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PAGE TWO flEltp J3ailij, Jlt'ajrd DUNN, N. C. Published By fcJSCOKH PUBLISHING COMPANY At 311 East Canary Street ’’national advertising representative^ THOMAS F. CLARK CO., INC. 2*6-217 E. 42nd St.. New York 17. N. Y. Branch Office* In Every Major City SUBSCRIPTION RATES BY CARRIER. 20 cents per week; $8.50 per year in advance; $4 for six months; $3 for three months IN TOWNB NOT SERVED BY CARRIER AND ON RURAL ROUTES INSIDE NORTH CAROLINA: S6.M per year; RM for six months; $2 for three months OUT- OP-STATE: $8.50 per year in advance; $5 for six months. $1 for three months Entered as second-class matter in the Post Office in Dunn, M. C., under the laws ol Congress, Act of Ma-ch 3, 1879 Every afternoon, Monday through Friday No Secrets There has been a very encouraging increase in trie number of people who own stocks in American corporations —the businesses which are the hub of our vast industrial machine. And one of the best factors is that the great ma jority of these shareowners are typical Americans, with moderate incomes. However, many people still seem to think that there is something of a mystery involved in buying stocks—that it’s an activity which only should be followed by “insiders" with highly specialized knowledge and training. That mis conception needs clearing up. Anyone w'ho wishes to may buy many or few shares of any stock listed on the exchanges by the simple expedi ent of going to a broker and placing his order. He call sell his stock in the same fashion. There is no question about the price—it is a matter of public record as it goes up or down or remains stationary from day to day. Nor does any one “fix" that price— it is determined by what the seller is willing to pay and the buyer is willing to accept, much in the manner of an auction. Furthermore, the prospective investor doesn't have tc work in the dark so far as selecting shares in this com pany or that is concerned. Stale and national laws, and the regulations adopted by the principal stock exchanges, see to it that all pertinent information is readily available to anyone. The people who own stock are partners in the Ameri can economy. They have faith in the future. Most impor tant, they have a direct personal interest in preserving free enterprise and all the other freedoms at a time when every effort is being made to undermine them from within and without. The High Cost Os Socialism According to the Oregon Voter, 14 per cent of all the ad valorum property tax levy in that state is paid by public service enterprises—power and light, railroad, and telephone companies. This is entirely aside from the in come taxes, corporation fees, franchise taxes, license fees, and all the rest of the levies they pay. The situation is comparable in other states— in all parts of the country the public service companies are among the largest taxpayers, and are often the very larg est. And what gives this special interest is the fact that the campaign to socialize the electric industry, and take its properties off the public tax rolls, is being pushed with unabated vigor by political groups. The argument, of course, is that socialized power is cheaper power. That argument is strictly in the three dollar bill class. Survey after survey has shown that any rate advantage of publicly-owned as against privately owned utilities is made possible only by tax exemption and tax subsidies. On the average, the business-managed power companies pay out about 23 per cent of all their re venues in taxes. The socialized operations either pay no taxes at all, or comparatively small sums as token grants to states and municipalities." Every time a tax-paying en terprise is socialized, the tax burden of all other taxpay ers must go uo. Socialism means political control over our lives and affairs—a,nd we pay a big price in money to boot! Frederick OTHMAN WASHINGTON. I can't under, stand why the Federal Trade Com mission didn't invite me and my dog, Emma, to its conferences on chlorophyl as a product to make this best smelling of all possible worlds. We are experts on this subject. Particularly Emma. She docs not like the stuff. Me, I can take it. or leave it. Tiie government claims that some makers of chlorophyl have been too danced enthusiastic about tire ability of their product to make : everybody, Emma included, smell sweet. Some rival manufacturers of npn* green mouthwash simultan | eouslv have been advertising that Chlorophyl is a fake. They point out that grass contains more chlo rophyl than anything else. Goats eat grass. They still smell like goats. E This, according to the trade com ; missioners. is confusing to us cus tomers. So the manufacturers of chlorophyl pills, pastes, ointments and inner soles for shoes, to name only a few, are about to be ordered here to do some explaining and demonstrating for the record. Emma and I, even if asked at this late date, will be delighted to appear as friends of the court. Emma is a large poodle with a | coat the color of coffee and cream ? and plaintive brown eyes. When she's had a bath and the humidity remains high, she does not smell t at all. Except, of course, when she's f been chasing skunks. Even without skunks, however, * Emma oh wet days does not ex actly resemble a rose. I tried to | feed her some of the original green f chlorophyl pUls, but she spurned s them. I dissolved them in milk. ' which turned green and a little L-peppermliitv and she’d have none of that, either. p: Cilrit then tire of dog owners, stirring chlorophyl in to dog food, both dry and canned. This Emma cannot escape. She eats chlorophyl or she doesn’t eat, I give her a little meat, of course, along with the medicated pup chowder and I regret to report that she smells like she always smelled. She relied in the snow yesterday and when this melted in her fur. the word for her, I believe, w'as high. My. own experience with chlo rophyl has been more disastrous Some of the first chlorophyl tooth paste I bought somehow got splash ed on the bathroom wall. It also got on my bride’s best towels. It still is on the wall; it remains to be seen faintly after many wash ings on the towels. When I mentioned this in a:i item, here a few months back, the maker of another brand of green toothpaste sent me six tubes of his product, together with a letter saying I was ruining him. He ad ded that his chlorophyl was guar anteed washable. I have no doubt that it is. but I cannot swear to it. Mrs. O. W'as So bitter about her towels turning green that I have used the full half-dozen packages with such care not one smear of green has dribbled where it shouldn't. This. I know, is a min or matter to the trade commission. What it wants to learn is ex actly how I smell afer all this scientific testing. This is hard to say, gentlemen. A lady cannot notice her own perfume 10 minutes after she puts it on. I suggest you check this with your own wives. Obviously I do not know for sure what chlorophyl has done for me. but I have one hint: Emma still is able to recognize me in the dark. She does this with her nose, com missioners. I’m still willing to be persuaded on the uienU of cljlu- These Days £ckcUkij DEFINITIONS It is so easy to pick an argument about definitions. Yet when one says tire word, child, he does not mean a man of 50 with a beard. However, in the fields of politics or economics the tendency is to foul through by fighting over pri vate definitions, each thinker com ing up with his own. rn the hope that there may be > nay of stating ideas with some clarity. I offer a few' definitions which seem to be standard: Capitalism: “. . . capitalism is an economic order based on the profit motive: therefore its leading characteristics are the private own ership of the means of production, their operation for pecuniary gain, their control by private enterpris ers, and the use of credit and the wage system. . . ’’ ("The Triumph of American Capitalism," by Louis M. Hacker.) Fundamentally, this system re quires human freedom because in herent in it is the right of the in dividual to use his earnings accord ing to his choice and conscience. Socialism: w'hile the basic concept of Socialism is government owner ship of the means of production, distribution and exchange, the varieties are many, ranging from the mild reformist measures of the left-wing New Dealers to the pre sent state of society in Soviet Rus sia. In effect. Socialists differ as to whether their aims are to be achiev ed by "democratic” means or by re volution. depending upon their the ory of the speed of change. Although numerous Utopian So cialist concepts exiseted prior t o Karl Marx, he and Frederick Engels founded what has come to be knpwn as “scientific" Socialism, the basis of which is the giologic as sumption of the struggle for exis tence which Marx accepted from the writing of Charles Darwin and Thomas Huxley. Applying these ideas to politics, economics and so ciology. they evolved the Class Struggle: “The history of all hitherto ex isting society is the history of class struggles. “Freeman and slave, patrician and plebian. lord and serf, guild master and journeyman, in a word, oppressor and oppressed, stood in constant opposition to one another, tarried on an uninterrupted, now’ hidden, now open fight, a fight that each time ended, either in a revolu tionary reconstitution of society at large, or in the common ruin of the contending classes.” “Communist Manifesto.") There have always been devia tions from this position among So cialists. For instance: Fabian Socialism: this is strictly a British form of Socialism repre sented by the labour Party. The word Fabian represents “go slow.” It is go-slow Socialism by strictly constitutional means. Even when the Labour Party was in power, ti limited its socialization program tin Great Britain, called a nation alization program! to 20 percent of the nation’s economy. The founders of Fabian Socialism were Beatrice and Sidney Webb. George Bernard Shaw. 11. G. Wells and other intel lectuals. Marxism: the economic doctrine of Karl Marx is based on the "Theory of Surplus Value,” which, in effect, means that the increased value arises only from the labor time added in its p:oduction. Har old Laski describes this extremely complicated theory as follows: “. . . It is therefore evident that in the production of any given com modity all who do ngt 'contribute labour-power thereto do not pro duce values. All. therefore, w'ho re ceive past of the product without this contribution are parasites rob bing labour. Marx accordingly de nies that profit results from the capitalist who lends money or the trader who conducts the process of exchange. , . ” All this, theorizing would have meant nothing had not a faction of the Russian Social Democratic Par ty. the Bolsheviks, succeeded by violence in capturing Russia in 1917. Communism: generally the cur rent Russian system is called Communism, which is an error. Russian Marxism is now in what they term a Socialist stage; to be followed by Communism; which will produce a state of society i n which government withers away. The Russians faced the problem oi making their ideas w’ork in an an tagonistic world. This was accom lished by neither Lenin nor Trct zky nor anv of the early Bolsheviks, but by a comparatively obscure ad venturer. J. V. Stalin. In April 1924, he delivered a ser ies of lecturers at Sverdlov Univer sity under the general title of “Foundations of Leninism,” which has become the accepted doctrine of Soviet Russia Soviet China and the satellite states. It is the doctrine of every Communist country in the world. It is a practical and flexible concept of “. . . Marxism in the epoch of imperialism and of the proletarian revolution. . . .” rophyc but at this writing I’m inclined to go along with Emma. Leave the grass to the goats. We’ll take our chances, when the we ather’s wet, on being chased out of the house. THE DAILY RECORD, DUNN, N. C. MISTER BREGER hi •*I know Christmas is over long ago, hut or" simply WON’T let us throw out anyth mg > tiful . . . !" TT qu vttSWMiotT STSkMERW-fiO-ROUND WASHINGTON. One of the most sensational aspects of the Mc- Carthy investigation was not known even to the Senate Eelections Com mittee members themselves. It was the sudden flight from the U. S. of a key witness and friend' of Mc- Carthy's wealthy divorcee Ar villa Bentley. Mrs Bentley, formerly married to the new GOP congressman from Michigan, Alvin Bentley, skipped out of the country under the as sumed name of Mary Peterson. Reason for her hurried exit was because she had officially given $7,000 to McCarthy, which is more than the legal limit; in addition to which she told friends that she and her ex-husband had actually given around $75,000. Naturally, she didn't want to be cross-examined by the Senate Elections Committee. Mrs. Bentley is a society lady, living next door to Averill Harri man on swank Foxhall Road in Washington. For a time her hus band was in. the State Department. For a time also, both he and Mrs. Bentley were great friends of Mc- Carthy’s. Now divorced, she is still a friend. When the Senate Elections Com mittee got hold of some of Mrs. Bentley's canceled checks, they telephoned her, asked to see her. But .she flew the coop before a subpoena could be served. Board ing an Eastern Airlines plane at 1 a. m. Nov. 28. she arrived in Miami, transferred to Pan Am erican Airlines, and arrived in Nassau that afternoon. Meanwhile. her Washington lawyer, Joseph Rafferty, claimed he didn't know where she was, though actually she was in touch with him and asked him to get certain records of canceled checks from the Riggs National Bank. Mrs. Bentley was escorted to the Bahamas by a professional ex- Communist, Harvey Matusow, who then returned to New York, but flew' back to the Bahamas after the storm had blown over in order to pick her up and esqjrt her back to Washington. It was SIO,OOO of Mr. and Mrs. Bentley's money given to McCarthy that the Senate Elections Commit tee found was carefully withdrawn by Jean Kerr, his secretary, then deposited through circuitous chan nels in Wisconsin where it was used to speculate on soy beans. Congressman Bentley, when in terviewed by the Senate Elections Committee, emphatically stated that he had not given the money to McCarthy to be used by him per sonally. SAM RAYBURN FIGHTS Sam Rayburn, the redoubtable Texan who celebrated his 71st CUTIES 'I '* j I | *I I I I haven’t.done ANYTHING to him yet. I just wan* to know my changes of acquittal.” birthday this week, was heart - broken when the Democrats lost last November. For a time he .was determined to resign from Congress altogether and retire to Bonham, Texas, where he is building a ho rary to house his books, the records of some twenty Congresses, and the ggvels he has wielded when Church hill. the Queen of England. Mae- Arthur, Eisenhower et al. Address ed Congress. But l’ s old friend and brother in-law, Judge Marvin Jones of Amarillo, finally cheered Sam up, persuaded him not to resign. And the other day, when Sam stepped down as speaker and took the hum ble position of minority leader, he delivered a fighting pep talk to the closed-door session of house Dem ocrats. ■The recent election was not a victory for the Republican party,” declared the ex-speaker. "All It demonstrated was that a nationally advertised product, whose place in the sun was made possible largely by two Democratic presidents, is the national hero he’s cracked up to be. “It was a personal victory for Eisenhower rather than the Rep ublican party. "Aside from Ike's ‘great personal popularity with the people,’ ” Ray burn continues. “I don’t think 40 years in the military service auto matically qualifies a man for the most important civil job in the land, any more than my 40 years in legislative work qualifies me to be a military leader. “But I hope tne general will learn fast, that he will take advice and that he will get good adivee." SUPPORT FOR IKE Republicans will have a tough time finding a better program to replace the Democratic reforms for the welfare of farm and city peo ple, continued Rayburn. "They are going to learn the dif ference between construction and obstruction,” he added, “Any jack ass can kick a barn down, but it took a carpenter to build it.” Rayburn emphasized, however, that “the Republicans are entitled to their chance at the helm of government and I hope for the welfare of the country that they . do a good job “As for Democrats, now that we are the minority party we should show the country that we are big enough to support the Republicans when they offer anything that is good for the national welfare. As minority leader I intend to follow that policy and will not oppose the majority party just for the sake of opposing. "But if they threaten to abolish the good things we Democrats have done for the people, things Walter WlneheD York MAN ABOUT TOWN The Duke & Duchess and friend Jimmy Donahue broke away from a party and slipped into St. Pat rick's for midnight Mass. The House of Lords would have debated it were Windsor on the Throne. Be cause the British Ruler automa tically is head of the Protestant Episcopal Church of England ... The obstacle retarding the out of-court settlement in the Billy Rose case is that Eleanor and her barrister insist on a Large Lump of .cash in addition to yellimony .... Patricia Neal of “Children’s Hour" is the adored of Roual Dahl, of The New Yorker. He has fathered several good books. As Gen. Mon tgomery’s ace fighter pilot Dahl created the famed war-word: Gremlins . The Stass Reed - Martha iCuneo merger news should break any edition from Mex. City. They flew there sot-to-voce .... One of the most controversial figures of the American Civil Lib erties Union’s nat’l board (an au thor) may resign this or next week .. What a beautiful city ours is without the stink of the Buses. Eisenhower was tipped that one of his distant kin had opened of fices in Washington as a bargain merchant in tiie percentage racket . .. No 5 percenter he .... You simply agreed to pay One Per Cent for whatever his "influence” could influ White House attaches close to Truman spread it around the Capitol .... A colyumist' learn . ed of their tch-tchir>-7 and relayed it to Ike ... Punchline: Oh, the Poor Feller! Gov. Adlai Stevenson and his former wife dine together more than ever. His first political speech (since running 2nd) will be at the Demos’ SIBO per plate feed here next month . . Dorothy Thomp son writes that she never wrote a plea to save the Rosenbergs. That the pamphleteers quoted her out of context, etc . . Arthur Vanden berg, Jr. may be the first casualty (medically) of the new administra tion. Ike is making him take a rest. Worked hard all thru the fight. The medicos don't quite know what it is .... Jim Norris (the Int'l Boxing Clubman) doesn’t know exactly what his late father left him. Insiders say “at least 200 Million!” . . Capt Dick Mer rill, the ace of the Eastern Air lines sky-riders, brought us back from Tropical Park, in 3 hours and 15 minutes. Through a blinding snow, sleet and lightning storm (for 2 hours) over the sea without a bump. When he gives the huge 88-Constellation the gun, he shouts: “Let’s take the show on the road!” The Washington Line: The USSR will give aid & comfort to the U. S. Commies in their campaign to scuttle the McCarran-Walter Im migration Law by not accepting Reds deported to Russia and sat ellite nations .... The buzz is that Nehru is destined to be the next Stalin prisoner ... Atty-Gen. Brownell may be Ike’s veep in ’56 .... Many solons are discussing the lobbying for the 25 percent in come tax ceiling .... Hasn’t Ike informed financial advisors that he wants a 60c dollar before the. end of ’53? .. When Acheson departs he and Mrs. A will vaca tion with Archibald MacLeish (an other Joe McCarthy target) in.the Carribean. Mebbe Puerto Rico There are compensations for every thing. Now that Daddy is leaving the White House they will have to get Margaret better teevy script writers. During the Atomic Spy Ring expose (in Canada) the Prime Minister personally handed Pres. Truman a list of 286 Americans. He said the Canadian probes prov ed they were invoiced .. Nothing has ever been done about these 286 alleged Americans ... Does the White House still have the list in its files and will they be turned over to the new Administration? .. . Clip this and send it to Ike (at the Commodore Hotel here) to make sure his staff shows it to him. that are basic to our economy and prosperity, then it’s time for us to become a fighting minority.” BOASTFUL BOLIVIAN Eric Rios Bridoux, the Bolivian pilot who crashed into an Eastern Airlimes plane, killing 55 persons near the Washington airport three years ago, almost made the head lines again last week. Two air force officers nearly swung on the brash young Bolivian as he boasted about the tragic accident at the Young Men’s Store on F street in Washington. Bri doux, who was charged with res ponsibility by the Civil Aeronau tics Board, apparently became irked at a shoe clerk for not recogniz ing him. “Why, I though everybody knew me,” the, pilot arrogantly told the clerk. “I’m famous. I was involved in the biggest air aeledent Wash ington ever had. It was my plane that collided with that airliner several years ago, killing 55 peo ple.” When the clerk remarked that THURSDAY AFTERNOON, JANUARY 8, 1952 The Worry Clinic | By DK. GBO3GB W. CHANT Terry is a victim of the Ponce de Leon Complex. Wives, if you wish to vaccinate your happy mar riage against the disaster which has struck Terry’s home, then study this Case Record carefully. Don't delude yourself by thinking your home is the exception or that your husband is too good to' do such a thing. Case F-334: Terry J., aged 42, is an Army Officer now in California. “Dr. Crane, we are in a terrible muddle with our marriage and don’t know where else to turn,” his wife spoke pathetically. “I always got so much help out •of your column in our Washington TIMES HERALD when we lived in the capital. But now I need per sonal advice. “My husband had been a college teacher. When he entered the army, he was run down physically, I think. After being in camp a few weeks he finally sent for me. "He was almost a nervous wreck. He shook and had fainting speels, and wasn’t able to eat much. He had lost a lot of weight. “Then I found that he had fallen in love with a WAC. He kept call ing her by phone and sending her presents. “He had me come to visit him just to make sure whether he loved me or preferred the other woman. WIFE ON TRIAL "My husband and I had known each other since grammar school. We married in college. He had never looked at another girl in all those years. “I had been afraid that some day he might become frightened at the throught of growing old, but I still secietely hoped it would never happen. “Os course, it nearly killed me, in spite of the fact I had read your discussion of the ‘Ponce de Leon Complex’ in men who pass 40. "We have two lovely children in high school, and I didn’t want to let them know the awful truth. "So I tried to solve my problem alone. I didn’t wish to confide in anybody at home, for my pride wouldn’t permit that. So I have now come to you. WIF’E’S FIRST REACTION “My first reaction when he told IraHp 'TflluV^, , (or«£* or perTo" ol Unmitigated Pressures and Em otional Malnutrition Arc Claimed As Prevalent Causes of Mental Illness DEAR MARY HAWORTH: Your understanding attitude towards mental illness has held my respect for some time. Now I wish to com ment on “P. D.’s” recent dispar agement of psychiatry and her thought that mental disorders may 1 be communicated by a virus. About two years ago a national magazine published an article on ! Dr. Karal Menninger and his work. This great psychiatrist gave his concept of psycho-therapy, and there was nothing abstract or pro pagandist about it. Simply it is the Golden Rule the expression 1 of unfailing kindness in ways that all human beings need, and of which some are acutely deprived. I, having had the best’ psychiatric | care- that money can buy, wish to explain that it is (pure and simple i understanding, kindness and un failing security of friendly care. : The psychiatrist is trained to take up where society failed. I paid to ■ receive what my parents never • gave me emotional security in • a good relationship. A recent article ’ in the Saturday Evening Post docu : ments the relationship between : childhood insecurity and emotional > illness. I SOCIAL STRESSES CRUSH INDIVIDUALS - Unmitigated pressures and emo -1 tinal malnutrition cause mental > illness, and sometimes psychiatry, l FISHERMEN OUT OF LUCK i ORTONVILLE. Mich, (ifi _ Fish ermen in the Ortonville state rec reation area reported unusually i high catches of large and small i mouth bass but all had to be j thrown back because the season . hadn't opened. i LAND OF APRICOTS , BERKELEY, Calif. IIP) Cali , fornia apricots accounted for 85 . per cent of all those grown in the . United States and from 35 to 40 . per cent of the world’s supply, ac . cording to the University of Cali . fornia college of agriculture. I the tragedy was hardly a matter r to brag or joke about, Bridoux : laughingly replied: l “Oh, accidents will happen.” The two air force officers who « overhead Bridoux sounding off were r as shocked and angry as employees • in the store, but decided not to spoil their Christmas leave by t socking the crude pilot. me what he had gone through with the other girl, and that he didn’t understand himself at all, and \ didn’t know what he wanted, was to tell him to go jump in the lake. "Then I wanted to take myself home to brood on the wickedness and unfaithfulness of mankind for the rest of my life. "In fact, I told him he was wel come to his WAC and that I would n’t have him as a gift, etc. - prob ably what other wives have said since time immemorial. "That seemed to jar him and he wept, and begged me to stay, say ing he could never do without me, and that he was so lonely that that was why the affair had start ed in the first place. “So I forgave him and we tried to begin life all over again, at least for the sake of the children, since I knew he wasn’t really him self. “Now he is even beginning to worry about his mind. He says iie forgets things right in the middle of a sentence. He has threatened “ to commit sqicide. But still he talks about the other girl. Dr. Crane, can you help us?” SEX PANIC Terry’s case is a classical a psychological syndrome as is acute appendicitis in the realm of or ganic medicine. You wiyes ought to memorize this woman’s recital of the symp toms. My mail contains literally thousands of almost exact dup- | licates of it. Terry’s trouble is as universal as measles. He is simply a menopausal hus -1 band, scared of old age, so he has become a victim of the “Ponce de Leon” complex. Tomorrow I’ll ex plain this problem more fully. Paste this column in yonr scrap book. And you wives better perk up in your erotic aggressiveness when your mates pass 35. You must cultivate more seduct- 1 iveness and not become too ma ternal. (Always write to Dr. Crane in care of this newspaper, enclosing a long 3c stamped, addressed envelope and a dime to cover typing and print ing costs when you send for one of liis psychological charts.) for all its good, is an added an xiety. But what psychiatry has to offer as a reputable science is al ways needed. The science of posi tive human relations is fundamen tal whether practiced by a pro fessional psychiatrist or a wise and loving mother. Let’s be practical and realistic. In the main, mental disorders are emotionally precipitated and the primary causes are all around us in cultural, social and economic fac tors. Until we have recognized and abated these pressures that figure in "man’s inhumanity to man,” we don’t need to go looking for a possible virus. The local or state Mental Health Society is always responsive in providing educational opportunities to persons interested in gaining better understanding of mental hygiene. As a professional person, who kept on with my work while being treated, I am speaking in behalf of those in mental hospitals who cannot at this time speak for themselves and many may never be able to. I feel that “P. D.” is heedless of the great social stresses that crush individuals, and unfor tunately this thoughtless lack of understanding is a prevalent “virus” in the layman mind. Too often “we know not what we do.” Thank you again for your insight. Sincerely A. R. HAND HOLDING ISN’T ENOUGH Detr A. R.: We might say that unfailing kindness and sympa thetic mterest provide a favorable climate for dynamic psychotherapy but there is more to this branch of physicianship no coin a phrase) than figurative hand holding. Emotional reassurance is good medicine in treating anxiety states, but it is sedative rather than cura tive —a kind of bridge to the heal ing process. When a good reciprocal relation ship is established between doctor and client, the next step usually i marked by defensive struggle on the patient’s part consists in diagnosing and underlining the neurotic components of his dis tress. By bringing these to light and exposing them to a shared understanding, from the adult view, they are relieved of their harmful content as a rule. That is if, the patient has the innate cap-’ acity and courageous disposition to learn and grow, and thus get the tetter of background han '‘caps. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her In care of (The Daily Record).