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Postscript From Russia
Frank Rounds, Jr., spent a year and a half translating
the Russian press for the American embassy in. Moscow.
His book, “A widow on Red Square” is a vivid account of
his observations of the plain people he met in the theater,
opera, museums, churches and libraries where he was pre
nutted to enter, people wh6 were not unfriendly tnough
the hate-American campaign was at its height during his
stay.
Rounds found, and his observation offers a most re
assuring base for the present policy of encouraging libera
tion of peoples under communist rule, that the hate -
America campaign was more evident in public than in
private gatherings. His conclusion is that the average
Russian is quite immune to the poison of the party line.
They did not hate him in the prescribed manner. It is
doubtful if many of them hate us as their masters might
wish*
Fantastic Paper Targets
The post-Korean build-up of supplies for the armed
forces resulted in the Amy now owning or on order “goods
Raving a value substantially greater than the total val
ue of all inventories in the hands of all manufacturers of
all things within the United States,” Roger M. Kyes, under
Secretary of defense, told the United States Chamber of
I <sominerce. Also, that research and development, out of
: which crane new weapons, “now substantially exceeds the
total being carried on in the United States by private in
dustry out of its own funds.”
Kyesj coming out of private industry, was tremen
dously impressed by this enormous plant and research
program, even though as- production vice-president of
Motors, the world’s largest industry, he was used
to large output. To the layman, the armed forces targets
Which to Kyes seemed fantastic would be unimaginable.
And yet there is no feeling of confidence that our arma
ment is ahead or even sufficient. It has not' been enough
to break the stalemate in Korea, where even ammunition
; was lacking. ,
Dunn Election
£V (Continued From Face On)
election officials, has charged that
: Utere were irregularities connected
• with toe election. '
m Just before the general election,
the board held a special unpfiliciz
meeting and ordered registra
tion beaks opened on Saturday be
gpjre the election. This was suppos
|ygjjt to have been Challenge Day.
pointed out Mr. Draughon, and
action was strictly illegal.
W <Ctty Attorney I. R. Williams has
Mir*l' *‘“ l that he agrees with Mr.
, Draughon that this action may not
■ have been legal.
OFFICIAL DISAGREES
» ' Mr. Draughon, g veteran elec
. tions official who is regarded as
■a authority on election laws, al
igjte contends that 93 write-in votes
. test for Karl G. Vann for mayor
RjpptlM have been counted as legal
llpMt'lMtead of being thrown out.
Mayor Ralph E. Hanna, apparent
expecting g close race or con
tested results, had his personal at
torney on hand the night the votes
IfTtene counted to Interpret the elec-
MPfe didn’t need ‘ any lawyer to
»#& that and it’s the first time I’ve
#«*er -known of a candidate getting
lawyerto Interpret the laws at
The counting,’ declared Draughon.
5, WOULDN'T AFFECT RESULTS
Jfowevgr. the 93 votes in question
Mill would not have affected the
wm? ■ ———
Frederick OTHMAN
WASHINGTON, t— I guess it’s
Spate to Tommy (The Cork) Corcoran,
Whq> hash’t appeared in a headline
rap-. Years, to explain. What sort of
investigation Henry W. Grunewald
PCriOl Ulcu lOr Mr T Dofurll l> xvOOSCVGit.
;;,OaaJ
m Our Henry may be a mystery
litea, “but he surely did have top-
PUgEt clients. Collected to-flisM
#«•*.. to* though the House Ways
HHM Means Committee never did
|Mk him what he charged for his
. Presidential riiorh&y
The Congressmen, who’ve been
•: trying to make sense now for weeks
§M the Orunewald saga of friends
' sad profits among the Washington
AuxAed when he
Sggfeatlaned the late President as one
>: lie mzml&mti casually that Copcof-
results of the election since Mayor
Haima .received 52? votes and all,
• No .issues were raised concerning
the results at the council meeting
todiy.
Mayor Hanna, now assured of a
third term. Is reportedly hard at
work campaigning for a fourth
term.
British Stand
• (Oonttn ed From Page Oh!
tion that no matter of “principle”
separates, the U. N. negotiators
and the Reds at Panmunjom.
also citidzed Attlee’s speech yes
terday charging that some’ elem
ents in this country do not want
a Korean settlement.
Referring to the House of Com
mqps debate, Rowland said:
“We are now fact to face with
the problem that our chief ally
has joined With uncertain other
United Nations’ member* in urg
ing a Far Eastern Munich ...”
He forecast an eventual Red
China bid for Formosa, the Chinese
Nationalist island stronghold. He
predicted It will be patterned after
Hitler’s promise at Munich th*t
Czechoslovakia was his foJt terri
torial claim.
Other members -ol Congress- bris
tled with resentment at Attlee's
attack on this government and its
• foreign policy.
deliberate drink of water and said
he didn’t think this was pertinent.
“I don’t think the President (Mr.
Roosevelt) would want it atßWM
ed," he added. " « y v ''
That, tor a moment, was that,
though officials scurried to see
what Corcoran thought- about Hen
ry’s story. Whether the, rest of us
will hear the details Is something
I’d hesitate now (o' predict,
So Grunewald then went blith
ely on. explaining the details of
his $19,000 private phone Installa
tion Jwuse fox
Cofigressmen thoroughly 6 confused
by hi* hale of meola won on the
nags. Thaw were. MB'/.Word* wad
when repeated by him mode his
language sound like something spo
ken by maybe a man from Mars.
In the year 1949, in any event.
Henry deposited ice hi* batik in
to, one* Charlie Burke.** »
&T'"^ —xte -WWr
(These Days
B A . V
ZckcUkif
ASIA
* During the entire period, from
1939 to 1953, it has been American,
British, and French policy that
Europe must come first. Even
, during World War .11, General
Douglas MacArthur was left with
out adequate munitions because
Europe came first. Even during the
Korean War, our own troops were
inadequately supplied because of
the aid given to Europe.
Yet, Asia holds the central spot
and all the decisions of the great
statesmen make no difference
whatsoever. The course of events
determines that the center of our
warld is that ancient continent.
Asia’s vast hordes of humanity
have surged forward or have been
held • in servitude with the swing
of the pendulum of history.' But
this has always been true in the
past; whether free or conqured, the
Asiatic people never' associated
their cultures with their govern
ments. Therefore, when conqured,
they retained, nurtured and pre
served their indigenous cultures.
Thus, in every Asiatic country,
traditional roots remain deep and
dominate the minds and character
of the people, irrespective of the
externals of immediate political
and economic -conditions. It Is not
at all surprising that all .the sur
viving religions of the world are
Asiatic in origin.
Whether one speaks ol China or
India or Pakistan or any other
Asiatic country, one recognizes
peoples whose central point is not
* things but an eternal, endless, pur
poseful life related to God, each
of these peoples conceiving his God
differently but always to one end
—the ultimate perfection of the
spirit of man.
There is a negativeness in Asiatic
life. Today passes, but life never
passes. Lao Tze might be quoted
in Witter Bynner’s profoundly
beautiful translation:
“Man at his best, liketemter.
Serves as he goes along:
Like water he seeks his own level,
The common level of life.
Loves living close to the earth,
Living clear down in his heart,
And for blpcklng no one’s way
No one blames him.”
x Life in the West is never con
ceived as leaving so much to fate,
f but the Asiatic cahnot feat, death,
l-because to him it te always part
lift. The result
f-1 slve view was better evidenced ih
-the theories and practices of Gan
dhi, which somehow did bring a
bout the liberation of India, than
in the Westernized ideas and prac
tices of Sun Yat-sen, which suc
ceeded in bringing to the Chinese
people enslavement.
We, Americans, face Asia now
as our principal problem. Our sons
have, died in so many parts of
Asia] They are still In Korea and
Japan;, we must defend the Phili
ppines; ,We are moving rapidly in
, to Indo-China; we are supporting
| the British in Malay. And on the
’ other side of Asia, we sye deeply
involved in the affairs of Iran,
SaucU Arabia, Israel, etc.
these peoples, we
cannot apply Western criteria or
we shall fail with them altogether,
as we have already failed after
more than a century of experience
in China. For it Is not things, mo
tion, action, force,’ power that ap
peal to the Asiatic 'mind. It is
contemplation upon conmic ideas,
upon what is man and what is his
relationship to tt*e universe and
to the creative Odd, who, as some
' - Asiatics believe and some do not,
directly dominates everything that
happens. :
The Rwsians hhve with great
; skin thrown Marxism into this
’ realm of ideas. We, Americans,
have described things, their pro
duction, their wealth to peoples
who accepted a beggar, a eamel
* a child, bom in a monger
ds prophets or even as a manifes
tation pf God. Poverty has never
been « crime nr a sin in Asia; it
might be a visitation of God.
This need* tp be understood, far
we are tasinfe a War without fight
’ ing-bttanse we tee thus far not
. prepared lo rvictory which can
; only be won by ideas. Asia can
■ resist a conqueror endlessly and
» make of his oonquest a despair
: if she people believe he has the
wrong ideas. But if (hey believe
the ideas are not wrong, Why should
they resist a mere political change?
: to take pity Tsi one «r another
■ -of his clients. Henry laughed. The
l top box collectors were his pals,
> ah right, hp said, but he Seftyi
■ influence °at to® bureau.
As for the phone* in bis Florida
. home, Henry managed ,to get ev
i erybody mixed up. He put up SIO,BOO
1 for a special phone installation fe
: his new-home, he teM, so teat his
. influential guests; could be assured
of privacy on their long-distance
■ call*. How this worked, or why it
i cost so much, Grunwald could not
* explain. Among, the friends for
4. mmum f)ATIaT ftfiCORD DUNN It CL
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WASHINGTON. After almost
one year of diplomatic dickering
the United States is concluding
an agreement with Dictator Franco
for air and naval bases on Spanish
soil. But in order to pin Franco
down, U. S. negotiators had to
promise secretlp an additional, fu
ture $400,000,000. This is on 1 top of
the $187,500,000 already voted him
by Congress, and will make' a total
of $537,500,000.
One factor which nudged Franco’s
elbow was knowledge that part of
his money the $125,000,000 voted
by Congress last year was about
to expire. If the contract wasn’t
signed by June 30, Franco knew
that this $125,000,000 went right
blck into 'the treasury to help bal
ance the Eisenhower budget And
Franco isn’t much Interested in
balancing Ike’s budget or anyone’s
except his own.
This is another chapter in' gov
ernment by Washington attorneys
and illustrates how certain law
yers representing foreign embas
sies sometimes exert mpre in
fluence than the State Depart
ment.
One year ago, both the State
Department and the White House,
which under the Constitution ore
entrusted with the conduct of U.
S. foreign affairs, informed Con
gress that they did not want or
need bases in Spain. They ponited
out that we had all we could do to
equip bases in France, Eftgland and
Western Europe under the NATO
pact, and that we were already
short on artillery and munitions.
If supplies Went to non-NATO
Spain, they said, it would- create
ill will both in Korea and among
our NATO allies to whom deliveries
already were behind schedule.
PAYS TO HAVE LAWYERS
They also pointed out that
Franco was not willing to take the
Spanish army outside Spain; that
the aiming of Spain would make it
appear to France and England that
we were going to abandon them,
in case of attaek.' and move to
Spain. From behind the safety of
the Pyrenees, the French and
British argued, the United Stales
would serenely watch the conflict,
while the rest of Europe was swept
over by Red Invaders. f
Despite this, Franco got $125,-
000,000. It was voted him by Con
gress right over the heads of the
President and Secretary of State.
Chief reason for this wits the
persuasive influence of the Spanish
lobby and Franco’s two attorneys,
Charles Patrick Clark and Max
Truitt, son-in-law Os dx-vlce presi
dent Barkley. Clark, who carefully
complies with the Foreign-Agents
Registration Act, wqs paid $lO3,- ■
■ cun** -j
jjm m /
I l >N
499.55 by Franco in 1951 and $79,-
500 in 1952, according to.the Justice
-Department’s listing of foreign
agents. Max Truitt, who also reg
isters under, the act, was more mo
dest. He got only $22,000 in 1951
and SII,OOO in 1952.
However, Clark helped to in
fluence Congressional speeches,
played gin rummy with key con
gressmen, threw fancy parties, ran
the gamut of the social lobby to
get Congress to vote money for
Spain. He succeeded.
That was why Franco, previously
grandiloquent in his promises of
naval and air bases, suddenly got
cagey, refused to grant those bases.
He figured he could go over the
heads of the White House and the
State Department once again
thanks to the new Washington,
system of foreign affairs by in
fluential attorneys. \
It now looks as if he was right.
Another $400000,000 is due to come
his why. ' , ■
SANDWICHED SPEAKER
Senator Taft was speaking at a
Yale Club dinner, along with new
OOP Sen. Prescott Bush of Con-'
necticut, and Mew York Herald
Tribune pundit August Heckscher.
The large crowd *of Yale ajumni
at the dinner were expecting to hear
a few brief remarks from Bush and
from Heckscher, then settle down
for a real speech from Yale’s most
famous alumnus, Robert Alphonso
Taft, who in addition to graduating
from old Eli, also served on its
board of trustees.
However, they hadn’t * reckoned
mi Heckscher. Following a speech
from Senator Bush, he held forth
eloquently on academic freedom.
Minutes ticked by, then quarter
hours, almost an hour. Senator
Taft sat, listened politely.
The hands of clock reached
11:30. “I am honored,” said Heck
scher, “to be sandwiched in between
two such distinguished speakers as
Senators Bush and Taft.” Finally
be sat down.
Ex-Sen. "John Danaher of Con
necticut, toastmaster of the even
ing, rose.
“Mr. Heckscher refers to being
that part of a sandwich between
two pieces of bread," he said. "Let’s
agree that Jte certainly must be
regarded as the baloney between
two slices of good bread.”
OtL AN® NATIONAL DEBT
,It was test in the lait - minute
voting «n the Tidelands Oil Bill, buj
Sen. Matt Ifcely of West Virginia,
who has been in public offiee al
most longer than anyone else in
structlve amendment for the use of
tidelandd oil funds.
■ He proposed that royalties from
wfnehell
In .
New York
HOLLYWOOD HEARTBEAT
Celebs About Town: At Mrs. Dan
ny’'Kaye’s homecoming party for
her beloved hnsband after his
glorious Palace ran: Lauren Ba
call doing a Jig with James Stew
art; Marlene Dietrfch, a famous
member of the Runyon Commit
tee, whose one flight to a conven
tion of the Santa Clausy Frater
nal Order of Eagles (obe Humid,
Rainy Day) enriched cancer-figh
ters by nearly $500,000; Grace Al
len, CUfton Webb and Mrs. James
Stewart intensely interested in the
lowdown on Christine Jorgensen,
now in Movie town .... Louella
Parsons (thinner by a dozen lbs.)
confessing that .hit ..songwriter
James McHugh Is her great hap
piness “But Joe Schenck,” she
sighed, "says I shouldn’t marry a
gain” The 100 others at the
fiesta were former Broadwayites,
who occupied- the front pews at
the elite premieres in the Ziegfeld-
Dillingham era.
Sallies in Our Alley: Swifty Mor
gan (who inspired Runyon’s “The
Lemon Drop Kid” character) asked
a Hollywood cheapskate to buy
some of. the cravats Swifty ped
dles “What’ll I do won your
silly ties?” said the rude punk
“Hang yourself!” Swifty’d Swifty
.... At the Flamingo Hotel (Vegas)
a wag clowned: “I was once New
Orleans’ greatest lover!” “i
once was a great lover, too,” sighed
a gambler, “hut when I ran out of
SIOO bills I ran out of girls.”
’ Beverly HHU Vignette: This re
porter (last Sunday night) alerted
the Bevills police chief (Cfijbton
Anderson) that a procurer (named
in the Jcike vice case) was In his
rich community “up to no good”
Chief Anderson collared the
Broadway “producer” (whose pro
files armdn the Rogues’ Gaßery in
N.YJ3.) and told him to get out
of town in S minutes .... His com
panion (featuring a walrus mus
tache) got hysterical .. . .“I’m a
respectable banker on Long Island,"
he choked. “This will /ruin me If ■
publicized!” “It’s against the
la*,” the Chief reminded the
sucker, “to consort with criminals.
ITUs man has a long record”
We make it public to save the
chump (an obvious set-np) from
a clipping We are omitting
. bank executive’s name this time.
His last initial is & .... He lives
at 719 Park Fine thing. Bank
executives palsy with bookie-bur
> EMw.
! Memos of a MkJnighter^ljTha 1
! Oplyum we promised for this Thorn
' mg (on Hollywood Scummunists
! and their shenanigans with other
men’s wives and women) will ap
’ pear tomorrow Author
ard Fast denounced his pal James
Wechsler, editor of the N. Y. Com
post (at the Union Sq. demon
stration), as a “Judas” who “let
his associates down.” Fast hys
terically shouted: “He is yellow!”
(Some, skewpl) The Runyon
Cancer Fund’s 143rd bequest is
from the will of Regina ' Klein,
B’klyn, $2,000 .... Postmaster’
Arthur Summerfield says he is
! sorry to disappoint those spreading
untrumors- that be plans resigning
in July or anytime Cole Far
ter’s French “Can-Can” show is
now in shape (report our Philly
. agents) and is “all set for a long
run” of sexy fun w f hen it opens in
America Bobby Ramos’ crew at
Clro’s (H’wood) and Roy Siem’3
at the H’wßod Roosevelt Hotel are
'top-flight rhumambo crews
Don't miss Ward Morehouse’s de
lightful book of nostalgia, “Just (he
; Other Day” (about Broadway show
’ _ _____
tidelands oil go not to three states
as finally voted by the OOP lead
ership, but as follows:
Ten per cent to reduce the na
tional debt,
Ten per cent for education,
Ten per cent for finding a > cure
for heart disease,
Ten per cent to find a cure for
muscular dystrophy,
Ten per cent for multiple scerosis
Ten per cent for the blind.
Ten per' cent for disabled War
veterans, , t . - ,
Ten per cent for the “■American
Red Cross.
Neely’s amendment got a larger
vote than most of the other tide
lands amendments. However, even
if it had been Introduced earlier,
it would not have passed. No aih
.—..ni .. ..... ...
WEDNESDAY AFTERNOON, MAY 13,1953
By Dr,. George W. Crane
' N f ' * I. .
.T-mrra .■ ■■ .’ir 1 ■— y ,' r . ■
The best teachers In ear entire
school 'system should be In the
first few grades df grammar
school. That’s the place where a
child's entire attitude toward
education is made. A poor tea
cher thers can rain his life'.
Case G-382: When Danny was 8,
we were talking about his school
subjects. „
“How are you getting along?” I
asked him.
“Oh, I’m one of the first ones
through with .my work, so.I get to ,
go On errands for my teacher,” be
proudly answered.
“But I’m not so good at reading,
I wish you’d help me some more
with those flash cards.”
HOME TUTORING
When Danny started to school,
he was very shy. Our five children
consisted of two pairs of boys, close
in age, with Judy being in tne
middle.
George was the oldest child, with
Phillip Ueir? 15 months younger.
Then came J idy.
Daniel was fourth, with David
just a year younger.
Although Daniel was thus the
fourth child in the entire sequence,
he reacted*very much like an oldest
child, for he was' the older of our
second pair o| boys.
Daniel and GeoTge, therefore,
were much alike, while Philip and
David resembled each other great
For the older chilcV of a pair
tends to be somewhat shv and
slower in his language development,
so Danny was simply true to type.
INTROVERTS VS. EXTROVERTS
Philip and David, being second
in their pairs, made friends more
readily, and, had little or no. so
cial shyness. They are also more
gifted in language.
They talked easily and read flu
ently. Besides, they Were more im
itative, and were inclined to rely
on the older brother of their pair
for many decisions.
Ijtafif Haucttk ‘a tllail •
By AmericoS Foremost Persona! Affairs Counselor
IN 10 YEARS’ MARRIAGE,
CONFLICT HAS BEEN RIFE,
AND MAN CAN’T STAND
WIFE’S COMPANY; WHAT
TO DO?
DEAR MARY HAWORTH; I
can’t stand being around my wife
any longer than a few hours at a
'•time. I feel Pam being completely
absorbed by her.* She is
generous, hard .working, aoesnt
nag, will do Just about anything
for me—but I can't find peace or
happiness with her.
She felt rejectedTas a child came
of a broken homo and was sniUed
about rather ruthlessly. When we
were first married 10 years ago, she
seemed jealous (for no reesih),
which maybe started us off oaniy.
We’ve always had emotional con
'fllct. If we are visiting or working
a tension overcomes me
•'ic the point of exasperation. But
apart from her I feel easier.
Undoubtedly, I have many faults,
some of which may be aggravated
la this relationship. But, I had a
normal childhood and used to en
joy life in general: now it' scams
blighted and dreary. My intelli
gence tells me that pur marriage
§hould be dissolved, but now I seem
unable to make ti)e break, and Jane
will not accept the idea, evfen
though the situation is destructive
to both of us.
We are living apaijt and my
wife works, lull time, although I
contribute something (not all) to
the support of our child. I see
them only on weekends—usually
full of turmoil, despite my reason
ed resolve to let nothing bother
me. Meanwhile, I am trying to fig
ure how we might Mve together in
peace, without tension. I’ve taken
the problem to professional persons
but they don’t seem to understand.
What do you make of it? And
what do you advise? E. B.
MAN FETTERED
BY HIS NEEDS
DEAR E. B.: Your attitude to
wards your wife Is a blend of de
pendency and resentment, it seem*
to me. Her warmly obliging dis
position .was the characteristic that
drew you into marriage with her,
I suppose.. But you don't love her.
which causes a bad situation, of
captive-captor disoord, as I get the
picture. t
In a blindly emotional way, you
conceive of yourself* as a prisoner
in the relationship, and feel hate-
.A « I—l1 — 1
now working at Democratic head
quarters, her full salary being paid
H^miLn eO He ib lrSK«d by
money hewed only for Miss Tullyjs
either
threw himLdf a winsldine cocktail
The older ehild, therefore, tends
to be bossy. He also Is
ed to being responsible for the
younger, so he is automatically—
trained to be the executive (em-W
ployer) type. He is more likely to
be an introvert. ‘ ,
But the younger child tends to
be an extrovert. The Prodigal Son
is. a Classical example of tne ex
trovertice younger brother. He was
a hail-fellow-well-met, with a care
less attitude toward money and a
jjreat desire for social popularity.
GOOD TEACHERS
Because of these personality dif
ferences between children, it is ea-_
sential that the best teacheis it4P
the entire school system be in the
lower grades.
For there a teacher cfm actually
make or break a child, particul
arly if he is of the shy, introvertive
Danny’s first teachers were'ap
parently very competent women,
but tnere was a great Oeal of sick
ness in their ranks, so he was
shuttled from one substitute to
another few a’ year or two, and 1
hence didn’t get a consistent ap
proach to educational material. W
Children must be fond of their
teachers and feel happy or they
will hate what those teachers rep
resent, namely, education.
One of t the great handicaps to
a child who starts school, is to
have his parents move frequently.
Then he doesn’t have a chance to
get acclimated to one teacner and
her methods. t
We thus need our best teach
ers in the early grades. But par
ents should also tw to stay “put’M
at least till their cniloren are well
launched in reading and arithme
tic. ,
If you wish my bulletin “How
to Tutor Your Chiid at Home”
send a stamped, return envelop:
plus a dime, i
It will help you parents quickly
bolster the morale of your child
if he is falling in his school maiks.
ful toward Jane as your jailor,
which is deceiving ’yourself, how
ever. Actually, you stnng along
With Jane due to youif Jfeed to be
long somewhere,-to somebody. And
Jane, because of her damaged self
esteem (“hung-over” from early
misfortune), probably is dtspostcjL,
j to “make do”. vAth you on your owdp
terms despite your unstable per
formance. Unconsciously, she
doesn’t* feel entitled to a square
deal—else she might gladly agree
to Release you. f
As Jane was routed from' pillar to
post in childhood, it is likely that
she is electric with built-m anx
iety, now expressed in compulsive
social drive. Your references to her
full-time job, her gardening, her
untidy housekeeping etc., suggests
that she is racing to acquire a house
of her own, bought and paid for—
a symbol of sanctuary in a fright
ening world. The tension of her
aggressive activity may evoke an ir
ritable kickback from you, and per
haps also you afe hostile to her
materialistic or acquisitive bias.
WIFE TOO MUCH i
ON'THE MAKE? '
There may be no peace or rest
ini Jane’s make-up, either for her
self or associates. You may feeW
inarticulately, that she is “on
make” too much of the time and
you may resent the satisfaction
■he finds in turning all things to
ner ends—e-van .though the end be
goqd. in her company, you evi
dently feel that you too are (ring
used to -achieve her purposes—ln
stead of parWtip&tfng as you see
fit. Perhaps she strikes you as a
stronger force than yourself—hen
ce to be resisted and evaded, in
defense of your freedom of will. m
In any case, whatever the insid™
story, I respect i you* ecnvictton
mat the enarriag! is a destructive
relationship, untenable at close
range while your tensions remain
untreated. .1 feel that both wil!
benefit by living apart, from each
a&esms
of getting along harroantelisly..
Mary Haworth counsels through _
her column, not by iiall or per-W
abftal Interview. Write her In can
of The Dally Reeord). ■
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