THURSDAY AFTERNOON, SEPTEMBER 18, 1952
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DUNN, N. G.
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Entered as second-class matter in the Post Office in Dunn,
N. C., under the laws of Congress, Act of March 3, 1879.
Every afternoon, Monday through Friday
King Cotton
Ins spite of high-money, fast selling crops like tobacco,
is still king in this section and a good proportion
of the economy is still dependent on whether the cotton
crop is good or bad.
> Synthetics may supplement cotton in wearing apparel
but they will never replace it and it is, and probably will
remain the basic fabric. New technological advances are
constantly finding new uses for cotton and its by-products,
which more than take up the gap made by the use of other
materials.
In years of a heavy crop we often hear the cry to limit
production on cotton and turn the land into other crops.
l|But one short crop year is enough to emphasize the need
for this basic commodity, particularly in times of emerg
ency such as the present.
The nation needs cotton for tents, bandages, clothing,
gun cotton and hundreds of other military purposes. As
long as the bogey of over production is kept well hidden
and th epresent crying need for lint products prevails, there
is no reason to cry havoc for the cotton farmer.
With textile manufacturers constantly moving plants
from the north, the manufacture of cotton and cotton pro
ducts is rapidly becoming the top industry in the south.
Economically, it is sound practice to move plants closer to
the source of supply, and cotton is the crop of the south.
Erwin Mills, constantly expanding, is one of the big
gest factors in the economy of this section. When the mills
are running full time the result is reflected in prosperity
all over th ecounty. Conversely, when the mills are on short
time or shut down for any reason, the entire county suf
fers.
King Cotton will remain on his throne for a long
time t ocome. He may suffer a knockdown, occasionally,
but don’t ever count the old fellow out.
• :
Erwin Hospital
Patients
Little Carolyn Byrd, Mr% Esther
Lane, Mrs. Jean Cruch, MjJ. Grace
Coats, Mrs. Hattie Glover, M4s
Bertie Wood, Mrs. Erland Flowers,
Mrs. Catherine Matthews, Mrs. Me
lissa Ryals, Mrs. Jean Hammond,
Mn. Hllma Hanna, Mr. J. F. Lyn-
Wh, Mr. D J. West, Mr. W. M.
Houstan, Mrs. Nettie Sewell, Mas
ter Rudolph McLamb, Mrs. Mable
Hargis, Maxine McLean, col, Linda
McLean, col., Annie McLean, col.
VISITING HERE
Lt. and Mrs. Richard Kiel and
Linda of San Antonio, Texas, are
visiting her parents, Mr. and Mrs.
Ken Pate. Follow ifigj th|ir visß
they will go to Virginia, where Lt.
fCiel will be stationed.
BIRTHS
Mr. and Mrs. George Oliver
Whittington of Lillington, a son,
George Daniel, on September 15,
in Good Hope Hospital. Mrs. Whit
tington is the former Mary Lou
Stewart.
Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Panehistn
of Coats, a son, Thomas Lane, on
September 12, in Good Hope Hosp-
Wtay. Mrs. Panehisin is the former
Joyce Ann Grimes.
Mr. aSid Mas. Lester Madison
Bennett of Lillington, R(t. 2, a
daughter, Doris Eloise, on Septem
ber 13, in Good Hope Hospital.
Mrs. Bennett is the former Eunice
Frederick OTHMAN
* WASHINGTON, lf anybody
has any ideas concerning whales,
their care, and how to catch one, he
has until October 4 to get his views
to Albert M. Day, Director of the'
Fish and Wildlife Service.
Otherwise Director Day, who has
had a long-time love affair with
all furry and finny things, includ
ing whales, will issue his own
whale rules. He already has 'em all
written out.
V One of the troubles with whales
is that people won’t leave them
alone. Always teasing ’em. This
makes for unhappy whales, which
pine away, and what good is a
skinny whale for blubber? All he’s
got left is whalebone, a commodity
no longer in any great demand.
That is why Director Day intends to
make the molesting of whales a
criminal offense, subjecting the mo
lesters to a jail term. As he puts
it, officially;
0 “The chasing, molesting, exiting,
or interfering, with firearms or by
any other manner or means, with
any whale protected by the pro
visions of the International Con
vention for the Regulation of
Whaling of 1946 is prohibited.”
Catching a whale legitimately is
a good deal different from moles
ting one; this calls for a license
and considerable book work.
Baleen whales may be caught
1 to October 31 and sperm
•whales from April 1 to November
SO. Anybody doing this, providing
the whale doesn't get him first,
must Jot down the day and the hour
of the capture, the species of the
Pauline Brock.
Mr. and Mrs. William Ray Norris
of Coats Rt 1, a daughter, Marian
Diana on September 14, in Good
Hope Hospital. Mrs. Norris is the
former Christine Norris.
Mr. and Mrs. Owen FletcheT Mat
thews of Angier Rt 2, a daughter,
Linda Hope on September 14, in
Good Hope Hospital. Mrs. Mat
thews is the former Ruby Pearl
Fowler.
Mr. and Mrs. Shelton Alonzo
Benson of Angier Rt 1. a son, Dou
glas Michael on September 15, in
Good Hope Hospital. Mrs. Benson is
the former Mable Kathleen Riggs
bee.
Mr. and Mrs. Silas Salmon Faulk
ner of Coats Rt 1, a son, Ronnie
Wayne on September 15, in Good
Hope Hospital. Mrs. Faulkner is
the former Mary Ethline Carroll.
Mr. and Mrs. Oscar Lee Daniels
of Coats Rt 1, a daughter, Elgle
Gray, on September 14, in Good
Hope Hospital. Mrs. Daniels is the
former Maude Opale Norris.
Mr. and Mrs. Stacy Lee Dupree
of Angier Rt 1, a daughter, Kathy
Lynn on September 14, in Good
Hope Hospital. Mrs. Dupree is the
former Doris Pearl Wilkerson.
Mr. ttnd MrS. William Dalton
Flowers of Linden Rt 1, a son. on
September 16 in Good Hope Hos
pital. Mrs. Flowers is the former
Dora Erland McLamb.
whale caught, and the time of de
livery to the factory ship. If lost,
the whale catcher must explain why.
The factory ship must give each
'whale a serial number, record its
sex, measure its length, describe
the contents of its stomach, name
the whale catcher which took it,
and mention any abnormalities no
ted about it.
Unclaimed whales, which occas
sionally float up dead to a beach,,
are different. You need no license
to cart one of these away, but
you'vA got to report to director
Day what kind of whale you found,
where and when, and what you in
tend to do with it.
These rules and others, which
consume a good many hundreds of
words, mention nowhere the dead
whales on tour of the Middle West
riding on flat cars, where the locals
can have a look for 25 cents. Day,
unfortunately, was out q t town
when I called to discuss the whale
situation, but I did have a nice
chat with Dr. John Kask, his top
assistant in charge of whales. Dr.
Kask said whales in 1952 are a
mong the happiest of beasts.
This is because hardly anybody
is molesting them, or shooting them,
either. In all 'the United States
this year, not one single whale firm
Is at work. This is because of the
low l>rice of whale oil.
What little whaling going cm
now Is the Antarctic. This is where
most of the molesting happens, too.
Dr. Kask said the fellows down
there sometimes chase a whale all
day, wear it out, decide it isn’t the
These Days
SOCIALIST NEUTRALISM
It has been fashionabfe in recent
years, in this country, for those in
both parties who deal with inter
national problems, to believe that
a "Third Force" can save Europe
from Russia. They have therefore
tended to support the various Soc
ialist groups which take a middle
position between the United States
and Soviet Russia. In effect, it is
more becoming American policy, by
indirection, to support neutralism
in Europe,
The British Labour Party has,
under the influence of Aneurin Be
van, been developing neutralists
tendencies. Although at a recent
meeting of the party, the Bevan
faction was defeated, its strength
was apparent. It is probable that
should the Labour Party return to
power, Bevan will be its leader. He
is a National Socialist of Marxist
persuasion, who places the United
States on a par with Soviet Rus
sia from a British standpoint. He
seeks, for Great Britain, a balance
of power between the United States
and Soviet Russia, with Great Bri
tain allied to neither but benefiting
from both.
While the British Labour Party
has never been in agreement with
the United States on its China
policy or the Korean War, it is
possible to say with accuracy that
the Conservative Party has been
of divided opinion and not alto
gether favorably disposed. Great
Britain, whether Labour or Con
servative, desired that the United
States recognize Soviet China, as
the British did, with a view to as
sisting British trade. Both parties
were antagonistic to General Doug
las MacArthur.
The British forces assigned to
the Korean? War amount to about
23,000 as compared to 600,000 Amer
icans. American casualties have
amounted to approximately 120,000;
British to over 3.000; Americans
killed amount to about 20,000; the
British killed to over 500,
Yet, the British insist upon de
termining the policy of this war.
So far as the British are concern
ed, the re-establishment of the 38th
parallel ended the Korean War.
Yet Americans are being killed
there every day.
In a full dress debate on this
subject in the HouSe of Commons,
the following resolution was in
troduced by Mr. Noel-Baker (La
bour)!
“That this House, while appre
ciating that the Government and
armed forces of the United States
of America have borne the major
share of the burden of resisting
armed aggression in Korea, re
grets the failure of Her Majesty’s
Government to secure effective
consultation prior to recent devel
opments, including consultation on
the timing of certain recent air
operations; and considers that im
proved arrangements should now
be made to enable such consulta
tion to take place between the
Governments principally concern
ed on issues of United Nations pol
icy in the Far East.”
It is important to note that this
is what he proposed;
“He agreed that military opera
tions could no*, be run by a com
mittee—there must be a command
—and that 16 Governments could
not be told in advance about im
pending plans and operations—but
he maintained that we could have
not only a British deputy chief of
staff, but a more fully integrated
command under General Mark
Clark, and a small but strong po
litical sub-committee of the United
Nations to study and consider at
high level the big political Issues
as they arose.
“But more adequate machinery
would not suffice if the Govern
ment failed to assert their right to
consultation ...” J , ,
Churchill came to Bur defense. It
is interesting to note some of the
things he said;
“ What the Communists had
lost in the field they recovered at
the haggling table of Panmunjom.
If they compared the position to
day with what it was a year ago,
they could see how shrewd and
well-timed was the Russian request
for an armistice and how heavy
had been the cost to the American
armies who were bearing nine
tenths of the burden and the brunt
of the war in Korea ...
“It was said that the United
States forces had had 32,000 cas
ualties in the bickering on the
front during the armistice nego
tiations. We had 1,200 ... ”
I wish to call attention to the
: fact that I wrote, at the time that
the armistice was proposed, that
this would happen. I say this not in
pride but rather to point out that
this has always been the way of
the Chinese Communists; that
Chiang Kai-shek lost Manchuria
and North China because he was
forced by the United States to ac
cept a similar armistice with the
Chinese Communists.
kind they want and let it go. This
is hard on whales and lt has got
to stop. . .
The rules eventually will be ad
opted by the International Whaling
Conference in London. If the price
of oil should go up, we’ll be back
in the business, too, and then the
regulations will apply to us. So it
is that Director Day’s document is
not as academic as it looks at first
glance, as I, for one, am glad tp
i know.
TW. DAILY RECORD, BUNN, N. C.
“I wish to resign my house-to-house salesman job—th»
last prospect slammed the door In my face!
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WASHINGTON—IKE NOTES—
Despite his intensive campaign,
Ike’s chances don’t look good in
Adlai's home state. This is the first
time since Abe Lincoln that Illinois
has had a chance to put a native
son in the White House . . . GOP
chances in Ohio look better since
the Taft-Eisenhower breakfast.
Dave Ingalls, Taft’s cousin and
campaign manager, telephoned a
Cleveland banker shortly thereafter
asking for a sizeable contribution.
The banker demurred. ’This is a
real deal now,” argued Ingalls.
"The Dewey crowd are not going
to be in the picture at all, and we
are going to have a big hand in the
patronage.” . . . Relations between
Ike and the press are not too friend-
Though Ike has 75 per cent of
the newspapers for him, plus a ter
rific advance bqild-up, he and the
working press aren’t happy with
each other.
Adlai’s gift of words continues
to disturb GOP managers. That
was the reason for the gibe at Ste
venson’s humor. Good ghost-writ
ers are rare, and Ike’s strategist
have been doing their best to find
some, so far with not much luck
. . ■. Ike’s friend and original cam
paign manager, Sen. Henry Cabot
Lodge is in trouble in Massach
usetts; also the GOP candidate for
governor, Congressman Christian
Herter. Ike will do his best to bols
ter them, but it seems doubtful he
will carry the state himself . . .
reason why Senator Taft is so sore
at Ike’s No. 1 strategist, Gov. Sher
man Adams of New Hampshire, is
that Adams compaigned all through
New Hampshire, calling Taft an
isolationist .... Dan Tyler, GOP
chairman in Massachusetts, is
worried over losing the big write-in*
vote that went for Ike in the pri
mary. These independents are big
ger in number than the Demo
crats or the Republicans. They
could be' alienated by Ike’s swing
to the right..
ADLAI’S WEAKNESS
If Stevenson loses In November,
part of the fault will He at the
doorstep o fhis newly picked, naive
Democratic National Chairman,
Stephen Mitchell.
The other day, Bert Gross, crack
research expert for the Demo
crats, turned in his resignation and
walked out. Reason. A rule that
every piece of research had to cross
the chairman’s desk before going
to the White House or Springfield.
D nc(i»tC
Result was a bottleneck. The
overworked Mitchell coundn’t pass
on the research. Nothing moved.
The same is partly true of the
Democratic organization today.
Chairman Mitchell has done little
about the South, has let the great
State of Texas seethe to the verge 1
of a GOP victory, has let southern i
CUTIES
"•A 11 » isnt ■ r——— "nm— ™
, fourteen dollars and aevaaty-Awe cents!" ,
California continue as disunited as
ever, and until recently had no
central Stevenson headquarters in
Boston.
The new chairman has been
either unfamiliar with these local
situations or hasn't been able to
delegate authority.
Turbulent Texas he has left in
the hands of Speaker Sam Ray
burn, who delayed a Stevenson or
ganization meeting until three
weeks after the Shivercrats an
nounced for Eisenhower; also in
the hands of timid Sen. Lyndon
Johnson, who complains because
he didn’t get the. vice presidency,
and is worried over his own re
election that he’s thinking more
about 1954 than about Stevenson
in 1952.
In New Mexico, Sen. Dennis
Chavis has a secret deal with Re
publican Gov. Ed Mechem to send
Chaves back to the Senate now,
then elect Mechem against Sen.
Clinton. Anderson, Democrat, in
1954. Naturally this doesn’t make
Anderson anxious to help Chavez
now.
These are some of the trouble
spots a strong Democratic chair
man should be ironing out. Mitch
ell hasn’t.
RUMOR FACTORY
Rumors are like mushrooms. Once
they get started they keep on
growing.
Some time ago the Hollywood
reporter reported that Lady Sylvia
Ashley, ex-wife of Douglas Fair
banks and later of Clark Gable,
had been “squired around Nassau
by Stuart Symington, aide to the
Governor.”
Shortly thereafter the same re
port appeared in a New York Gos
-1 sip column. Only this time, the item
omitted the fact that Stuart Sy
mington was' “aide to the Gov
ernor." There happen to be two
Stuart Symingtons: One the form
er director of the RFC now running
for the Senate in Missouri; the
other a Britisher and aide to the
governor of the Bahamas. He hap
pens to be single.
People, reading the New York
column, began talking about an
impending divorce in the Stuart
Symington family The Missouri
Symingtons. Symington happens to
be one of the most happily married
men in public life, but the rumor
kept on spreading.
Eventually the rumor came back
to Symington from a friend who
asked: “Stuart, what’s this story
I hear about you and Greta Garbo
gibing around together?”
COSTELLO RUMOR
Another rumor erroneously cur
rent is that David Chamay, crack
New York public relations man,
handled publicity for gangland
leader Frankie Costello. I came
near failing for this rumor myself
Walter
Windfall
York
MAN ABOUT TOWN
The N. Y. Post and several Ivans
(on the staff) will be embarrassed
by the U. S. Gov’t next month ...
The near-splituation of the Mario
Lanzas is the reason for his screw
bailitis .... Rita Hayworth won’t
be served with legal papers while
in France. She gave him the same
first thing Eleanor Holm did (after,
break during his visit here .. The
leaving Judge McNally’s one-day
stand) was to take an all-body sun
lamp treatment. (Now how would
HE know?) .... Tell those men in
the white coats to stand by. T.
Manville and his last wife may do
it again so she can get a “legal”
divorce . . . Murder, Inc. now
charges only $250 for a first grade
killing ... The Georgie Prices are
not Counting 10,000 .. Rumors
from the D. A.’s office have sev
eral newspapermen perspiring freely.
(Isn't it a lit-tul warm in here?)
.... Hefty money on Walcott nose
dived the odds on Marciano to take
the crown. Skidded from 2 to 1 to
8 to 5 .... The election odds via the
B’way bookies: Ike, the slight pet,
dipping (from 6 to 5) to 5 1-2 to 5.
If you want to bet on Ike you must
give the bookies 6 1-2 to 5.
The Washington Line: Acheson’s
clients (when he returns to law
practice in Jan.) will be foreign gov
ernments. For whom he negotiated
loans as Secy of State “Mick”
McDermott, son of the State Dept’s
press chief, is giving up a brillant
law future to join the Jesuits
Truman’s tears (about a one-party
press )are crocodile. FDR had top
Repubs in key spots, including his
cabinet .. Stevenson’s star speech
writer is A. Schlesinger, jr., an
other staffer left at The Post ....
Suggested theme song; “Anything
Ad Can Do Ike Can Do Better” ..
.. Sculptor N. Tregor is doing a
bust of Truman. A bust of a bust?
The Angier Biddle Duke split-up
will be settled discreetly (and very
sotto voce) out of court .... Mag
Truman's mgr. (James Davidson)
is retiring from the concert racket
.... Reinhold Neibuhr, head of the
Theological Seminary (and one of
our greatest philisophers), is very
ill ..4. Insiders say Clayton Fritchey
\Truman sent him to Randle the
Demo’s public relations) father’d
Adlai’s crack about “the mess” in
Washington .... Democratic cam
paigners are celebrating their “sure
thing” victory already, dividing the
loot, allotting the territories, etc.
The nominee can't control their
wild parties. They bother airline
hostesses (lewd offers) with some
girls demanding new assignments
rather than fly with the drunk
with-power gang It's a girl for
Peggy Fairchild and her groom
Bobby-sox singer Bill Lawrence had
to be carried home after a terrible
slugging. Hamburgered his face ....
.. That clobbered tsk-tsk jockey
lost his police protection (not, as
he claims, at his request) after One
Citizen squawked.
The Moaning Mail: “Flush
ing, N. Y. Dear WW: I’m just a cab
driver. When I was beat up and
called vile names because of my
religious faith (last Sept.. 19th) I
didn’t rate any police protection.
I didn't even get my name in the
papers. I was curtly told by a desk
sergeant; ‘Now where In hell do
you think we’re going to find this
guy? You ought to be glad you’re
alive!’ And so I am! But why in
heck does a loudmouth disc jockey
rate police service while a cab
driver doesn’t? You may use this
letter—all they can do is send me
to the chair.—Mort Bossak.”
one time.
However, careful investigation
convinces me that Chamay was no
such thing. As a newsman he once
knew and wrote stories about Cos
tello. But they were critical stories.
However, the rumor kept cropping
up to such an extent that Chamay
was cross-examined by the Ke
fauver Crime Committee, which
could find nothing to substantiate
the rumor.
Though probed by Kefauver,
Charnay harbored no grudge, had
an interesting experience at Chi
cago when Kefauver was running
for president.
Charnay was adviser to Sen.
Dick Russell of Georgia. And after
both Russell and Kefauver were
defeated by Stevenson and the top
party leaders were sitting in the
little room behind the convention
rostrum trying to decide who
should be vice-president. Charnay,
who w%s in the room, urged that
they bring Kefauver into the con
ference.
The South is going to be terribly
important in this campaign," Char
nay urged. "Kefauver has put up
a great fight. He ought to be con
sulted.”
However, Kefauver was neither
offered the vice-presidency nor
even consulted. Both the president
and speaker Sam Rayburn were too
sore.
Harnett Bankers
Are Given Honor
Eugene W. Smith, Jr., of Dunn
was elected vice-president and
The Worry Clinic ||l||Bl
by DK. GEORGE W. CRANK *
Girls, if you are i love with
one of these Hamlet boys who
futily debates whether “to be or
not to be” married, don’t give
him a monopoly for more than
one year. After that, inject some
competition by going out into
the open market again. Teach
a man to lean upon you as an
emotional crutch, but when it
has become habitual with him,
knock the crutch out from un
der him.
By Dr. George W. Crane
Case E-371: Nancy J , aged 29, is
in love with her boss, aged 36.
“Dr Crane, he says he loves me.
too,” she confessed, “and we have
the most wonderful times together.
“He is everything I have ever
wanted in a man. Our interests
and recreations are similar.
“We both have the same type of
home and educational background.
He tells me he loves me. and 1
believe he does.
“But he steers away from the
idea of marriage. He seems to be
afraid of settling down.
“So. how can a girl get a man
to propose marriage?”
SALES STRATEGY
A man will think a girl is won
derful if she thinks he is won
derful and keeps telling him so.
But after a man has chosen a
girl as his sweetheart, he may be
content to remain on that basis
for many years.
I have known old bachelors to
keep a girl in suspense for 20
years, alway remaining her boy
friend but never suggesting mar
riage.
If you want to win a man for a
husband, however, win him for a
sweetheart first.
To do the latter, be very liberal
with compliments. Agree with his
usual high opinion of himself.
Help him with his work and in
various other ways become neces
sary to his happiness.
Get him to lean upon you for
comfort and commendation. In
short, become an emotional crutch
upon which he depends every day.
REMOVE THE CRUTCH
After you have trained him to
rely upon you for his enjoyment
of life, and maybe for darning his
rMautofitfib
mmk'htmi" Forem^
First Drink a. Revelation in Re
lieving Tension, Woman i No
Longer Happy Without Liquor;
How Break Habit?
DEAR MARY HAWORTH: I am
a housewife in my late thirties,
mother of two children—whole
some, healthy young animals. My
husband also is wholesome and
healthy, but not entirely happy—
because I love to drink. I started
imbibing at college. It was “the
thing to do” on our campus. The
first drink was a revelation. I had
never before felt so completely
pleased with the world and all its
inhabitants.
I was the middle child in a fam
ily of brothers and sisters; and my
poor tired mother used me as a
third hand, I was given work and
responsibiUty beyond my years.
Though sturdy in body, I was sen
sitive in spirit, and she wounded
me time and again, discouraging
soft sentiment from me. I worked
my way through two years of col
lege, then finally quit the struggle
for a degree and got a job I left
home as soon as I could and my
relationship with mother improved
immediately.
I wanted very much to be popu
lar with boys and eventually suc
ceeded. After half a dozen propos
als I married Tom, a genial, easy
going guy, probably one of the few
men on earth who would tolerate
my drinking. I drank moderately
until a few years ago, when I found
that my moods of depression (which
have always been with me) quick
ly disappeared with a few drinks.
Now I’m never really happy un
less “under the influence” to some
extent; and T drink alone as well
as in company.
When I drink I have a sense of
well being and a mellow outlook
that makes me wonder if there is
a physical basis for some individ
uals’ craving for alcohol. I’ve read
something to that effect, but ap
parently the theory isn’t proved. In
fact I’ve read a good deal on
aicololism without gaining insight
int my case; but reason tells me it’s
senseless to go on this way. My
husband still loves me, but I know
he worries about the situation. As
I do. How can I achieve peace of
mind and a happy acceptance of
Roger Mann of Lillington was
named to the board of governors
of the chapter of the American
Institute of Banking, formed at a
meeting in Fayetteville.
The new A. I. B. Chapter in
cludes bankers from towns and
cities in this area, and has been
set up to promote an educational
program for bank employes.
Organisation of the Chapter
followed an address by Leroy
Lewis of New York, national edu
cational director of the American
Institute of Banking.
PAGE THREE
socks or purchasing the gifts for
his relatives on their birthdays or
at Christmas, then knock the crutch
out from under him.
This will throw 7 him into a pan
ic, for it is characteristic of hu
man beings to value a thing great
er when it is taken away.
We don't appreciate, oxygen, for
example, until we are strangling.
Then oxygen becomes th(e most
beautiful thing in life. ,
When a man takes a girl for
granted and seems quite content to
keep her as a sweetheart or sec
retary but not as a wife, then you
girls must rudely jar him out of such
complacency.
Either stir up some competition
by dating other boys, or if this is
impossible in your small town or
neighborhood set, then move into
greener pastures.
Go out into the world to seek
your fortune. Leave home and seek
an office, factory or teaching job
in another town.
Take the gamble, for you shouldn’t
fritter away all your youth and
beauty waiting for your local Ham
let to decide whether “to be or
not to be" married.
HAMLET’S ONE YEAR
There may occasionally be ex
tenuating circumstances which
warrant giving your Hamlet more
than a year, but any livewire girl
ought to be able to make herself
the indispensable crutch within 12
month?.
If your boy friend cannot decide,
he may be a “mamn*a’s apron
stringer” or so low in sexual vigor
that he doesn’t crave much more
than a chief cook and bottle wash
er, so don’t waste more time on
him.
Competition spurs a real man
into action. Even you girls realize
that when you are trying to make
up your mind which piece of fab
ric to buy at a department store
counter, if another woman steps
up and shows she wants one of
your tentative choices, then you
are likely to hurry to the same
decision and purchase it.
So give your boy friend com
petition after one year's monopoly
of ybur heart.
life and its problems without this
crutch?
E S
A A PROGRAM REALLY HELPS
DEAR E. S.: As of today, the in
formal fellowship known as Alco
holics Anonymous —the A. A. —
probably embodies society’s best
hope of help for the alcoholic
drinker.
The A. A. groups—there are more
than 3.100 scattered over the world
—are an affiliation of men and
women who honestly want to stop
drinking. That is the only require
ment for membership. Members
meet in neighborly groups to share
t.beir experience and hope in a co
operative effort to solve their com
mon problem And to a remarkable
extent they find it true that “who
helps his brother’s bark to land
will find his own has reached the
shore.”
A. A. lines up with medicine and
psychiatry in designating alcohol
ism as a disease, not a disgrace; a
. health problem, not a moral aber
ration. "We wish to emphasize,”
■ says A. A., "that an alcoholic is
1 just as much a sick person as is an
individual with diabetes, tubercul
osis or a cardiac condition.
“Theories are advanced that the
cause is a peculiar chemical make
up of the body, resulting in a phy
sical susceptibility. Or that it is due
to a character deficiency, an escap
ist complex, inferiority complex or
to numerous other idiosyncrasies.
Any one of these may be true in
whole or in part. For simplicity,
however we have chosen to identify
it as an allergy resembling the un
fortunate situation of a diabetic
with an insatiable, compulsive de
sire for sugar.”
CENTRAL OFFICE PROVIDES
DATA
What is the promise of cure? A.
A. says, “There is no known cure
for physical susceptibility and in
the active stage it always grows
progressively worse. But if the
mental compulsion to drink is kept
under control, then the disease be
comes arrested and the alcoholic
can live a normal, useful and happy
life, similar to the arrested diabet
ic.”
A. A. offers the alcoholic a new
way of life, which enables jiim to ‘
compulsion to drink; and so long as
this is accomplished, he need never
1 bring under control the emotional
worry about the physical chemistry
which makes him allergic to al
cohol. A. A. further says, “The
greatest recommendation of our
program Is —IT WORKS I” To
locate the chapter in your vicinity,
write to the general headquarter*
of A. A., at 141 East 44th Street*
Room 203, New York City VI.
M. H.
Mary Haworth counsels throutft J
her column, not by mail or per
sonal Interview. Write her in can
of The Daily Record.
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