By John Corey. Appalachian State Teachers College j . a— - - - - - —. . _ _ _ _ | Derefoptng the Eight ' Senses' in Your ChUd Leading educators at the Mid century White House Conference efa Children and Youth identi-j fied several stages an individual j normally passes through during his life. At each stage the per son develops a "sense” which has much to do with his future happiness. The conference, influenced by] the wol-k of Erik H. Eriksbn, spelled out eight such senses. An understanding of them should enable the wise parent to| do an improved job in rearing | his offspring. In the first three stages of 1 personality a youngster should achieve a sense of trust, a sense of autonomy, and a sense of initiative. These three rank as most important. If Junior ac qqfres them satisfactorily, he’ll make the grade in the other five stages with less conflict!- Here is a list of the senses a few hints on how mamma and papa can help: 1. Sense of Trust emerges dur ing the first year of life when the infant discovers that he can depend on the world to satisfy his basic needs. He counts on his parents to answer cries and to provide food, love, and atten tion. Needless to say, parents shouldn't shortchange Junior in these matters, lest a sense of insecurity arise to haunt him all his life. Doctors have developed aj mechanism to pacify infants byj mimicking the sound of the I mother’s heartbeat. Tuck it un der the pillow and it puts' baby to sleep. The fact that it works is another verification of the terrible need we all have for security after the shock of ejec tion from the mother’s womb. 2. Sense of Autonomy (inde pendence) involves an intense struggle for Junior, between one and three years of age, to assert his own individuality. It’s im portant to him to be a some body, do things for himself, make decisions, even though he’s a half-pint in diapers. In handling a youngster at this critical stage;, remember to 1 give him full freedom to make choices he’s ready to make for himself, yet help him learN»>to accept necessary restrictions. Keej) "do’n’ts” lo a minimum. 1 2. Sense of Initiative begins to develop with the four-year-old seeking to' discover how much he can do. At no other time of life does Junior learn so wjlj mgly or feel so important when he shares in achievements. Help him select activities that he can complete successfully. If they’re too tough, he may never achieve the exultant feeling of success. 4. Sense of Duty and Accom plishment is acquired between six and twelve, years of calm and grbwth, teffcjf increasingly to engage in social ly useful tasks. Chief danger here is 'that he may develop a sense of inferiori ty if too much or too little tg expected of him by parents ’ or teacher. . s 5. Sens* of Identity is sought during the turbulent adolescence when a youngster’s body chang es from child to adult. Junior constantly faces the question of who he is—child or adult. Jle seeks security by fostenlig similarity to others of his age group. He joins cliques—if ftp j kids do it, it’s okay; if the kids disapprove, avoid it like a rattle snake. ' ,;v rj 6. Sense of Intimacy comm only when one is‘ sure of I KSUMUM Wbse Family • icWS '■■if |4*|- -©fD■ v i--; ■ • Facts ■ ■■ '■ - am _ pi t fc^V>ttV . * ißintiy features * own identity. True intimacy comes late in adolescence and involves real sharing of friend ship or love, with neither person j either dominating or submissive,, j 7. Parental Sense is more than the mere desire to have children. It is a want to nourish and nur ture offspring. This usually doesn’t appear until one reaches adulthood. Too, one can’t fully. I develop this sense unless he’s j socially and economically secure, which enables him to concen-i trate on rearing his children in | j the best possible way. j 8. Sense of Integrity means] | acceptance of oneself and one’s j i role in life. j According to the White House Conference, these senses are ne cessary for healthy self-develop ment. Fortunately, a person by perseverance may overcome early handicaps late in life and chieve the adult characteristics of identity, intimacy, and integ rity. (Editor’s note: Readers having questions concerning education are invited to send inquiries to School and Your Child, Appa lachion State Teachers College, l Boone, N. C.) Health For AH"] i ._ . ..... Oh, My Aching Head! Practically nobody gets J through life without having a| j headache. In fact, it’s been es-| timated that the average person 1 suffers at least half a dozen] headaches a year, severe enough to drive him to. the aspirin hot-] : tie. j To set nervous fears at rest, less than one half of one per| , cent of severe recurring head aches are due to brain tumor.! Headache may be a sign of tu- : berculosis, asthma, chronic bron chitis, heart disease, blood dis orders, kidney disease, high blood pressure, eye strain. ■Headache can also come from poor ventilation, fever or hung er. By far the most common , type of headache is the tension headache, a dull, steady pain across the forehead. 'Pain right on the top of the head can re sult from a neurotic state. Sinus infection and noise are both over-rated as headache 1 causes. Sinus infection may ac- ! Plants & Shrubbery li | for sale p j Cabbage Plants | j = Early Jersey Wakefield And i \ | Asgrow Early Round Dutch |! i Steel’s Jumbo Pansies inj {mixed and separate colors,] fS^'-WlHSkmir f and ] | dwarf), English and Shasta] 1 Daisies, Candy Tuft, Bas-I i ket of Gold. I ; Nursery Stock ! Hollies, Azaleas (tall and] dwarf), Camellia. Junipers,] Legustum Pyracanthia. ❖ We Guarantee The Plantsl We Plant I | Leary Plant Farm) EDENTON. N. C. Phone 2744 Located In The Heart i ’ Os Rocky Hock I \ i———l ; Long Distance Call—Tonight 1 1 Why be lonesome because a loved one IS far away. Just pick up the telephone and call long distance. Economical I j I- rang distance calls are She fashionable way to keep in touch. I I|. contact wtththatsomeone far away... enjoy V , B „ wt jtia NorrolK %sl Carolinal1 1 BBCaWM KBHALO, BOZOTOB, 1333T11 C/WOLIBA. THSMPAT, FEBRUARY 9. 1991. count for an occasional head ache, but hardly for headaches which recur over a long period of time. ,And it’s not so much | noise itself which- gives you a headache, as your irritation with the 'noise. . j When should you see your' doctor about a headache? There’s! Ino one answer tq that. If you’re, worried that something might be wrong, by all means go to your doctor, even if the visit mere ly relieves your anxiety, since that can cause a headache, too. , You should also see a doctor if ' the kind of headaches you get change suddenly, if you have l trouble with your vision or | hearing as well as a headache, I if you have weakness or numb- I ness on one side of your body i along with the headache, and i if you have any trouble concen trating. —lnformation Service "of Yo.’r TB Association. Lankford L. Storey Dies At Asheville Edenton friends will regret to learn that Lankford L. Storey,! 52, a former Edentonian, died recently in Asheville. He wasj the son of H. L. Storey and the ( late Mrs. Storey. His father forj many years published The Al-j • bemarle Observer in Edenton before moving to Marshal], N. C., due to the health of Mrs. Storey, where he now is .pub lisher of the News-Record, a weekly newspaper'. Deceased lived in Asheville, where he had been employed by the Asheville Citizen-Times for 19 years. j He is survived by his widow, j Mrs. Mary Morrow Storey: one I son, Lankford Morrow Storey, of I Asheville; one brother, James iStorey, of Marshall; his father,' jH. L. Storey, of Asheville, and! | one granddaughter, Marie Denise I Storey, of Asheville. Stymied ■ Tenant—Say. lady, don’t you think the window of this room is rather small in case of an emergency? Landlady—There wo;.’, be any emergency. My terms are cash in advance. % ■ '-e -'.f ; !; “Confidence is the cohesive force that holds the world together, making social and business intercourse possi ble.” A reputation for unqualified fairness, for ability and for ‘ dignity has built the founda tion upon which this business rests, | i BErrt?! jrJamvlftifeiaifl * ..,7 ’ ' C Itt’s 90 to Church Sundau i - Sunday School Lesson CHRIST OPENS BLIND EYES . International Sunday School Lesson for February 12, 1961 Memory Selection: “I am the I light of the world; he who fol-i lows me will not walk in dark-j ness, but will have the light of ( life.” (John 8:12). Lesson Text: John 7 thru 9 I The purpose of our study to-i day is to help adults think more' clearly, concerning the meaning of Jesus’ acts of healing, and; 1 to discuss the subject of faith j healing. In arguing this question, let it I be said in the beginning thatj no one has the last word on this, subject. Great men have medi-| • tated on it, and come up with' no hard and fast answer. We] must also bear in mind that | I what we sincerely think we] know may be partly wrong, or | at least subject to sharp re- 1 vision arid amendment. We not' I only lack many of the answers, but also only a few of us have any answers at all. , Occasionally someone testifies to having been healed by faith. And occasionally further . investi-i gation would seem to bear this Chowan County Churches 7EOPIM BAPTIST 1 Sunaay School Sunday morning at 10 o’clock Preaching services every first and I third Sunday morning at 11 o’clock. EDENTON BAPTIST RF.V. R. N. CARROLL. Pastor Sunday School at 9.45 A. M. Morning worship service. 11 A. M. I Training Union at 6:30 P. M. Evening service at 7:30 o’clock. Mi 1-week prayer service Wednesday at 7:30 P. M. j I GREAT HOPE BAPTIST REV. HENRY V. NAPIER. Pastor I Sunday School at 10 A. M. • Morning worship second and fourth Sundays at 11 o’clock. I Evening worship first and fourth ’ Sundays at 8 o'clock. , Prayer service Wednesday at BP. M. CENTER HILiTmETHODIST REV. FRANK FORTESQUE. Pastor * Preaching sendees every first and, I third Sundays at 11 A. M. EDENTON PRESBYTERIAN REV. JAMES MaeKENZIE. Pastor Sunday School Sunday morning at | 10 o’clock. Morning worshlo at 11 o’clock. Girls’ Meeting—all teen-age girls— i Sunday. 6:30 P. M. Christian Servlet Brigade—all teen •ge boys—Tuesday. 7 F . Mid-week Prayer Service —Wednesday light at 7:30 o’clock. FIRST CHRISTIAN REV. E. C. ALEXANDER. Pastor Sunday School at 10 A M. dornlne worship at 11 o’clock. Young People’s meeting at 6*30 P. M. I Evening worship at 7.30 o’clock. Wednesday evening service at 7:30 'clock. ST. ANN'S CATHOLIC | REV. C. F. HILL. Pastor Sunday Masses 8 and 11 A. M. Confessions before every Mass. Sunday School 11:45 Sundav A. M. Convert Instructions or private con sultation by appointment. Phone 2617. CENTFR HILL BAPTIST REV. HENRY V. NAPTER. Pastor Morning worship at 11 o’clock first and third Sundays. Sondav School at 10 A. M. B. T. U. at 7 P. M. Evening worship at 8 o'clock second and fourth Sundays. Prayer service Thursday at 8 P. M. EDENTON METHODIST REV. RALPH FOWLKES, Pastor Church School Sunday morning at 9*45 o'clock. Preaching service Sunday morning at 11 o’clock. MACEDONIA BAPTIST REV. GORDON SHAW, Pastor Sunday school at 10 A. M. Preaching every Sunday morning at 11 o’clock and every Sunday night at 7:30 o’clock. . . „ Prayer meeting Wednesday night at 7:30 o’clock. WARWICK BAPTIST REV. R. B. COTTINGHAM. Pas to. Sunday School at 10 A. M. Preaahlng service at 11 A. M. BTU at 7 P.M. _ „ Preaching scrvlcee at 8 P. 11 Prayer service Thursdya nights at 8 o'clock. SAINT PAUL'S EPISCOPAL REV. GEORGE B. HOLMES. Rector 8:00 A. M. Holy Communion. 9:30 A. M.. Church School. 10:00 A. M.. Adult Bible Clast. 11:00 A. M., Morning Worship. 7.30 P. M.. Young Churchmen. Wednesday, 10.30 A. M.. Holy Com munion. BALLARD'S BRIDGE BAPTIST REV. A. CARL HART, Pastor Sunday School Sunday morning at 10 o'clock* * * Preaching services at 11 A. M. and BPM Prayer meeting Wednesday Bight at 8 o'clock. CHURCH OF GOD REV. JOHN MARTIN. Pastor Sunday School at 10 A. M. Preaching service at 11 A. M. WPE Sunday at 7 P. M. Evening worship as 7:30 o clock. JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES R. P. LONG. Congregation Servant Bible study as 8:00 o dock Sunday afternoon at Kingdom Hall. Bible study Wednesday night at 8 o’clock; Sendee meeting and ministry school Friday nights at 8 o’clock. ASSEMBLYOF GOD REV. C. L. WILES. Pastor A« or 9^; ,ff 7 »•?. Wednesday . night prayer service, uura Bunaiyi n * .«w ■* y - out. But by and large, the gen eral consensus of opinion is that these instances are so few and far between, relatively, that they are far from real proof that the program is entirely ef fective. No discussion, howver, con cerning the relationship of faith to illness can afford to over look the fact that the ill and the uncured are not without the means of enjoyment and useful ness. Out of many a travail has come a great and shining spirit, a gift to the world of immeas urabl pleasure. We need, however, to take an other look at Jesus’ miracles of , healing. We speak of his heal | ing the sick, but Jesus was do -1 ing more than making sick peo | pie well. Jesus was casting out demons, and that was something ] very different. i In the beginning, when He ] was founding his ministry, evil | attacked Jesus. But Jesus van ] quished it. During his minis try he was attacking the same evil in individuals, vanquishing it, and thus demonstrating the power of God. Jesus’ rejoicing was not primarily because sick people became well, but because i evil, which caused the illnesses, Continued on Page 6, Section 2 I HAPPY HOME PENTECOSTAL l’ HOLINESS CHURCH i HAROLD C. LEAKE. Minister Sunday School. 9:45: Morning Wor ship. 11:00: Llfellners. 6:45; Evening Worship. 7:45; Wednesday Prayer Ser vice, 7:45. WHITE OAK CHAPEL BAPTIST REV. R. M. McNAIR. Pastor ROCKY HOCK BAPTIST 1 THURMAN W. ALLRED. Pastor Sunday School Sunday morning at 10 o'clock. Morning worship at 11 o’clock. I Training Union at 7P. M. Evening worship at 8 o’clock. COLORED CHURCHBS PROVIDENCE BAPTIST REV. F. H. LaGUARDE Sunday School at 9:30 A. M. Morning service at 11 o’clock. I Evening service at 7:30 o’clock. Prayer meeting Wednesday night At 7*30 o’clock Young people’s and senior choir practice Friday nights at 8 o’clock. Men’s Bible Class meets Monday night at 8 o’clock. ST. JOHN THE EVANGELIST EPISCOPAL REV. CLYDE BEATTY. Minister First Sunday at 11 A. M.. Holy Com munion and sermon. Second Sunday at 9 A. M.. Holy Com munion. Third Sunday at 9 A. M.. Holy Com mui.._ Fourth Sunday at 11 A. M.. mining praver and sermon. Sunday School each Sunday after noon at 3 o’clock. CHURCH OF GOD IN CHRIST ELDER J. A. SAWYER. Pastor Every second and fourth Sunday. Pastor’s Day. \ Every first and third Sundav. Church I Day. f Sunday School at 11 A. M. to IP.M. 1 Prayer and Bible Band Tuesday night at 8 o'clock Wednesday night choir practice at 7’30 o’clock Thursday night choir practice St 7:30 o’clock. Friday night Pastor’s Aid Society at 8 o'clock. Saturday night young people’s Bible oulz and recreation. WARREN GROVE BAPTIST REV. J. E. TILLETT Pastor Sunday School at 10 A, M. Preaching service at 11:30 A. M. every second and fourth Sunday. Women’s Educational and Mission Union meets every fourth Sunday after the morning service. WELCH'S CHAPEL BAPTIST REV. W. H. DAVIS. Pastor Sunday School ut 10 A. M. Preaching service first Sunday at 11:30 A. M. ST. JOHN BAPTIST REV. C. M. HEIDELBURG, Pastor Sunday School at 10 A. M. Servt-ec every first and »hlrd Sun days at 12 o’clock noon. Vesper ser vice at 6 o’clock. GALE STREET BAPTIST REV. C. M. HEIDELBUDG, Pa.'tor Sunday School at 10 A. M. Services every second and fourth Sunday at 11 A. M. Prayer meeting Wednesday even . Ing at 8 o’clock. PfNEY GROVE A. M. E. Z. REV. M. H. EERON. Pastor UNION GROVE A. M. E. Z. REV. J. E. GORDON. Pastor RYAN GROVE BAPTIST REV. M. A. RIDDICK. Pastor ST. LUKE CHRISTIAN REV. KELLY GOLDMAN. Pastor JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES E uDl.ft J. G. HALL, Pastor CENTER HILL BAPTIST REV. H. C. SAUNDERS. Pastor KADESH A. M. E. ZION REV. L. A. WILLIAMS, Pastor Sunday School at 9:30 A. M. Morning worship at 11:00 o’clock. Evening service at 7:00 o’clock. PLEASANT GROVE A. M. E. Z REV. G. L. SCOTT. Pastor Sunday School at 10 A. M. Morning worship service at 11 o’clock. Choir rehearsal Wednesday night at 8 o’clock. CANAAN TEMPLE A. M. E. Z. REV. W-. H. SESSOM. Pastor Sunday School at 1015. Morning worshlo at 11:30 o’clock. Young People’s meeting art 2 P. M. Evening service-at 7:30 o'clock. Tuesday night first Senior Choir practice art 8 o'clock. Wednesday night second Senior Choir practice at 8 o'clock. -a m as M ■ < i 1 1 NEW j When Betty Marlowe moved Into * our neighborhood we invited her to join IV the garden blub and the baby sitters' club and the civic association, but it « never occurred to any of us to ask her |||flß^^BF if she’d like to go to church. 4 , Then, one Saturday, she phoned me. t I ; “My husband is often out of town on 1 1 / . Sundays and I don’t have the car when lA,. * he’s away,” she explained. “Would you J jyMjTjfcgp* and Bill mind if I went to church with /' " Mind! We were delighted-but I / tm T l u f R o C r H t F h ° e ß c A m L uVch V ! was also a little ashamed. And I won- ■ gi r The Church is the greatest factor on J g dered how many others there were in I a ! **” h for ,h< ' t ” J,ld,n « of cW * c '* r ‘ ri I our neighborhood who would like to go \/ ! to our church, if they were given the ! w f I neither democracy nor civilization can ■ encouragement of an invitation. «««;». Th»>e«« f