http://vvww.thecharlottepost,com THURSDAY, JULY 27, 2006 m RELIGION Local pastor gets “Straight Up” about the down low lifestyle in a new book. First African- American to sail world THE ASSOCIATED PRESS MYSTIC, Conn. —It is hard for BiU Pinkney to describe just what it’s like to float on a small boat alone in the mid dle of the Atlantic Ocean. There are some things that only a sailor would under stand. There are other things that happened that only someone who has sailed alone would get. And there is a whole other kind of phe nomenon that Pinkney him self can barely explain. “There are things I can’t tdl anybody because they weren’t there,” he said. He tries, though.- One pitch-black night, the sea was completely calm From horizon to horizon, mil- Hons of stars were visible. The light of those stars reflected off the placid water, encompassing Pinkney “If you suspended your dis belief for a while, it was like you were floatir^ on a ^obe of stars,” Pinkney said. Pinkney, when he was a kid, could never have specu lated his hfe would take him around the world, literally When he was suffering the slings and arrows of racism, he could not have guessed he would become acquainted with great and successful Americans such as BiU Cosby Maya Angelou, Walter Cronkite and Michael Jordan. “This was aU the furthest thing fiom my mind,” said Pinkney, 70. “The expecta tions of a black kid grovdng up on the south side of Chicago were limited.” Pinkney a Meriden resi dent for the past three years, is the first Afiican-American and only the fourth American overaU to sail the world along the Great Capes—a 1992 voyage of 27,000 miles taken in a small sailboat aptly named Commitment. Some of Pinkney’s gear fixjrn the trip is on display at an exhib it at Mystic Seaport titled “Black Hands, Blue Seas: The Maritime Heritage of Afiican-Americans. ”■ “It fulfilled a desire I’d had since seventh grade to have a great adventure and give an object lesson to my gi'andcliil- dren,” said Pinkney a trim, youthful man with a grizzly white beard, glasses and a single gold hoop earring. The lesson wasn’t just about math, science, Railing and geography, though he did give those to about 30,000 Chicago schoolchildren dur ing his trip. It was ultimately about the difference between di'eams and fantasies. ‘Young people today live in a world of fantasies,” he said. Dreams are attainable throu^ perseverance, educa tion and fortitude. The ccxn- struction of the Amistad, the ship docked at Mystic Seaport that Pinkney com manded for three years, is the result of someone’s dream to build a replica of the boat used in a famous 19th centu ry slave revolt. “There are portions of my knuckles in there,” Pinkney said, pointing to tiie ship he helped buUd. Fantasies are nothii^ but accidents, to summarize Pinkney’s thoi^hts. A child who believes he- will be plucked fi'om obscurity and anointed a sports star or a famous singer is fantasizing. Fantasies aren’t bad, Pinkney said—he does play the lotteiy when the jackpot gets really large—but too much of them diverts people fiom the process of living. Please see FIRST/2B ooor— than a castle PHOTOS/ERICA SINGLETON Biltmore estate, built by architect Richard Morris Hunt for George Vanderbilt in 1889, was one of the most tech nologically-advanced homes in the |ate 19th century. Today, it’s one of Asheville’s must-see sites. By Erica Singleton FOR THE CHARLOTTE POST Fans of design, remodel ing and celebrity home shows will get a treat unlike any other in Asheville. Just imder three hours offof Hi^way 40 west, The Biltmore estate is the ultimate “crib.” Seeing your favorite actor or rapper’s house on TV might be interesting, but touring America’s largest home and national historic landmark, is an educational experience you owe yourself not to pass up. While flat screen televisions that rise out of end tables and movie the aters and arcades in homes today might sean cutting edge, at 25 years of age in 1889 George Vanderbilt had the most technologically adviced home built for its time, that is stiU admired today for it’s innovative engi neering. The 250-room French chateau built by architect Richard Morris Hunt was fuUy electric and centrally heated. In a time when most homes didn’t have one bathroom, much less a working toilet, Biltmore House had 43, replete with tubs and showerheads. Completed in 1895, and formally opened to family and fiiends on Christinas Eve, Biltmore House also featured an intercom sys tem, a fire alarm system, two elevators (one electric, one manual as a back-up) and a relatively new invention called a tele phone. During my tour of the house, also referred to as a castle without the sand, I was amazed to find 'the basement held a bowhi^ alley a gymnasium, and an indoor pool. Tbday an indoor pool might not seem that big a deal, but 70,000 gallons of heated water, with undeiwater lightning, was a huge deal thai, and something to be marveled at today As the largest' private residence in the country, the estate is absolutely massive. From the Reception and Ticket Center to the Biltmore House is a 3-imle drive. Originally 125,000 acres, now merely 8,000, the estate and house require you give yourself time to explore. Thoioghthe entire house isn’t open to view, you can set-up a tour with a group or go, as I did on an audio tour, where you See THE ASHEVILLE/2B Coaches for every problem but skepticism THE ASSOCIATED PRESS ' NEW YORK—Ruth Kaufinan was tired of the stress that had become part of her job- As an account manager for legal research firm Westlaw in Chicago, she wanted something that was less of a strain and that allowed her time to piirsue her acting and writ- ir^. So four yearn ago, Kaufinan hired a life coach- The two met regularly for almost eight months. Kaufinan had assignments: Research other jobs. Find a writing mentor. Think about life goals. In the end, about $2,500 later, her life coach helped her to decide to stick it out until she could stop working full time, she said. “I foimd out for jobs I was capable of doing without more school, I wovild either have to travel a lot, which would make my second lifestyle more diffi cult, or I would make less money,” said Kaufinan, who finally stopped working last year. ‘T did feel bettea- knowing that. Coaching was very helpful. I did a lot of introspection. I learned more about myself and my goals.” Kaufinan is one of a growing number of people hiring coaches to hdp them define and achieve ■ any numbei' of goals. And there aren’t just life coaches any more; There are coaches for we^t loss, relationships, attention deficit dis order, spirituality, health and, of course, love. There ai-e coaching schools, and colleges, including New • York University and John F Kennedy University in California, are offering classes. You can even watch variations on coaching in action on prime time: ABC has aired “How to Get the Guy” (romance coaching); and TLC offers “Shalom in the Home”(family and rela tionship coaching) and “Honey We’re Killing the KidsI” (nutrition coaching). The 11-year-old International Coach Federation, a nonprofit membership organization, estimates there are 30,000 coaches in the world. JMore than 10,000 are in the ICF, a 300 percent increase since 2000. Study: Candy lovers also partial to fruit THE ASSOCIATED PRESS ALBANY, N.Y-Cookie lovers seem more likely to eat apples and other finoits than salty snacks, suggests a new study If true, that finding might be useful in encouraging healthier eating, according to the lead author of the study In other words, maybe that sweet tooth could be satisfied by finit instead of sugar. A group led by Cornell University marketir^ pro fessor Brian Wansink looked at the eating habits of thou sands of people and conclud ed the craving for something sweet spans both candy and fi*uit. The study published in the journal Appetite found people who eat candy, cakes and oilier sweet snacks eat more fiTjit than people who prefer salty snacks like nuts and chips. ‘T think it shows thae is some hope for the typical dieter,” he said. “... Maybe you’re not just a sugar-eat ing machine—that there are some redeeming traits to your diet.” The researchers analyzed self-reported eating habits of more than 14,000 Americans contained in U.S. Department of Agriculture surveys- They also relied on information finm 405 people who responded to their own mailed survey Analysis ofllie USDAdata suggested the link between sugary snacks and finit while the survey showed .that finit lovers eat more sweets than vegetable lovers. ' Wansink said parents and public health officials could use this information to encourage the phase-in of more fi*uits among kids and other people with a sweet tooth- “I think it’s something that can be done a httie bit at a time at the dinner table,” he said. Cynthia Sass, a dietitian with a private practice in Tampa, Fla., said she has been doing ex actly that with chents trying to control their sweet tooth. They might use unsweetened applesauce on waffles instead of syrup, or put berries on their cereal instead of spoonfuls of sugar. “AU of Ihese have worked really weU for people who PHOTOmE STOCK MARKET come in sayir^, ‘I have trou ble controlling my sweet tooth,” said Sass, a spokes woman for the American Dietetic Association. Dr. Beverly 'Ibpper, a pro fessor of food science at Rutgers University who does taste research, criti cized the study’s ececution. She said it was difficult to interpret the results since the study was vague in defining terms like “fimit lovers” or what specific salty and sweet snacks were con- PleasG see CANDY/2B Emotional roller coaster: Bipolar Approximately 1.5 percent of all Americans wfll suffer fi:x)m bipolar disorder, or manic depression, at some point dm'- ing their lifetime. 'While it remains uncertain whetiier the iUness occurs more fi:equently in minority or non-niinority communities, there is no ques tion that minorities suffering fi'om bipolar disorder receive disparate treatment. In 2001 the U.S. Surgeon General reported that African Americans are more likely to be diagnosed with sev^e men-. tal illnesses than whites, but less than Half as likely to receive timely and appropriate mental health services. As a result, Afiican Americans are more likely to attempt suicide, and they have more than twice the niunber of hospitalizations as their non-minority counter parts. Understanding bipolar disorder and knowing when to seek help vrill undoubtedly prove essential in reducing this abhorrent disparity What is bipolar illness? Bipolar disorder is a type of ^ective (mood) disorder, , meaning it causes people to experience dramatic changes in their moods and cognitions. SpecificaUy people living with bipolar disorder have mood swir^ in 'which their affect shifts between highs (mania) and lows (depression). These manic and depressive episodes can be mild or extreme, and the person may also experience periods of normal mood in between them. Usually the disease surfaces during late adolescence or early adiolthood and persists throughout the person’s hfe. While it is not cur able, most people with the Al ness can hve normal Hves with consistent and appropriate treatment. What is it hke to live with bipolar illness? Bipolar Alness impacts every aspect of its victims’ lives- 'lb understand the Alness in its entirety one must imderstand what it is Hke to experience its two extremes. Mania, in general, involves periods of high energy and expansive mood, often coupled with irritability and pressured thinldng. Manic periods can rar^e fix)m a nuld high, called hypomania, to extreme agita tion and even psychosis. Hypomania can often feel pleasant to the pa'son experi- encmg it, as he or she may experience a lot of energy and a happy, euphoric feeling. Creativity often intensifies, and thou^ts and words come faster and sharper. The need for sleep dramaticaAy decreas es, so the person may feel he or she can get more things accom plished. Mania is also associat ed with delusions of grandeur, or having unrealistic beliefs about one’s own abilities. Irritability and distractibAity increase, such that the person may drive away fiiends and relatives or do things that worAd otherwise be uncharac teristic. During a manic episode, a person may also lose his or her inhibitions and do impulsive and dangerous things fike having Tmprotected sex or spending a lot of money that he or she cannot afford to spend. WhAe mAd mania vuidoiJbtedly has its benefits. Please see LIVING/3B

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