United in Holy
Matrimony
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Miss Wands Gail Bums and
Luther Calvin Ramsey, Jr.
exchanged wedding vows in a
double-ring ceremony at Deep
Branch Baptist Church on
June 23. 1979 at S o'clock. The
ceremony wu performed by
Reverend Bobby Buns, the
bride's uncle, sod Reverend
Chesley McNeill.
The bride is the daughter of
Mr. and Mrs. Rufus Burns. Jr.
of Lumberton Parents of the
bridegroom are Mrs. Anna
Munn and Luther Calvin Ram
sey. Sr. of Ansonville.
A program of wedding music
was given by Miss Miriam
Oxendine of Pembroke as
pianist. Miss Brenda Hunt of
Rowland was vocalist, and
Miss Karen Burns, sister of
the bride, was also a vocalist.
The bride was given in
marriage by her uncle, Stan
ford Burns of Lumberton. Her
wedding gown was of white
chiffon with fitted bodice full
skirt and a chantilly lace
jacket, accompanied by pearl
buttons and a high neck
line. Her veil was fashioned to
a lace covered cloth flowing
into a long train.
She carried a colonial bou
quet of pink rosebuds, minia
ture carnations and baby's
breath, fastened with love
knot ribbons.
Attending as the bride's maid
of honor was her sister. Miss
Sharon Kay Burns of Lum
berton.
Bridesmaids were: Miss
Wanda Sampson of Lumber
ton and Rose Cummings of
Pembroke, both sorority sis
ters of the bride; Miss Edith
Chavis of Lumberton, cousin
of the bride; Mrs. Ricky
Hutton and Mrs. Jerry Good
win. both sisters of the bride
groom from Ansonville.
The maid of honor wore a
green gown of polyster with a
scoop neckline and ruffled
collar. Bridesmaids' dresses
were yellow and identical to
the maid of honor. They each_
carried nosgays of green and
yellow daisies with baby's
breath.
Miss Renae Hill, cousin of
the bridegroom, was flower
girl. She wore a long white
dress and carried a basket of
daisies. Brother of the bride.
Master Rufus Lynn Burns,
served as ring bearer.
The bridegroom's father
served as best man. Ushers
were Gary Norris, Randy
Coppedge of Raleigh; Mike
Cook. Mike Baker of Lum
berton; and Frank Davis of
Fayetteville--all fraternity
brothers of the bridegroom.
The bride is a I97S graduate
of Pembroke Senior High
School and a 1979 graduate of
Pembroke State University
with a B.A. degree in Psy
chology. While at PSU she was
active with the Student
Government Association, a
member of Kappa Delta
Sorority and Who's Who. a
PSU Marshall and President of
her senior class.
The bridegroom is a 1973
graduate of Bowman High
School and a 1976 graduate of
Pembroke State University
with a major in business. He is
a member of Pi Kappa Phi
Fraternity and PSU baseball
team. In 1975 he served as
Vice-president of the Student
Government Association. He
is now employed with Powers
Swaine Chevrolet in Fayette
ville.
The couple are making their
home in Fayetteville.
RECEPTION
Wedding guests were enter
tained at a reception at Deep
Branch Elementary School
following the ceremony. Pre
siding as guest register was
Mrs. Bruce Barton.
Guests were,invited to the
bridal table for refreshments.
The place of honor belonged to
a beautiful wedding cake,
baked by Mrs. Bracey
Sampson.
Serving ^t the bridal (able
were Mi's. Glenda Locklear,
Miss Sandra Gaitley. and Miss
Beth Blevins.
The gift room was attended
by Mrs. Hardy Brewington
and Mrs. Earl Scott.
REHEARSAL BUFFET
A buffet dinner at the Deep
Branch Fellowship Hall after
rehearsal on Friday evening
was hosted by Mr. and Mrs.
Sam Burns, the bride's aunt
and uncle.
The wedding party attended
the party along with relatives
and out-of-town guests.
PRE-NUPITAL PARTIES
The bride was honored with
two miscellaneous showers.
The first given by Mrs. Bruce
Barton. Mrs. Timmy Hunt and
Mrs. Leland DuBois.
The second was hosted by
Mrs. David Deese and the
bride's sister. Miss Sharon
Kay Burns.
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Up from Dusk
and Darkness
-Lew Barton
1
AH In The Spirit at Fun
Is the poem which follows
this paragraph really risque?
Or is it just dose to being
risque?
I wrote the lyrics as a party
song for some friends who
think it's cute if just a wee bit
daring. "II wonder what you
think?
There's just one way to find
out, and that's to present it for
your honest appraisal.
I'd like to think it isn't risque,
but when considered in the
light of contemporary social
standards. I've heard things
just as "bad" or worse, on
such TV shows as "All In The
Family," "The Johnny Carson
Show," etc.
Now, 1 never really had a
brash kid sister who carelessly
sprinkled in the bathroom.thus
driving her immaculate older
brother out of his mind with
her careless habit. But 1 can
imagine that there are other
brothers of kid sisters who
have. And 1 believe we can
take even immaculateness to
extremes as the person of this
song-poem does.
Whatever the case, I shall be
interested to have your re
action. Honestly 1
I thought the idea was pretty
funny, myself. It was sug
gested to me by a couple of
lines a friend (female) told me
about seeing scribbled on the
wall of a ladies powder room:
"If you sprinkle when you
tinkle. Be a sweetie wipe the
seatie!"
DO YOU SPRINKLE?
There's a solemn social ques
tion
I must ask while yet I may.
Cause tomorrow we're to
marry
I
And I've got to know today.
It's a thorny social o*>??Honl
Lord it fills me with dismay!
Do you sprinkle when you
tinkle
In the bathroom every day?
Once I had a cute kid sister
Who was careless as could be.
Lord, she sprinkled when she
tinkled
Till she made a wreck of me.
So I swore if I should marry.
It would never, ever be
To a sprinkler in the bathroom
Who'd bring me such misery.
Do you sprinkle when you
tinkle
In the bathroom every day?
Do you sprinkle when you
tinkle
Like my Desiray?
Lord, she drives me to distrac
tion
And she fills me with dismay!
Do you sprinkle when you
tinkle
In the bathroom every day?
BEPEAT BEFBAIN
The sarlous side of the poem is
that it (hopefully) delivers a
devastating blow to human
prejudices, especially petty
ones.
Pembroke Kiwanis
Club Hear Givens
Lift to light nil?J Uwiy
The new P.S.U. Chancellor,
Dr. Paul Givens, was wel
comed by Pembroke Kiwa
nians at their Tuesday evening
meeting at Sims Restaurant.
Dr. Givens was introduced by
Program Chairman Bernard
Lowry.
In his remarks concerning a
University and Community,
Dr. Givens likened the relation
ship to that of a marriage.
Their must be trust, respect,
willigness to work together so
that both Institution and com
munity to be enriched by the
partnership. The faculty of the
institution is constantly con
cerned with learning they
read, they study, they do
research in the pursuit of
knowledge and in the most
effective means to transmit
their enthusiasm for learning
to the students.
The community is involved
through its love, interest and
desires for its young people. A
college education is important.
Young people are asking and
searching for answers. The
University must stimulate
them to a life-long desire to
learn. Qualities of inquiry
must be nurtured ? to uk
questions end seek answers in
all areas of living. We want
them to be intelligently critical
of the world in which they live.
We want them to be creative to
see new relationships, insights
sounds, movement. We want
them to be concerned with
morality, ethics. We want
them to be concerned with
choices in their lives what do
you choose to do with your
time, how do you choose your
friends. We want them to
communicate effectively.
Community and University
we are all essentially in the
educational boat together and
if we can effectively work
together we will realize the
dreams and potential which
Pembroke State University is
capable of achieving.
Vistors at the meeting was
Glen Jacobs of Waterfor,
Michigan who was a guest of
Gub member Harold Hunt.
Club President Ed Teets
reminded members of the
District Convention to be held
in Fayetteville on August
17-18-19.
A Doctor in the HouseY
Dale Friar Gave Up Football to^Jecome a Chiropractor
By DAVE GOLOWENSKI
Journal Sports Writer
Winning, Vince Lombard! once said,
isnt everything, it's the ONLY thing.
Football, many felt, was also the
ONLY thing to Lombardi.
The legendary coach's words
notwithstanding, football was not the
only thing to Dale Friar of Vermilion.
Eligible to play another year at the
University of Chicago, Friar has given
op carrying the football so he could
study chiropractic medicine in South
Carolina.
FRIAR HAS turned his back on a
pretty remarkable career.
"I matured as a football player last
season," the 1076 Vermilion High
School graduate explains. "I played
football with intensity."
Friar, 6-10 and 170 pounds, rushed
for 1,360 yards last year, the first at
the university to do so. Although the
school is not a football powerhouse,
Friar points out it once was.
"The school boasts two Helsman
Trophy winners," he says. "When I
went over the 1,000 yard mark last
season, they stopped the game and
aBerwanger presented me with the
My parents were there. It was
quite a thrill."
Jay Berwanger? He was a
University of Chicago football player,
too. He also won the first Helsman
Trophy.
"They have a good program there.
Football was cut out completely in the
1930's because many people felt too
much emphasis was being placed on
athletics, Friar says.
"NOW FOOTBALL is coming back
because the alumni put pressure on to
have it. I think the administration
would like the sport to be on the same
level as the Ivy League schools."
"There are some great football
players at the University of Chicago,"
the running back says. "We thought
we were going to have a really good
season last year, but we lost five
games by a total of 13 points. So we
were competitive and this year's team
looks even better."
Friar ended the season as the third
leading rusher in NCAA. Division HI
football. He was nominated by Illinois
coaches for All-American honors.
"1 wm the first to go ever 1,666
yards la the CMcmo area last as as on
aad everybodyMadof made a big (Mai
sat sf it," be says, aot bracing i
?art of bale to bo ieevtag it But, you
000, I waalad to am athletics aad
football la art am where I waat Ie ?s
Aad 1 fthJTl aasd the fullest
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lie goes on. "i got other things from
football, too. It has given me a positive
attitude and I was able to know some
of the greatest men I've met In my
life. I really couldn't do much better
than I've done."
"last year. Dallas (Cowboys), the
(Philadelphia) Kagles and the (San
Franciscoi 49er* sent me letters,"
Friar says "They wanted stats and
they explained about open try outs I
don't think I would be drafted, even If I
staryed for my senior year, but, you
w, something like that is always in the
back of your mind.
"I'M NOT a real biK runner, but I do
have good power. You might say I run
with authority and 1 havegood moves
in the open," Kriar assesses.
"I have no regrets in bypaartng
football. Since my Junior year in high
school, I've known what I wanted to
be. I've been putting on the pads for 10
years. Maybe when I see the guys
sweat and practice I'll miss it," he
states.
"Who knows? Last year I waited
until a week before the practice to
make up my mind to play," Friar
says.
Friar has already left the Universty
of Chicago. He transferred and has put
in a school-quarter of work at
Sherman College of Chiropractic
Medicine.
"NOW THAT I'm in, I'm glad
because everything I study is career
oriented," he says. "At Chicago, when
I put in five or six hours of lab work in
chemistry or biology, I couldn't see
the purpose. Now I can."
Why a chiropractor?
"When I was little, I sustained a
back injury in a car accident," he
explains. "And I hurt it again when I
was long-jumping on the 8th grade
track team. I had hoped to be the state
champ in the long jump but the pain
me to quit my sophomore and
freshman years.
"Then I began to see Dr. (L.Q.)
Adams of Vermilion. I would go into
his office at seven in the morning
before a meet and not be able to lift
my left leg. He would manipulate my
spine and take the tension out and
relieve the pain so I could go out and
compete
"After that, I began going to his
office more and talking to his patients.
That's how I became convinced of the
value of it," Friar says. "Besides, I
take regular treatments now and feel
free of pain.
"I would like to work in sports
medicine. Of course, I still have a lot
to learn. But one of my ideas is to give
talks to high school athletes and
explain to them the dangers of back
injuries and what a chiropractor can
do for them," he states. "I see many
unnecessary back operations."
AT AGE 21, Friar is full of the
future, but he takes another moment
to reflect upon his Immediate and
successful past
"I had a love affair with football It
is, always was and always wUl be my
favorite same "
Dale Friar
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