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Happy Birthday, Mi
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make the time to drive your BMW "across our black
town?" Lord, what will your white friends ed this w
think?!? his hand
Well, who cares what they think?!? We that hav<
as a people must come to the realization bank. Nc
that NO ONE can save us from us, or for , he had 1(
us, but us! Supporting Mechanics and approxirc
Farmers is supporting the economic viabili- congrega
ty of our community. So, come on y'all, the sense
get with it!! considera
Perhaps most disheartening, though, is Farmers.
^The^piliful, pathetic record of support by I don't
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NAOMI BUI
McLEAN ^
Someone has said:
"People who have patience are contented people. They
will never become nervous wrecks or develop an illness
over small matters. They do not hurry through their daily
lives trying toget everything done and then accomplishing
nothing. They do not consider waiting a
* necessary evil."
How-different people pass their time while they are
waiting is interesting to note; their actions depend mainly
on what they are waiting for and, of course, how long
they have been waiting.
It seems that some people become nervous when they
have to wait for any length of time. They begin to pace
the floor or to drum their fingers or even mutter to
tnemselves. But this is not true of all people. There are
those who are quite calm and relaxed while they await the
arrival of their dinner partner or their waiter to serve
them at a restaurant. They do not become annoyed when
a friend is late for an appointment. If they cannot be
waited upon immediately in a store, they will simply smile
at the sales clerk and of course, allow her to finish with
another customer.
But...what about the man who has his automobile
double-parked in front of a department store where his
wife is shopping? He is impatient. Lighting a cigarette, he
will glance nervously at his watch and keep a sharp eye
out for a policeman who might give him a ticket. He
might drum fingers impatiently on the steering wheel or
try 10 get interested in a newspaper article.
Really, the poor man doesn't know whether to circle
the block or to take a chance on staying where he is. If he
drives around the block, he might get caught in traffic.
Too, his wife may come out of the store and have to hold
heavy packages as she waits for him, getting more annoyed
a* the time goes by. . ^ y,.
# Yet, if he stays where he is, he will probably tie up traffic
and be the object of disdainful looks from other
drivers. Also, the risk of getting a ticket is involved.
Next, we have the restless patients who are waiting to
see the doctor. The woman sitting near the door tries to
quiet her little boy who is passing the time by tearing up
magazines. The coughing of an elderly man bothers
another woman, and she attempts to drown out the
sound by rattling the pages of the paper she is reading.
Thciratiem^are annoyed at having4<^waiHind complain
to one another.
Soon, the nurse ^sks for the next patient. Usually the
woman who has been most impatient will be the one who
is very disturbed if the doctor appears to be rushing
through her visit.
So, we spend a good deal of our lives waiting. We wait
for summer vacations or some special occasion or a
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seen in years. Children, of course, are always looking forward
to something. They anxiously await birthday parties,
the annual trip to the circus, and especially the
holidays when they receive gifts.
In a summary, most of the time we are waiting for
something.
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so explore each one until
you are satisfied you can get f
the full benefit of martial | ; |M>u{d f|fce f
arts training. win*on-Sale
Expense may be a pro- my mubacriptl
blem, but usually YMCAs
are not too expensive, and Name
there's always the option of ! Address
getting a book from the I p..
library to familiarize | ^
yourself with the art itself. *
Having a black belt in ! Enclomed pU
karate or a black or red sash I for amoa
in Kung Fu is the ultimate I ?Hrr-<
goal, but in terms of the? a ?1
Kail i
mama] aris as a stress
management tool, neither is
a must. The most important I
goal in stress management I ^
would be to reduce the I ^
amount of physiological
and psychological stress on I wmt*%
the self. I E?
Remember, restoring the
body-mind flow is the goal I w W Tm *
in all stress-reduction pro- I WWllJStOH
^ grams.
To flow with the Yin and
Yang
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; churches. Brother White inforr
riter that to date, he can count <
s the number of black church
; opened main accounts with tl
>w, the last time I saw Mel Whit
) fingers, which means that out
lately 150 predominantly bla<
tions, less than 8 percent have h<
of responsibility to deposit the
ble resources with Mechanics ar
mean "no harm." but 1 am ce
Dr. Charles Fa
Body L:
Guide 1
Did you know that your
behavior can indicate what
you~are thinking? Often,?
your body may be a better,
more accurate guide to your ~~
feelings and emotions than
anything you say. A person
can look at you and often
know exactly what your
mood is.
This way of communicating?with?your?
behavior Is sometimes called
"body language." Body
language is not a science
and the same behavior of two
people does not always
mean the same thing.
However, you can use
behavior as a general guide
to a person's personality.
The face is the most obvious
indicator of feelings.
Wide-open eyes usually indicate
fear or hostility.
When the teeth are tightly
clenched and the eyebrows
wrinkle, you can be certain
that the subject is angry.
Did you ever notice that a
person who wants to ignore
you, and wants you to
know it, often turns his or
her head away from you
and stares down- at the
ground? A wrinkled
forehead and a slight frown
usually provide very convincing
evidence that your
presence is not desired.
The "Dictionary of Body
Language" is broad and interesting.
Some of the
vocabulary follows. (Some
of this information is taken
from the book "How To
D ?? A A n * ' *
rvvau n I~CISUI1 L1KC /V
Book" ? by Gerald
Nicrcnberg and Henry
Calero):
Antagonism, hostility,
anger and rebellion are inCKOU1
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dicated by a tight jaw.?
Guilt and discornfort are
indicaied by a failure to~
look into a person's eyes
when being spoken to7
Defensiveness, aggressiveness
or hostility
are indicated by severe
and continued eye contact.
Defensiveness and insecurity
are indicated by
crossed legs, rigid bodys?
crossed arms, clenched
fist, the inability to look
one in the eye when talking
or the leg over a chair
with the back partially
turned to the other person.
Relaxation, security and
- rapport are indicated by
uncrossed legs, attentive
facial look, uncrossed
arms and exposure of the
palms of the hand.
Extreme insecurity is indicated
bv a squeezing of
the fist, or grasping of the
armc
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Boredom is indicated by
crossed legs and kicking
motion.
Attentiveness is indicated
by a slight leaningToward
the speaker and uncrossed
legs.
Agreement is indicated by
leaning toward the
edge of the seat/
For the behaviors noted
above to be useful signs for
interpreting behavior, you
must combine certain
signals with certain other
signals. Otherwise, you
might make a clear
misinterpretation of the
meaning of the gesture.
The definitions of
behavior are general and
should be carefully
evaluated in conjunction
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with other information
about a person for it to be
valid-.-For- instance, somepeople
cross their legs to
relax. Hnwpvpr if th* Imc
are crossed, the arms cross- 1
ed and eye contact avoided,
you may then interpret the
behavior as indicative of i
personal insecurity and
defensiveness. i
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0, in closing, 1 say Happy Birthday to
1, Betty, Sharon, Tammi, Angela, Billie,
nice, Loretta, Gwen, Thomas, and the
rd of Directors. Congratulations on
r first year of service to Winstonrrv.
Keep on keeping on; for more than
ig a full-service bank, you symbolize
hopes and aspirations of a people ? a
imunity ? in dire need of a sound
lomic base.
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Chronicle T>ette
Because of your generous contributions,
the particpants were more than able to
meet in an atmosphere of "fun and
fellowship."
Your care and concern for your community
and its citizens are to be commend?d.
May we continue to serve each other in
The Myth From Pagi
or the death penalty are represented b.,
court-appointed lawyers who are overworked
and underpaid. As Tom Wicker
states, "those wealthy and knowledgeable
enough to hire good lawyers seldom suffer
the death penalty." It is clear that the
criminal justice system "cannot prevent in
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Iime and agair
. you've heard it sai
y, you have to have money
The truth is, you have to I
noney before you can thin!
ig more.
That's why more and moi
g the Payroll Savings Plan
.gs Bonds. That way, a little
?. ? -
ft paycheck automatically.
In no time, you'U have enc
lew car, your child's edlicat
im vacation.
Whatever you save for, B(
, surest way to
apital.
lake
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wii iton put fxirt of your savings into L'.S Sai inf.
)>mn to hnild (i brighter future for your country
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May you assets always exceed your
liabilities.
To my wife Sylvia, and daughter Thema,
I also extend birthday greetings, with the
sincere hope that the investment of love
which we-deposit with each other today,
will bring forth bountiful returns tomorrow
and always. God Bless you both..,
(By the way, Thema insisted that I inform
you that she already has opened up a
"modest" savings account at Mechanics
and Farmers; what's your excuse?)
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a positive manner.
Again, thank you!
The Sunrise Towers Bingo Club
and Betty Jeffries
Winston-Salem Recreation Dept.
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justices" and "arbitrary and capricious
judgements." Langston Hughes once said
the same thing, even more eloquently:
"That Justice is a blind goddess/Is a thing
to which we black are wise/Her bandage
hides two festering sores/That once
perhaps were eyes."
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