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Is Cheating A Way Of Life For Most Men? Dear Carole: * Is cheating a way of life for most men? I want to know if cheating is just a natural thing for a man to do. It seems like so many men do it. My friends and I were talking the other day and adding up all the cheating men we know. We came to the conclusion that most men cheat. What we want to know is what kind of woman would encourage a man to cheat? “The Girls” Dear “Girls”: A “cheating” man does not oheat by himself. There must be a woman who is available to “cheat” with him. I assume you ^ are speaking about feelings of disloyalty when you speak of cheating. Some women become a part of a disloyal affair without realizing it, when their partner fails to tell them of anjfr-other romantic commitment. Other women may give their full attention to helping men “cheat” and become disloyal. Cheating is not merely a way of life, it is a choice. Carole Pear Carole: My_ husband and I are having a tough time agreeing how to raise his kids. Their mother has done a good job of making the kids rotten. j* But now that we have full custody, I can’t seem to undo all — . - ' the damage that woman did to these kids. I really want us to be a happy family. But maybe it’s just impossible. How can I un spoU my husband’s kids? S.T. Dears. T.: ' . It will take time to learn how to become a new family. Your husband and your stepchildren share a common history. It will be necessary for all of you to blend together through under standing and acceptance and become a family. You and your husband should set some child care rules about basic family issues. Then nego tiate those rules with the chil- . dren. (Some of the most com mon areas of conflict may be: deciding an appropriate bed time, choosing methods of dis ciplining the children, learning to share chores, etc.) Counsel ing may help you to gain ad ditional parenting skills. Although you and your hus band may not always agree, try to support each other’s efforts in becoming a family. Carole ..Editor's Note: Carole B. Ricks, A.C.S.W., is a marriage and family therapist With a private practice in Charlotte. N.C. If you have personal, parent-child, or marriage pro blems, write to: Carole’s Corner P. O. Box 37107 Charlotte, N.C. 28237 --- - - __' 1 CUMinii AM tf»All ^p^WMk iMix^mwjx The 39th Annual Talent Contest, qua Mred by the Pi Phi chapter of the Omega Psi Phi Fraternity was recently held at Memorial Presbyterian Church. Pic tured above are the winners: (I. to r.) front row-Valerie Kemegay. first place senior division; Monique Dennis, second place-senior division; James Worthy. - ' -- , Large Selection of Dress Shirts up I Large Selection of Pants from $^99 & up ah New Short Sleeve Sport Shirts I Many Colon and Designs Tb - Choose From at Great Savings Large Selection of Straw Herts shoT8’*’ ta*ir«Up All Accessories You Need To Make This Easter Complete boys Dvaimnir With All The Fashions The Little Ones Are Looking For Boys Suits & Sport Coats Single 4 Double Breasted Siam 200 — Large Selection of Dress Shirts With Pin, Rounded, and Whits Collars - a Shoe*: 8 Spoil Outfits & Short Outfits
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