First Baptist Church holds family conference f By FELECIA P. McMlLLAN j 'COMMUNITY CORRESPONDENT ? !? The women's and men's min ; istries of First Baptist Church col ? laborated on sponsoring the ! church's first Family Conference | May 28-30. The theme for the con ? Terence was "As for Me and My ' ;House, We Will Serve the Lord," I from Joshua 24: 15. According to ; the Rev. Wendell A. Johnson, the ; pastor, all of the church ministries ? "focus on building the body of Christ, enabling each member, and ^equipping the entire body for ? ^holistic ministry. " The Women's Ministry coordi nator, Deacon Shirley F. Mani ?Igault, said, "We have to minister ' Jo families, equip them in the word !j)f God so they can be strong." |lAlthough this is the first confer ence focused on the family, church Ijnembers are already making plans I-for the next one. "We really think jlhe issues were timely, and many of ?Jhe sessions will be repeated," '?Manigault Said. ?- . Trustee Benjamin Carson, the - Men's Ministry coordinator, wel "tomed the audience to the First Baptist 1999 Family Conference. "Our hope is that you will be =? touched by God's word, enlight ' ened by our workshops, and ' encouraged by the spirit of com munity - all of which will nurture ;our souls for Christ," he said. According to Manigault, the 1 bold statement of theme that Joshua puts forth is "a bold state ment of faith in God, born of his ' fear of God and his knowledge of Him. Today, on the verge of a new century and a new millennium and ' in a time when the family is under severe attack, we too must stand and boldly confess, 'As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.'" Johnson opened his first ses sion, titled "Family Issues - Fac ing a New Millennium," following the singing of the theme song '?"The Family Prayer Song," recorded by singer Morris Chap man. His workshop was very inter active,''as he called upon various persons in the audience to give a definition of family. Johnson i focused on the different configura tions of the family. "When we think of family, we must not be limited to only the nuclear family comprised of moth er, father and children," he said. Johnson said the current church must be able to meet the needs of single parents and grandparents who head families and other extended family structures that may be present in the church body. Johnson did not pass judgment on which configuration is best, but he identified some of the issues all families confront such as financial difficulties, divorce, stress, drugs and raising children. Serving the Lord and studying his work can offer guidance in facing any of these issues, he noted. The focus of Session II was "Health and Wellness in the African American Church." The Rev. Edwin Hamilton, M.D., D.D., the minister of health and wellness at Mt. Bethel Baptist Church of Fort Lauderdale, Fla., conducted this workshop. He practices general surgery and med icine in the Ft. Lauderdale and Pompano Beach, Fla., areas. He has received numerous awards for workshops on topics such as "Spirituality and Medicine: A Physician's/Theologian's Perspec tive," "Faith and Medicine" and "Breast Cancer and Prostate Can cer." During the convention, Hamil ton drew a parallel between the human body and a sacred temple. His focus was on prostate cancer and breast cancer, two maladies that tend to inflict African Ameri cans. "We should all be careful about what we put into our bodies. We need to stay away from red meat or only eat it in moderation because the fat from it causes hypertension and other ailments," he said. He encouraged the listen ers to "eat foods that come from the earth such as leafy vegetables and fruits." He tied this discussion to the diet described in the book of Deuteronomy, which corroborates this kind of diet. Regarding prostate cancer, he encouraged men over 40 to add the PCA test and the rectal exam to their overall physicals each year. Regarding breast cancer, he encouraged all women over 35 to begin getting a baseline mammo gram and those 40 and over to get a mammogram each year in addi tion to a complete physical. Hamilton also admonished churches to work in collaboration with the American Cancer Society and the local health department to have health resources to draw upon. His slide presentation included statistics about cancer, and he used a video that highlight ed women with cancer. Another workshop that gener ated a great deal of discussion dur ing Session III was "Building, Buying & Real Estate" by Clement Little and James Allison. Little is the general manager of East Pointe Developers, LLC and East Pbinte Realty Group, LLC, over seeing the daily operations for the company. East Pointe is owned by partners Ernie Pitt and Tom Trollinger. Little pointed out vari ous developments around the city that he has helped to build such as the new development near Carver Glen called Lansing Ridge, a sub division that will consist of 41 new homes. They held open house this past Sunday. Allison is the broker and owner of Millennium Brokerage & Investment Group. His company ? provides real estate consulting ser vices primarily to buyers and sell ers in the sales market in Winston Salem and the surrounding Triad area. He spoke about how an indi . vidual can build credit in order to secure a loan. He pointed out common mistakes that home buy ers make when they are trying to secure a loan. Many of them fail to make plans about the type of home they want to invest in and the price they can afford. They often carry a lot of baggage when they invest in "high ticket items" such as cars, living room furniture and the like at the same time they want to buy a home. Allison warned buyers to wait until they have secured a loan before they take on more debt. He admonished buyers to build credit options by paying their debts on time. When a person pays bills 30 60 days late, this can work against his or her securing a loan. Minnie Lucas and Annie Dor ris attended this workshop. They both found it to be very informa tive. Two other workshops took place during Session III. Rev erends Frederick Davis and Edwin Hamilton spoke on "Empowering the Black Male." Davis is the pas tor of First Calvary Baptist Church in Durham. The discus sion leaders noted that the empow erment of the black male starts with the family. The Rev. Carla Lightfoot spoke about "Youth Empowerment." She is the assis tant to the pastor and youth min ister at Moore Street Baptist Church in Richmond, Va. More than 90 people attended the first annual family conference at First Baptist Church. Minnie Lucas, a member of the church, said, " I really enjoyed the confer ence. 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