By John Corey. Appalachian State Teachers College j
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| Derefoptng the Eight
' Senses' in Your ChUd
Leading educators at the Mid
century White House Conference
efa Children and Youth identi-j
fied several stages an individual j
normally passes through during
his life. At each stage the per
son develops a "sense” which
has much to do with his future
happiness.
The conference, influenced by]
the wol-k of Erik H. Eriksbn,
spelled out eight such senses.
An understanding of them
should enable the wise parent to|
do an improved job in rearing |
his offspring.
In the first three stages of 1
personality a youngster should
achieve a sense of trust, a sense
of autonomy, and a sense of
initiative. These three rank as
most important. If Junior ac
qqfres them satisfactorily, he’ll
make the grade in the other
five stages with less conflict!-
Here is a list of the senses
a few hints on how mamma
and papa can help:
1. Sense of Trust emerges dur
ing the first year of life when
the infant discovers that he can
depend on the world to satisfy
his basic needs. He counts on
his parents to answer cries and
to provide food, love, and atten
tion. Needless to say, parents
shouldn't shortchange Junior in
these matters, lest a sense of
insecurity arise to haunt him
all his life.
Doctors have developed aj
mechanism to pacify infants byj
mimicking the sound of the I
mother’s heartbeat. Tuck it un
der the pillow and it puts' baby
to sleep. The fact that it works
is another verification of the
terrible need we all have for
security after the shock of ejec
tion from the mother’s womb.
2. Sense of Autonomy (inde
pendence) involves an intense
struggle for Junior, between one
and three years of age, to assert
his own individuality. It’s im
portant to him to be a some
body, do things for himself,
make decisions, even though he’s
a half-pint in diapers.
In handling a youngster at
this critical stage;, remember to
1 give him full freedom to make
choices he’s ready to make for
himself, yet help him learN»>to
accept necessary restrictions.
Keej) "do’n’ts” lo a minimum.
1 2. Sense of Initiative begins to
develop with the four-year-old
seeking to' discover how much
he can do. At no other time of
life does Junior learn so wjlj
mgly or feel so important when
he shares in achievements. Help
him select activities that he can
complete successfully. If they’re
too tough, he may never achieve
the exultant feeling of success.
4. Sense of Duty and Accom
plishment is acquired between
six and twelve, years of
calm and grbwth, teffcjf
increasingly to engage in social
ly useful tasks.
Chief danger here is 'that he
may develop a sense of inferiori
ty if too much or too little tg
expected of him by parents ’ or
teacher. . s
5. Sens* of Identity is sought
during the turbulent adolescence
when a youngster’s body chang
es from child to adult. Junior
constantly faces the question of
who he is—child or adult.
Jle seeks security by fostenlig
similarity to others of his age
group. He joins cliques—if ftp j
kids do it, it’s okay; if the kids
disapprove, avoid it like a rattle
snake. ' ,;v rj
6. Sense of Intimacy comm
only when one is‘ sure of I
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own identity. True intimacy
comes late in adolescence and
involves real sharing of friend
ship or love, with neither person
j either dominating or submissive,,
j 7. Parental Sense is more than
the mere desire to have children.
It is a want to nourish and nur
ture offspring. This usually
doesn’t appear until one reaches
adulthood. Too, one can’t fully.
I develop this sense unless he’s j
socially and economically secure,
which enables him to concen-i
trate on rearing his children in |
j the best possible way. j
8. Sense of Integrity means]
| acceptance of oneself and one’s j
i role in life. j
According to the White House
Conference, these senses are ne
cessary for healthy self-develop
ment. Fortunately, a person by
perseverance may overcome
early handicaps late in life and
chieve the adult characteristics
of identity, intimacy, and integ
rity.
(Editor’s note: Readers having
questions concerning education
are invited to send inquiries to
School and Your Child, Appa
lachion State Teachers College, l
Boone, N. C.)
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Oh, My Aching Head!
Practically nobody gets
J through life without having a|
j headache. In fact, it’s been es-|
timated that the average person 1
suffers at least half a dozen]
headaches a year, severe enough
to drive him to. the aspirin hot-]
: tie. j
To set nervous fears at rest,
less than one half of one per|
, cent of severe recurring head
aches are due to brain tumor.!
Headache may be a sign of tu- :
berculosis, asthma, chronic bron
chitis, heart disease, blood dis
orders, kidney disease, high
blood pressure, eye strain.
■Headache can also come from
poor ventilation, fever or hung
er. By far the most common
, type of headache is the tension
headache, a dull, steady pain
across the forehead. 'Pain right
on the top of the head can re
sult from a neurotic state.
Sinus infection and noise are
both over-rated as headache 1
causes. Sinus infection may ac-
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count for an occasional head
ache, but hardly for headaches
which recur over a long period
of time. ,And it’s not so much |
noise itself which- gives you a
headache, as your irritation with
the 'noise. . j
When should you see your'
doctor about a headache? There’s!
Ino one answer tq that. If you’re,
worried that something might be
wrong, by all means go to your
doctor, even if the visit mere
ly relieves your anxiety, since
that can cause a headache, too.
, You should also see a doctor if
' the kind of headaches you get
change suddenly, if you have
l trouble with your vision or
| hearing as well as a headache,
I if you have weakness or numb-
I ness on one side of your body
i along with the headache, and
i if you have any trouble concen
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—lnformation Service "of
Yo.’r TB Association.
Lankford L. Storey
Dies At Asheville
Edenton friends will regret to
learn that Lankford L. Storey,!
52, a former Edentonian, died
recently in Asheville. He wasj
the son of H. L. Storey and the (
late Mrs. Storey. His father forj
many years published The Al-j
• bemarle Observer in Edenton
before moving to Marshal], N.
C., due to the health of Mrs.
Storey, where he now is .pub
lisher of the News-Record, a
weekly newspaper'.
Deceased lived in Asheville,
where he had been employed
by the Asheville Citizen-Times
for 19 years.
j He is survived by his widow,
j Mrs. Mary Morrow Storey: one
I son, Lankford Morrow Storey, of
I Asheville; one brother, James
iStorey, of Marshall; his father,'
jH. L. Storey, of Asheville, and!
| one granddaughter, Marie Denise
I Storey, of Asheville.
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Sunday School Lesson
CHRIST OPENS BLIND EYES
. International Sunday School
Lesson for February 12, 1961
Memory Selection: “I am the
I light of the world; he who fol-i
lows me will not walk in dark-j
ness, but will have the light of
( life.” (John 8:12).
Lesson Text: John 7 thru 9
I The purpose of our study to-i
day is to help adults think more'
clearly, concerning the meaning
of Jesus’ acts of healing, and;
1 to discuss the subject of faith j
healing.
In arguing this question, let it
I be said in the beginning thatj
no one has the last word on this,
subject. Great men have medi-|
• tated on it, and come up with'
no hard and fast answer. We]
must also bear in mind that |
I what we sincerely think we]
know may be partly wrong, or |
at least subject to sharp re- 1
vision arid amendment. We not'
I only lack many of the answers,
but also only a few of us have
any answers at all.
, Occasionally someone testifies
to having been healed by faith.
And occasionally further . investi-i
gation would seem to bear this
Chowan County Churches
7EOPIM BAPTIST 1
Sunaay School Sunday morning at 10
o’clock
Preaching services every first and
I third Sunday morning at 11 o’clock.
EDENTON BAPTIST
RF.V. R. N. CARROLL. Pastor
Sunday School at 9.45 A. M.
Morning worship service. 11 A. M.
I Training Union at 6:30 P. M.
Evening service at 7:30 o’clock.
Mi 1-week prayer service Wednesday
at 7:30 P. M. j
I GREAT HOPE BAPTIST
REV. HENRY V. NAPIER. Pastor I
Sunday School at 10 A. M. •
Morning worship second and fourth
Sundays at 11 o’clock.
I Evening worship first and fourth
’ Sundays at 8 o'clock.
, Prayer service Wednesday at BP. M.
CENTER HILiTmETHODIST
REV. FRANK FORTESQUE. Pastor
* Preaching sendees every first and,
I third Sundays at 11 A. M.
EDENTON PRESBYTERIAN
REV. JAMES MaeKENZIE. Pastor
Sunday School Sunday morning at
| 10 o’clock.
Morning worshlo at 11 o’clock.
Girls’ Meeting—all teen-age girls—
i Sunday. 6:30 P. M.
Christian Servlet Brigade—all teen
•ge boys—Tuesday. 7 F .
Mid-week Prayer Service —Wednesday
light at 7:30 o’clock.
FIRST CHRISTIAN
REV. E. C. ALEXANDER. Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A M.
dornlne worship at 11 o’clock.
Young People’s meeting at 6*30 P. M.
I Evening worship at 7.30 o’clock.
Wednesday evening service at 7:30
'clock.
ST. ANN'S CATHOLIC
| REV. C. F. HILL. Pastor
Sunday Masses 8 and 11 A. M.
Confessions before every Mass.
Sunday School 11:45 Sundav A. M.
Convert Instructions or private con
sultation by appointment. Phone 2617.
CENTFR HILL BAPTIST
REV. HENRY V. NAPTER. Pastor
Morning worship at 11 o’clock first
and third Sundays.
Sondav School at 10 A. M.
B. T. U. at 7 P. M.
Evening worship at 8 o'clock second
and fourth Sundays.
Prayer service Thursday at 8 P. M.
EDENTON METHODIST
REV. RALPH FOWLKES, Pastor
Church School Sunday morning at
9*45 o'clock.
Preaching service Sunday morning at
11 o’clock.
MACEDONIA BAPTIST
REV. GORDON SHAW, Pastor
Sunday school at 10 A. M.
Preaching every Sunday morning at
11 o’clock and every Sunday night at
7:30 o’clock. . . „
Prayer meeting Wednesday night at
7:30 o’clock.
WARWICK BAPTIST
REV. R. B. COTTINGHAM. Pas to.
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Preaahlng service at 11 A. M.
BTU at 7 P.M. _ „
Preaching scrvlcee at 8 P. 11
Prayer service Thursdya nights at 8
o'clock.
SAINT PAUL'S EPISCOPAL
REV. GEORGE B. HOLMES. Rector
8:00 A. M. Holy Communion.
9:30 A. M.. Church School.
10:00 A. M.. Adult Bible Clast.
11:00 A. M., Morning Worship.
7.30 P. M.. Young Churchmen.
Wednesday, 10.30 A. M.. Holy Com
munion.
BALLARD'S BRIDGE BAPTIST
REV. A. CARL HART, Pastor
Sunday School Sunday morning at 10
o'clock* * *
Preaching services at 11 A. M. and
BPM
Prayer meeting Wednesday Bight at
8 o'clock.
CHURCH OF GOD
REV. JOHN MARTIN. Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Preaching service at 11 A. M.
WPE Sunday at 7 P. M.
Evening worship as 7:30 o clock.
JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES
R. P. LONG. Congregation Servant
Bible study as 8:00 o dock Sunday
afternoon at Kingdom Hall.
Bible study Wednesday night at 8
o’clock;
Sendee meeting and ministry school
Friday nights at 8 o’clock.
ASSEMBLYOF GOD
REV. C. L. WILES. Pastor
A« or 9^; ,ff 7 »•?.
Wednesday . night prayer service,
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out. But by and large, the gen
eral consensus of opinion is
that these instances are so few
and far between, relatively, that
they are far from real proof
that the program is entirely ef
fective.
No discussion, howver, con
cerning the relationship of faith
to illness can afford to over
look the fact that the ill and
the uncured are not without the
means of enjoyment and useful
ness. Out of many a travail has
come a great and shining spirit,
a gift to the world of immeas
urabl pleasure.
We need, however, to take an
other look at Jesus’ miracles of
, healing. We speak of his heal
| ing the sick, but Jesus was do
-1 ing more than making sick peo
| pie well. Jesus was casting out
demons, and that was something
] very different.
i In the beginning, when He
] was founding his ministry, evil
| attacked Jesus. But Jesus van
] quished it. During his minis
try he was attacking the same
evil in individuals, vanquishing
it, and thus demonstrating the
power of God. Jesus’ rejoicing
was not primarily because sick
people became well, but because
i evil, which caused the illnesses,
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I HAPPY HOME PENTECOSTAL
l’ HOLINESS CHURCH
i HAROLD C. LEAKE. Minister
Sunday School. 9:45: Morning Wor
ship. 11:00: Llfellners. 6:45; Evening
Worship. 7:45; Wednesday Prayer Ser
vice, 7:45.
WHITE OAK CHAPEL BAPTIST
REV. R. M. McNAIR. Pastor
ROCKY HOCK BAPTIST
1 THURMAN W. ALLRED. Pastor
Sunday School Sunday morning at
10 o'clock.
Morning worship at 11 o’clock.
I Training Union at 7P. M.
Evening worship at 8 o’clock.
COLORED CHURCHBS
PROVIDENCE BAPTIST
REV. F. H. LaGUARDE
Sunday School at 9:30 A. M.
Morning service at 11 o’clock.
I Evening service at 7:30 o’clock.
Prayer meeting Wednesday night At
7*30 o’clock
Young people’s and senior choir
practice Friday nights at 8 o’clock.
Men’s Bible Class meets Monday
night at 8 o’clock.
ST. JOHN THE EVANGELIST
EPISCOPAL
REV. CLYDE BEATTY. Minister
First Sunday at 11 A. M.. Holy Com
munion and sermon.
Second Sunday at 9 A. M.. Holy Com
munion.
Third Sunday at 9 A. M.. Holy Com
mui.._
Fourth Sunday at 11 A. M.. mining
praver and sermon.
Sunday School each Sunday after
noon at 3 o’clock.
CHURCH OF GOD IN CHRIST
ELDER J. A. SAWYER. Pastor
Every second and fourth Sunday.
Pastor’s Day. \
Every first and third Sundav. Church I
Day. f
Sunday School at 11 A. M. to IP.M. 1
Prayer and Bible Band Tuesday
night at 8 o'clock
Wednesday night choir practice at
7’30 o’clock
Thursday night choir practice St 7:30
o’clock.
Friday night Pastor’s Aid Society at
8 o'clock.
Saturday night young people’s Bible
oulz and recreation.
WARREN GROVE BAPTIST
REV. J. E. TILLETT Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A, M.
Preaching service at 11:30 A. M.
every second and fourth Sunday.
Women’s Educational and Mission
Union meets every fourth Sunday after
the morning service.
WELCH'S CHAPEL BAPTIST
REV. W. H. DAVIS. Pastor
Sunday School ut 10 A. M.
Preaching service first Sunday at
11:30 A. M.
ST. JOHN BAPTIST
REV. C. M. HEIDELBURG, Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Servt-ec every first and »hlrd Sun
days at 12 o’clock noon. Vesper ser
vice at 6 o’clock.
GALE STREET BAPTIST
REV. C. M. HEIDELBUDG, Pa.'tor
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Services every second and fourth
Sunday at 11 A. M.
Prayer meeting Wednesday even
. Ing at 8 o’clock.
PfNEY GROVE A. M. E. Z.
REV. M. H. EERON. Pastor
UNION GROVE A. M. E. Z.
REV. J. E. GORDON. Pastor
RYAN GROVE BAPTIST
REV. M. A. RIDDICK. Pastor
ST. LUKE CHRISTIAN
REV. KELLY GOLDMAN. Pastor
JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES
E uDl.ft J. G. HALL, Pastor
CENTER HILL BAPTIST
REV. H. C. SAUNDERS. Pastor
KADESH A. M. E. ZION
REV. L. A. WILLIAMS, Pastor
Sunday School at 9:30 A. M.
Morning worship at 11:00 o’clock.
Evening service at 7:00 o’clock.
PLEASANT GROVE A. M. E. Z
REV. G. L. SCOTT. Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Morning worship service at 11 o’clock.
Choir rehearsal Wednesday night at
8 o’clock.
CANAAN TEMPLE A. M. E. Z.
REV. W-. H. SESSOM. Pastor
Sunday School at 1015.
Morning worshlo at 11:30 o’clock.
Young People’s meeting art 2 P. M.
Evening service-at 7:30 o'clock.
Tuesday night first Senior Choir
practice art 8 o'clock.
Wednesday night second Senior Choir
practice at 8 o'clock.
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When Betty Marlowe moved Into *
our neighborhood we invited her to join IV
the garden blub and the baby sitters'
club and the civic association, but it «
never occurred to any of us to ask her |||flß^^BF
if she’d like to go to church. 4 ,
Then, one Saturday, she phoned me. t I ;
“My husband is often out of town on 1 1 / .
Sundays and I don’t have the car when lA,. *
he’s away,” she explained. “Would you J jyMjTjfcgp*
and Bill mind if I went to church with /' "
Mind! We were delighted-but I / tm T l u f R o C r H t F h ° e ß c A m L uVch V !
was also a little ashamed. And I won- ■ gi r The Church is the greatest factor on J g
dered how many others there were in I a ! **” h for ,h< ' t ” J,ld,n « of cW * c '* r ‘ ri I
our neighborhood who would like to go \/ !
to our church, if they were given the ! w f I neither democracy nor civilization can ■
encouragement of an invitation. «««;». Th»>e«« f<wr «.»nd .«»«. I •
& M vhy every person should attend services I
From now on, I’m not waiting to W : I
# IJT , .. 9 - , t 0 rn mrt: G) For his own sake. (2) For his I
W fiSKCdi X 2XI asking lirsv! M children's sake. (3) For the sake of his I |
community and nation. (4) For the sake I
of the Church itself, which needs his I ,
■ moral and material support. Plan to go
I *0 chinch regularly and read your Biblo
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I I Monday i Peter 4
\ Bl\ rCWH I I Tuesday Psalms 34 4-5
/1. I I Wednesday Roman* 15 1-2
I I Thursday Psalma sci t»-l 2
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