I t Page 12-The Chronicle-Saturday,November 4,1978 t ' = KTl Get1 \ > Ale ar-ai. 1L . James P. Comer |Al>in F. Poussalnt and ; with boys, she may have James P. Comer are generalized the negative psychiatrists and the feelings that she has toauthors of the book "Black ward her father and now Child Care." Dr. BiiiiH extends them tnwafri -al? ?. mm* iivn IrfTnfcfeV* 'ft1 "rt^TcV^'^ca^"^" dean for student affairs at rusted or if they 'will abanHarvard Medtnl firKnnl don hpr aoai n Ynnr Dr. Comer Is professor of daughter's hostile behavior child psychiatry and asso- allows her to put distance elate dean for student between your blaclr male Mfalrs at Yale University friends and herself. This School of Medicine.[ could mean she is afraid of Dear Doctors: Mv 12 year liking a black male herself, old daughter seems to re- Another matter to consent men, particularly Black sider is whether your after my .daughter was by your male friends who bornj my husband and 1 got she feels will take YOU divorced. "He moved to away from her. In other another city and has not words, she may fear that if had any contact _with his you become romantically daughter since then. Mr involved with one of these CX-husband and I are black, men, she will be left out or she will become second in I have never said any- your life. Therefore, in her Aftag to make my daughter own way, she may be trying disrespect black men. to discourage you from When I have my male such relationships. friends over to the house, Her statement, "Black - she is often hostile. She men ain't no good," may " once said, "Bla<*k men ain't just be a smoke screen. no good," and we got into a Your daughter is likely to Dig ngnt ~ wnat dcr yoir oecome resentful of any? make of this? man that you become inJ.R., Chicago terested in, regardless of Dear J.R.: There several his race. matters to consider. First, This, situation demands your daughter may be har- that you sit down and have boring long-standing a long talk with your feelings of rejection and daughter, not only about abandonment. Since her her feelings but also her * father has not accepted the fears. role of father, he has in- * * * deed abandoned her. So she is hurt and resentful. Dear Doctors: My 21 year Now that she is reaching old neighbor was recently . adolescence and probably raped by a black man. She thinking about her future refused to report the inci| You can still I la winner at El Our big drawing is still going on for I'N LAS VEGAS You may be a winne Idrawing will be at Carolina Circle M< IaIso check out these low prices. The H these savings. At KELLY'S , you gotta Ifcztsi mitsubi SL 25 Watte p?r Channc F^^^Spac^Savin^^l I Super Bright Console Matrix Picture Tabe Now 0n|y I Energy-Saving I Solid State I Chaasis with trade If rzM Accurately m4 I tuned ^or t I V ting Dr. Alvin F. Poussaint^f ' dent to the police because men are usually given long she said that.the police are prison sentences and often not interested when a black a "'death sentence. woman gets raped and that This double standard of they don*t dor~ anything-j.ttatice Has put -- bhrck" abou*4t-. With her attitude. vsiomen- in?a.?position- of ??[)!?!, "WHI '66 rtlBBIHg1 around loose in the 8e*s *or the white or black neighborhood and all^of us rapist. Black women are will be endangered. How ?raped at three to four times can I convince her to do ra*e that white women something about it? ? are sexually assaulted. M.L.' Indiana" ~ But 1 a?ree wi,h Vou- If the black community wants Dear ML.: Your t0 eliminate raP'sts. black neighbor is echoing an^0 " mJdst rePort the attitude that is commonly t"c,"ents demand that shared by btack-women thf> rnmlnals be P^sued. who have been taped. Ne.ghborhood organiMany black women have za,,ons must Participate in said that when they re- this effort so that individual ported the rape to the victims do not feel lliey a.e police, the police seemed -ln8 ?!one' either indifferent or they ln most eities there are made demeaning raPe crisis cen,ers' staffed comments which implied *5 * who are sens.that the women were not ,,ve and helPful t0 women raped at all. White women ho have been raPed' Per' experience similar en- haPs y?u ean su8?est ,hat counters when reporting your nei8hbor 8? t0 such a incidents of rape to the cen,er If y?u offer ,0 _ aennmnonu KOP HAM ponce, Put to a much lesser 4*W1 ""V uc , , . giving her the support that degree than black women & e ?- r she needs ~ to follow ? Historically, 61 ack . . .. , If there is no rape crisis women were entirely un- K protected and white men center. y?ur immunity could rape them without ,0 wh,cfl m,nor,t? women any fear of punishment, have easy access, get in Some black men feel the AMJU _ ^ I _ ^ d ^ * ** P rONTAC ;AA $1 17 I ' Jfrtk* * | ^ c re.h^EFW 77c "fflft CONTAC Nirt|>s ? 77C ?lUl % | 17 ?_ ? '':''''Zr'keuM& our own ^^ ^^ ^ Available At All Koymld Mom 1b Whuton-SalMi A High Point EC BARNES ralbusinessman and new In politics. However, as one farm, he Is not new to hard work. He has worked with he physically and mentally handicapped, and children >ast president of the Stratford Klwanls Club, he was ! second all-girl "Circle K" In the nation at Salem College. iriner, and a member of the American Legion. about the issues and concerns of the people and is willing I TIME! His main concerns are the NEEDS OF THE - >F INSURANCE RATES? EDUCATION?and TAXES! FTFTI39?R.l. HOUbt | imittee to Elect "Dick Barnes" FULL BASEMENT IN TRY CLUB ROAD STONEWALL I 1 ^ Assumption Only. k sale. 3Bedrcx>ms, As Clean As A Pin. Large Private Carpet, & you can Fenced-in Back Yard, Central Air >vn exterior colors, ' Huge Bath, Plus More. ents. $28,000 $30,900 ike and Golf Course Serenity is the Name of this ainment Area, Dream. , Country and Quietude yet convenient to the city. , $42,900 M COME TRUE