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Every afternoon, Monday through Friday Umstead's Bonus Stand: Maybe Not Popular, M : Surely Courageous A bonus for veterans has been made an issue of the governor’s race in North Carolina, with Hubert Olive 1 'coming out in favor of a statewide vote on the question ’ jand William Umstead opposed. * J; The fact of Olive’s approval does not mean that the . Legislature will submit the issue to the people in the event jof Olive’s election, nor does Umstead’s disapproval mean : •that-the Legislature will not submit it in the event of J XJmstead’s election. Legislatures do not always follow the fishes of the Governor. I IT' There will be the matter of fairness to consider. World ' War II veterans would get a lion’s share of such a bonus, because there has been considerably more mortality a- ' mong those who served in World War I. And what about 1 Korean veterans? Just a police action, so no bonus? , There will be the question of need to consider. In this s day of high prices and high wages how much real differ- i ence to the individual veteran will two or three hundred > ; dollars make? It won’t send a child to college and it won’t 1 make much of a dent in the average home or farm mort- , gage. : There’s the question of impact on the State’s finances i to consider. Can the State stand another $200,000,000 bond < issue? Wbbld the good accuring to veterans from such a bond issue be more or less than the damage such a bond ( issue would do to the State’s ability to build new schools, ; ;provide relief for the needy, construct roads, erect hos- < • pitalS, and so forth? Z -And there are so many veterans in North Carolina • 4ha£the business of paying them a bonus would be more or ; less -like taking money out of their left hand pocket and , putting it in their right. Maybe the corporations and not the individuals would pay the bulk of the bonus. So there are higher taxes on corporations at a moment when they are flowing South in bigger numbers than ever before. What will be the im pact of such higher taxes on the proportion of these new industries North Carolina will receive? How many North Carolina veterans would use the bonus money to move their families to South Carolina or Georgia in search of better employment conditions? • All these questions must have flashed through Can didate Umstead’s mind when he said he would not com mit himself to favor the bonus vote. His stand will not gain him any votes. It was a stand against Santa Claus. It is not a popular stand but it was a courageous one. (From the Fayetteville Observer). Two Accidents Are Reported Two accidents, both at inter sections, were investigated by the Dunn Police Department. In neither wreck was there any personal in jury. At the intersection of Cumber land and Fayetteville a 1951 Ford driven by J. L. Jackson of Dunn Route 1 and a 1951 Ford, driven Frederick OTHMAN ; WASHINGTON. This day I have 'spent chomping a peanut (one, single peanut) in an effort to . Help the Navy Department’s Bureau qf Medicine and Surgery answer a question; ' Do you, sir or madam, chew your ijood on the left or the right side qf your mouth? This is important. Gould save us taxpayers millions The more you think about this, with {our face full of peanut, the less jikely will you be able to decide. • I mUst confess that everv tooth owm had something to do with chewing my own peanut. This will prove a sad blow to the admirals I know, but I'm danged now if I can decide whether I’m a left handed chewer, or a right. Guess PH sleep on it and start a fresh ifesrtut tomorrow. What brought up the subject of this seagoing research was arrival Os Navy’s docs on Canitol Hill to Congress for *116.500 000 to carry on their medical activities next year. They brought with ’em a b§pk. showing all the researches they were doing. 1 Ren. Antonio M. Fernandez (D.. N. M:) thumbed through it and began to read in a wondering vqice: “• .. ..field studies involving the application of scientific develop ment* within the Naw have measured the chewing abiittv of recruits where a number of teeth missing.” The Nary he asked, has to study theohewifig abiUtv of sailors? That It does, said Capt. Charles . w. Khffling chief of the Research by Lavon Larue Shepard of Lill ington. The Shepard car hit the Jackson vehicle on the rear panel and fend er, inflicting S2OO damage. Shepard’s car was damaged about SIOO. Both claimed the green light. At the intersection of Magnolia and Harnett, a 1950 Oldsmobile driven by Donald Dyer, was hit by a Gardner Dairy milk truck, driven by Richard Brock, Jr. The heavier vehicle had almost cleared the Dyer car but caught the rear bumper. Damage was about SSO to the Dyer machine and sls to the truck. Division. The trouble, said he, is that when a gob has teeth missing on one side of his face, their rer placement with artifical tuskq mounted in gold in an exceedingly expensive proposition. The Navy gave the full treat ment to all snaggle-toothed sailors during the last war. They walked out of the dentists’ offices with some of the most magnificent store boughten choppers ever built. And where did they wear ‘em? In their nants pockets, mostly, Cant. Shilling said. So the Navy got to worrying about this apparent waste of bridgework de luxe. At Tufts Col lege in Massachusetts and Great Lakes Training Station near Chicago It began lining up seamen with missing teeth, distributing peanuts, and ordering them to chew. Each sailor chewed his peanut 20 times. Then the attending dentists examined the size of the pieces of chomped peanut as well as the teeth that did the job. “They found that people chewed very much according.to their right or left-handedness,” the captain continued. “If the Jaw was com pletedly normal, you chewed moetly on the right side. If vou were right-handed. If you had a number of missing teeth on one ride, vou automatically shifted your chewing to the opposite side and did a verv efficient Job .of it.” This indicated that all the naval bridge work wasn’t exactly neces sary. Peanuts, however, wen not These Days LATTIMORE FORGETS It is amazing, when one reads the transcript of the McCarran Committee’s testimony, how much Owen Lattimore could forget. The Johns-Hopkins professor had an office in the State Department Building (that is, the old building now used as a White House an nex), but he seems to have a foggy notion of how he used it and what he did there. It is all very unimportant except that Lattimore’s defenders have painted a picture of a paragon of virtue who is being abused by Sen ator Joe McCarthy and Senator Pat McCarran. while he grew a halo around his noble head. The testimony actually does not read that way. He was asked whether he had had a desk in the State Department. He said. yes. Then this colloquy took place: “Mr. Morris. Were you a close associate of Lauchlin Currie? “Mr. Lattimore. No. I would not i say close. My work brought, me into considerable contact with him for : a very short period. “Mr. Morris. Did you in fact 1 have an office in the SJate Depart- i ment Building with Lauchlin Cur- ' rie? ’ “Mr. Lattimore. I had the , use I of one room of Mr. Currie’s offices in that building." However, he was living in Balti- ■ more and he only came over to ' Washington occasionally. It was 1 impossible to get him to say frank ly how many da vs each week he 1 used that room. This is the testi mony: “The Chairman. Answer the j question propounded to you. “Senator O’Conor. It would be ■ accurate to say you used it several : times a week over a period of four 1 or five or six months? “Mr. Lattimore. Yes." Now, if you or I were given the convenience of office room in the ; State Department, we would not only remember it, but we would : tell our children and grandchildren about it. But not Owen Lattimore! , He took such conveniences in his stride. He testified in both execu tive session and in the open ses sion that his attendance* at that office was “irregular and infre quent." However, the committee showed him a Jetted dated June 12, 1952 that he had written to “Dear Mr. Kizer.” In that letter he had said: “My home address is as typed above, and mv home telephone is Towson 846-W. I am in Washing ton about four days a week, and when there can always be reached at Lauchlin Currie’s office, Room 228, State Department Building; telephone National 1414, extension 90.” Also. Lattimore denied that when Lauchlin Currie was awav he open ed Currie’s mail. Lauchlin Currie was one of President Roosvelt’s ad ministrative assistants, and he has been testified about adversely as a foreign agent before this commit tee. It was Lauchlin Currie who got Roosevelt to appoint Lattimore to be Chiang Kai-shek’s adviser. All this is in the record. So, after Lattimore denied that when Currie was away, he, Latti more, handled Currie’s mail, which ordinarily would have Jo do with White House business, the counsel for the McCarran Committee con fronted the professor with the fol lowing letter which he had sent to E. C. Carter, the head of the In stitute of Pacific Relations: “Dear Carter; “Currie asked' me to take care of his correspondence while he is away and in view of your telegram of today, I think I had better tell you that he has gone to China on a special trip. This news is abso lutely confidential until released in the press.” Lattimore had forgotten about his opening White House mail which passed over Currie's desk as ad ministrative assistant to the Presi dent. All that he could say on the subject was; “Obviously, my mem ory was inaccurate.” Then, this colloquy followed: “Mr. Morris. That is written on White House stationery, is it, Mr. Lattimore? “Mr. Lattimore. Yes, dictated to Lauchlin Currie’s secretary. “Mr. Morris. Are you acquainted with the testimony before this committee that Lauchlin Currie aided an espionage ring in Wash ington during the war? “Mr. Lattimore. No, I don’t re member seeing that.” The professor forgot so much! In . fact, as one goes through this tes timony, it is difficult to discover what Lattimore actually remember ! ed about what he did. ; absolutely accurate. A fellow worry i ing about ijow he chewed ’em was like to chew all over. So the naval I scientists came up with electronic : chewing gum. A sailor bites into a piece of it, - which is connected by wire to a l machine, where the dentists can i read on a dial the kind of work his l teeth are doing. This electrified > chewing gum soon will get a work out at Great Lakes. I Sounds dangerous to me. A sailor with sharp teeth Could get a mouth 1 fun of sparks- With the Navy’s per . mission, lit continue my own re- I search with peanut*. thy daily record, duiyn. h. c. a qj, e WASHINGTON WHERRY* 60* ROUND g T pßtw rutiON PARIS Most of the newsmen around Paris seem to think that the most important story in Europe is Eisenhower—when he will leave, where he will speak, what he had for breakfast. I don't think so. To me, the most important story on either side of the Atlantic today is that the peace of Europe may be within our grasp. - Peace can be made or unmade within the next few months. And it’s unfortunate that Eisenhower is leaving at this crucial time, when a push here or his persuasive in fluence there could make such a difference for future war or peace. The vital fact to be remembered about Europe today is that for 80 years men have been marching in to battle on either side of the Rhien and now, for the first time in 80 years, they plan to organize on both sides of the Rhine under one army wearing the same uni form. Eisenhower did not conceive this idea of a unified European army. The diplomats conceived it, not ably Robert Schuman of France. But Ike has given it is longest push forward, and if the final push can be given in the next few weeks it will be more important to his grandchildren than his becoming president. That’s why future his torians may write that Eisenhower’s departure at this particular mo ment influenced the future of Europe for better or for worse and for a long time to come. MOSCOW FEARS UNIFIED EUROPE How strong the drive is toward a unified Europe may be judged by the drive of the men in the Kremlin to head it off. Nobody knows better than they what a United Europe under one army would do, first, to European de fense, and second, to the fight a gainst communism. That’s why peace in Korea, elections in East Germay, the evacuation of the Red army from East Germany, even the return of East Prussia to Ger many all are involved in the Krem lin’e efforts to block the new ac cord between France and Germany. It’s a race for unity by the allies and a race against unity by the Kremlin, with Moscow ready to throw most of its most important blue chips into the pot to block the dreaded idea of France and Germany defending each other from the common enemy with a common army. Unfortunately, Moscow has some potent allies—even including a few in the United States. Here is a roll call of the people and factors lined up with Moscow to defeat the most important step toward world peace in eighty years; ALLY NO. 1— is corruption in the U. S. A. After World War I a great leader, Woodrow Wilson, got sick and with him sickened the world’s aspirations for peace. Af ter World War II the administra tion in Washington swallowed too CUTIES imc mmta itomcatc. mart, outivre. i “Isn’t it wonderful how many things you can buy that * coat leas than a quarter? Let me have twenty dollars, dear!” much corruption and became sick. With that sickness evaporated its prestige for leadership, its ability to influence Foreign Policy, and its power to obtain Congressional ap propriations. Also another great man got sick—Arthur Vandenberg of Michigan, the Republican who had kept his party from kicking Foreign Policy all over the political gridiron. Mr. Truman, whose ideas on Foreign Policy are excellent, may never know how much he has hurt his own great goals for peace by failing to clean up the corruption in his administration, and by let ting public attention focus on that corruption rather than on world unity. ALLY NO. 2 is French fear and apathy. Though he lives with a potential enemy across the bor der and though his land has suf fered two devastating invasions in three decades, there is no man more provincial than the French man. And today, though most French leaders are for unity with Germany, the man in the street is skeptical. “Do not arm Germany with anything more than a wooden sword,” he says. The average Frenchman not on ly fears Germany but he is apa thetic about the whole business of peace. He is like many Americans today tired of paying High taxes, against peacetime military con scription. opposed to having Amer ican or any foreign troops on French soil. ALLY NO. 3 is the German Socialist. They are deadly opposed to German rearmament of any kind; in fact, German youth have laid down in the streets to demon strate against the proposed Ger man army. So far, Chancellor Kon rad Adenauer, who favors a Euro pean army, has the majority of West Germany with him, but his margin of votes is dangerously slim. ALLY NO. 4 is a religious one. It’s the opposition of French So cialists to a West European army, which they claim would be an arm of the Catholic Church. FEARS ROME’S DOMINATION Jules Moch, former French Min ister of Defense and leading social ist, outlined this view recently to the American officers at shape. He pointed out that Foreign Minister Schuman and Georges Bidaiilt, the French architects' of the unified army, were strong leaders of the Catholic Party, that Adenauer was a leader of the Catholic Party in Germany, that Premier Alcide De Gasperi of Italy was trained in the Vatican, and that the leaders ; of the Belgian government are : strong Catholics. Therefore, the members of the French Socialist i Party, he said, were opposed to cre i ating an army that might be dom t inated by Rome. 5 The French Socialists, Moch said, - were counting on Protestant Eng - land to counterbalance this, but, o with England out of the European “-Walter 1 Winchell York By JACK LAIT Substituting for Winchell The FBI is 1 crossfires since Atty. Gen.-designate, Mc- Granery tossed off, light-handedly, the statement that the J. Edgar Hoover bureau is to take over the corruption clean-up. . . . Sec. of the Treasury Snyder, with his own in telligence crews, had a law passed whereby the FBI is specifically barred from investigating his tax staffs. . . . And, though elsewhere the FBI may probe into criminal activities, it has no jurisdiction over the most dangerous of all, the fringe activities carried on by offi cials and employes who are not members of the Community Party, but who encourage and in many cases support subversion. . . . More over, the FBI can only investigate and report, not prosecute. It has no subpoena power. . ~ It is over worked now', screening out and run ning down Reds, and if it' had to put on a lot of new men for the added load, these would not meas ure up to standards and would not have the experience and training requisite for such delicate and dif ficult work. ... It seems to have been a sudden decision, without realization of its import. The new material written bv Noel Coward for Beatrice Lillie will nev er pass the codes of radio and television. Too bloomin’ blue. Jackpotpourri—Did- a Washing ton Man o{ Distinction ease the way for Rudolph Bing, of the Met, who has been promised citizenship? .... Walter Brooks, reported here as planning to wed N. Y. tugboat heiress Muriel Dalzell, is apparent ly also managing her campaign for state senator in Florida. . . . Betty Hutton will swing it—with songs and trapeze—at the Palace, open ing Saturday mat. . . . Louise Hyde, ex-Miss Tennessee, and Bert Haft, textile man, planning their Carib bean honeymoon in Majors Cabin. Franchot Tone has abandoned all ideas of again teaming up with Barbara Payton, matrimonially and professionally. He flew alone to Bermuda to open at the Bermu diana Hotel Theatre, in Hamilton, 3 April 12, in “Petrified Forest.” . . . Princess Margaret of Britain, in cognito (she’s in mourning) attend ed a class at the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art. ... Turner Air Base, in Georgia, is training stu dent pilots for "tropical survival.” They come down in swampland and are coached to prepare and eat toasted grasshoppers, fried frogs, turtles, etc. . . . DeCastro Sisters, at Chateau Madrid, are the three daughters of Babette Wood, Zieg feld exhibit married to a Cuban sugar planter who bought off her “Follies" contract for a lot of sugar he he could get her out of the show and into his family. Myrna Loy (Mrs. Howland Sar gent) is growing to be a foremost social figure in Washington. She and her husband, who is Assistant Secretary of State, mingle with ambassadors and ministers, not only : because they rate it, but because they are well liked. The ex-Holly wood colony in the ciptal now in , eludes Shirley Temple Black, Lou ; ise Albritton Collingwood. Corinne • Griffith Marshall and the latest . emigre. Constance Bennett, who ; comes May 1 to join her Army hus ! band. : army the Socialist Party of France ; would vote “no” when it came to ratifying the army plan. While Moch’s view represents a minority, nevertheless it is significant—be , cause the French Government can not get Parliamentary approval of a unified army without the Social i Ist votes. Thus It may be that France, which originally proposed an army fighting under one uni form, may be the country finally to reject it. Thus also, Eisenhower, - who now faces the first political battle of his career, may be leav ing just as the greatest achieve ment of his career—the peace and unity of Europe—stands in need of greatest help. Delegates Hear Progress Reports Delegates attending the Bth an nual meeting of the North Carolina District of the Assemblies of God here today heard a report that membership of the denomination has increased S 3 per cent during the past five yean. The Rev. Andrew Stirling, super intendent of the North Carolina District, told the delegates from all sections of the State that member ship has now reached 2,200 in the 49 Assemblies churches in the State. DISTRICT FORMED IN 1944 It was not until eight yean ago that the district was formed, al though a few churches were in ex istence prior to that time. The de nomination as a whole has more than a half-million memben and , is particularly strong in the Middle ; West . ■ Mr. Stirling also reported that contributions to missions rose from $3,000 in 1990 to *7,000 in 1951. YVEDNESDAY AFTERNOON APRIL 23, .1952 The Worry (link BBSj By DR. GKORGI W CRANR Newspapers are the leading educators of America. They try to give you the facts by which you can lead a happier, more successful life. • They help you overcome phobias and ignorance. And they offer further specific pex advice in such scientific bul letins as the one mentioned be low. By DR. GEORGE W. CRANE CASE D-333: Teresa 8., aged 17, is a high school senior. “Dr. Crane, we had a lecture re cently that dealt with veneral dis ease,” she began seriously. “Ever since then I have had a. great fear of catching it. I have now developed a phobia, I guess you’d call It. “I wash my hands excessively and use lysol or alcohol, until my hands are raw. “I am even scared about visiting a rest room at the theater. My life is miserable. “So can you please help me to get rid of this complex? What are the facts about veneral disease?” VENEREAL FACTS You readers have probably no ticed that I usually .stay away from strictly medical problems, out of courtesy to your medical column ist. But when personality is seriously disturbed by medical worries or mis-information, I don’t hesitate to help clear up the difficulty. There are two venereal diseases, namely, gonorrhea and syphilis. Gonorrhea is a pus disease that usually attacks the urethra, which is the tube that carries the urine out of the body. Within 4 to 7 days after exposure to the germs, the patient may find that it is so very painful to uri nate, he or she actually screams with agony. The gonorrhea bacteria may also attack a woman’s vagina and may often ascend into her Fallopian tubes, which then swell and be come exceedingly painful. She goes to bed and requires pain deaden ing drugs, plus ice packs on the lower abdomen. Because the pus of gonorrhea patients may occasionally drip on toilet seats, it is always well to exercise caution when using public rest rooms. Warn your children, too, for they can catch gonorrhea in this man ner before they are of kindergarten age, although it is relatively un By America's Foremost Personal Affairs Counselor SERVICEMAN? INVITES BROTH ER TO BE JHBST MAN, THEN DEFERS WEQDING AND ASKS BUDDY T.O STAND - UP. DEAR MARY HAWORTH :lam a serviceman, 22, . and since last October Lucy and I have been talking ot gettihg married. We had intended to marry in January, al though nothing definite was set. Anyway, I asked toy brother pan to be best man. ahd he accepted and was very pleased. However; we didn’t marry in January, due td circumstances out side our control; and now the date is set for May. I have told Dan that I’ve changed my mind about having him as best man; and want him to be an usher, along with Lucv's brother; and that my best buddy will stand up with me. As Dan is 34 and already married, I think it would be more' appropriate for him to be an usher, and for my best man to be nearer my age. My buddy is 24, and we grew up together. My brother 1$ Very hurt and 1 peeved at mjr change of plans, and feels slighted, 1 think. He even threatens not, to come to my wed ’ 'ding at all. He Was like a father : to me when I Was a child, and prac tically raised me from the age of two—when my. dad left us. Should ; I have him as brat man? if so, how can I explain the situation to my buddy wpo also expects to be my best man? dr. how can I convince my brother that being an usher is an honor too, .as the ushers will stand with us at the altar? Maybe I don’t know the full meaning of the role of best man at a wedding; so ctear me up on ‘ this, will J hope you wiH ) answer soon, as pan has stopped writing to ine, and I want to get • the problem cleared up quickly.— k E. R. [ USUAL CHORES , OF BEST MAN 5 DEAR E. R..: The role of Best man at a wedding is tb look after . the traditionally nervous brlde l groom. He takes charge of? the 1 ring, giving it to the groom at the s . Three new churches were establish ) k Tbe Qlad TidttMß Church of DUnn - A. A. Amerine li pa*t«*o?t?£' toSd - cnrjucn. - . s Principal spatter at today’s sess i ion JpJM' ■JKjjE; uTArnTM usual for either children or adults to become infected from to|f-f S *Always flush a public toilet once or twice before you use it so that you clean out the water therein, for the latter may be contaminated and splash upon you. And never use the towels or wash cloths of suspected patients. Re member, too, that gonorrhea in fects the eyes and causes blind ness. SYPHILIS VS. GONORRHEA Syphilis is seldom ever caught from toilets. It is an entirely,®.. l l ferent germ disease that enters by ■ way of a cut or raw surface. ; Once in a while it appears on the lip from use of a contaminated I dish or cup. ; But it is generally contracted by sexual relations with an infected , individual. A person whose syphilis ■ has “gone inward” or entered the third stage, is not likely to infect > anybody, even his own wife. , However, both of these venereal > diseases are very unlikely to lie caught from any other source than . sexual relations, so don’t let your r self become hypochondriacs on the t subject. Use reasonable precautions re garding toilets and cover a split j lip with adhesive tape if you are r eating at public restaurants. ; Don’t worry about the inside of the mouth or intestinal tract, for i, gastric juice in your stomach will l prove an excellent germicide tor t such swallowed bacteria, i Teresa’s excessive fear, however, , had arisen from the fact that she had indulged in self sex practices a » few times and then, following her l .high school lecture, had noticed a . slight vaginal discharge, or leukor s rhea. Her guilty conscience thus made 3 her think she was afflicted with a , venereal disease. 3 You need to employ common . sense or “horse sense” in medicine s as well as all other fields of aclf l - ity. e Send for my bulletin “Sex Prob lems of Young People,” enclosing- a i stamped return envelope and a 3 dime. a (Always write to Dr. Crane In c care of this newspaper, enclosing a long 3c stamped, addressed y envelope and a dime to cover - typing and printing costs when i you send for one of his psycho - logical charts.) —. ■ 1 ■ W proper .moment ;in .the ceremony. He pays the clergymanhis febi and If there are tips to- be paid, for chquffeuring, etc., be takes care of them top,—and is reimbursed at another time.- ' ‘. - • Ordinarily the best man, Is on hand early to help the bridegroom finish his dressing or last-minute packing for-• the great eVeht. He sees that his tie is right, his hand kerchief available, his traveling kit in order, his keys and bfllfrfl where they belong, etc. Also He keeps him company and assuages his tension With sympathetic hu mor during the final throes of waiting. After the ceremony, if the newly weds are going on a trip, the best man makes himself useful getting them to the train, or bringing their car around, double-checking the luggage, etc.—anything to give them a lift in the leavestaklng scene. O Theoretically, the best man should be sufficiently objective about the situation to keep a cool head during the excitement of the wedding day. Thus a good friend is sometimes chosen in preference to a near relative, who might get as rattled as the bridegroom in some eleventh - hour eniergency, such as misplacing the ring, strug gling with an unruly cravat, or what-not. However, fathers and brothers do often serve as b«j| man, when mutual ,9entimem strongly favors this arrangement. TALKS TOO MUCH ‘ ABOUT FLANS My advice is to patch up the rift with your brother and have him as best man if he will con sent. Since you asked - him first i and he was pleased, you should ; have left it that way. ft seems your . basic problem ir talking too much as an attention-getting device. Ho doubt your frailty in this respete la glvhig your fiancee a good daV of trouble and embarrassment about ; Wedding day plans—which, in the ' main, are hfer provinoe, not yours, when once you’ve asked her to mar ry you. • To square yourself with your buddy, tell the trutlt-that you’d prefer to have him as best man, but in a hasty moment you asked Mur brother mouths ago. for the i January date; and now he’s going • &j»S *** »W PiteW «Wr 1 the job in May. Explain that IV