FORUM The things that matter most Nigel Alston Motivational Moments The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. t - Henry David Thoreau "What do you value most?" Jack asked Bob Perks after a talk. It was a thoughtful question and the topic of an article written by Perks, an author, storyteller, train er. and motivational speaker. Jack (fhad uhcovered what he valued most from a man who lived next door to him as he grew up, Mr. Belser. It was inscribed on a gift left for Jack inside a box opened after the neighbor died. It was difficult for me to nar row an answer down to one thing. I value, among other things, my family, laughter, spending time with friends, establishing new relationships, reading, making a difference, solitude, learning and helping others grow. If I had to make a choice though, it would be the time spent with my grand daddy and the resulting lessons learned that have influenced me. J I spent a lot of time with him as a boy growing up and working in the little mom and pop store he owned and operated, as well as cleaning up the church under his supervision. There is a direct rela tionship to the time we were together, the work I would do in that store and in the church and who I am today. I believe my ability to work with diverse groups of people and get along with others have roots that started in that small store and in our church. Those memories resurfaced as I read the story Jack shared with Perks. He had received a long-distance telephone call from his mother informing him that their next-door neighbor, Mr. Belser, had died. It had been a long time since Jack had seen or spoken to him. Like so many people, he was consumed with his work, trying to find time to spend with his family, and his fiiture. Mr. Belser had always asked about Jack, according to his mother. Like some of us who have lost contact with a person for a long time. Jack admitted he thought Mr. Belser had died some time ago. That didn't stop him though from making arrange ments to fly across the country to attend the ftineral. After doing so. he visited Mr. Bear's house with his mother one last time, bringing back memories that rushed through him like a flood. It was like stepping back in time. "I wouldn't be in this busi ness if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were impor tant," Jack remembered. He had been reminded by his mother how Mr. Belser, after Jack's father had died, made sure he had a man's influence in his life. He had taught Jack carpentry. Walking through Mr. Belser 's house, Jack found it to be exactly as he remembered it, except for one thing. He noticed a small gold box was missing. He had asked Mr. Belser about the con tents of that box "a thousand times." Each time produced the same answer: "the thing 1 value most." Now, he thought, he would never know what that "thing" was. Time would change all that, though, and Jack would find the answer he sought. He would be moved by it too. A couple of weeks after attending the funeral, he received a package in the mail. He opened it and found a gold box and an envelope that con tained the "thing" Mr. Belser val ued most. "Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside," Perks wrote Mr Belser had left behind instructions for the box and its contents to be forwarded to Jack at his death, with this note: "It's the thing I valued most in my life." Inside the box was a gold pocket watch with these words engraved on the cover of the watch: "Jai?> Thanks for your time! Harold Belser" The thing Mr. Belser had valued most was the "time" he shared with Jack. At his death. Mr. Belser had helped Jack realize what he val ued most. That moment moved him to call his office and clear his schedule for several days to spend more time with his son. It is important to be reminded that the people who make a dif ference in your life aren't the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They're the ones who care enough to spend persona) time and effort for you. That's an important lesson to learn and one Jack came to fully value and understand. Nigel Alston is a radio talk show host, columnist and motiva tional speaker. He is the chair man of the Winston-Salem Slate University Board of Trustees. Visit his Web site at wwwmotivationalmoments com . Subprime mortgage wave Yvette Clarke Guest Columnist I can vividly remember my days as a Council Member in City Hall, working with my for mer colleagues, trying to prevent the subprime mortgage crisis from financially crippling our beloved New York City. We passed anti-predatory legislation, but when the Wall Street powerhouses threatened litigation, the legislation went nowhere fast. Today, this crisis is now upon us as many Americans are rapidly losing their homes. In New Yoik City, the prognosis looks bleak. Housing Preservation and Development (HPD) Commissioner Shaun Donovan reported there may be 14,000 foreclosures by the end of this year. Part of the process of rebounding from this crisis includes educating legislators and members of the community at large about the various nuances of mortgages and lend ing. It is crucial that we under stand how yield spread premi ums (YSPs) and prepayment penalties are negatively impact ing our community, especially minority borrowers. The honest truth of the matter is that some, not all, mortgage brokers are receiving kickbacks from lenders for convincing minority borrowers to acquire subprime loans with high interest rates called yield-spread premi ums. The yield-spread is the dif ference between the new higher rate and the lowest rate for which the borrower is qualified. This process is complicated, but that is no excuse for what we know is industry wide abuse of the process, which is adversely impacting minority borrowers. Even if a borrower knows that brokers are not required to offer the best rate, determining whether a subprime loan even has a YSP can be overly burden some. Yet, these are the kinds of questions that we must be pre paredto ask". Furthermore, discretionary up-front charges such as yield spread premiums are very arbi trary, which leads to disparate pricing. According to Harvard Law Professor Howell Jackson, African-Americans pay an aver age additional up-front charge of $474 per loan, while Latinos pay an average additional $580 per loan. These pricing disparities faced by minority borrowers in the sub-prime market are at least partially driven by YSPs. Thus, when YSPs disparately affect minority borrowers, the discre tionary charges may carry seri ousijair lending implications. Next, minorities are nega tively impacted when prepay ment penalties and YSPs are combined in the same subprime mortgage. Although prepayment penalties are generally charged for any early debt repayment, they provide borrowers an opportunity to get a lower inter est rate, while YSPs tend to be offered to exchange a higher interest rate for reduced closing costs. Combining YSPs with pre payment penalties ensures a lender will receive either extra interest or penalty income to off set the upfront cash payment to a broker. Prepayment penalties and YSPs work together against a minority borrower's interests: prepayment penalties allow lenders to lock in an above-mar ket yield, making them more willing to pay inflate*) YSPs to brokers for higher-priced loans. With prepayment penalties attached to higher-priced loans, lenders benefit by getting paid through penalty payments at early payoff or through the high er than necessary interest paid out over time. Without the pre payment penalty, generally, bor rowers who realize they paid too much for their mortgage can quickly refinance into a lower cost loan. Moreover, merging YSPs and prepayment penalties into a sub prime loan also creates opportu nities for deceptive marketing practices to minority communi ties. According to Fannie Mae, 30 to 50 percent of subprime loans are made to borrowers who could have qualified for traditional prime loans. The subprime lending indus try has made it possible for many with modest incomes and low credit scores to buy homes. Although not all subprime loans are predatory, predatory loans are commonly an abusive lending practice that occurs in subprime loans. I believe that communities must be financially aware and legislators must be strongly oppose to any abusive lending practice that allows YSPs and prepayment penalties to increase loan costs so much that borrow ers can never repay it. S. Rep. Yvette D. 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