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VOL III -NO. '20. RALEIGH, NORTH CAROLINA, SATURDAY, APRIL 22, 1854. . ' WHOLE NO, 124.
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. "THE YEAS.
blind, . ,.f ;, i
Vijapt in ,.he pres.?
future day ;
:ivi..
ly,1 we
j!d, a
i glfiift-.e behind;;
Anp Io! be!
Yer hasp
assed awav.
A kcar ! ah, more.
Who is there -ever knew
A long, long year j
o nas awky alone ?
Ask parents, children, friend a mourning few
And they will tell you who beside have gone.
A mighty crowd the Year takes in its train !
" Princes and peasants, rich, poor, high and low ;
"Faces the world will never see again ; .
And all are crone where all have yet to go.
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Spring, Summer, Autumn Winter, too have
. sped ; '
lAway with Time : yet will he them restore,
In his dull course ; but those who with them fled,
And made them joyous, shall return no more.
We'lifi our hands, and cry: "This time last
' ' . year !"
And wonder at the changes each can name ;
Alas! alas! naught unchanging here,
And this time "next year some must say the same.
This time" last year!' what a wide gulf thera
. ". .. seems, - j
' Within the mind, to lie 'twixt now and then t
What thoughts, what passions, feelings, actions,
dreams t
All past for ever ! ne'er to come again.
Who, ichfi is there, whom this returning day
Finds as it left him but a year ago ?
Who hathnot bowed him 'neath Time's mighty
"' sway,
Nor grieved o'er joys that'he no more may know
Perchance he strayed in some far-distant land,
Where nature spread around a different scene ;
With loved ones4 haply, forrned a social land,
Now, far away oh, manj amile between.
Perhaps capricious Fortune may have smiled,
. . And strewn herfairesi favors in his way.;'
While now, caressing some more favored child,
She leaves him to rude poverty a prey!
-
- Perhaps but why the doleful strain prolong ?
Fain from my soul all sadness would I cast,
And carol blithely forth a joyous song ;
. But 7o shall carol blithely of the Past.
Love, friendship all the sacred ties tnat bind
.'. Poor human hearts and hand in uuioirdear,
'. A.-V-'g, eternal re-ti- gplce may find
- Wi hii! that mighty sepulchre Last Year !,'
ORIGINAL STORY.'
' ' For the Southern Weekly Post.
- BENJAMIN FHOM HOME.
. , no in.
We left our cnsi.oUK't" in search. of " Mr.
B.-inmm'-V and as it was not very early iu tlie
lnoniiiig and he 'had eaten no brt-akfast, it is
quilt- r.-iihonabl to presume that he was' " hon
gry" aa'n, so hepitche'd forward with all speed,
tu.n.ed up Lihi-s!ret-t and reached the " Foun
tain." Ilei-f he stopped to enquire again "'ef
Mri Barnum lived there." ,
".No, sir," was the very polite answer, " you
go upio the next street, then turn down and go
till you reach the next corner, and then turn up
and a few steps' will bring you to. Barnum's."
'"Thankee, sir," said Benjamin, and off he
toddled.'
: - Before he had proceeded v ery far on his route,
however, he was arrested' very politely by a
vender of lottery tickets, and asked if he. did
not " wish to makea fortune." Now, this was
the very idea for Benjamin, for he hail always
thought if he could make a snug fortune, he
could walk over thwse town fellows rough shod,
and they would be just "no vvhar" -in Judy's
affections. Of course, then, he had not the
slightest idVa' of permuting so-' tempting an op
portunity as this to pass .unimproved,, and he
caught, at the bait as readily as a North Caro
lina " Chub," will catch at a live roach.
-: "Well, I rei-kon I shouldn't have no olj
tion, ..purv-ided you can show. me how I kt do
it," answered our traveller. .
. " Just walk in. sir," said t'te lottery man, "and
I will show you in two minutes." They went
into, the office 'and the oily tongue automaton
continued 'his soft .saudering. . "Many a man,
sir, has drawn a ..fortune in our lottery upon an
"investment ;f ten to one hundr.d dollars,' and
the chatieos arc ten v one in your favor : in
f:ict, sir, there can scarcely be a particle' of doubt
if you buy one of our tickets, that you will
draw, a prize' lie paused. Benjamin was
deeply interested and did not, make any reply,
and a third person who was standing in. the of
iice very .kindly took our hero to one side, and
whispering in a low un advised' him by all
mean to try his luck, "tor,'" said he, " a man
; very seldom fiiiJs. to draw a prize."
-"Benjamin was fan lv in tor it, so he walked
bold! v tin to the counter and drew out a ten. do!-
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lar bill; and wa in the, act of, throwing it down,
when all of a sudden it occurred to him that lie
ought to enquire how it w.is done.
" Look a here' mit r," said he, "how is this
here business managed.?
" Why you s-.e, sir." answered the ready ven
der, "'there is a efy large amount of money
to be divided anl given away, and in order that
even thing may be fairly and honestly done,
e:uh "man who buys a tick t comes in 'for a 1
-chance, and some of litem draw ' very large
sums. The 'sumsat.iat ,e receive for tickets are
put with the other, and all drawn out tog-ether;
here now, i& a drawing to oouie off the first of
SELECT POETRY
Jt oktiit:
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next month, in which-! one prize of seventy fife
thousand dollars f You stand an epual chance
f or that with anybody else, and there are: sever
al very large prizes beside?.."
" What's tickets worth ?" asked lenjatnin.
The tickets in this are worth $10 each;" an
answered the vender.
Give me a sure one, then, mister : here's the
niQney," said 'our hero throwing down the $10
bill on the couuter. i
The cunning vender selected a ticket and
banding it to Benjamin received the money and
asking where he should send the money in. case
thejicket drew a prize, told him he might "con
fidently look out," (we give the fellow credit for
taking no more.of Benjamin's-money.) ,In re
ply Benjamin told the vender ;
" You may send it too Mr. Barnum's ef it
comes before you see me agin. I'm a goin' too
put up there ef I ken find the place. Put a
wafer in .it, mister, and seal it up ef you
please."
" Certainly, sir, certainly, and if you. make
any stay in the city call round and see a we
hall always, be happy to see you."
' Well, now, that's perlite in you, mister, but
what did you say ? ef I made any what ?"
" If you remain in the city, sir "
" Well, mister, I'll come and; see you, ef I
ken find the way, ken you tell me which way it
is too Mr. Barnum's."
" Go right up to Baltimoie, down ; Baltf
more "
" Baltimore"' said Benjamin, in perfect amaze-,
ment.
" Why, mister, ain't h got to Baltimore,
yet?"
" No, sir, the next street is Baltimore street,
and then you turn down till you come to. a cross
street, and there you turn up, and a few steps
will bring you to Barnum's." j
" Thank, ee, sir," said Benjamin, starting out,
and wondering how there happened to bet so
many Baltimore's, or so man y places sticking a
long side of it.
As he was passing down the street he was
overtaken by a man who very kindly enquired
where he,was going. Benjami.j unhesitatingly
told him " to Mr. Barnum's," -whereupon -his
companion gave him some good advice and
kindly volunteered to show him the way.. Dur
ing their walk ths stranger a.-ked Benjamin; rf
he had a watch, and upon receiving a negative
answer proposed to sell him a fiie gojd repeater
for twenty-five dollars, which cost hiih one hun
dred, s
lie exhibited the watch, and telling Benja
min that he could not sell it so low, if he was
not very greatly iu ieed of money, asked the.
favor of him to adow him the privilege of re
deeming it at thirty dollars, oile week hence,
"and,'' said he, "if I do not pay you hack 6-30
one week from this day, the watch is to be yours
at the 25. My name is Jones, and I'll see you
at Barnum's."
' Benjamin , looked at the watch and thought
how Ire could " swell" at tiqpie, with a gold!
watch in his pocket, and how it would mortify1
the town dandies to see him pulling out a gold
watch to tell Judy the time o'day. He there
fore drew out his " pile" and handed the other
twen'iy-live dollarsand secretly determined that
the fellow shouldn't find -feim any more, and
therefore the watch should be his own property.
He fairly chuckled to himself, at the idea of out
witting the "city man," and having a "sure
enough gold watch," with a hundred dol
lars. - '
After proceeding a short distance our hero
missed his companion and turned round to look
for him. Several ladies were near him, and ho
approached them and asked
"Did vou see anything of Mr. Jones back
there a piece, m arm."
No answer, and the lady was passing on when
Benjamin caught her arm and was about to re
peat the question .
She screamed out, and " whap," went some
thing beside Benjamin's head, while be, poor
fellow, found himself fiat on the pavement in a
twinkling.
Opening his eyes he looked up and saw two
or three men standing over him, and he opened
on them at once
"Look a here fellows, I'm away from home,
and in a strange place, but I'll be drot ef I'm a
gwine to be knocked down in this Vr way, and
I ken whip the man as done it, ef he'll dare to
show his drotted pictter."
" What do you mean, sir," said one of the
bystanders, " by insulting ladies in the streets ?"
" Insult ladies !" said Benjamin, " its a con
sarned lie, sir. I would'nt insult nobody. I
only wanted to git one o' them gals too tell me
whar Mr. Jones was and she' hollered, when I
did'nt havetno more harm agin her than I had
agin myself, and some consarned fool stole up
and hit me." Benjamin had risen to his feet
and continued : "and now, sir, let the man as
hit. me step up and say he done it and 1'il give
him a rale North Carolina 'lectioh tannin' that
he'll remember."
The crowd dispersed without any more quar
relling and Benjamin worked himself down in
to a good humor again, and walked on but
determineu to keep-out of difficulties for the
future as he was in a strange place. Just then
he espied something like a painted man stand-
! ing at a door just ahead of him and he stopped
and took a good Iok at it, and concluding that
it would not be altogether safe, to go too near
it turned out into the carriage way, and walked
down the middle of the street, keeping his eye
intently fixed on the thing till "all of a sudden.
some one cried out "wo, hold on there misten
or one of us will run over the other," and look-
ing round Benjamin discovered himself almost
under a pair of horses, while the carriage pole J
had risen so high, by their pulling back, that it I
knocked off our hero's hat. Benjamin made a
retrograde spring and lit just in front of the
Fell's Point Omnibus, which was passing at the
time, and would have,, juiiutabJyruu over and
crushed him beneath its wheels, hut for the
crowded state of the street just at that moment
which prevented the omnibus from proceeding
out of a very slow gait and thus rendering it an
easy matter to come to an instantaneous halt.
Benjamin picked up his hat and hanging on to
his "saddle-bags," got out of the way and beg
ged the first man he saw to show him the way
to " Barnum's." " Yes, sir," answered the fel
low who happened to be a hack driver, "just
.....! .1.1.1 1 TIM .1
step in me nacK ana i it taKO you mere in a
minute.".
Our hero got in, the. door was closed, the dri
ver mounfed the box, the omnibus started, and,
almost immediately, stopped, for it was only
about fifty yards from the hotel when Benja
min entered it. He now got out and turning
to the fellow said :
" Mister, is this ere reat big house Mister
Batnum's ? "
" Yes, sir." . ....
" Well, Mister, I'm a thousand times ableeg-
ed to you, and ef you ever happens in North
Carolina you must come too see, .usr mather'll be
mghiyglad to see you, and I'll lake you round
to see the gals. Wont you come in and take a
drink." v .. . . .
" No, I thank you, sir, I never .drink any
thing." , - - . .
"Well, good day to you, calkand se me."
" You hav'nt pail your fare, sir." K.
"Fare! The dickens I .hain't.. Why sir, its
j-est what did. do, and J. expected nothin' else
all the time the. tellers was tearin'up my receipt
but what they was plottin': to .make me pay
agin. Now, look a here mister, rdueem to
be a purtv good sort of a feller and right clev
er, and I hope you'll not jine- with, them fellers
in imposin' pn a stranger, for l'll swar I paid my
wav clean through - .. ........
" I'm not speaking of your railroad- fere, sit,
but . your hack fare," saidlha other, .,
" Hack .fare !'.' said .our. traveler, ",what in
thunder's that ".
""li.KU, sir, is.w hat you owe me for bringing
you to the Hot!.". .
." Fur .bringin., nj.e,. Iqq the hotel! Why,
mister, it. was, riglit clever in you. to bring me,
but then I did'nt think was goin' to charge
me fur it as I did'nt ride tjie.4ength of my fin-
.eV: 'liar ly, ho whomever,,. X wpnt bo stingy, so
here's three Cp you,, may hitse." ..-.
" Fifty cents, sir," said vhe other.
. " Filty what.?.: v.
" Ffty cents, si r.'H- -
" W hat 'n thunder fur ?" , , .
"Twety fiye for yourself , and twenty-five for j
your bigMge. ..
" Whew ' well, that does beat.. ;. Twenty-five
cents for brjing a feljer ten stepsand twenty
tive njorftihis baggage -but aint got'no
" What is that on your. arm ?"
" AVell, you is green. Wrby, mister, them's
saddlebags saddlebags, not baggage. Whar
ware you raised ? I thought every body knowed
what saddlebags was;, and as fur the twenty
five cents for me, I b'lieve I'd about as soon
walk, and so ef youTl carry me back, whar you
found mc I'll walk."
" I must have my money, sir; if you do not
pay me 1 shall take you before the Mayor."
" I'd like to see you do it, and besides, sir, I
ain't afraid of your mare, before nor behind,
nuther, I kin bite and kick as . well as she if
that's what you're up to, and I 'aint afraid of
you nuther," and he started into the house, but
turning round he said in a louder key, but
took a here mister, I ain't done with you about
insultin' me. I kin whip a whole courthouse
full of sich fellers as you is, and ef I ever ketch
you out of this here town I'll pay you that half
a dollar in genniwine North Carolina 'lection cur
rency," and shaking his fist at the fellow Ben
jamin walked into the -'hotel while the other,
somewhat alarmed, mounted his box and has
tily put out.
Benjamin walked up to the first man he saw,
who was the porter, and bowing he said:
"good mornin' too you Mister Barnum, how do
you do and how is your wife and child'n and
your mother ? I'm not a married man, but I've
got a mother and she's right well I thank you."
" Mr. Barnum's at the office," said the aston
ished Porter.
" Well, w here 'u thunder's that ?" asked Ben-
j jnmin. " I nver see sich a tamal place in my
life, and i; it warn't fur that seventy-five thou
sand dollars, I'm too get, I'd turn rite roun' and
go back home." 1
" Walk this way, sir," said the now polite
Porter, and leading him to the office, the Port
er called Mr. B. aside and whispered something
in his earabout " seventy-five thousand dollars,"
which made that gentleman equally polite.
Turning round the Register book, the cferk
offered Benjamin a pen, but the latter thanked
him and told him he "did'nt have no objection
to given' souiethin' purvided 'twas fur a good
thing," but he had ".swore out agin all subscrip
tion?." " Your name, sir," said the Clerk bending
down as if to write.
"My narne's Benjamin, but you needn't put
il down there, if 1 ,give anything I'll do it -when
I git reddy, but I'm all fired hongry, and ain't
ate a mouthful to-day."
"What will you have, sir ?"
" Well, I'll try a fourpenee worth of meat and
collards no, I wont take collards, jest meat so,
and some bread, ef that aint enongh I kin vet
more.
" We don't sell provisions, sir ; we charge
two dollars a day for board and feed our,guests
on the best we have."
"Two dollars a day! WJiew, well, that does
beat. Why, Mr. Barnum, you'd break a feller
in a little while. I'm a long ways from home,
arid aint got no great sight o' money, and I'd
be mighty glad ef you could do a little better
for me ; I'll stay some time ef you don't cha-ge
too much."
" Regular price, sir, can't deduct," said the
clerk. i -
" 'Spose a feller don't eat but twice a day,
how then ?"
" No difference, sir, he can eat if he chooses
or let it alone, we charge one price to all."
" Why, mister Barnum, I reckon mother'd
board a feller a whole month for two dol
lars." Provisions are cheap iq your neighborhood,
I guess, sir."
" Well I don't know as they is,"
" Will'you take a room, sir ?"
" No, I want somethiur to eat, give me jest
anything you please."
Benjamin was conducted to a room where he
might wash and dress himself, previous to going
into i he breakfast room.
A very genteel white waiter brought him a
pitcher of water, and asking for his boots received
them and went out, but returned in a few se
conds to the 'utter astonishment of Benjamin,
with the boots shilling like glass.
" See here, mister," said Benjamin, " how did
you do that so quick ? Why it takes me a full
quarter of an hour to make em shine, and then
they don't shine nothin' like that."
" Patent blacking, sir, anda good brush."
"Patent what?"
' " Blacking, sir 2" -:
"That's hit, is it. I don't put nothin' on em
at home, but giease," a'hd Benjamin commenced
fumbling in his. saddlebags forclean " rigging,"
and the waiter left the rooin.
In due time Benjamin was ready for-break-fastand
he began to wonder whether he mustgo
to braakfast, or wait for breakfast to come to lnm.
He sat still in his. room for some time, trill final
ly he concluded he would go , down and .i6ee
" Mr. Bafnuro" about, it, so opening the door he
walked ont. with his saddlebags on his aim
Now our friend was-''not accustomed to siich
" ail-fired big. houses," and he walked about for
some time without being able-to find the office.
At last he cdaciuded to go back to ii is room
and wait tilL.sonia one came : so, retracing. .his
steps he, pretty soon came to a doorprexisely
like the one. he had shut on leavjngyhis room,
so. without hesitation he opened it and walked
in, but drew-back in a moment having discover
ed a lady seated by the fire engaged in iat in
teresting occupation of corabing.her long glossy
hair. She was on the eve of screaming out, but
our hero left so suddenly, that she did not have
time, and she came to the very correct conclu
sion that the intruder had only made au inno
cent mistake in looking for his own room. Ben jamin,
however, wa perfectly bewildered, and
knew not what to do, but kept walking till, ere
long, he espied a man at the further end of the co
lonnade and hailed, him, but, alas, not loud
enough to be heard : the man turned a corner,
and when Benjamin reached the spot, was no
where to be seen.
Benjamin took a seat and inwardly swore if
he could get out, he would go right back home.
Some one just at this moment passed him, and
he followed, but unfortunately for, Benjamin,
the man was going the wrong way, for after pro
ceeding for some time he entered a room and
closed the, door, eyeing our hero very suspicious
ly. Benjamin turned round and discovered
another person walking in the opposite direc
tion and smoking a cigar, so he concluded to
follow him. lie did so, and after descending
several flights of stairs, the gentleman entered a
small room and closed the door. Benjamin
did'nt know what to make of it, but walked on
till he discovered an opening ahead of him, and
sure enough it turned out to be one, and he de
termined to go to the depot at once and take
tbe cars. He came to another conclusion,
which was, that he would ride, so he asked
a man who was passing, where he could get a
carriage. " Go right through this ally, sir, and
you will see plenty of them on the. street."
Benjamin followed the directions that were
given him, and after a while struck a bargain
with a hackman to carry him to the railroad
for twenty-five cents. He landed there, paid
the hackman and got aboard of the cars just as
they were about starting.
The cars wre drawn by horses about a mile,
but that was soon traveled over, and then the
locomotive was attached, the whistle sounded
and away they went, and Benjamin felt relieved
at the idea of soon again being at home. Poor
fellow, it never once occurred to him that there
were two railroads starting from precisely the
same place, running in contrary directions, and
in his case ignorance was certainly present bliss
though L cannot say that wisdom would have
been folly. He had reached the depot just in
time to take one of the Philadelphia trains and
was leaving home as fast as steam could carry
him. The Conductor came round in due time
totibHevt tickets.
" I haint got no ticket," said Benjamin.
" "Where are you going, sir ?"
" Home, by jings ! I'm done with yer blas
ted etarnal Baltimore where a feller can't find
nothin' nor himself nuther."
" Yes, sir ; but where is home ?"
" I lives at Raccoon Range in North Ca'li
na, and lives with mother and Caleb and -"
" But, sir, you took the wrong train and ev
ery turn of the -wheel is putting you farther
from' home "
" Thunder and lightnin' ! Well, I'm gwine
back, whar's my saddlebags ?" and our hero
started out, but the Conductor warned him of
the danger of getting of the cars while they
were in motion, and that they would soon ar
rive at Philadelphia.
"Filly what?" asked Benjamin in amaze
ment.
"Philadelphia, sir," was the reply.
" And what sort of a Filly is she?"
" She is a large city, sir ; but I want your
fare."
" My what ?"
" Y'our pay for riding, it is four dollars, sir.
" Gingo blazes ! Why, mister, drat my pic
tur ef I knowed I was goin thar, and I did'nt
want to go no way."
" Well, well, I'll see you directly," saying
which the good natured conductor walked on
and was nearlyr out of reach when Benjamin
twitching his coat tail stopped him ; " Mister,'
said he, " kin you tell me what they'll charge
a feller fur eatin' and slecpin' and so on, up
thar whar we're goin' too, cause I'm nigh on
out o' money, I kin tell you."
"I'll see you directly, sir," and away he
went.
A future letter shall give you further account:
of Benjamin's progress.
' AC THORN LY'.
MISCELLANEOUS..
From the Newark Sentinel.
BACHELORS.
Oh, Plato ! Plato! you have paved the war
With your confounded fantasies, . to more
Immoral conduct by the fancied sway,
"Vour system feigns o'er the controlless core
:Of human hearts, than all the long arraj
; Of,ppets andjomancers. ..; :t Btbox.
Perhaps Lord Byron is right, Plato and-my-
self in error. Perhaps we have espoused a false
philosophy, and as disciples of that great leader,
are destined soon to see it universally rejected.
But. a$'' yet its fallacy has heen nowhere satisfac
torily exhibited neither haVe sufficient induce
ments been found to tempt us to renounce the
doctrines in which, as it were, we have been
born and hred. I speak in behalf of the entire
sect of our philosophers throughout the world,
and affirm that thus we choose to live and spend
our days. Our ethics have become so interwo
ven with our habits, and manner of living, that
it has become part of our very being, and as
soon should we think to relinquish life itself, as
the theories we have thus cordially embraced
So;me declare our creed entirely false, and the
espousers insincere : but I know not one who
wotild not gladly defend his faith, and prove, if j
words and arguments can prove, the firmness of !
his belief. Others pronounce the whole a whim
and a delusion ; if a whim, how delightful, and
if a delusion, how sweet. -
Shall I give a few of the many reasons for our
belief, and some of the admirable characteristics
of our sect ? .
Our happiness in the first place, depends im
measurably on this belief, and therefore we ar
led to the practice. The prime elements of
earthly joys exist not so much in the great re
sults as the little causes. The little things are
those that mar our pleasure, and dampen all
our aspirations.
The little repeated anoyances injure the dis
position and crush tlie spirits far more than the
great strokes which surround one with a theory
of sympathizing friends. In the loss of proper
ty, others may share our regrets nnd minister
to our wants, but in home troubles it is only
given to endure with quiet meekness. A meek
ness that ill becomes the noble spirit of a man,
and testifies that much which is manly has been
already lost.
Poets are wont to sing of the sweets of con
nubial bliss, and seek to win us with their gid
dy measures. But many would be better enter
tained should they invoke their muse to tell a
bachelor's reveries. Misery loves company, and
methinks not a few have found ere this, that all
is not poetry that rhymes.
How pleasant, when the toils of the day are
over to retire to one's own room, to enjoy the
companionship of those immortal minds whichj
inlay his walls, each with its silent title beckon
ing him to search its leaves for knowledge.
How pure and elevating the society ! With
the opening door, no long list of wants, ever
prefaced " My Dear" no tales of faithless and
insulting servants, or reproof for unfulfilled re
quests greet his ear, no half a dozen little pro
genies to mount his knees, and rack his weary
frame, but he finds in his own retreat, a quiet
and repose from the cumbering cares of this
noisy and bustling world. He is lord of his
own body, soul and domains. No other half,
who holds a mortgage on all these, enquires,
"Why do ye so ?" Believe me, men are happy
when thus undisturbed they have their own
way ; when they can give themselves to their
own thoughts and disposition. No effeminate
intruder then disturbshe meditations, or bois-
trous children dissipate the half-wrought idea.
Of what I have, however small it be 111 hold
an undisputed sway. My books and papers,
what and how many I may please, surround
me. There is no one whom I fear will molest
them ; no urchins from whose fingers I must
save my leaves and inkstand; none, who for
ooks, delights to hide my slippers, boots or ra
zors. All as 1 lett are handy. 1 am my own
man and not another's. I eat as I please, drink
as I please, sit as I please, smoke as I please,
read as I please, sleep and wake as I please.
Now tell me, all ye lords of womankind, is it
not much more agreeable, thus to be lord of
oneself, untramelled by the apron strings ?
" Connubial bliss," is but another name for
Tsntalus. Great pleasure is the tempting draft
it proffers, but as you extend the hand tke nec
tarine cup recedes, and the grating teeth, not
words, tell of the bitter disappointment. Man
may forevr after rue the day he sought those
joys, but in vain : he speaks it not, and finds
no kindred mind to share his afflictions, save
in our sect, to whom pride will not permit to
go. Short bliss ! Who ever heard a man sing
sweet, sweet home, after a marriage of half do
zen years ? By the doctrines of our sect, man
preserves his birth-right, freedom and indepen
dence, y.
" I don't choose to say much upon this head
I'm a plain man, and in a single station ;
But, oh! ye lords of ladies' intellectual
Inform us truly, have they not hen-pecked you all ?"
Perhaps now and then one has yoked him
self to so fair and fascinating a damsel that he
chooses to sacrifice to her all independence, and
to be controlled by her he styles the " best of
wives." 'Tis possible there may be one such ;
but it would he easier to find scores of those
who would most gladly free themselves from
the galling yoke.
It is alarming to look about and see how uni
versal the fair sex reigns. You can hardly find
-J
one in a thousand who is wholly exempt from
their dominion. Men think and talk and dress
to please them ; and what do they receive ?
Perchance a pretty look, a fawning smile, a kiss,
a hand, perhaps a heart. And then what has
he trot ? A fret a scold a call her what
name you will, she looks not very nice. Each
sex please the other until the nuptial knot is
tied, and then they care little for their persons.
It is proverbially true of woman, that she be
comes too negligent of dress, and seeks much
less to please her husband than her lover.
The theory of Piato would prevent these evils
and make life but a " wooing honev-inoon," as
lovers say. -
" Have they not hen-pecked you all ?" "Wo
men rule us now. Let her not then seek a more
despotic sceptre, leSt in taking what she cannot
hold, she lose what she already has. How
strange a creature is w omah ! How pretty she
1 can be if pleased ; but cross her and she is fro-
ward, ill-natured andassuming; sometimes
whines, at others rails ;:-now swoons away, now
comes to life ; sometime is dumb, at others
has a most oily tongue,' a full vocabulary of
words, and powers of speech enough to drive
one mad. To argue with' her all men are like
Don Alfonso
' He gained no points, except Borne self-rebukes,
Added to those his lady with such vigor
Had poured upon him for the l5st half hour,'
Quick, thick and heavy as a thunder shower."
How oft she makes man sin. She asks so
many questions, who could help it ? " My dear,
where shall I say-you have gone ?" " "Well, tell
them so and so." All true ? " But why so
late to-night, my dear ?" " Oh ! husiness de
tained me, love." He did not lie! Certainly
not. She needed not to ask, however.
Think of this, oh, ye Bachelors ! of giving ac
count of all your deeds, your words and ways;
think of it and weep for th4. thraldom of your
fellow-men ; but rejoice the more that your lot
is a freedom from babies and broomsticks, and
your portion the joys if " single blessedness."
The espousers of the Platonic philosophy,
though they do not cairy it out to the greatest
extreme, are wantonly accused of lack of gal
lantry and esteem for the opposite sex. I know,
however, no cause for this accusation, except it
be that they suffer not themselves to be capti
vated by the small ankles, the round neck and
the fair cheeks of some giddy school-girl ; ex
cept it be that they pledge themselves to endure
the tongues of many, instead of one woman, and
to be the gossipping theme for many, rather
than for that one eventful year. No one, bet
ter than they, appreciates the beauty of female
character, form and loveliness. No one expe
riences more pleasure in the society of ladies, or
estimates it more highly than do they. They
reckon it an accomplishment without which
one's education is irrcomplete. I have seen pro
fessional men, of good mind and talents, inada
the butt of ridicule because of the lack of this
one essential.' The Bachelor admires ladies in
the concrete, other men in the abstract ; he can
esteem their society in the mass, others that of
only one. ,
Besides the characteristics of our sect, which I
have endeavoured to interweave in the above re
marks, we make some boast of our antiquity.
Years before the Christian era saw our existence,
and the present beholds us prosperous as the
past. As formerly, so to-day, you will find us i
all true men. Each holds an open hand to all
earth's needy sons. Each has a jovial soul, free i
as the mountain air, and within each bosomN
beats a noble heart, large as benevolence and,:
love to mankind can swell it Jay. I
Socth Orange, 1854. . t
44 Honest industry is always rewarded." Then j
be not slothful in any thing yott do honestly.
RELICS. I
Im a recent number of the Gentleman's Ma
gazine, we find, an interesting article upon the
subject! of relics. The article is suggested jby
the fact that a few months since. Aix la Cna
pelle received nearly seventy thousand pilgrips
in a single day, to view a famous collection' of
relics there exhibited, relics renowned alike for
their sanctity and venerable antiquity. ! The
writer says that the original object of relics Un
doubtedly was simply (to preserve the memories
of holy people, and by the enjoined veneration
of fragments of their clothing, bones or hair,
to increase our love towards the heroes of Ithe
faith. But this sort of hone.' however harmless
in its origin, soon degenerated into a regitlar
system of gainful traffic. The relics were not
suffered- long to remain passive memorials of
mortality, but were called upon to prove their
authenticity by a series of wonders greatlyjex
ceeding those performed by . the saints them
selves during their lives ; and it was their reputed
miraculous power which constituted the standard
of their value. They were made advertisements
of monasteries and churches, and the source of
ample revenues. Active rivalry was of course
the result of this system, and if by chance any
church obtained a relic of: unusual power,j ri
val was sure to appear soop in its neighborhood.
Even this was enough ; sometimes the posses
sion of the same relic would be claimed in Seve
ral diffen nt places at one'time.
Itinerant friars were in the habit of wander
inar about and gathering money by the ( Ihibi-
tion , of relics. So singularly contorted
i
were
heft
than
people's minds upon this subject that thej
of a relic was considered rather honorable!
otherwise, if done with the pioas purpose of
enriching some other church or shrine. Ob one
occasion a Franciscan monk by the name of
Wintha, stole the nuptial ring of St. Joseph, at
Chiusi, with the intention of bearing it jth his
native country. On his road thither a sudden
darkuess enveloped him, so that he coull not
travel. He was struck with penitence, and! hung
the ring upon a tree, and confessed his siliis be
fore it, when it immediately , emitted a! great
igh-t. He subsequently bestowed the risg up
on the inhabitants of Perusia. A controversy
then arose between the Chiusiaus and the Peru-
sians as to its ownership. Tbe Perusians, al
though they acknowledged it was stolen, decla
red; that they respected it too much to part with
it, and would defend it by force of arms. It
was allowed to remain In their possession, and
the body of "Wintha, the thief, was alter his
death interred with the highest honors before
the! tomb of St. Joseph and Mary.. I
The relies of th Virgin Mary are so numer
ous that a volume would be required to describe
them. Every imaginable article of femaje clo
thing is exhibited in divers places as sl holy re
lic of the Virgin. In Rome there are now eight
gowns which are regarded with special genera
tion as having been worn by her. In France
there ate at least a half a dozen; in Spawn two;
and in other parts of Europe manyothersj which
if less known, are at least equally authentic.
The hair of our lady may be seen in a great .
number of places : and curiously enough, almost
every tress is of a different color from thejothers.
It, has been said indeed that some of her hair
was so fine as to be invisible ; and as a jmonk
was showing this, with other relics, a peasant
said . ' j
' " Reverened father, I do not see the holy
hair." . fr '
I "I well believe it," replied the jmonk; "I
have showed it for 20 years and have neferseen
it myself." j' j
I The decapitated head ofcsJohn tUg Baptist is
another famous relic. In the fifth .centuryj there
were two acknowledged heaoV'of the jlaptfst
in Thenicle, and the Greeks instituted a fete to
the two heads a convincing proof of their faith.
Subsequently a head at Amiens acquired great
celebrity as the true head. One of the proofs
m its favor was the mark of a wound under the
rieye, given by Herodias with a knife. Twelve
heads in a tolerable perfect condition, can now
be counted, and besides these there are; numer
ous large and important fragments of the skull.
There are no less than seven extra jawsj in vari
oub parts of Christendom. The finger, of St.
John, which was said to have heen saved from
the cinders of the burnt hody, was kept in a
church at Normandy. A devout young man of
Lower BrittaDy visited it, and the fipjer un
known, slipped into the 6leeve of hi co&t. A
supernatural power drew him towards'has native
country. As he passed through a town, the
hells rang joyfully, and the trees bowed in ho-
mage. lie was seizeu as a sorcerer, aau iuipn-
soned. The next morning he awoke near a
fountain in his native village. He hurried to
the Chapel of St. Meridee, and the finger imme
diately left his sleeve and placed itself pon the
altar. Tbe tapers were instantly lighted by an
invisible hand, and the people who were present
prostrated themselves in prayer. It Was said
the finger would never leave the churchy The
vassals of Henry VIL stole it on. one occa
sion, but.it left them and returned of ts own
accord. ' ' I I
The nails which fastened the pieces, of the
cross togother, were,1t is said, three in pumber.
One of them was cast into the sea, and the
other two have multiplied immensel3. This
fact of their multiplication is accounted for in
various ways. .One way, for example, which
may give a tolerable hint of the mode of making '
relics, was to touch similar nails with; it, and
distribute them as genuine. .Sir Charles Bor
rcmeo, an enlightened prelate, and of the most
scrupulous exactness in regard to relies, had