: Women Should Not Have To Engage f In Fallacy Of The ‘Ideal Mate” * 4k * * *» •* « V t V ■4 > * 1 > r k * *• ♦ ♦* «r ♦ ■!► 4b #s * W V • * a* - X J A Jr . A * 2 a ,# •I *4 3 *Tn 3 mr •Ml «.* at - . «■ •4 at •» - 2 5 £• ■ 111 - n. — . ■ .1 . Tawanna Taylor •tart defining their needs tteTthe direction is*cJear and easily guided. If two people would admit tp each other early in a relation ship that they do not want the same things from it or each other, then tt would surely prevent them from wasting six months, one year, or 10 yean of each other’s lives. Once you come to the reelixa tion that there Is no a relationship into the pro ’- y.■ v '1 ■ The ideal & walk intoi n»e that peraon doee not exist A shnog and happy relation •hip la grown out of the understanding that both partners must work together to build a solid foundation. Partners in a relationship are able to do this when they realize that they want the same «»Hyr and they are wUUqg to give up some things in order to You will become the : For Children during Kids’ Day la uptown Charlotte, December 7, -HW a.m. until 3 p.m. > To begin the day, chil ! dren with their adult com ; panions will be encouraged • to ride a Charlotte Transit bus to the center city. When : they reach the Tryun ; street Mall, volunteer .■ “elves” win direct them to 1 special events taking place . along the Mai Oumaatty, children’s ac tivities are scheduled at Spirit Square, Discovery Place, Main Library, Belk and Ivey’s. In addUfcn, children can tour the Adam One police station, view iCSSPUk&L Center and shop at area stores. Most of the activities wiD be free or available at a H r' ■ “ . The Second Annual HnH. day Tree-lighting «rffl be held in uptown Charlotte ofa |3 Entertainment for the <»' event will include brief ; J holiday performance# by £ area groups. The activities will take place at the ; Square (the intersection of fc.Trade and Tryon streets). 5 • The first anniversary of t the Tryon Street Mall will £ also be celebrated at thto * m . ____• _ ■ WBTV. /, . You'll Flip Over The Buys You'll Find In Our Oasstfled Section TO PLACE AN AD CALL 376-0496 *' ■>' : V?t •' t, reduced rate. Supporter of Kkli’ Day include: Central Char lotte Association, City of Charlotte, Charlotte-Meck lenburg Schools, Chariotte Mecklenburg Public Libra ry, Discovery Place, Spi rit Square, Charlotte Ope ra. Community School of , the Arts, the National Conference of Christian and Jews with its Youth ' Involvement Council, Belk, Ivey’s, Faison Associates, Marriott City Center Hotel, Burger King and McDonald’s. ideal mate when you learn to accept others’ weak nesses and basic Inman flaws, since you, too, have them. Become the ideal mate, If you want onel Twanna A. Taylor Join the fun of tti« year’s Carolinas’ Carrousel Parade November 28, Thanksgiving Day, at 2 p.m. The parade win begin . at North Tryon and uth Streets, proceed down Tryon to Stonewall Street, turn left onto Stonewall and turn left onto College Street, The parade will then turn right onto 2nd Street and proceed down 2nd to McDowell Street Grandstands will be locat- . ed on 2nd Street between Davidson and McDowell Streets. For more Informa tion on the parade or how you can attend the Queen’s Luncheon on Tuesday,-No vember 28 or the Pageant and Coronation-Dance on Wednesday night Novem ber 27, call 372-9411. f fits FDA (HIB). HIB Is the cause of beo and a of aerioua systemic bacterial GREAT SELECTION!