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ISCHOOLAND YOtJK CHILD
| By John Coray. Appalachian State Teacher* Collage
I Can You Ba Both
B- Pal and Parent?
KWhat about this “parent-pal”
Business?
I “Some wives nag their mates
Eo get out and play ball or hike
Br swim with their child, espe
cially if he’s a boy.. They think
■t’s part of being a good father.
I A pal is a nice thing for Jun
ior to have. So is a parent.
Kan you be both? And does
■unior want you to?
■ A. D. Buchmueller, executive
Hirector of the Childhood Study
Association of America, asks
Bftese questions and attempts to
Knswer them in the National.
i?arent-Teacher magazine.
H First, Buchmueller reminds us
■ hat “children need warm, lov
ing, healthy relationships with!
■parents, through which they ex-|
ijerience affection and also learn
■discipline.
I But tlhe nature of the rela
tionship varies according to Jun-|
| or’s age. Between the boys’ (
11th and 7th years, he and Dad
I -an be quite “palsy-walsy.” The'
Irhild loves engaging in activi-j
lies with parents and will initi-
I »te them at this age.
I And the activities need not
lie limited to games or sports,!
■ Juchmueller says. The boy can
l ielp Dad clean the yard or te-
I jair things around the home.
lie learns certain skills and at
I he same time discovers what be-
Ing a man is like.
The adolescent stage between
1:2 and 16 years of age is aa-
Ijther matter. At this age toe
Iroungster strives to be independ
ent and purposely sours toward
riovey-dovey” relationships with
Ivlom and Dad, or seemingly re
fects them altogether. So don’t
llorce yourself upon Junior as a
pal. Often, the teen-ager feels
[•loser to a certain teacher, coach.
|>r TV star.
[1 This temporary turning-away
Is healthy growth, says Buri
nueller. The parent who be
:omes offended and reacts nega
ively may harm the child.
, Junior still wants your love,
protection, and control. Often
he feeling goes unexpressed, of
•ourse, and it involves tremen
dous conflict for both the adoles
:cnt and his parents. Mom and
dad must show patience, under
standing, and strength.
The value of being a pal to a
son or daughter depends large
y on the feelings and attitudes
if both child and parent, es
pecially the latter.
Both must enjoy sharing ex
periences together.
If the child prefers being
iown the block playing with
other kids, the relationship will
do the child no good and may
lo him harm.
; If Dad plays with Junior;
largely to temper his wife’s criti-'
Itisms that he’s not a good fath-|
or, then the pal-ship is phoney. |
The child catches on quickly.
Buchmueller gives another|
warning. When a parent tries to
oe a pal out of a selfish desire
o relive his own childhood
ihrough a son or daughter, the
•esulting relationship won’t help
he child.
A mother, for instance, may
lelight in picking out her daugh
ter’s party dresses or in hear
ing the details of a date.
Buchmueller says it could be (
■hat the mother had few dates |
; terself as a teenager and obtains i
vicarious pleasure from the
laughter’s social life. (
Buchmueller concludes that at
imes children enjoy parents as
>als. But something more is
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That something more could be
opportunity to grow toward in
dependence. It could be guid
ance toward inner control and
self direction.
And Mom and Dad must re
member they have a pal-ship of
their own to maintain as hus
band and wife, apart from the
children. If this is a happy re
lationship, chances are the par
ents will do well in that deli
cate undertaking of being a par
ent while also being a pal.
(Editor’s Note: Readers having
questions concerning education
are invited to send inquiries to
School and Your Child, Appa
lachian State Teachers College,
Boone, North Carolina.)
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any other game species simply
amounts to plain, unadulterated
waste that should be considered
unforgivable unless a determined!
arid conscientious effort is made]
‘o save it
Each season thousands of;
hunters, either careless or too]
lazy to make an honest retriev- j
ing effort, cause a loss of sev-i
eral million dead or wounded j
ducks which would have made;
a substantial contribution to the]
family larder if a little well-]
directed energy was expended,!
comments Henry P. Davis,]
Sporting Dogs Editor of Sports j
Afield Magazine. A similar sit-i
nation exists in the ranks of up
land game hunters, probably to
a lesser extent. Certainly, it is
not possible to retrieve every
wounded bird. But the point
that needs emphasizing is the
importance of making an hon
est try.
In these times when game
birds are comparatively scarce
and harder to find than in days
•'one by, the recovery of every
single head of killed or wound
'd game becomes doubly import
ant. The loss of one bird can
spoil the whole day for a de
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He lives in Mt. Clemens, Mich.
ners who take such losses much
less seriously. “It’s all in the
game,” they say. Maybe it is,
but every devoted hunter should
have ’ an ingrained conviction;
that should make an honest and'
determined effort to recover
every game bird or animal that
falls to his gun. This can best 1
be done through the use of a
dog skilled and drilled in the
practice of searching for and re
trieving fallen game. A good
retriever, no matter what breed,
can make the difference between
pleasant relaxation after a fine
day’s hunt and a feeling of guil
ty discouragement.
So use a retrieving dog this
season and derive the full meas
ure of fun from your hunting
season. Not only will you have
the satisfaction of knowing you
have not left any dead birds or:
cripples in the field to die a
lingering death, but you will
have conserved your ammuni-j
tion, enhanced your gamebag at I
the least expense to game re-|
sources, and gained a large divi- 1
dend of extra and unexpected
fun in the bargain. A good re
triever is worth far more than
his salt any time.
TR'iTaIiLRALd''^LASSTFISr
' jytuta'unvw.iuS'
“Let not him who is house
less pull down the house of
another, but let him work
diligently and build one for
himself.”
There is inspiration in the
words and acts of great men
hat should lift us all above
the pettiness of small advan
tages.
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THE CHOWAN HEHALD.EDENTON.NONTH CAROLINA.THURSDAY.MARCH 9.1961.
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Sunday School Lesson
CHRIST IS WITH US
International Sunday School
Lesson for March 12, 1961,
Memory Selection: “If a man
loves me, he will keep my word,
and my Father will love him,
and we will come to him and
make our home with him.”
(John 14:23).
Lesson Text: John 14-16
Today we endeavor to help
people understand the relation
ship between the Holy Spirit
and the Spirit of Christ, and we
discuss ways in which we may
make Christ’s presence real to
us in these days and times.
Continuing our studies in the
Book of John, we see how Jesus
prepared the disciples for fu
ture witnessing. We study, in
effect, the transition of Jesus
in the flesh to Jesus in the
Spirit, and the resulting widen
ing of Jesus’ scope to influence
the lives of his followers. John
is stating, irrevocably and with
passion, that the Spirit of
Christ is universally present to
all men who trust in Him. His
power and salvation is avail- j
able to untold multitudes the'
Chowan County Churches
7EOPIM BAPTIST '
Sun nay School Sunday moralns at 10
o'clock
Preaching services every first and
third Sunday morning at 11 o'clock.
EDENTON BAPTIST
REV. R. N. CARROLL. Pastor
Sunday School at 9:45 A. M.
Morning worship jervlce. 11 A. M.
Training Union at 6:30 P. M.
Evening service at 7:30 o'clock.
MM-week prayer service Wednesday
at 7:30 P. M.
GREAT HOPE BAPTIST
REV. HENRY V. NAPIER. Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A M.
Morning worship second and fourth
Rundnvs at 11 o'clock. . ..
Evening worship first and fourth
Sundays at 8 o'clock.
Prayer service Wednesday at 8 P. M.
CENTER HILL METHODIST
REV FRANK FORTESQUE Pastor
Preaching services every first and.
third Sundays at 11 A. M.
EDENTON PRESBYTERIAN I
REV. JAMES MacKENZIE. Pastor
Sunday School Sunday morning at
10 o'clock. , ,
Morning worship at 11 o’clock.
Girls' Meeting—all teen-age girls—
Sunday. 6 30 P. M. _
Christian Service Brigade—all teen
ve boys—Tuesday. 7 P.
Mid-week Prayer Service —Wednesday
•Ight at 7:30 o'clock.
FIRST CHRISTIAN
REV. E. C. ALEXANDER. Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A. M
doming worship at 11 o clock.
Young People’s meeting at 6 - 30 P. M.
Evening worship at 7 SO o'clock.
Wednesday evening service at 7:30
'dock.
ST. ANN’S CATHOLIC
REV. C. F. HILL. PastOT
Sunrtav Masses 8 and 11 A. M.
Confessions before every Mass.
Sunday School 11:43 Sunday A. M.
Convert Instructions or private con
sultation by appointment. Phone 2617.
CENTER HILL BAPTIST
REV. HENRY V. NAPIER. Pastor
Morning worship at 11 o'clock first
and third Sundays.
Sanday School at 10 A. M.
B T. U. at 7 P. M.
Evening worship at 8 o clock second
and fourth Sundays. „ „ _ „
Prayer service Thursday at 8 P. M.
EDENTON METHODIST
REV. RALPH FOWLKES, Pastor
Church School Sunday morning at
0*45 o’clock.
Preaching service Sunday morning at
U o'clock.
MACEDONIA BAPTIST
REV. GORDON SHAW, Pastor
Sunday School at lo A. M.
Preacalng every Sunday morning at
11 o'cl <ck and every Sunday night at
7:30 o clock. . . , ,
Prayer meeting Wednesday night at
7:30 o'clock.
WARWICK BAPTIST
REV. R. B. COTTINGHAM. Pasta.
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Preaching service at 11 A. M.
BTU at 7 P. M. w
Preaching scrvlcee at 8 P. M.
Prayer service Thursdya nights St B
o'clock.
SAINT PAUL'S EPISCOPAL
REV. GEORGE B. HOLMES. Rector
8:00 A. M. Holy Communion.
9:30 A. M.. Church School.
10:00 A. M., Adult Bible Class.
11:00 A. M., Morning Worship.
7 30 P. M„ Young Oiurchtoen.
Wednesday. 10:30 A. M.. Holy Com
munion.
BALLARD'S BRIDGE BAPTIST
REV. A. CARL HART, Pastor
Sunday School Sunday morning at 10
o'clock. *
Preaching services at 11 A. M. and
BPM
Prayer meeting Wednesday Bight at
8 o'clock.
CHURCH OF GOD
REV. JOHN MARTIN. Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Preaching service at 11 A. M.
WPE Sunday at 7 P. M.
Evening worship at 7:30 o'clock.
JEHOVAH’S WITNESSES
R, r. LONG. Congregation Servant
Bible study at 3:00 o’clock SundAJ
afternoon at Kingdom Hall.
Bible study Wednesday night at S
o'clock.
Service meeting and ministry school
Friday nights at 8 o'clock.
ASSEMBLY OF GOD
REV. C. L WILES. Pastor
Sunday School, 9 48 A. M.
Worship Service. 11:00 A. M.
, Christ Ambassador Service, 8:80
' P. It; Evangelistic Service, 7:30 P.
p iT Uy “ I,ht prayer service.
world over, and is not confined
to the simple crowds of Gali
lee. Salvation is available
everywhere. John depicts the
glorious unity of man’s spirit
with the Spirit of Christ in the
Father.
The theme of (the three chap
ters we are studying today is, in
short, the presence, power, and
help of the Holy Spirit. The
early church believed vividly
and vigorously in the swift, dra
matic return of Jesus —his Sec
ond Coming. The early church,
however, was sorely disappoint
ed; Jesus did not return as soon
as expected. But in Chapters
14, 15 and 16 John has the an
swer for those in the early
church, and for us also. In die
abiding presence of the Spirit,
Christ is with us now and al
ways. John grasped ifhe inner,
permanent, spiritual meaning oi
Jesus’ return, and in these chap
ters he has discussed it for oui
profit and education.
John, in stressing the fact that
the coming of the Spirit uni
versalized Jesus, also delineates
the Spirit’s work. “He will con
vince the world of sin” (16:8).
The Holy'Spirit has an accusing
as well ias a comforting work.
Continued on Page 7—Section 2
HAPPY HOME PENTECOSTAL
HOLINESS CHURCH
HAROLD C. LEAKE. Minister
Sunday School. 9:45: Morning Wor
ship, 11:00: Liteliners. 6:45; Evening
Worship. 7:45; Wednesday Prayer Ser
vice, 7:45.
WHITE OAK CHAPEL BAPTIST
REV. R. M. McNAIR. Pastor
ROCKY HOCK BAPTIST
THURMAN W. ALLRED. Pastor
Sunday School Sunday morning at
10 o'clock. ,
Morning worship at U o clock.
Training Union at TP. M.
Evening worship at 8 o'clock.
COLORED CHURCHBfc
PROVIDENCE BAPTIST
REV. F. H. LaGUARDK
Sunday School at 9:30 A. M.
Morning service at 11 o’clock.
Evening service at 7:30 o dock
Prayer theetlng Wednesday night at
7:30 o’clock.
Young people’s and aenlor choir
practice Friday nights at 8 o’clock.
Men’s Bible Class meets Monday
night at,B o’clock.
ST. JOTN THE < EVARGEL , & t
REV. CLYDE BEATTY. Minister
First Sunday at 11 A. M.. Hoftr com
munion and sermon.
Second Sunday at 9 A, M.. Holy Com
munion. . _ . _
Third Sunday at 9 A. M.. Holy Com
Fourth Sunday at 11 A. M..
prayer and sermon.
Sunday School each Sunday after
noon at 3 o'clock..
CHURCH OF GOD Ilf CHRIST
ELDER J. A. SAWYER. PaMor
Every second and fourth Sunday.
Pastor's Day. . _ .
Every first and third Sunday. Church
Dav.
Sunday School at 11 A. M. to 1 P M.
Prayet and Bible Band Tuesday
night at 8 o’clock. ’ ,
- Wednesday night choir practice at..
7 ?kurwtoy night clmlr practice St 7:30
o’clock.-
Friday night Pastor's Aid Sorter at
8 o’clock.
Saturday night young people's Bible
quiz and recreation.
WARREN .GROVE BAPTIST
REV. J. E. TILLETT, Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Preaching service at 11:30 A. M.
every second and fourth Sunday.
Women’s Educational and Mission
Union meets every fourth Sunday after
the morning service.
WELCH'S CHAPEL BAPTIST
REV. W. Hr DAVIS. Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Preaching service first Sunday at
11:30 A. M.
ST. JOHN BAPTIST
REV. C. M. HEIDELBURG, Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A. M.
Sendees every first and third Sun
days at 12 o’clock noon. Vesper ser
vice at 6 o’clock.
GALE STREET BAPTIST
REV. C. M. HEIDELBURG, Pastor
Sunday School at 10 A. M.-
Servlces every second and fourth
Sunday at 11 A. M.
Prayer meeting Wednesday even
ing at 8 o’clock.
PINEY GROVE A. M.E. Z.
REV. M. H. EBRON. Pastor 1
ST. LUKE CHRISTIAN
REV. KELLY GOLDMAN. Pastor
JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES
ELDER J. C. HALL. Pastor
Eve^niHe^BaSS^Vn^
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practice at i o°efock.
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HP’ ALL FOR ™ E CHURCH
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Only wise men and hungry children fully I
Appreciate their blessings! spiritual values. Without a strong Church, B
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, Many of Goto gifts, like the air we breathe, ■ , urvive . T h„ c four round
are received without thought. Others, like the I I why every person should attend services B
Abundance of the harvest, we think about only B * nd • uppor ' lh ' Chpr ' h - Th ' y
in season. Still others, like our religious herit- ■ ch; , dre „., „ le . (3) For lhc » k< . of hi ,
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responds according to our spiritual perception ■ of ,h ' C i hl,rch which "" d ‘ h; *
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This isn’t Christmas ... or Easter. And I d,i| r.
we hope it is not a time of personal crisis for I n*y Book Chapter Verses I
you and your family... ■ Bu od.y Proverbs 20 7
If it’a juatanormal week, full of the routine I SHr pEi™ It 12]®
of life—then it’s an ideal time to remember B TtanSy eSm 11 7-8
your blessings. And Sunday will be an ideal B f&y p£“ 2s T-s*
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