A Salvation to Many Agency tries to meet the great demand of the holiday season BY COURTNEY GA1LLARD THE CHRONICLE Pearl Tilley didn't think she would be able to provide a Christ mas for her children four years ago when she and her husband divorced. Tlje single mother of four sons had been a stay-at-home mom before her marriage dis solved. As the holidays approached, Tilley thought she'd have to tell her children that they would not get any presents on Christmas Day until The Salva tion Army Holiday Tyy Shop came to the rescue. The four-year old program provides toys to needy families. "I got divorced and didn't have any money and (the toy shop) was a lifesaver," said Tilley, who began working last year. 'They wanted remote-control cars; they really, really wanted them, and I knew I didn't have any money. I cried that year because we were about to lose our place." Robin Pardella, director of Christmas for The Salvation Army, estimates that Tilley and her sons will be one of 3,000 fam ilies who will benefit from the Holiday Toy Shop this year. She says more than 500 people showed up to the toy shop, which is operating out of an abandoned grocery store on Peters Creek Parkway, during its first day of registration. c "When they leave here their family is prepared for Christmas. The best part is the parents shop, then feel like they did, and they take it home. Of course it's all free, but they feel like they had a jpart in it," said Pardella. > Dozens of volunteers have i spent the last few weeks register | ing families for the toy shop and ; assembling the gifts. When the ? doors open next month, parents 1 will be able to select gifts for their J children from tables stacked with 'dolls, stuffed animals, games, .puzzles and more. But Pardella Isays tjiey cpuld use more gifts for (older children. < 'j Gitly > Pho?o by Cuuniwy Gaillard Robin Pardella poses with some of the toys that have Been collected. "(Ages) 5-8 boys and girls are usually the ones we gel the most gifts for because everybody thinks they're the cutest, but (ages) 9-14 has suffered terribly. We run out of stufl all the time," Pardella said. Toys aren't the only items families will leave with. Food boxes containing hens, canned goods, bread and milk will aiso be distributed so that families can eat a holiday meal. Families with more than two children will receive two food boxes. Gifts are also available for senior citizens at the toy shop, says Pardella, who has secured alarm clocks for elderly men and porcelain dolls for elderly women. The Salvation Army runs the Seniors Program so that older adults won't be forgotten at Christmastime too. A group of businessmen from Charlotte raised enough money to purchase 150 bicycles for The Salvation Army to distribute to needy kids. Pardella has secured as many helmets, and she can hardly wait to roll out the bikes during distribution days. "We're seeing 504 families a day. We're doing six days of dis tribution rather than two and half days so this way it gives our clients more time to shop and it gives volunteers more time to spend with clients." said Pardella. Judith Bagley found herself in the same predicament as Tilley last year. The single mother was able to have Christmas with her daughter last year thanks to the toy shop. This year Bagley returned to the toy shop, not as a client, but as a volunteer. She won't be able to receive assis tance from the program this year, so Christmas will come next year for her II -year-old daughter. Bagley says the toy shop is a wonderful program for people who don't make a lot of money but can still give their child a toy or two for Christmas. "1 gave up my toys," joked Bagley, who said she has regis tered many people she knows for the toy shop this year. "I told (my daughter) Christmas will come in Januarytand around income tax time and she's OK." Pardella says The Salvation Army expected more needy fami lies than ever to come through the toy shop this holiday season due to the closing of the Christmas, Cheer Toy Shop and Clearing House earlier this year after sev eral decades. The Salvation Army is also preparing for a steep decline in donations now that it is prohibited from putting red ket tles at all Target stores. "It's going to be hard on us. We're going to be devastated this year, and then Wal-Mart has cut (red kettles) down to 14 days a year," Pardella said. "Those six weeks when we do the red kettles is so important to us. That's when we raise the bulk of money." The red kettles, started in 1891, are used to collect dona tions from the public, but The Sal vation Army Winston-Salem may lose $15,000 as a result of this newly imposed no-solicitation ban. In order to fund its ministry through the end of the year. The Salvation Army will need to receive $650,000. The Holiday Toy Shop is still accepting donations. Call Robin Panlella at The Salvation Afmy, 723-6366, extension 109, for information. News Clips Compiled from staff, wire and submitted reports Wake Christmas l.ovefeast Wake Forest University will hold its 39th annual Christmas Lovefeast and Candlelight Service at 8 p.m. Dec. 5 in Wait Chapel. The community is invited and admission is free. Wake Forest Chaplain Tim Auman will conduct the service and will be assisted by Craig Atwood. theologian in residence at Home Mora via)! Church. It will include music, from Wake Forest's concert choir, handbell choir and flute choir. During the service, the congregation will be invited to join in singing carols. Each participant will receive a beeswax candle to be lit at the end of the serv ice. and more than 50 Wake Forest students and faculty will serve coffee and Mora vian buns. University Plaza (Quad) will be decorated with luminaries, placed bjf members of Alpha Phi Omega service fraternity. Monetary contributions can be made for Prodigals Community, Samaritan Min istries or the Chaplain's Emergency Fund. Rancic now coming in January Bill Rancic, the winner of the first season of NBC's "The Apprentice," has again rescheduled his appearance at Wake Forest University. Rancic was supposed to appear at the school two months ago. That appear ance was scrapped and rescheduled for Nov. 22.? Now wake says the reality show winner's lecture will be early next year. His appearance has been rescheduled for 8 p.m. Jan. 26 in Benson University Center. Tickets already pur chased will be honored for the resched u I e d appear a n c e . Ticket refunds can be obtained Rancic at the Benson University Center Ticket Office. To purchase tickets for the rescheduled appearance, contact the Benson Universi ty Center Ticket Office at 758-4265. Tickets are $10 general admission. $5 for Wake Forest students. Highway Patrol will be on watch The N.C. Highway Patrol will be targeting aggressive drivers on interstates in the state beginning today and continuing through the Thanksgiving holiday week end. 0 The aggressive driver has been identified as those driv ers who flagrantly violate the motor vehicle laws, including but not limited to: excessive speeding, follow ing too closely, erratic lane changes, safe movement vio lations, ar)d other forms of reckless endangerment. Aggressive drivers account for a significant number of the traffic collisions that occur on the state roadways. "This high-volume holi day travel period is tradi tionally one of our busiest and deadliest," said Col. W. Fletcher Clay, commander of the State Highway Patrol. "Getting to your destination safely should be your num ber one goal. Don't try to cut off a few minutes of your drive time by speeding or driving aggressively. It's just not worth it." The Thanksgiving holi day weekend officially begins at 6 p.m. on Nov. 24 and ends at midnight Sun day. Nov. 28. Oprah VV infrey and \laya Angelou Present " \n I vening of Healing through Song" Willi (irainiii) \nard-and Stellar \ivard-nominated yospel sinner Joshua Nelsttll to benefit the Ma?a \ngelou Research Center on Minority Health ai Wake forest I niversitv Baptist Medical ( enter. Wake Forest University Baptist MEDICAL CENTER Friday, Nov. 26 at 6 p.m. -St. Peter's World Outreach Center, 3683 Old Lexington Rd. I ickets on <.;ilc through I kketnasler-www.ticketMaiiter.coM (336) 722-64(1(1 or Hecht's at Hants Mall The Maya Angelou Research Center on Minority Health was ^ established to close the gap in health, quality of life, and lifespan differences between minority populations and the general population. It is a collaboration between Wake Forest University, its medical school, Winston-Salem $tate I nhersity, and Forsyth County. 1 \