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/ Broadway same man for many years, she points out proudly. "If he had lived, we would be married 32 years last March," she said, adding that she feels "terrible" about the huge divorce rate nowadays. "People used to stay together because they looked upon marriage as sacred; they fought harder to stay together even if they had to take a lot of guff from the husband or the wife. But now the word that's bandied about is - love, ' and I don't think that most people MNMMIINNMMNINMNMMHIMIIIIIUMUIUIIHIUIIIIIIiaMIII YolondaGay\ MMttMMMMIMMtMMUtltltUllllttllltllllllllllllllMIIIIIIIIMI The woman is the worst mother I've ever seen. The little girl is always dirty and she goes to school looking hungry and pitiful. The child's hair is never combed, and sometimes she wears the same outfit two or three days in a row. On the other hand, the woman leaves home each morning looking as if she's some big executive -- hair done, nails manicured, the whole bit. . To me, that's wrong. The kids around her won't play * with the little girl, so she's pretty much a loner. 1 usually see her playing on the sidewalk with her dolls. What kind of a mother wouy allow this to go on? A real P* \ (KH1v. H I ? ?? -NEE 3 AUTO LIABILI1 j AUTO COLLIS1 ? HOMEOWNER! J MOTORCYCLE I PREMIL 1 FINANCi 2 A if A II A 1 j HVHILHI I POIN' I LAKESID spBrvHnBK^H*ur^H*vr?Hn 6 4 m>mmnmmiMWwmwiMmiiiiiM<imniinimiiiinnn( From Page B8 know the real meaning of love. They say 41 love you' the way they say 41 want a glass of water.' It just doesn't seem to mean as much. They think 4love is the moment.' I'm not saying there aren't good, full relationships. I'm saying that some of them are so fragile. That's the reason 1 had one marriage and I haven't married since." The much-loved TV actress has equally strong- feelings aboutchild-rearing. Noting that her les From Page B? mother would show more concern. Should I call someone? I really don't want to interfere, but the child looks so bad. Please advise. H.L.B. Dear Yes, do make a call. But the person you should call should be an official at the school she attends. You might call and say that you've noticed how poorly kept the child appears, and suggest that someone there keep a close watch. I wouldn't say that you are interfering. 1 would say thafyou are trying to be of some help to a -?r p H A l? jAA&U 1^*1 \ u* 1 fi\ * d0 m\ n0' THE WAL 0r IN POLISHED ^ SPECIAL \ $1 " ^ Perfectly proportioned wal this fall. This one with doi and one button closure an is fully lined, of course anc The dirndl skirt also has d< kabie classic look. Sizes 1: \IOKm.ma I IHIa \i i w vnai^c, i_i i uc T DINSURA1 rY ION/COMF. I \ Q IM (A/G t?/r rs NO PRC E INSURANCE 3569-0 N. PATTERSON AVI 3RTHSIDE SHOPPING CEN1 riNSTON-SALEM, N.C. 271 767-2698 own mother was strict, Isabe says she never spared the roc herself while raising her children 411 had to work and leave my kid; at home, so 1 had to be very stria with them. If they disobeyed m< when I was gone, I had to take i stick to them... I didn't spare th< rod. I used a strap. And I wa* speckled just as much as the) were because 1 didn't know hov* to do it very well. I'd hit myself ir the back with the strap, swinging it;rrahd then I'd go in my owi room and be rubbing my back, i \ child that might need it. Unhappy and Bored Dear Yolonda: My problem i not my job, my husband, or m children. My problem is me: l'r unhappy, and 1 don't know wha to do about it. It's nothing big it's just a lot of little things tha seem to get me down. Nothin seems to cheer me up. When 1 tried to talk with m husband about my problem, h tells me to have another baby (We already have two kids.) Bi that's not my problem. I guess feel that life is passing me by. feel as though I'm in a rut. tJ*Vj &*> - > ? ?? mm ?? i >*- , * * -* >? >.?.> -? \*t '. . < ,W. < v J-" *V<fr>> ',. a$ 1 :ASHON SHOPj wntown rthside .KING SUIT PROPORTIONS ,?V PRICED |0oo kina suits have made a return jble pockets, single breasted d notched collar is all wool. It j comes in stripes and solids. Duble pockets for an unmista2-20. Vait for Gift Wrapping. iWNitMi'inWi'W SITF? >BLEM AGENCY m ER 05 a; m "*W? <*W* M I pained so much. It really hurt me I more than it did them." It was Isabel, and not her late husband, Sonny, who called the tune with the children, she recall ed. "He'd tell the kids to 'wait B until your mother comes home.' > He was like a kid himself, Sonny f was, at least the kids treated him ' like that. So I never had to say in i my life 'Wait until your father I comes home.If I found i something wrong, I got out the t strap and took care of it." MMNUMIUIHIINIHIIIIIHMMMMMIUIIIUHIIHIUIUHMMNNM What can I do? 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