Barber-Scotia College president Dr. MkUe McLean, carter. receives cltaUons for Motoric haMrtgo from William Price Jr., left, representing North Carolina right, of the United SUtee Department of Interior. * IB_:_I_■ «» *wT : » •f ■ A conference for inventors, entre preneurs, researchers and. others with an interest in the ieghl pro tection of intellectual property will be held at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte October 9. : Scheduled from 9:30 a.m. to 9 P P\ V* Speech P00®8 of Cone Cento, the conference is sponsored by UNCP’s Urban Institute and the #tojh Carolina Small business and Technology Development Center. The coat is $19 per person. The program is designed far those who want to know more about in ventions, patents, copyrights, and technology transfer. The following presentations are scheduled: -Dr. Fred Carr of the N.C. Small Business and Technology Center, TO *S .V, P & R To Offer Gomm^ Dofl Wark^^ THANK YOU FOR READING THE CHARLOTTE POST MMWWWWWMMWIMMlwlwmi>m»m I know that many of you have heard the expression “everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die." tt depresses me to see that those words often reflect the attitude of too many Black Americans. In the Black community, an individual is greeted with laudatory shouts of “right on or "stay on the case" as long as he Is elucidating about racism. But woe unto the Black ' person who dares to challenge or point out weaknesses that Black people can improve upon. Quickly the cheers change to Jeers and "Tbm." “Oreo." “Negro.” or bourgeoisie, the vtUlfylng names we now hear. However, I remind those name-callers that we. as a race, are doomed to second-class status as long as we refuse to admit that we are not perfect I am the first to admit that Black Americans have made great socioeconomic gains during the past 3 decades, but we canhot afford the luxury of Uvtajgon our victories of yesteryear. The battle for equal ity of opportunity and Justice la still being fought. We must strengthen our battle lines by making the family — father, mother, and children — strong and united. Tb achieve this goal, wt must be willing to admit that many Black babies don’t go to bed hungry because of racism. No. they lack food because a Black man has failed to fulfill his respon sibilities as a father and a husband. fJ, Q/ Think about It. Do we Blacks have the courage to reduce the'number of single-parent homes in our community? ' • ' . - /. -4.'. ±\ JdeT^iack , Vice President ' The Greyhound Corporation and Company, Central Piedmont Community College, Small feusineea Development pi vision of the North Carolina Department of Commerce and the N.C. Small Business and Technology Development Center. Aregistratknleaaf 945 will cemr the coat of lunch on both days of the .. conference, refreshments and mate rials. Checks should be made pay able to the Greater Charlotte Cham ber of Commerce, 129 West trade Street, P. O. Box 32785, Char lotte, N.C. 28232. For more information, call Deborah Saunders, Charlotte Chamber of Commerce, 7042774911 or Forrest Gunn, Small Business Administration, 704*714587. ■ ; s TWlI- 'aWK'S r wasn't exactly bar- knight in ■toning armor; the was too realistic to believe that (afar? taltt but he was special and wooderful and MMHad at least seme of the qualities that make'for knighthood »)*5j »v '-$*■ That was In the baginaing. Then the chinking began. And then the ■: drinking got worse. No matter what abe did or what abe didn’t do, the drinking continued to fat worse. :' 73fae knight la aMnMg armor has become, to her, ■ tarnished, worn 'v.eut tin solder. Aad she is angry. Not only that, she ia ashamed, guilty frustrated and fairly well Her husband is an alcoholic. And die is blanuciag him. HnWiq tom responsible for e disease she doesn’t even know be has. She’e triad everything she kaows to help him. Threatening to leave him, leaving him. Counthg Ms drink**, pouring out MS boom Making Mat eat more fowl Scald helped. •omeone else does,” he toys. “So when accusations of ‘drinking too much’ are thrown at him, the ll cobollc or chemically dspandant person win deny it But remembcr these people don't really see ttwir drinking the wty others do. So when say *it’s not that bad,’ they There is a common misconception about alcoholism that the alcoholic must “hit bottom" and ask for help before anything canJtie done to help hiip, aseu^Nl to HSmmert. Early studies by Vernon Johnson, the Often-celled “father of Inter vention” and founder of the John son Institute, indicated that rather than a “spontaneous insight’’ into their alcoholism, a series or build up of crises sparked people into recognition of their -Hirest and the subsequent request for help. These crises could be financial, legal, marital, family, career or job related, It was Johnson’s belief that crises could be creatively used to “bring the bottom up” to the alco holic. Prom this concept, the In tervention process was developed. Intervention works as family members learn the basics of alco holism as a disease. They learn the person who has this disease is ill, nat bad, and that be or she has no mom control over his or her drinking drug urn than a cancer victim has over their disease, explains Emmert They learn that the disease is program!v*. Unless treated, it will continue to get worse, never better Through a series of training ses sions these people who are close to the alcoholic prepare for the actual Intervention. They begin- keeping diaries in which they list facts and Incidents about the drinking be havior. They are coached in pre senting them facts in a non-judg mentalway. Arrangements, are made for in surance, time off from work or schools-a suitcase is even packed all in preparation for the alcoholic to enter treatment S. On the day of the Intervention, family members, akx« with the facilitator, meet in a pre-arranged place where the alcoholic is invited o to join them. Then, one by one, they begin reading their lists to the her drinking explains. Southern Belt Long Distance is a great way to stay in touch with friends.and femiiy at reasonable rates. A 10-MINUTE CALL FROM CHARLOTTE TO: Gastonia Boone | Salisbury mM+S Rutherfardton $1.32 $2.67 | $1.99 $2.44 M, —-_^.P'MOtlCHWITH.TM»UWg , „„

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