Church office reflects experiences of retired minister The Morrisville and Preston Progress, Thursday, September 26,1996 - 3 Stcrm Eamaaed Deck cr Tencc? By Roxanne Powers If you were loAing to make a quick appraisal of Good Hope Bap tist Church’s recently retired Reverend Robert L. Weath^spoon Jr. (better known to bis neighbors and parishioners as Bobby), you should have checked his former of fice. Aft» all, out of 40 years service as a minister, be spent his last 25 at the Carpenter church. And as rooms have a way of doing, this one seemed to have taken on his persona during that quarter of a century. It was a simple, almost humble kind of room that seemed to have little value for material pos sessions. The few exceptions were what ^)peared to be an over-sized silver tea SCTvice placed in a plexi-glass fronted wooden case mounted to the wall. When asked about it, Rev. Weatherspoon’s expression seemed to soften. He reached up to remove the pieces, and with a gentle strc^e across the surface of the pitcher, be spoke as if talking of an old friend. "Do you know what this is? Have you heard the story on this set? These are ‘common cups’ or gob lets and the matching pitcher that were once used in this church for communion. They were found by Joella HortOT...in her attic, I think; no one knows for sure how old this set is, but it is speculated that it dates back to the church’s begin ning. Look here at the engraving [Good Hope Baptist Church]. When it was initially recovered, it was so tarnished you couldn’t even tell that it bad the engraving on it. We were all so excited when it was recovered...to know that it was back where it belonged. Grover Lewter built this case for it." Also in fx-ominent positions on his office wall were three photog- r^hs. One was of a man who, as I pointed out, speared to be stand- Duke grid coach’s wife not realty home alone Continued from page 1 Clay had graduated, he called and asked if he’d like to be a graduate assistant at Duke. "Clay and I were married in February 1995 and we had two weekends to choose to sandwich in between player signing dead lines and spring football. But it all went wonderfully." And what about hfe as the wife of a college football coach? "It’s great," she said. "Although Clay works seven days a wedc, it’s not like being left alone. The wives interact. My best friend is Laura DeForest, who lives nearby. Her husband Joe is spe cial teams coach at Duke. We all go out together, and the wives can eat at the team training table, and when we go to the games we’re able to sit in one of the of fices of the press box. We help with recruiting by talking with parents and explaining the pro grams. I feel very much a part of the whole process, and not having any children makes it easier for me to make time. And what more can I say ... it’s Duke ... which means respectability." She and Clay did have plenty of time together when they enjoyed a lengthy summer vacation fish ing and relaxing with Clay’s grandparents in Everglades, Fla. Clay’s grandfather, George Turner, played pro football for the Philadelphia Eagles. Angela graduated from Houston with a degree in marketing and worked for a time in hotel sales in Durham, where the couple lived before coming to Preston. She currently works at the Toy Chest in Preston. "Clay’s degree is in math and interdisciplinary science,” she noted. I say he would have been wonderful with a career in science, but he says he would have been miserable." Meanwhile, Clay Helton con tinues his around-the-clock schedule as a coach. It is a profes sion of peaks and valleys. After Duke’s loss in its home opener against Northwestern, Angela waited outside the locker room. "This isn't the best time to see Clay," she said. The running backs coach emerged after 20 minutes with his players. He was clearly dis appointed, but he smiled when he looked at Angela. ing in front of a life-sized photog raph of the b^tismal. "That’s right," Rev. Weather- spoon nodded. "That’s exactly what that is. That is a photograph of my Uncle Jules Hirscb, who was an artist living in New York. One year, not long after this building was finished, I caught him standing in front of the quite bare baptismal, and he inquir^ what we were going to do with it I told him that the plan was to hire someone to paint a mural of the Nile. When they got back home, he called and said that he had done some re search, and found that with the ex ception of one very small stretch, the Nile was a quite unattractive river. He said that he would like to paint the mural based on that bit of the Nile and give it as a gift to the church. So when he died, and my aunt asked if 1 had any requests for any of his belongings, I naturally asked for this photogr^b and was very pleased that she saw fit to give it to me." If visiting Rev. WeathCTSpoon in his church office was reveling of his personality, listening to him speak of his family is even more telling. He seems to get great en joyment from telling the story of the first time he laid eyes on wife Jackie, who also retired from her position as the church’s choir direc tor. "She was just this cute little girl in pigtails...just the cutest little thing. Of course, a few years later I didn’t see her quite that way," he said with a chuckle. Rev. Weatherspoon, who is now hving in Hillsborough after retiring in late August, also speaks fre quently and with great affection of his four children, Jennifer, Bob, Amanda and Bill, and his five grandchildren (another is on the way). One favorite story is about his son. Bill, who, when in elementary school, was asked what it was like to be the son of a minist er, and Bill responded, "Well, to me he’s just a regular dad." One can’t help but feel that Rev. Weatherspoon had the same per sonal qu^ities in 1956, when be first preached at (jood Hope B^- tist Church as a recent gradu^ of Wake Forest College and a newly- enrolled student at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. He is a humble and introspective man whose philosophy in life, as well as his ministry, has been laced with analogies and gentleness...and an eagerness to participate with good humor, even when the joke is on him. It was a Imighable situation in 1957 when Rev. Weatherspoon, then a newlywed, acquired some pullets. 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