1 i Enterpri r NEWTON, CATAWBA COUNTY, N. C, FKIDAY, FEBRUARY 28, 1890. VOL. XII. NO. 3. PRICE: S1.00 PER YEAR. The .SieWton 7 1 i a- I' It ri n r i n 1. FORAGE GRASS FOR UR LANDS American Farmer. TNCE the matter of the im- proyement of our grasses has rejentlv been called to the at tention of the readers of The Farm er, the same matter is also discussed in other agricultural journals, aud we have met farmers who have given the subject practical tests, and now purpose to note down a few addi tional remarks upon the subject. "We write now for the hill s. ction of the Middle States, where sandy soils are the exception, and there is generally no particular difficulty in the way of obtaining a stand of clo ver and timothy. While these grasses are excellent in their place, and are not to be superceded, they do not entirely fill the for the entire season, and sv""vnea,ie wants of that part of our Ps uigr where dairy farming is the . g indus try. '"".iff v There are natural grasses in most of this country that come in, as we say, to fill any vacancy in the rota tion and fill all the bare spots where the sown seed has missed or died out from any cause. The timothy is with the wheat and the clover the following spring, and it frequently is the case that one or both are partial failures from some unavoidable cause. But where both "lake" well and the clover makes a luxuriant growth among the wheat stubble, it makes a good pasture for a time that fall, ani is the chief ingredient in the following hay crop. But we know by experience that the clover is not a permanent grass, and the next season it may be quite thin and the timothy the principal growth for hay. Where this is a good crop it may cut tons to the acre, as much or more than the cjover did the year before. After this is cut at harvest time, a::d especially if the crop has been a good one, the surface is left bare of herbage or shade, until a new growth starts from the timothy roots, and Jiis is generally slow, and especially so if the season be dry and hot. It here that there is a loss to every farmer, but specially to the one who has a herd of cows to provide with pasturage during the season, and if there has been drouth this is the time it is most needed. This and several other considera tions point to the desirability of add hig other grasses to the list, that will grow at different seasons and fill any vacancies where the others may miss. The catalogues of our seedmen are now giving us lists of these grasses with the prices of seed and quantity per acre. In this latter re port their figures may in doubt be takeu with a liberal allowance, as their object is to sell seed. From our own experiet ce their whole list might be cut down one-half and still produce very satisfactory re sults. From five t bix quarts is all we have been accustomed to use of clover (red clover); the catalogues say onethird of a bushel or over ten pounds With a corresponding les sening in the price and allwill find it to their profit to sow more grass seed and not wait for white clover, green grass, fox tail, sweet scented rural grass, and a host of others, an nuals and perennials, to come in and fill the space. At the present valu3 of farm produce, it is useless to ad vise an expense of four dollars per acre for seed alone, though if the crop is doubled it will pay it back in the first cutting. The kind of grass seed to be used with clover ani timothy will vary with the na ture of the soil and the purpose to which the sod is to be applied. If hay is the chief object, other grasses must be added that will arrive at maturity at or near the same time, Our red clover on good rich land is a rank grower, but not strong enough to sustain its own weight of stalk. It is not its nature to stand erect as does the timothy. It is a leguminous plant and nearly allied to the vetches and peas. When it outgrowB timothy (as it generally does the first season), it becomes mat nn tne ground like pea vines and smothers itself so as to lose some of its value and party rot on the ground. Any course growing grass with stiff stem such as we up pose the Johnscn grass to be, would support it in an erect position and add greatly to its value. But un fortunate this Johnson grass is an annual, a species of sorghum, and it has not been grown north of Mary jana. ji it win grow when sown among cloyer in the spring, with a slight scratching of the soil that will not injure the latter: it may be tried. Orchard grass is a valuable addition to our pastures and as hay, but cannot benefit the clover in the way that we have suggested. le fescus are very valuable for pasture, are largely used in England, and are being introduced more in this country. They are short and d nse iu growth, the sheep fescue especially, fine as hair, and for that reason not available as hay, as it would be difficult to cut with our mowers. This is one of the supple mentary grasses that is most valus able to come in among the stubble of the timothy and furnishes, on good land, an abundance of pastur age until late in the season. O There is no one grass that has done more to furnish sustenance to cattle and help enrich our soils than Kentucky blue grass, the Poa pratense of the botanist, though some have called it Poa compressa. There are several varieties very closely allied and similar in appear ance and it is no wonder there is sometimes a difference of opinion and confusion of names. It is an introduced species, though now so generally disseminated as to be though indigenous or native to this county. It followed the first white settlers to Ohio and Kentucky, and was found growing near where they had made their camps and fed their teams with hay they carried with them. From these spots and lines of travel it spread in every direction until it took possession. The Indians attributed its introduction to the white man, and another foreigner no so valuable, the Plantian, they called white man's foot, from it growing wherever he had trod. If you will examine the seed of both species that are most common here, when they are wet, you will find they are very mucilaginous and will adhere closely to any object they touch, and are thus, no doubt,spread literally by the foot. . 1 he seed of the Poa pratense is very light (14 lbs. to the bushels), and t'oes not ripen at a time with any other grass that has been gen erally grown for its seed, and thus is not liable to be spread by admix cure of seed. It comes iu, however, in all rich soils adapted to it after a few years, and by its perennial stoloniferous root retains firm hold of the soil. Thus it stays about buildiusrs aud fence rows as well as iu permanent pastures and is spread by its seed from these by the wind and the droprjing Gf cattle. It does attaiu its maximum growth in any spot soon enough to be available in a farm rotation, and for this reason as much as any other is seldom sown as a farm crop, as we nave said, it seeds itself and spread rapidly by its roots in all soils congenial to it, and where it is not found growing spon taneously, there i3 good reason to believe that it will not flourish when sown. Manure is essential to it, and a heavy top dressing of lime and manures may be all that is needed to bring it. As a sup; lementary farm crop, and for hay, there is nothing for the sections where it succeeds well that is of more agricultural value than Hungarian Millet "Hrngaiian" it is called for short. It is sown on corn stubble after corn planting season, and will yield thiee to four tons to the acre in a little over three months after sown, and is removed in time to seed the land to wheat It is the dwarf est one of the milletts, and for that reason perhaps is the one most relit hed by cattle that eat it up clean. To be at its best, it is cut before the seed has fairly hardened or soon after it shoots in head. It has none of the smell or ot .er characteristics of hay when curing, does not became dry enough to rattle as hay does be fore putting in the barn; in fact is best put in quite green and heats in the mow as clover does. It is desir able as a change of feed to alternate with other hay, but from the time when it is sown, it can be planted in greater or less area as the probable needs of farm stock require. The hay crop is already nearly determin ed and a shortage in clover can thus be provided for. It is a gross feed er, and of course will impoverish the land to some extent, but not so much as fodder corn. In harvesting the crop from corn stubble ground, more or less of the stalks and roots will be picked up Dy the hoi se rake and make it thus somewhat dirty and un fit to put through a hay or fodder cutter, but its feed qualities are not impaired. We do not know that it has been baled or sold in a city market, but for home use it is worth as much as clover hay, and more tl.an timolhy. DR. ACKER'S ENGLISH PILLS Are active, effective and pure. For sick headache, disordered stomach, loss of appetite, bad complexion and biliousness, they have never been equaled, either in America or abroad. For sale by J. C. Simmons, the drug gist. MANURES IN GARDENING. Gardeners' Chronicle. London. ANURE is not a mere inci dent of gardening, an item of small account, for upon an edequate supply of this substance depends whether the garden shall be a success or a failure the manure heap is indeed the pivot of success ful horticulture. The price of land, and its retail value are now so great, that we can no longer afford to follow the easy slipsshod practice of our early his tory, when a moderate crop gave satisfactory returns for the small amount of labor bestowed, the rental value being of small account. Our gardening of the nineteenth century, to be successful, must take a more intensive character, we must have large and early crops or no profit ; small crops and late do not pay The soil we cultivate may be cap able of producing moderate results without much noticeable exhaustion, but the soil that produces extraordi nary crops must have unusual natu ral fertility, or be handled with uncommon skill, and sustained by high feeding. This uncommon skill is afforded by the keen intelligence of the horti culturist, and the high feeding is obtained by the judicious use of ma nure. OBJECT OF MANURES. To manure the land is a very an cient prastice. It was long suppos ed that the food of such a variety of plants, each with a different chemi cal composition, as are found in the mixed growth of gaiden, must nec essarily be different almost as dif ferent as the properties of the plants themselves. But agricultural chem ists have shown that the food of all plants is very much alike ; though certain classes of plants, owing to their economic requirements, must be supplied with specific substances in greater abundance than others. What is good for vegetables and fruit is not always good for flowers, and this results not from chemical difference between the constituents of the ashes of the vegetables, the fruit, or the flowers, but from the mode of growth of the various plants, and the particular object we have in view in their cultivation. It it not so much the ques ion of the compo sition of plants, as of the length of time they may have for assimilating food from the soil that is the impor tant factor in a garden- THE IDENTITY OF PLANT FOOD. It has been said by Sir J. B. Lawes that if we thoroughly understood the action of the ordinary manures of the farm, and their influence upon our crops, we should be in a better position to explain the effect of any particular ingredient in the artificial compounds sold in the market. There are thirteen chemical ele ments in various forms of combina tion that are generally supposed to be concerned in plant life. Some are furnished by the free hand of nature in t-uch quantity that the horticulturist needs take no thought about their artificial supply. For instance, in the form ci car bonic acid, carbon is contained in the air in sufficient quanity to sup ply any crop, since there are twenty- eight tons of carbonic acid in the air resting on every acre of the earth's surface. Oxygen and hydrogen are provided in inexhaustible quantiny, and in just the right proportions in the form of water. Une necessary condition of plant life is moisture, and in the presence of water the chemical requirements of growth so far as oxygen and hydrogen are con cerned are fully met. The soil also furnishes several of the other min eral elements in sufficient amount. But there are three constituents potash, phosphoric acid and nitrogen which are aptly said by Professor Kedzie to constitute the golden tri pod of plant life ; these are not only indispe sibld for all growth, but their limited supply correspondingly limits all the other conditions of growth. In manurial value they hold front rank, and upon their suffi cient presence in the soil depends successful cropping, both in vegeta bles, fruits and flowers. With i sufficient supply of these three in gredients in our soils in active fcrm, there is no limit to production, save those imposed by the physical con ditions of growth and season. DEFINITION OF MANURE. Manure is any substance added to the soil to increase its fertilty by changing its composition, or by af fording an increased supply of plan food. A complete or perfect manure is one that furnishes all the materials necessary for successful plant growth. The best example is to be foundin farm-yard dung. Animal excrements have been rec ognized from earliest times as pow erfully promoting vegetation, and in- iasing fruitfulness. Dung was the only manure known to the an cients, this being next followed, probably, by the use of chalk, marl and lime. On very poor soils it is necessary to make a full return of all the ele ments of plant food removed by the crops but under tne nign manure ing frequently practiced in garden culture, the contributions to the soil may be in excess of the removals, and the land may be increasing in fertility. In such caseB a very par tial manuring will suffice, a mere stimulant to encourage extraordinary growth being all that is required. EFFECTS OF MANTJBE ITPON THE SOL. Before entering upon the action of he several fertilizing ingredients contained in manures, we mey men -Hon a few facts respecting their be -havior in the soil. Having already stated that potash, phosphoric acid and nitrogen are by far the most im portant elements of plant food, we will confine our remarks to those substances. Theltwo former, phos phoric acid and potash, are perfecly soluble in water, but when added to a soil they enter into combination with it and thus become insoluble. For examplp, if a solution con taining potash or phosphoric acid be poured on a sufficiently large quanti ty of fertile soil, the water which fil ters through will be found, on test ing, to be quite free from these in gredients. This retentive power of soils is of great practical importance in plant growth, especially in the restricted area of pot culture ; if it were otherwise, the frequent water ings rendered necessary when limit ed quantities of soil are used would soon wash away all the soluble min eral salt of the soil, and the plants would starve for lack of nourish ment. It has been conclusively proved, however, that if these ma nuring mineral substances are ap plied to soils, and for any reason the plants do not take them up, they remain there until thev are wanted. It is far different with the third element of piant food which his been mentioned, namely, nitrogen. This substance exists in soils in the form of organic nitrogen, ammonia and nitric acid. By the action of a mi nute "bacterium,"present in ail soils, the organic nitrogen and ammonia are oxidized, and their nitrogen con verted into nitric acid. This opera tion only takes place in moist soils sufficiently porous to admit air, hence the immense advantage of thorough drainage. It i-; further necessary to successful nitrification that some base, such as chalk or lime, be present in the soil. Of the three substances, then, which constitute the principle food of plants, two are fixed by the soil, while one is liable to be washed away. iNitric acid is said, by sir J. B. Lawes, to be in a constant state of movement in the land at one time washed entirely from the sur face by heavy rains, and rising again as evaporation takes place un der a hot sun and drying winds. As dark colored soils absorb the great est amount of beat from the sun's rays, the presence of a certain amount of humus derived from leaf mold and other decaying vegetable matters, is advantageous both to warmth of soil, and to nitrification, and a very small dressing of readily available food to such soil in the form of nitrate of soda, ammonium salts, guano, rape-cake, or even liq uid manure, will be found greatly to promote fertility, and to increase the stimulating power of the soil. A SCRAP OF PAPER SAVES HER LIFE. It was just an ordinary scrap of wrapping paper, but it saved her lite She was in the last stage of con sumption, tdd by physicians that she was incurable and could live only a short time ; she weighed lees than seventy pounds. On a piece of wrapping paper she read of Dr. King's New Discovery, and got a sample bottle ; it helped her, she bought a large bottle, it helped her more, bought another and grew bet ter fast, continued its use and is now strong, healthy, rosy, plump, weighing 140 pounds. For fuller par ticulars send stamp to W. H. Cole, Druggist, Fort Smith Trial Bot tles of this wonderful Discovery Free at T. R. Abernethy & Co's Drugstore. "A stitch in time saves nine," and if you take Hood's Sarsaparilla now it may save months of future pos sible sickness. FO!t DTSPEPflA Vat! Browi'g Iran Bitters. Physicians recommend it. All dealers keep it 81.00 per bottle. Genuine has trade-mark and crossed red lines on wrapper FARMERS' EDUCATION. American Earmer, tfREAT complaint is being made Ij that farmers' boys are leaving the farms, and seeking in the villages, towns and cities to make a living, and to better their condition. They are constantly seeing those from the country going to these places and returning better dressed and to all appearances living easier and better. They tell of their high er wages they get, but rarely of how much their board, house rent and clothes cost. That these things have their effect is not to be disguis ed. They see, too, unfledged boys and ill developed women in the schools as teachers, but do not know that with vacations, dress and board the year's end generally seeds them with empty pockets, unless they have parents, or friends, to whom they can go without pay for board. Perhaps this would in time cor rect itself if the primary school, either in its range of studies, or in its adornments, led the pupils to love country life. Most of these children leave school at perhaps six teen, jet how few know one grass from another, or can distinguish one variety of cabbage or peas by their leaves or manner of growth. Take horses and cows, the usual animals with which boys and girls in the country ought to be familiar; how few of either know the best breeds, those suited to their soils and needs. Yet from their ignorance of these points come failure and disgust. A good mecchanic never wants for em ployment at good wages. A farmer, knowing his business, can succeed where others fail. Go into our school rooms is there a single thin" to iudicate what the children are being educated for ? Is there in the school books, arith metics, spellers, geographies, histo ries or physiologies a hint that from the soil these future farmers and their future wives must live? No, nothing at all. Yet a few chromos put around the room of horses,cattle, hogs and poultry would attract the eye, and become object lessons never forgotten. A half dozen cigar boxes might hold specimens of the wheat, corn aud oats of t he neighborhood, while dried specimens of grasses might be tied up in bundles and hung aboye the chrotnos. Again, in the arithmetics how lit tle about all the farmer wishes to know. Fractions by wholesale, short cuts to addition, subtraction and multiplic tion and division, dis count, square and cube root, guag mg and many others, but nothing practical about how many yards or feet in length and breadth it takes to make an acre, how much consti tutes a load of manure, and how many loads of stable, cow, or hog pen manure makes a ton ? Is there in their chemistries even a table showing the average strength of the three kinds just mentioned ? Is it intimated iu any which kind does best on sands, clays, or loams, and for what crops ? Can we wonder then that when the children do not find these things in the school room, or in their books. that they come to regard farming as not respectable, an ignoble calling at best, or their books would give more of and about it ? Farmers, remem ber children are but women and men of smaller growth and their im pressions no less lasting, if not so strong. N THE Maryland Legislature, Senator Stake has introduced the bill prepared by the com mittee of the Maryland State Farm ers' Association, for the establish ment of a State Board of Agricul ture, and also the tax bill which was adopted by the same body two years ago as embodying the princi ples of correct taxation acceptable and just to the farming community, but, so far, the various local organi zations of farmers do not appear to be pushing these schemes with the energy which should mark their con duct if they believe them desirable or necessary. THE COTTON CROP. "Wilmington Star (THE cotton crop of the South bas jlj!) nearly doubled since 1860, not withstanding the four years of war, the disorganizations of the la bor system following emancipation! and the disturbed condition that pre vailed tlroughout the South during the period of sn-ca led reconstruc tion. The great increase has been since then and since the Democratic party has held the reins of govern ment in these States and intelligent, honest white men have made the laws. The fact that a very large proportion of this increased crop has been raised by colored labor indicates that the mass of colored laborers are not sitting up of nights bemoaning their sad fate and praying for a "free ballot and a fair count," over which black and white Republican politi cians haye been and are still doing so much discordant howling. The fact is, the colored laborers of the South, especially on the farms, have been and are doing very well, both ering themseles but little about pol itics, and would do still better if let alone by designing, seif-seeking po litical bummers, who are endeavor ing to use them. The politicians are not interested in raising cotton half as much as in raising a racket with the hope of making something out of it. FIVE STRONG POINTS OF S. s. S. 1st. 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That medicine increased my weight from 155 pounds to 177 pounds in a few months, and made me as well and healthy as any man now living, S. S. S. is undoubtedly the greatest blood purifier to-day on the Ameris can continent. John Beixew, No. 449 North State St., Chicago, III." Treatise on Blood and Skin disea ses mailed free. SWIFT SPECIFIC CO. Atlanta, Ga. EXTIRPATING CATTLE DISEASES. SECRETARY RUSK transmit ted to Congress a report of the operations of the Bureau of An imal Industry for 1889. The report says the measures for the eradication of contagious pleuro-pheumonia anions cattle have been continued during the year without interrup tion. The infected area and the number of herds infected are con stantly decreasing. No outbreaks of pleuro-pneumonia have been dis covered during the year west of the Alleghanies, and no extensions of the contagion haye occured in the Eas tern States. In New York State, Orange ancWew York counties have been free from the diseases since June; so that for five months only Kings and Queens counties have been affected. The dairymen in these counties are unalterably opposed to submission to the regulations. In New Jersey operations have been confined almost exclusively to Hud son county. No, pleuo pneumonia was found to exisit in Pennsylvania, except in a lew nerds which passed through the public stockyards at Philadelphia and Chester. The con tagion has been eradicated in Mary- lane. From December 1, 1888, to November 30, 1889, ?6,531 herds o: caltle, containing 329,006 animals, have been inspected. The total ex penses of the work for the year have been $323,505. The regulations adopted by the Department, it is beleived, will, if enforced, prevent the spread of Texas fever, which has prevailed to a considerable extent. EUPEPSY. This is what you ought to have, in fact, you must have it, to fully enjoy life. Thousands are search ing for it daily, and mourting be cause ihey find it not. Thousands upon thousands of dollars are spent annually by our people in the hope that they may attain this boon. And yet it may be had by alL We guarantee that Electric Bitters, i used according to directions and the use persisted in, will bring you Good Digestion and rouse the demon Dys pepsia and install instead Eupepsy. We recommend Electric Bitters for Dysdepsia and all diseases of Liver, Stomach and Kidneys. Sold at 50c. and $1.00 per bottle by T. R. Aber nethy & Co. Druggist's. IS FARMING AN ART? 8 HE other day I heard a man in quiring of a neighbor if Mr. M. was a good carpenter, and I heard him answer that M. was only a wood-butcher. The thought struck me that there is more farm butchering than good farm. Any unthinking man as he goe8 past a farm imagines that it is noth ng to be a first-class farmer; that about all you have to do is to own the farm and it will run itself. But do we find this the case ? It takes a carpenter three years to learn his trade, and an engineer has to serve in various places, such as cleaning the engine, brakeman, flagman and fire man before he can get an engine of his own to run. It takes a glass blower four years, then one year as a journeyman, before he completes his trade. If it takes, as it does, that lenght of time to be a mechanic, then can farming be learned in all its routine of business in a few months, when to be a successful man on the farm requires not only knowing how to farm and plant, but also under standing the care of stock ? If you are a good farmer you must now how to be a carpenter, mason, plasterer and painter. Then you must know how to sew harness and make roads. You are obliged to be a dairyman and to know how to make gilt-edge butter, and you will have to fully understand how to dress a beef or hog and cut it up in good shape for the market You must learn how" to grow strawberries and blackberries; you must under stand how to set out celery and bleach it; you must be thoroughly posted on the wants of the orchards and know how to graft as well as prune. You must have at least a common school director, assessor or tax collector. You are required to be posted on all topics of the day, and, and last, but not least, you are expected to be able to give the rea son why you do or do not .".o work on the farm. Now, can a man get all of the?e requirements in a few months, when to be a successful mechanic will re quire not less tnan three years; Yet the successful farmer is require ed to know all of the arts of other trades, as almost daily there is some thing to mend or make about the farm. There are a great many theo ry farmers at present. But aie they a success ? How often do we find that theory and practice will not work out together? The wide awake farmers of today do not find it an easy task to know all of the improvements in modern machinery. When forty years ago the sickle filled the place of the binder, it was an art to be a good reaper with the sickle. But it is more of an art to day to fully understand and know how to risrht fix ud and keep in shape a binder. It is no trouble to a. drive a machine if it goes itself, but it is an art to nx it and make it go when it stops. So it is with the farmer; it is an art to know how to make the farm pay today an art he can can only have acquired by years of careful study and close attention to business. OTJR YERY BEST PEOPLE. Confirm our statement when we say that Dr. Acker's English Remedy is in every way superior to any and all other Dreoarations for the Throat M. A- and Lungs. 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ABO TJT nUSBAXDS. There is one thing that a young woman who Has but recently gone and gotten herself married should be advised against: that is, any senti mental effusiveness upon conjugal happiness in the presence of women who have been wed some time, says a writer in the Atlanta Constitution. No matter how happily mated these dames may be they feel in duty bound to snub any expression of faith and contentment on the part of the bride of a few weeks. They like to tell little stories concerning the fidelity of implicity trusted hus bands, their fondness for night keys, club suppers, cards, their peculiar exactions, eccentricities and so forth. I chanced the other day to drop in upon a circle of these matrons when a two weeks' bride called. The sub ject of marriage was brought up,and the bride ventured to assert that it was not always a failure. Then there was an excessive shrug and a synical smile from her listen ers, one of whom said : "Ob, but you've only been married a short while. It's all very pretty now, if it would only last" "Well," hopefully, "it has lasted with my father and mother some twenty odd years." "It's an inheritance then. Why, I wish I'd inherited a peculiarity jf that kind from my parents." I think American women are more to be envied than any wives on earth," said anothor. "I had a riend who said she never knew what happiness was until she married an American. Her first husband was a Spaniard, who loved her madly, and her life was in danger from his jeal ousy, ine second man was an Englishman, so cold and selfish that she'd rather have had him kill her than live with him. The third was an American, neither warm nor cold. and he gave her as much money as she wanted and let her do as she pleased." "Now,that's my idea of happinessl" said a pretty young matron. "What could a woman want more than a plent of liberty and a plenty of money ? What is the jealous love of a Spaniard besides shekels and free dom?" "I don't believe in jealous hus bands," said a woman whose hus band might have been so with some cause. " ery jeaious men are apt to be selfish. They value jou not for . -W- 1 MM what you are. but for what you are estimated to be by others. Such men need a constant sumuiant to to their hffections." -m . i m l .1 A A "What sort of husbands do you all believe in ?" exclaimed the newly made matron desperately. "For my part" replied a careful matron with several daughters to marry, I should prefer a widower, well off and with no children, of course. He should be about forty years old, and must have been a de voted husband to his first wife. Such a man has lived over the vagar ies of youth. He has sowed wild oats, and anchored steadfastly his ship of love until it was blown away by the wind of eternity. He has known life's greatest joys and deep est sorrows. He knows how to ap preciate profoundly the love of a woman, and, having learned many lessons in woman-nature, he will neither be too exacting nor uncom prehending of her little fancies and foibles. But I'd rather have the first love of a man, even if it was exacting and even if we did not always un derstand each other. I should want to feel that I had been 'the first to share his hart and life." "I believe a widower of forty is preferable to a bachelor of the same age," said one who had reason to know. "People talk of its being better to be an old man's darling than a young man's slave, but I be lieve that the women who marry old bachelors are the worst slaves on earth. Then there are other objec tions besides unreasoning selffish ness to unmarried men from forty on. Such individuals seldom strike a happy man. They are either prudes or roues. If the formr, they are fixed in their prim, old-maidish habits ; if the latter, they have a past that will not bear investigation. "People are always talking of the horrow of marrying old maids, and I can't see why there isn't more said concerning the horror of marrying old batchelors men whose senti ment has generally soured, whos tastes and habit3 have settled into selfish narrow lives, who haTe lived so long without the companionship of women that they can't understand or enjoy their natures when they get married- Old bachelor husbands are crusty, suspicious everything that should cause the women who have wed them to be pitied."

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