« PORTS EDITORIALS PEOPLE ^oadrunners Uar up for [aC nationals PAGE Cl .'♦siF 'M ■ r Back to basics: Those old-fasljiloned 3 Rs have just got to come first PAGE A4 Helping youngsters at Children's Loft PAGE A6 \ Salem Chronicle The Twin City's Award-Winning Weekly . XIV, No. 49 U.S.P.S. No. 067s to Winston-Salem, N.C. Thursday, July 28,1988 32 Pages This Week Funeral directors convention draws national personalities Bsy VALERIE ROBACK GREGG ^hfonlcle StaH Writer The Rev. Jesse Jackson will ^und out a star-studded list of akers at the National Funeral fcirectors and Morticians Associ- tiion Convention to be held at The M.C. Benton Convention Center Aug. 6-12. About 2,000 people are ixpected to attend, including 1,500 association members, sev eral exhibitors and special guests. Jackson and Democratic Party presidential nominee Michael Dukakis were invited to attend, and Jackson recently accepted his invitation, Jerry Gilmore, III of Gilmore's Funeral Home said Tuesday. Jackson's arrival time has not yet been finalized. Dukakis is expected to attend also, but has not yet been confirmed. "It will be on a pop- in basis," Gilmore said. Gilmore said the national organization has a membership of over 2,200. Harry J. Carter of Chicago is the outgoing presi- denL Carlton C. Douglas of Bal timore, currently president-elect, will take the helm as president at the end of this convention. Gilmore is running unopposed as president-elect and said he expects to take over as president of the organization in two years. Tony Brown, a nationally known public speaker and syndi- cated columnist, will highlight the Tuesday, Aug. 9, Award Ban quet The event will be followed by a dance with music provided by the Sweet Dreams band. Please see page A11 lawmakers: {lection plan fiay not pass JVALERIE ROBACK GREGG Konicle Staff Writer I The county electoral district t, the result of an NAACP suit linst the county, is nowhere near loming a reality, as the local dele- fclion of the state legislature pdy appears split on the issue. iThc president of the local pch of the NAACP, Walter Mar ti County Commissioner b HoJlcman agreed to a modified ftet approach on the eve of the is court date. U.S. District Court ige Eugene A, Gordon signed the ■eraent two weeks later. I The National Association for lAdvancement of Colored People d the county in 1986, claiming kt the county's at-large election pern diluted the Afro-American fi and prevented Afro-Americans n participating fully in Forsyth fenty politics. Many community jders hoped a straight district elec- Please see page A11 School board continues public forum on two issues Debate grows over academic standards, selection of school superintendent By ANGELA WRIGHT Chronicle Managing Editor 'Footloose!' Photo by Mike Cunningham Jamian Clark and Corry Gwynn, both 3 years old, don't waste any time in preparing for a soothing and relaxing "foot dip" In the sand. "Qualifications" has been the operative word at the most recent school board meetings, both of which were special sessions to allow public input on two contro versial issues: the selection of a new school superintendent and a propos al to abolish academic requirements for membership in school service clubs. The first special session was held July 18, but as the discussions concerning the proposal to abolish academic requirements became heated and prolonged, the board decided to continue the public hear ing on Wednesday, July 27. Given the diversity of sugges tions from the public on the qualifi cations for school superintendent, the next one must be all things to all people. The one point on which most of the citizens seem to agree is that the person should come from within the local system. Most of those making presenta tions represented community and educational organizations. Janet Wheeler, of the Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority, said the new superinten dent should have "...vision, values and motivational skills...She said that such individuals currently exist "within the administration staff." The Rev. Diane Dixon-Proctor, associate pastor of First Baptist Church, suggested that the school board consider someone "sensitive to the cultural diversity of the stu dents" within the local school sys tem. One concerned parent, Beverly Gamble, came to the meeting even though her children have now grad uated from the local school system. Gamble said she still had concerns about some of the problems she experienced when her children were in school. She called upon the Please see page A11 Low self-esteem major problem in adulthood NEWS DIGEST Compiled From AP Wire Pprah leads group to S. Africa Abused children turn into abusive parents By VALERIE ROBACK GREGG Chronicle Staff Writer ■ALEXANDRA, South Africa (AP) -- An American foup sponsored by television personality Oprah Win- Fy on Friday treated elderly residents to a hot lunch p is to become a weekly feature in this impover- ped black township. Organizer Armstrong Williams said Ms. Winfrey never been to South Africa, but became interested I w Alexandra after interviewing Mark Mathabane, l|lio grew up in the township. One out of every three or four women was sexually molested as a child, and one of every eight men are molested by their 18th birthday, a local child protection official said recently. And many more have suffered physical abuse. The people who commit these acts are usually parents who carry a well- defined load of psychological baggage which contributes to their troubled rela tionships with their children. Abusive parents' relationship with their children often reflects their child hood relationship with their own par ents. An abusive parent often had little emotional support, care or love as a child. "Fear, frustration and anger are associated with these unmet needs, and abusive parents are more likely to act on impulses," according to the U.S. Depart ment of Health, Education and Welfare. "Abusive parents often lack the skills and abilities necessary to provide for their own emotional stability...and they have not learned how to cope with the anger, fear and frustration they feel." The result is often low self esteem, a characteristic common to most physi cal and sexual child abusers. Low self esteem leads to low expectations, which leads them to reject positive relation ships with others creating a vicious cycle that follows them far into adult hood. These problems lead them to avoid social interaction and sometimes hurts career advancement Such behavior leads to another common characteristic of abusive par ents —isolation. They often avoid rejec tion and anger by breaking off close per sonal relationships. They are afraid to reach to others, causing them to look to family members to fill all their emotion al needs, adding pressure to the family unit and increasing the likelihood of abuse. I No charges against Mrs. Richie Fnda Richie, wife of pop ^er Lionel Richie, appar- won't be prosecuted X ^^t3cking her husband beating a young model found him with in a Hills, Calif., apart- fni last month. Residents make way for new fairgrounds Please see page A10 By VALERIE ROBACK GREGG Chronicle Staff Writer Nfd approves black frat membership I., V*®ON, Miss. (AP) - The state College Board IIapproved a lease for a 20-member fraternity to the first black group to live on all-white Fra- fnity Row at the University of Mississippi in The board approved the lease without debate Thursday. I blacks lags in Navy WASHINGTON (AP) - The Navy is studying why • promotion of blacks in its ranks lags behind that of f other services, 40 years after President Harry S. tttan Ordered the nation’s military to integrate. The residents of Shore Fair Drive have endured the sounds of the annual Dixie Classic Fair and the not-so-distant roar of the crowd from Ernie Shore Field for more than a decade. But the neighborhood will soon be nothing but a memory for the residents, mostly retirees, some of whom have lived there almost 30 years. The west side of the street is already gone, the people moved, the 11 houses pulled from their foundations and placed on Clark Avenue. The fair midway will soon replace them. Those on the street's east side may have only one more fair to contend with. Their houses will likely be placed on Clark Avenue as well, in an area which has stood vacant since the city levelled con demned housing there almost 10 years ago, city Real Estate Super visor John Cockerham said. The residents on the west side sold their homes for an average of $65,000 to $70,000 and moved with the help of the city Housing Services Department, Cockerham said. The houses will be resold once they are rehabilitated on Clark Avenue, and the current resi dents will have the option to buy them back from the city. And as the process is ending for the west side of the street, it is Please see page A10 Kii m Photos by Mike Cunningham An angry Mrs. Frances Hall stands at the end of her yard just across from where con struction work Is being done to complete the new fairgrounds on Shorefair Drive. The city has purchased the houses on the west side of the street and is now moving them to other locations. The homes on the east side will soon meet the same fate.