16A STYLE/The Charlotte Post Thursday , June 18, 1998 ad Study: male caregivers live longer Among humans and other primates, lifespans of males and females more equal when he helps with raising the children Continued from page 14A back to 1780. For the animals, they examined the life history of up to 1,500 animals in each species. The pattern that emerged, said Alhnan, is that among primates that closely shared the care of off spring, the male-female lifespans also were nearly the same. But in species in which males took almost no part in child-rearing, the females outUve the males by a wide margin. For instance, in chimpanzees, where the male has almost no role in raising the young, there are about three times more females than males in the adult population. Among mountain gorillas, where fathers will protect and play with their yormg, females have only a shght survival advan tage. Allman said that among humans, based on the 200 years of Swedish data, the women tend to live 5 percent to 8 percent longer than the men. Among two primates, the owl monkey and titi monkey, fathers cany their young from shortly after birth, except for brief peri ods of nursing. AUman said that titi monkey males actually tend ed to outlive the females and hfes- pan was about the same among the genders of the owl monkeys. Allman said that among some new world monkeys, such as the marmoset, males appear to high ly prize the young and up to four males may share parenting duties. “There have been reports that some fathers will actually steal the children of others,” said Alhnan. Website attracts curious, interested Continued from page 14A Internet, he had 27,000 people connecting to it. 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