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16 TO C AIOUNIAN RALEIGH, N. C.. SATURDAY, NOVEMBER It, IMS “More Stress On Understanding, Less On Methods UL. “Fanatic Preoccupation” Blasted By W. Young, Jr. SAN FRANCISCO A disturb ii.g tendency among many family service workers toward “fanatic preoccupation" with professional methods and techniques, to the ex clusion of personal understanding and commitment, is blocking a large number of Negro families v/ith basic needs from seeking the services these agencies are set up to provide. That note as criticism and ad monition was expressed here Than, by Whitney M. Young, Jr., of New York, executive di rector of the National Urban League, in addressing the 1961 Biennial Conference of the Family Service Association of America. "This (tendency) accounts for part of the reason why the disad vantaged Negro citizen and his White Ala. Lawyer Calls For ‘Outside’ Aid In Race Crisis NEW YORK A white Birming ham lawyer last week called for “outside” help to save his racially torn city from further violence and tragedy. Attorney Charles Morgan. Jr., 33, declared that "nothing short of to tal national effort" can help Birm ingham overcome its racial crisis. In a signed article in the cur rent issue of Look Msgaslne, Morgan contended that “if. . . men from around the eountry SISTER iSl’gji REV. ROSE Wk SPIRITUAL ADVISOR f|l and HEALER ,—u flat on my bwk —if- I h... h—l hart luck and sering from an incurable been unsuooeosful for many disease. There waa no hope years. I could not hold a job. until SISTER REV. ROBE hut one visit to SISTER blessed me with Holy Water. REV. ROBE ami I have a Blesaed toy Sainta of The steady job and feeling fine. Far East. lAm Here Per The Find Time Located In My Own Home Between Holiday Inn and Minute Markets —1 Mile From The City LimMs Os Raleigh. "Raleigh - Highway U. 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TIRE SALES & SERVICE m Hillsboro St TE 3-2571 shy away from family service," Mr. Young said "I venture to suggest that we have come to a point where we need even more simple, down-to earth language and personal appeal that bears some relation to the problems of the people you are try ing to serve.” He elted the futility of trying to conneel a Negro mother a bout "marital stability” or how she “can get the moot out of marriage,” when she is carrying the family subsistence burden. “That doesn’t mean much," he de clared. “to one who cannot afford the luxury of thinking about men tal health when her family is und ergoing great deprivation, her children are hungry and her hus band ia unemployed." could ait down at a table to consider our problems, they could do wonders for Birming ham.” "They could,” he said, “reaffirm facta Birmingham itself has never faced: that desegregation is the law of the land, and that the life of a city depends on its citizens’ respect for law." DRIVE SAFELY! $54,000 CONTRBVTED TO SHAW UNIVERSITY FOR FOUNDER'S DAY OBSBRV AQE These staff member a of Shaw University are busy adding and recording donations Oft Founder’s Day, Nov. 15. Seated left is Mrs. Elnora Kee, cashier in the business office. At right seated is Mrs. Roberta Lightner, secretary to the president. Standing is J. V. Parham, business manager. BY SALLY SHAW DEAR SALLY: Today my hus band ia very angry with me. Last night his parents dropped in on us unexpectedly and spent the even ing chatting with us. I thought it was a very pleasant visit. However, as soon as his parents had depart ed, my husband began chasising me because I hadn’t offered’them any refreshments ... no drinks, no cof fee, no snacks. I told him that this had flipped my mind completely, FOR REPAIRS TO ANY TV PHONOGRAPH TAPE RECORDER TRANS. RADIO ANY~SMALL APPLIANCE CALL TE 2-3950 OR VA 8-2343 TAYLOR RADIO & Electrical Co. "The House That Service Built” 224 E. MARTIN ST. DEAR SALLY but he said this was no excuse am) that I had been guilty of very poor manners. Is this true? D. Q. DEAR D. Q.: I must admit tt waa a little thoughtless of you to slip up on the refreshments. But It waa Jut as thoughtless of your husband. There waa nothing in the world to prevent his reminding yon of this. Why did he have to remain silent a bout it until AFTER hit parents had gone? DEAR SALLY: Our ton haa Just returned from overseas with a for eign bride. I would appreciate any advice you can give as to what is expected of us in the way of en tertainment or a dinner so that our relatives and friends may have an opportunity to meet and become acquainted with our new daughter in-law. MRS. T. DEAR MRS. T.: Yon may glva a tea, a cocktail party, an Informal dinner, or a recep tion wahtever Is moat con venient far yon. Inviting all ' yew relatives and friends who woeld be Interested in meeting year daughter-in-law. You may invite them by phone, by note, or by ward of mouth, and when the guests arrive you and yow daughter-in-law stand together to meet them. DEAR SALLY: Tm a girl of 16, and very much attracted to a boy the same age who lives in our neighborhood. When he began to drop In at my home early this fall two or three times a week, I was very happy. Since I am an honor student in high school, he began to ask me to help him with his studies and night work, and I was more than glad to help him. However, almost three months have gone by now and, although I happen to know he goes out on weekends with other girls, he’s never asked me for a genuine date only these regu lar study sessions on odd nights during the week In my home. I’m considered an attractive girl by other peoplevSo what do you think I Should do about this? SHIRLEY. DEAR SHIRLEY: I think you should discontinue the free tu toring service, and put your self into circulation. He’s been freo-loading on yow eeholastte ability. Maybe ts ho toes you dating on weekends, tt will change Mo Mom about yon. and particularly ts you atop be ing so available for otndy peri ods during the week. DEAR SALLY: U It possible for a gentleman still to be a gentleman If he breaks his engagement to a girl? Sever since I became engaged to this girt I've been sorry about it, and in fact I’ve been miserable. She and I Just are not suited to each other, and the more I see of her the more I am convinced of it. I’m terribly sorry that 1 didn’t rea girl? Ever since 1 became engaged but certain traits in her charact er and general make-up Just did not come out until later. I realize, •f course, that I’m not perfect that none of us la but I’m sure that this marriage would be a dreadful and tragic mistake. So what do you think I should do? H. J. L. MAI R 2. L.: End the en gagement and a gentleman dees this exactly as a lady woaWL Yse tell her in the kind est meet tactful manner that you realise new how very on suited you and rim are to each other. This M an unpleasant A&T Ritters Overpower FAMUSquad GREENSBORO- The A&T Col lege ROTC Rifle Teem last week edged the Fiords ARM University ROTC Rifle Team. 1106-1296. High scorer In the shooting match waa ARTs Harold Brown, Wilm ington, who scored 260 points out of a possible 200. High man for the Florida outfit was Eugene Campbell, Jacksonville, Fla., with 266 points. The win gave A RT a 2-1 margin in the series. PATRONIZE OUR ADVERTISERS chore, 1 knew but far better a little unpleasantness new than misery *nd heartbreak later. SHIGH SCHOOL GRADUATES INSUBS YOU* SUCCESS! Stenographer. Typist, Secretary, IBM Keypunches Bookkeeper. DAY and NIGHT Tree Placement Sendee, Student Loan Plan. Air-Conditioned Classrooms. Winter Quarter-Dec. 4 W *THE RALEIGH BUSINESS NTH Bast Marlin St. Baleifh, N. C. 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N. tM, Edgecombe Comity Selects “Top Community” For 1963 TARBORO “Hair splitting” was the final method resorted to by the- judges in selecting the top com munities in the recent Annual Edge combe County Development Pro gram. The program sponsored joint ly by the Peoples Bank and Trust Company of Rocky Mount, is de signed to give people an opportu nity to work together in solving community problems that can not be handled by individual families. The finals. In terms of judging to select the top county communities, was held on Wednesday of this week. Each community followed an ov erall agreed plan, first, a presenta tion of goals followed by an expla nation of what was accomplished in terms of goals set waa given. The area of work for each community was Income, Community Improve ment, Home Improvement and Youth. At the conclusion of the narra tive report, the judges were taken on a “tour of proof’. Hare, accord ing to fi>e judges, first band infor mation is gained from the people on their participation in the Com munity Development Program. After all communities had been visited and score sheets were tal lied, utilizing the Danish judging system, Dunbar community waa a- warded a Red Ribbon and Brides tipn agent, D. J. Knight, agriculto* a blue. Agricultural teams working ral Extension Agent of Halifax with the communities were, T. C County and J. A. Wright of Hart- Boyd, agricultural extension agent fond County, judges expressed and Hazel S. Parker, home econom- praise for the job done toy tho com ics extension agent * minifies participating. They after- Foilowing fi>e judging Mrs. Ruth ed special commendations for the Whitworth, home economics exten- outstanding Job of reporting turned '■ in by the member* of the Bricks TEMFBR. TEMPER! 1114 Duflb * r communities. NAIROBI (ANP) Ndoki Ndu- IT" i ■ luku, 46-year-old Kamba tribesman, INSURE fatally wounded his inherited wife. YOUR HOME sr sutrar z disobeyed him. He inherited the —Consult— woman tmon the death of her bus- VOUR LOCAL AGENT band, his brother. In court, he . pleaded provocation saying the wo- RANK F. R S man called him “stupid” and re- ® ** *“* ££ SJSSFX K S 3 Insurance Co. termed his retaliation “grossly ex- Durtuun, N. C, Ceetive. @> It’s ESSO Fuel CHI Fill-Up Time Dial TE 2-5589 Fast 2-Way Radio Equipped Trucks Oil Burner Service ' CAPITAL FUEL OIL, ICE AND COAL COMPANY “W. Gin Gold Bond Stamps” Seagrams Extra Or Gin MBM-enuai tmm. m. n m*. esnun m ml emua ma wmm mm. , frame and suspension and steering and wheels and most other things an. Good and new.) ”ls only tha Le Mans cams in a hardtop” someone else said. There’s a planned coincidence for yon. It just came. And now that we've wiped out your last possible excuse for not buying a Pontiac Le Mans, how about tt?
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