain iu'tido indeed. There was really somo heroism a.bout such ail act of self denial, under the circumstances. Did she do quite right f Somo of the best friends she had blamed her gently. C hief- h' I believe on the ground that hei’ hu.s'band was not pleased, and that her old bonnet did not make a good impressioii among his re latives. They thought she ought to have managed differently— giving to the Mission Fund, but not just then—M'aitiug a little and ocoiiomiziug in some other de partment. Every one must have her onii way of mautiging as it is to lier own conscience she must answer. A Christian woman ought to dross suitabl)’, tastel'ully, becomingly, and—CMScientioasly. —N Y. Observer. THE WAY TO FEACEEUI. OLI! A«E. A few days ago there came in to our office a venerable gentle man of this city, eighty-six years of age. His vision was clear, his hearing acute, his hand steady, his fr.culties uninqiairod, his form erect, and his step as vigorous and elastic as that of a man in middle life. He ha.s not been in regular business for somo years, but is still engaged in attending to various affairs, and is at pres ent snperint-onding the building of a fine brown-stone bouse by the side of his own residence. lie traverses the streets of the city almost every day on foot, oiijo^'s excellent health, and is as playiul and gonial in spirits as a ) sung man. In a word, the vital force which he exhibits is a wonder to liis friends and ins vast circle of acquaintances. lie may, perhaps, be remembered by many of our clergymen as a sjiare, white-hair ed, smooth-faced gentleman, prc:.- of more th.-in goldem worth. ent at the sessions of the Synod ot Pennsylvania for a number ol sncces.sivc years past, even up to tlie last annual convention at Nor ristown. Whilst engaged in conversa tion in our office, one of the e.iitoriiil fraternity propounded to him the question whether he had ever mudo up liis mind to ivhai to attribute his remarkable vigor at an ago wliich feiv men ever reach. Ho answered, with a jiromptness tnnl inipressiveuess oi manner wliich showed tiiat he had considered the subject, and that lie was settled and clear iii his conviction as to the cause.s ivhich, under God, had maiuly detormiiied tiio matter. “I will toll you,” he said. “In the first place, I joined myself to the chmch when very vonng, taking an active part from tho be- ginnino-. This throw mo in close acquaintance and rolationshij) with good, upright, and honora ble men. It gave to me a circle of virtuous friends, and something to occupy my attention, whicli was alwa)'s to my profit. It gave me proper jirinciples of action, and put mo itito society wliere such principles were most approv ed and exemplified. I was thus sustained in and habituated to correct living, nliioh, above all, has done tho most toward giving me long life and a comfortable and enjoyable old age. In the next place, I was fortu nate in my couuoctions with an honorable business house, man aged by good peojile, ou correct principles. Tiioro w-as industry and faithful application inculcated and exhibited, but no hasting to be rich, no daring adventure or rech!essues.>i which creates and brings so much trouble upon men, disturbing their lives and siiort- enitig their days. Those princi ples and safe habits I grew into, and have always practiced, living mouerateh' and never po-ssessed vfitli the wasting fever to be wealthy. 1 liavo been fortunate and unfortunate, but never de- pfU’ted from the requirements of lionor or integrity in business af fairs, w'hich I have found to be safe and good. I liave thus ac quired a competency' for my W'ants and comfort in my life, to wliich I owe much of wliat my friends look upon as astonishing in mo. I can UOIV walk, and sleep, and hear, and see, and enjoy my ex istence as much as over. 1 have always been active and regular in my habits, cheorfnl in my dispo sition, cultivating constancy in my IrieiidsJiips, and calm and con siderate earnestness in my efforts to do good and promote peace and happiness among my felknv- meii. 1 have tried to maintain a good conscience, and to fill such place in the world as Providence assigned me witliout discontent or fretting impatience to make lor myself a different lot. And so I am what I am.” We were so impressed with tho patritirohiil words, and with the beauty of the picture in living re ality before \m, that ive felt at once impelled, as if by a special call, to make this record of them, n-hero they may meet the eye ot some to ivhom they may' become facts, inliuencos, and virtues to wliich our ve^ierabio friend as cribes tho extraordinarv length, vigor and liappiness of his life, are indeed, the boat conservators ot earthly well-being ; and where their clear and full effects arC' al lowed to bear eontinuously upon a man from y’outh on, there iPav we always look for tho best and longest enjoyment of this world, and the best preparation for tliat which is to come.—Yhiludelphia I'lxehav.gc. . A lyriter in the Co'den Age enumerates son.e of the sacrifices offered up to the “logic of con- “Some kept idle, veutioimlity'- because they are in the set where work is voted low, and ‘careers’ not always open ■, soiis .put into professions uusuited fotliem, and where they Can never tho roughly succeed, because those in lyhich they would liave been perfect are also those the special set to w'hich tliey' belong vote low'; dauglitei's kept unmarried because the men considei-ed of their ow n degree do iiot come fonvard, and the men wlio do come forward—-good, honest, su.b- s.antiai fellows-—arO men consicH ered beneath tlieni in degree : ed ucation founded on the accom plishments fashiouahle in tlie set, and leaving know'ledge in the reim all these are the sacrifices our present bogy demands, tithe.s paid him W'ithout a murmur, aiid as if quite tlie right tiling to do, When we can say that we take life and things according to tlieii' intrinsic value, and not by the es timate of this bogy-j we may then say that, so far as this goes, we are free men, and have slipped so much ol our shackles. No SuocEf-.s Without Work.--^ Wlieii Charles Dickens said that all ho !iad accomplised liiid been achieved by dilligent, patient, persevering ajiphcation, lie ontv .stated w'liat had been the expe- rfonce of every successful man. Nothing i,s more important to young men than that they should early learn and frilly comprelieml this great truth. It is stop by step, by toilsome effort added to toilsome effort, that all great achievement.s are made. As has been well remarked, there is no royal road to learning. Neithoi' is there any royal road to any thing else of groat value in tliis life. Work, steady, long-contin ued and regular application, is tho only price for which any'thing worth tlie having can be bought There is^ no great success of any kind without great labor, S6me8>©ly. “What i.s the use of being In tho world unless you are sotmiodg V said a boy, ‘‘Sure eiimigh, and I moan to be,” answered bis friend.' “I be gan this very' day'. I mean to be somebody',” Ashton looked George in tho face, “Bogan to-day !—how ? What do you mean to be V' “A Christian boy', and so grow up to b© a Christian man,” said George, “1 beiiovG tliat is the greatest somebody' for us to be,” George i.s liglit. There is no' higher manhood than Ghristiait manhood.—0«r Ltltlc fleopk.

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