The Transylvania Times A State And National Prize-Winning Home Town Newspaper SECOND CLASS POSTAGE PAID AT BREVARD. N. C. ZIP CODE 28712 *■ Vol. 84—No. 39 BREVARD, N. C., THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 30, 1971 * SECTION TWO * TRANSYLVANIA'S MENTAL HEALTH PROGRAM By - Dr. Joanna Byera Consulting Psychologist IN MEMORY OF Alfred M. Elwell, M. D. j Director, Transylvania Mental Health Program i I His selfless devotion to helping alleviate pain f in every area of life is a memory that will re- ! mind as of our purpose in the Mental Health ] Pipgram. Attitudes II What kind of f,*^itndpj about going' to school does your child have? Some gay they are going because it is the law. Others go be cause parents expect them to go. Still others go because parents make them go. I wonder sometimes if many go to learn? Does your attitude about your child’s ability give him a sense of failure? Do you say “you’re stufid.” or “Oh, she can’t do anything right.” Or “Why can’t you get that easy prob lem.”? If this is your attitude about the child it will probably be the child’s attitude of itself. Or do you have the attitude that the child must never make a mistake? This Duts a pressure on the child which is more cripnling than it is help ful. Is your attitude one which helps the child to see himself as able to learn, but no perfect. Can you accept failure in yourself? All of these attitudes will be important to the way the child sees himself. Is your attitude about teachers one which which says “It’s the teacher’s job to teach you!” Or does it say “I hope that teacher can g"*t through to you, I can’t!” Or does it sav “The teacher is there to helo you to learn!” Here again we see the subtle way in which your attitudes v'ill guide the child. The first says the child has no responsibility in this joint adventure. The second gives the child the' attitude “Teach me if you can.” almost daring the teachers to do their jobs! The third P«t* the responsibility where it belongs, the child must do the learning, the teachers are helpers. Another area of attitudes have to do with the school administp»tojc% we call them by many titles, principals, directors of in instruction, deans, superintendents. These people are those elected to make the schools run more smoothly. Their job is comparable to the government forces which set up laws and enforce them. Your attitude toward those who are the “bosses” in any situation will be reflected by your children. If you criticize and down-grade your boss, the child takes the attitude that bosses are not to be respected. If you take the attitude that the boss or the foreman is “out to get” you, this could well be the attitude the child has about school administrators. If you have the attitude that the government or the boss has no right to tell you what to do, then the child may well take this attitude to school and feel that no one has the right to tell him or her Brevard Insurance Agency, Inc. 20 E. JORDAN ST. 883-3121 GIL COAN. JR. GIL COAN WEEKLY CROSSWORD ACROSS 1. Obstruct, as a drain 5. City in Georgia 10. Assistant 11. Evade 12. Was suspicious: colloq. (3 wds.) 15. Pronoun 16. -- Montand 17. High cards 18. Florida 21. Blackboard item 24. Function 25. Disney creation (2 wds.) 27. -of March 28. Shred 29. Threefold (comb, form) 30. Flank 31. -mater 32. Chance 35. Relative of 25 across (2 wds.) 39. Dialect 40. "Rock of 41. Foolish 42. Exploit DOWN 1. Liquidate assets 2. Shade of green 3. European river 4. Colloidal substance 6. Ancient Persians 6. Woe unto us! 7. Mongrel 8. Harem room 9. Curtain fabric 13. French secondary school 14. Always (2 wds.) 17. In quires 18. De bacle 19. Dif ferent 20. Hind 21. Give off 22. Tease 23. Maple genus 24. Learn ing by heart 20. "Call Me 30. Vile 31. Presently 32. Immense 33. On the ocean .n'o^o.t 5,3®3Pl»OI li 3 SlDjO N 3; l;NN! i 3;j.14»[j.BS. 3 3 s now;* 3xo noult 3.sv 3 salfg^.o vB ■■fS 3 A *Htl mu'q 3iii3 3on i ]H3Q m o 0’vw—oo Answer 34. Nuisance 35. Wire measure, ment 3fi. June phrase 37. Greek Island 38. Lummox what to do. If you have and practice the idea that people can work together for the better ment of all, your children will learn this atti tude. But what happens in adolescense? Sud denly it seems that all your attitudes are wrong and all the attitudes of others are right! This is is an ideal time to reassess your attitudes and to determine whether you’ve really been acting out your attitudes. When the child takes what seems to you to be a different attitude than yours, do you need to take a look at what you’ve been say ing all along? For example, parents who have been get ting their children out of one scrape after an other, instead of allowing the child to take the consequences of his actions, come to a time when they have to face that they have been taking responsibility for the child. One. boy who had served one term in the Training School came home and within two weeks was before the Court again. He was referred to us for help. His statemnt was “I know if 1 do something wrong up there I’ll get clobbered. If I do something wrong here at home my Dad and Mother will blame it on somebody else. I did what I did «p, I could go back to the Training School.” Thus we teach our children in subtle ways to take certain attitudes about themselves. And as our attitudes reflect true respect for other people, the child will learn this. What are your attitudes? Adult Course In Welding To Be Taught At Brevard High On October 4th, the Voca tional Agriculture Department at Brevard High School will begin a course in welding for the adults of Transylvania county. The course, with Blaine Em ery as the instructor, will teach the basic skills of arc and gas welding and gas cut ting. The sessions will be held each Monday night from 7:00 10:00 p. m. and will extend for 10 weeks. Due to a limited number of welders, the enrollees will be taken on a “first come-first served” basis. There will be a fee of $15.00 to cover the cost ofconsumable materials. For further information, con tact John K. Bradley, Voca tional Agriculture teacher at Brevard High School. ADMINISTRATOR’S NOTICE In The General Court of Justice Superior Court Division State of North Carolina Transylvania County Having qualified as Adminis tractor of the estate of Sandra L. Cook of Transylvania Coun ty, North Carolina, this is to notify all persons having claims against the estate of said San dra L. Cook to present them to the undersigned within 6 months from date of the publi cation of this notice or same will be pleaded in bar of their recovery. All persons indebted to said estate please make im mediate payment. This the 14th day of Septem ber, 1971. Billy J. Cook Route 4, Boone. N. C. RAMSEY, HILL, SMART & RAMSEY John K. Smart, Jr., Attorney. 9-16-4tc NEW HOMES ADDITIONS REPAIRS -ALSO BARTON’S REMODELING CO. % CARPET INSTALLATIONS 5 S. Broad St. Brevard, N. C FREE ESTIMATES Bus. 883-2825 Home 885-2350 Rev. Earl Payne To Lead Revival At Enon Baptist The Reverend K. Earl Payne, former pastor of Glady Branch Baptist Church, will be the visiting evangelist at Enon Bap tist Church October 3-10. Serv ices begin each night at 7:30 o’clock. , Mr. Payne is a native of Jack son County and has worked in Sylva and Bryson City. Mrs. Payne is also from Jackson County. They have two small children. After attending Southwest ern Baptist Theological Semi nary, Mr. Payne was pas from 1960-1964. He has done an outstanding work in Robbins ville including the building of a new church and pastorium. He is in demand in revival work and has spoken in many churches in Texas, especially while he attended the Seminary. The Enon community is look ing forward to having this high ly respected pastor-evangelist in revival. Special music and con gregational singing each night will be led by Kenneth McCoy, a member of Enon church. Special recognition will be given to 100% families in at tendance on Wednesday night. Thursday night will be Youth Night, including everyone 25 years of age and below. Attend ance of every person on Sunday School roll will be expected Friday night. Visitors are al ways welcoma, but Saturday will be emphasized as visitors night. Sunday morning, October 10, a special unified service will be gin in the sanctuary. All de partments of the Sunday School will be sitting together. The pastor, Rev. Forest P. Blankenship, encourages all the families of the community to attend “regardless of the church you are a member.” “Please call the pastor, tele REV. EARL PAYNE phone number 877-4418, if you need transportation to revival,” Mr. Blankenship says. ADMINISTRATOR’S NOTICE In The General Court of Justice Superior Court Division State of North Carolina Transylvania County Having qualified as Adminis trator of the estate of Fred R. Cook of Transylvania County, North Carolina, this is to notify all persons having claims against the estate of said Fred R. Cook to present them to the undersigned within 6 months from date of the publication of this notice or same will be pleaded in bar of their re covery. All persons indebted to said estate please make im mediate payment. This the 14th day of Septem ber, 1971. Billy J. Cook Route 4, Boone, N. C. RAMSEY, HILL, SMART & RAMSEY John K. Smart, Jr., Attorney. 9-16-4 tc SOCIAL SECURITY . Questions And Answers By NORRIS G. GRUBBS Field Representative 5. Is a delayed birth certificate considered sufficient proof of ige for Social Security pur joses? A. Usually the delayed birth record is satisfactory if established ten or more years prior to filing. However, if the delayed birth record has not been established and the person is nearing retirement •age, the best thing to do is call or write the A'-heville Social Security office for advice. 0. I know the earnings limit is $1680 per year when a per ;on files for benefits. But does his limit begin, when one files or on January 1st of the year Dne files? A. The $1680 earnings limit begins on January 1st regard less of the date one files. Benefits can still be paid however, if the monthly earn ings do not exceed $140. Q. How long can a student be out of school and still draw Social Security benefits? A. As long as the student is not out of school more than 4 calendar months his bene fits will continue. Q. Does Medicare pay for the extraction of teeth? A. No - not unless it in volves jaw surgery. Q. Will Medicare pay for a chiropractor’s services? A. No. Q. While on vacation in Florida, I went to a .doctor. I —,-i - paid the bill, but do not know, where to send my Medicare claim. A. You should file your * claim for payment on this doctor hill with the insur ance company in Florida which handles Medicare pay ments. A claim for Part “B”, Medicare payments should be filed in the state where the services were received. The address may be found in the Medicare Handbook or you may call the Social Security office for the address of the “carrier” in any state. NOTICE State Of North Carolina County Of Transylvania The undersigned, having qualified as Administrator oi the Estate of James Larry Me Gaha, deceased, late Of Tran sylvania County, North Caro lina, this is to notify all per sons having claims against the estate to present them to the undersigned on or before the 15th day of April, 1972, or this notice will be pleaded in bar of recovery. All persons indebted to said estate will please make immediate payment to the un dersigned. This the 23rd day of Septem ber, 1971. 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