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My Husband Is Having An Affair?
Confidential to R.P.:
Yes, many people of different
ages and varying backgrounds
do write to Carole’s Cramer.
-However, the purpose of the
column is to provide a place for
the public to ask questions and
seek suggestions to help them
cope with situations in their
lives. It is not the purpose of the
column to match people who are
Irately with people who are look
ing for companionship.
I would like to make a sug
gestion to you, though. Complete
your present obligation. When
you have done this, others may
find you to be more available and
attractive at that time.
• Carole
Dear Carole:
I’m pretty sure that my hus
band is having an affair but 1
dhn’t prove it.
During the past six months he
has put me through many
changes. He hardly talks to me
and he has moved out of the
bedroom to sleep downstairs. He
has even told me that he doesn’t
aynt me. But, get this, he said—
his doctor told him not to have
to do with me.
it’s why he moved out of our
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room—for his health, he says!
Well, I spoke to his doctor about
_that. And his rinotnr ^hat
claim didn’t have an ounce of
truth in it. I still want my
husband, but it seems like he
doesn’t want me. What do I do
now?
S.F.
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Ask your husband to be fair
and talk with you. A relation
ship requires the involvement of
two people.
Your husband has pulled him
self emotionally and physically
away from you for his own
reasons. Don’t assume that an
other woman is the reason for his
distance, although that is a
possibility. Try and talk with
your husband. You have the
right to know what to expect in
his relationship with you.
^ Carole
Editor’s Note: Carole B. Ricks,
and M.S.W., A.C.S.W. social
worker, has a private practice in
Charlotte as a counselor. If you
have personal adjustment,
parent-child or marriage pro
blems that concern you, write:.
Carole’s Corner
P. O. Box 37107
Charlotte, N.C. 28237
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