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| ' * 7 , |SVife Accuses Spouse Of Being "Cold" A jt . ^ *. H T * pear Carole, i I conaidar myself to be a thinker fcnd a rational person. Therefore. I Hon t let feelings get in the way of Important decisions that I make. Wy wife, on the other hand, let’s tier feelings get in the way of everything she does. She doesn't understand my way and I don't understand her way of doing (things. She says I am a cold ma chine. Isay that she let’s emotions Jand feelings blind her so she can’t Jthink straight or see straight I Which one of us is right? "Know What I’m Talking About" Dear "Know-it-al," «- Both of you have approach es which may work well for you. However, each of you should listen to the other and learn fhe value of a different approach. A person who is practical only but ^ias no compassion,will turn peo ple away and accomplish little that endures. A person who has com passion only but who lacks practi- — jeality will be stepped on and {stepped over. Carole Leonard's owroom lays Quality *-V Leonard Baugher of Leonard Bougher’s Hickory Grove Furni ture Showroom , at 7559 Newell itickory Grove Rd., has been pro viding quality furniture at rea sonable prices for years. » "The American family needs a place where they can purchase middle of the line furniture , in excellent condition and afforda ble prices," says Leonard. . It is our desire to make buying furniture fun and not just an eve ryday affair . We give our cus tomers a chance to pick the fab rics and frames they like . We do riot pressure our customers into purchasing what our sales people like." Furniture provided by Leo nard's Showroom is carefully Rhnd crafted: 1.5/4" hardwood lumber oak anaaple-m* ■ —».■ 2. All frames are double dowled-screwed -glued and cor jner blocked. " 8. Full 8-way hand tied coils. “Beck springs are also hand tied . J*-4. Solid webbed bottom with ad ditional 3/4" steel straping for Sri&ra support. ^ 6. All arms, wings, and back ^QQtsides are fully solid webbed 1" layer of cotton padding. Arm caps are standard. «• stationary, not laerewed on. Spring edge. t 8. Seat cushions are polyure thane foam wrapped in ticking. 1.JO.Cotton and nylon thread is vmd in sewing for durability. ji.AH plaids and strips are ^Hatched. £- 42. AH pieces are wrapped in 5 ply wrap with plastic liner prior to dktpment. ~^At Leonard's customers can Impact qualify furniture at afford able prices. j[ Jr I Carole's ) Comer ^ | By Carol* JUefa Dear Carole, Please help me overcome loneli ness. I can be in a room flill of peo ple and still feel lonely. Sometimes I wonder if I'm, afraid of people. When I'm with people, I feel so un easy. Lately, I've been trying to avoid situations in which I have to face people. But the more I stay away from people the more lonely I become. What can I do to stop being lonely? Lonely and Afraid Dear Lonely and Afraid, It is difficult to suggest a meth _od for overcoming loneliness with out understanding the cause for your loneliness. A person may act withdrawn if they experience hurt ). Large Sc Available In either Oak or Cherry I Come To Hickory-Groove's Furniture Showroom! LEONARD'S 7559 Newell Hickory Grove Rd. (Sharon-Amity at Milton Rd) - 568-9229 Decorator's Console In Oak of Chaffy r ^99^\ I Financing Available ICard* Accepted with Approved Credit W* aaM Arat quality aad dlaeowttaaad merchandise from Run retail aad catalog distribution. “Waa" prieao quoted are tbs “regular" pricea at which the llama were formerly offered by catalog or ia awny retail atoraa around tha country. quawhtim and AMotmtwni abk limited, go hurry,in; CATCHTHE NEW FASHION WAVE! SURF SUDDS® MENS COLORFUL 18-in LONG PRINT JAMS $6 58% LESS MENS SWIMWEAR WERE $11.99 IN 86 *SR CATALOG . ASSORTED STYLES ' " .... -.- — ■' 437. LESS £ WA MISSES' AND WOMENS' S> MM TERRY ROMPERS Mm WERE $6.99 - 80% COTTON. 20% POLY. - ASSORTED COLORS i l 1*m ailnm ll^N tL\* r lOwOOfTj Mm, MOfl '081 f§£~ Stan Surplus 10 AM to 9 PM Start Only Sun. 1 to 6 PM __| • 80»r»,Ro»buck and Co , 1H7 . $. feelings from deception or mis trust of other people. The "hurt" may seem difficult to bear. A per son may act withdrawn in order to protect him/herself from further hurt. If you can begin to trust one person you may soon trust others. Your loneliness may also be a re sponse to self-doubt or lack of con fidence. Begin to build your confi dence by taking a chance at some thing new. Try to participate in an activity that will help you develop • skill. Crafts, swimming, learning to play a musical instrument will help your confidence to grow. As your confidence grows, you will ■ feel less fearful of people. It is not necessary to have a million friends. But if you have a few, who are sincere, your loneliness will soon fade. Carole Editor's Note: Carole B. Ricks, A.C.S.W., is a marriage and family therapist with a private practice in Charlotte, NC. If you have person al, parent-child, or marriage prob lems, write to: Carole's Corner P. O. Box 37107 Charlotte, NC 28237 3 J hofJul I A W-D Handl-Pak or Market Style |v Ground Beef All Sizes r» A Holly Farms ;p- U.S.D.A. Grade A leg Quarters Harvest Fresh Yellow Corn 10 $159 ears I BUY-ONE- ^ 1 ^ get-one- oaic 6V2 oz. pKg. All Varieties I Ruffles or Lay’s I ^PolatoChlp^J 16 oz. pkg. Sea Pak Hush Puppies Rockingham Fryer Livers
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