Film captures HBCU experience Nigel Alston Motivational Moments "He will challenge their traditions . Their traditions will change his life." . ? from the movie, "Stomp The Yard" I was reminded of the neb! experience gained from altend J ing a black college this week,' end after seeing the movi*, "Stomp The Yard." The movie is a love story between pj Williams (Columbus Short) and April (Meagan Good). It is ilso about a rivalry of fraternities and their quest to be recogilized as the best stepper; in a nation al competition. And, it is about being part of something bigger than you. A lesson DJ finally comes to understand. It took me back, way back to a time of meeting new peo ple, developing relationships that have weathered the test of time, finding love and falling in love, finding myself, pledging a fraternity and living up to its cardinal principles. The movie is about all those things and more. By the time it was over, my wife and I were ready to do a two-person step show; then ? we came to our senses and laughed out loud, realizing that stepping has passed us by. Drew Belton introduced me to Omega Psi Phi Fraternity. \ Like me, he was a member of the football team, and for some reason, decided to invite me to an Omega party early in my freshman year. That was all it took for me to know what fra - temity I would join. It was and is common for fraternities and sororities to recruit those they would like to join their organi zation and invite them to events. That's the hook that capti vated DJ after enrolling in Truth University. Rival fraternity leaders attempted to recruit him MB CI L?? ? tn .... i J Nigel, left, with a frat brother at Livingstone College. with promises of being the best, with lasting friendships that would prove beneficial, and, of course, the opportunity to step against the other fraternity. The movie does an excel lent job of being authentic in portraying black college life and not just with the phenome nal stepping it showcases. It would be easy to get caught up in the stepping competition and phenomenal moves and miss the heart of the message - char acter building and what it takes tasucceed - teamwork. 1 learned similar lessons while pledging. At the time, in April 1972, there were three guys pledging - one Alpha, one Kappa and one Omega. That was it. The Kappa was a friend of mine and also a fellow foot ball player. I would often hide in his room late at night to"avotd my "big brothers." It was diffi cult pledging with 32 big broth ers always after you, studying and playing football. I was number one on my line. Actually, I was the only ONE. I pledged by myself. I was the "Only Commandment," which was my line name. My wife. Sarah. also pledged at the same time on a line of 17, known as the "17 Drops of Soul." I could identify with DJ, who saw a beautiful girl (April) walk by as he was standing in line to regis ter for classes. He had to meet her and he did. She would play an important role in his life. I saw a similar young woman walking across the campus of Livingstone College my fresh man year, in a mini skirt. She captured my attention. I would later meet her and become engaged years later. We have been married for 29 years now. I did quit once though. I just couldn't take it any longer. I wrote a long letter explaining that I was not going to continue. I would pledge later, I told them. I couldn't make the con nection between what I was going through and the bigger picture of brotherhood . Those from the "old' school" know what I am talking about. Fortunately for me, I was talked out of quitting and made it across those "bjiming sands." I persevered. 1 am glad I did. And that is what DJ did. Questioning why he should pledge a fraternity. April asks him if he has been to Heritage Hall. He had not. Visiting it later would be a pivotal moment in the movie and in his life. It is in this hall full of his tory - a photo exhibit - that he examines and connects the dots and sees all the different frater nity and sorority members form Martin Luther King, Jr. to Rosa Parks, and Dr. Betty Shabazz to Michael Jordan. It is that sense of history that inspires him to take the next step. It was that sense of history for me too and the principles of manhood, scholarship, perse verance and uplift that appealed to me . The one thing I have quit though was stepping. It is hard for one person to put on a dynamic step show. I tried once. It wasn't pretty. Of course, the value in pledging is bigger than stepping. That's what DJ learned at Truth University. Nigel Alston is a radio talk show host, columnist and moti vational speaker. He is a mem ber of the Winston-Salem State University Board of Trustees. Visit his Web site at wwwmoti vationalmoments^om. Apologizing for slavery isn't enough George Curry Guest Columnist A Virginia legislator created a stir recently when said Whites living today shouldn't apolo gize for slavery. If subjugation of African-Americans had ended with slavery, that would be one thing. But the rancid stench of state-sponsored racism extended well into the 1960s. So. if there is to be an apology in Virginia or any other state, it should not be limited to slavery. Consider the following, taken from the National Park Service Web site, that I recount in some of my speeches: f From the 1800s into the mid-1960s, there were Jim Crow laws mandating separa tion of the races. They were comprehensive, covering every imaginable circumstance such as toilet facilities, railroads, buses, education, the selling of wine and beer, restaurants, housing, parks. hospital entrances, prisons, textbooks, libraries, circus tickets, theaters, reform school, fishing, lunch counters, theaters, telephone booths, cemeteries, and. above all intermarriage. Let's look at a few of them: North Carolina had a law that said: "Books shall not be interchangeable between the white and colored' schools, but shall continue to be used by the race first using them." Mississippi: "There shall be maintained by the governing authorities of every hospital maintained by the state for treat ment of white and colored patients separate entrances for white and colored patients and visitors, and such entrances shall be used by the race only for Which they are prepared ." Georgia had one governing mental hospital that provided: "The Board of Control shall see t|>at proper and distinct apart ments are arranged for said patients, so that in no case shall Negroes and white persons be together." 'So if you were mentally ill. you couldn't be together in Georgia. Louisiana even kept blind people apart. Its law stat ed, "The board of trustees shall .. .maintain a separate building... on separate ground for the admission, care, instruc tion, and support of all blind persons of the colored or black race." Blacks and Whites not only couldn't interact on a normal basis while they were alive, they were even kept apart after they had aied. A Georgia law stated.'The officer in charge shall not bury, or allow to be buried, any col ored persons upon ground set apart or used for the burial of white persons." These Jim Crow laws wj;re rigorously enforced against children as well as adults. Not only could the Jim Crow laws not be violated. Southern customs were also enforced. In 1951 - three years before the Brown decision - Mark Ingram, a Black man in Yanceyville, N.C., was prose cuted for assault with intent to rape because, standing 70 feet away, he supposedly "undressed" a 1 7-year-old, White girl with his eyes. That became known as reckless eye balling [Randall Kennedy, Interracial Intimacies, p. 1% and Jack Green berg. Crusaders in the Courts, P. 1 0 1 ] . We all know about Emmett Till the 14-year-old boy who was murdared in Mississippi in 1955 for allegedly whistling at a White woman. He Was brutally beaten, shot in the head, and thrown into a river. In 1958, in Monroe, N.C., two Black boys - Fuzzy Simpson, age 7, and Hanover Thompson, age 9, were invited to join a group of five White children, including two girls. One of the girls remembered that she had played with Hanover when his mother worked as a maid in her fami ly's house. Oveijoyed at being reunited with her old playmate, she kissed him on the cheek. That wasn't quite the kiss of death but it was close. When the girl innocently told her mother, the two boys were arrested, and convicted of attempted rape. The Juvenile Court judge sen tenced Fuzzy to 12 years in jail and Hanover to 14. Fortunately, there was a public outcry and President Eisenhower got the governor to intervene [Kennedy, P. 197-1981. What we collectively refer to as Brown et al. v. Board of Education of Topeka et al pro duced three Brown decisions. The first one in 1954 outlawed "separate but equal" schools because they violated the 14th Amendment to the Constitution. The second one. handed down on May 31 . 1955, held that school must be deseg regated "with all deliberate speed." Of course, "all deliber ate speed" ended up being almost no speed at all. The third Brown case was filed in U.S. District Court in Topeka on Nov. 19, 1979 by a group of parents. including Linda Brown, whose father was the lead plaintiff in the original case. 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