THE OHABLOTTE NEWS JANUARY 21. 1911 Novel BY MADAME MERRI A Jolly Cotillion. Perhipn you will al bo lnt«rested 'An the deecrlption of thes^ figures, iwhlch were danced at a holiday cotil lion. College lads and lasples were the gTiOBts, and the affair look place on itho third floor ballroom of a home •toted for its hospitality For tb© "snow man" figure the boys (were corered with white poner bags iwlth round holes out for eyos. The had email rrow men flpureswith ipaper caps in ’.*8 pinned o ntheir Kownfl. Each nan d'lnced with the ?^irl whose cap matched the colored 11 uuon placed In his buttonhole. An- niher fiinne was a larpro Japanese lan- *t.'n vMth r'ny to”s, two of fi ilind; r.j .ii.- l;i’itc»‘n wus topsi d {tho to..o Ji'1 oul, and tiiosi' matching 'toys darrod together The fife and drum flK^ire vras p'eat. Tho men had w’li'^tles nnd the grirls (i’T.ms, r:;.-h dnmi and each whistle fBcv.oii with dnpHcatP 'vnnl>ers nd dlftrlliiitod anionar thop ' who wore in participiue In the tir.^t waltz. The Irader fnrrr'.od them In ni!!itnry array to the tune of “M .lll>,an Cu:ird? ' and hi Th« pr!. or iigr. ii oM danrr.l '"'U' la.M llcr.ie -nvnroil df .T-.pan. All tht girls ;;iv. u 1 i,t>'rn:. nr.d all th(> men a imx of wax tapov n : fclios. When I he t=i:nial was given the men lit ihe Inntoins and held them over t!'.o fr.ir\>. The lights were Tiir^d ((Ml for a liuie, but lurned on ;;s thf '■ 'k Ptru’k 12. and Home. Sweet Hou'e potmded. Two Guessing Contests. '^he fall f'T Ku» >.inc: coiitp.s-.s is continual. It sooM'.s if the rl'Miiand would ntvtr ((as-, atir* onr ix;idevs ^'Hiit tlv- old (It)- -; >;o of’on that 1 am ; ■ . ii! ; >n r . M:-' of iht'Ut. How- • 'her.' r-:r a'vs;\'? n- .v ones to ! I i vhar M i e rhl. ?o 1 e;ive 0 fwo co?r*'s - i , response to a| » 'for :oo I jr: -'. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. ^ eis li. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 1?. If. 20. What is the oldest ant? (Adam ant) What ant hlree his home? (Ten^ ant.) What ant ia joyful? (Jubilant.) What ant is learned? (Savant.) What ant 1b well informed? (Com servant.) What ant Is trustworthy? (Confi dant.) What ant is proud? (Arrogant.) What ant sees things? (Obser vant.) What ant is anfrrj’? (Indignant.) What ant tells things? (Inform ant ) MiS man.flgur otaoin shrdlu What nnt Is successful? (Trlum- I'hun..) Wliat ant is an officer? (Com mandant.) What ant Is a beggar? (Mendi cant.) What ant is obstinant? (Defi ant.) What ant is youngest? (Infant.) Wliat is the ruling ant? (Domi nant.) What is the wandering ant? (Er rant.^ What ant lives in a house? (Oc cupant.) What ant points out things? (Sig nificant.) What ant is pra.verful? (Suppli cant.) 1. What city is for few people? (Scarcity.) 2. For happy people? (Felicity.) For hypov'^ritcs? r Duplicity.) 4. chHuft'euro? (Velocity.) o. For truthftil people? (\’eracity.) 6. For athletics? (Blasticit.v.) 7. For greedy people? (Voracity.) 5. For wild beasts? (Ferocity.) ?♦. For home lovers? (Domesticity.) 10. For actors? (Publicity.) 11. For reporters? (Audacity.) 12 For wise peo^)le? (Sagacity.) ]:;. For hrmgry people? (Capacity.) 14. For telegraph operators? (Elec tricity.) 15 For crowds? (Multiplicity ) Ui. For nations? (Reciprocity.) 17. For old people? (Eccentricity.) is, Kor H.ps'av';? (Mrndiciiy.» 19. For inhapry people? (Infelicity.) 20. F'or office seekers*’ (Perninacity) The names of cities and their nick- name.= may .-.Iso be used thus: Bos- u'T,. ■ F'ai'adelphia. The City of }'oii..s; P^'‘t;oit. "City of ihe Sii'aits:" Cinciiiuati. •'Quci-n City of 'ho West:" Chicago, “Windy City,” or Tiarden City;" Buffalo. "Queen City;” Cleveland. •Forest City;" Pittsburg. ■Sn'oky City:” Washington. "City of Magnificent Distances;” Milwaukee, “Cream City;" Xew York. “Gotham;” Minneapolis. "Falls City;” St. Louis, "Mound City:” San F^ancii^co, “Gol den Gc":e;” Xew Orleans, "Crescent Citv.” THE BIG SHOE IS AT- {>>•• not contain Opiates Tii* ?rnpi,f’s RiMrnT f r f^tigh?. Colds, ?r '.i.'.v. h ' ;n. Pr n'hit!^.'irirre- I I'.th.'i ■ irr.v e«-^,e ■. ■ .‘ea:.'lsnru. Soets, SAMPLE SENT FREE V. rM.c (iirlt .. .l-r.licathlc ,->:.pcr. Address A. C. .niiVLK & CO., eALTl.’iVJRfc, MU 400—rOO—100 7 * ? ? An Evening in Holland. The invitations said, ”The Travel club will be pleased to have you spend an evening in Holland, at the resi dence of Mrs. Brown, January twelfth, a; eight o'clock. I The house was transformed com pletely with the flag of Holland—red, I V, hitt- and blue—and all doors and win- (iows; then thf^re were pictures of Queen Wilhelmina and reproductions ol famous Dutch artists, such as Rem brandt, Porter, H;iis, etc. There were storks and windmills on the dining table, with a pair of wee wooden shoes at each place. Lacking real tulips and hyacinths, there were artificial ones, and members had sent any bits of delft they possessed or could bor row, as well as many post cards from Holland, which were all displayed upon a table. There were 12 members in this club, and they were asked to come in cos tume, which I describe rather minute ly. The men wore dark jackets over bright vests, knee pants, low heavy shoes, Vvith blue woolen stockings, broad soft hats, with rather pointed crowns. The Dutch fisher boy wore wooden shoes, very full trousers, coarse knitted stockings, a striped waist or blouse, red tie and a visor cap. The girls wore full skirts of blue flannel, phort sleeved waists, laced over a white shirt with short, full sleeves. A large white or colored ker chief was crossed over the breastand fastened at the waist. Fancy or white aprons and red stockings with v^ooden siioes completed a costume. The hair was parted and braided with a cap of white muslin or gay silk worn on the head. There are inore elaborate head pieces of brass, with Irce caps. The Dutch women are also very fond of wearing coral beads. The fact that Holland leads the world in making cheese furnished the subject for a very interesting paper. The hostess served potato salad, piping hot sausage grilled in the cha fing dish, Dutch herring made into appetizing handwiches, pickles and cheese, and offered a choice of coffee, cocoa or beer with pretzels. whatever she desires; 1—Oil of cloves. 2—Oil of cedar. , 3—Oil of sassafras. \ 4—Oil of nise. ■ 5—Oil of bitter almonds. ' 6—Pennj'royal. 7—Essence of peppermint. 8—Vanilla. 9—Cinnamon. ■ 10—Wood alcohol. , . 11—Valerian. 12—Bay rum. 13—Camphor. 14—Ammonia. 15—Rhubarb, 16—Arnica. 17—Spirits of nitre. jS—Assafoetida. 19—Turpentine. 20—Castor oil. A Smelling Contest. After a card club the other night the hostess had thig funny little con test, that amused t4ie guests very much. On a tray she had small bot tles of the same size apd color, each one numbered. Then she passed bits of paper, with pencils and told each one to take a whiff from each bottle and write down the contents opposite the corresponding number on the pro grams. which were collected. A prize of a dainty little vinaigrette was given the lady having the most odors cor rect, and a bottle of perfumery for the n'.an. Below are the contents for the bottles, but a hostess may arrange Some Kcw, Old Games. Try this innovation on the old way of playing Blind Man’s Buff. Count out to see who will be the blind man, then tell him to imagine himself in a barnyard. Let each one in the ring choose silently what animal he will be. Hand the blind man a wand or cane and when he touches a person they are to take hold of the stick and imitate some barnyard creature; of course disguising the voice as much as possible. If guessed correctly, the child ta\es the place of the blind man Sometimes two trials at guessing are alloweil. this to be decided before the game is commenced. The game of Bag and Wand is always welcome. Suspend a good sized paper sack from the center of the room. Fill the sack V ith paper wrapped candies, snapping m.ottoes. English walnuts wrapped in gold and silver paper, and an.\- other small articles that will be unharmed ny falling. Blindfold each child in turn, hand the striker a stout cane witli which to make three strikes in an attempt to break the bag. When the bag is broken all the rest of the children scramble for the goodies as they f^. Advertising Pictures is a new rendering of the old and beloved “Bird, Beast. Animal.” A child stands in the center of a circle with a soft sofa pillow which is thrown at a child, who must reply with an adver tising picture before the one in center can count ten. The fun of this game is that advertisements cannot be named twice. This makes the play ers keep their wits and adds interest to the game. It is best fitted for youngsters of from twelve to sixteen. Even grownup peoide enjoy this pas time. In fact grswnups should be a factor where it Is possible in all chil dren’s plays, especially at parties. QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS. To Go With a Book. Please, dear Madame Merrl, give me a suitable sentiment to go with a book to a friend on her birthday which oc curs last of January.—An Appreciative Reader. I can give you nothing better than the quotation below, written long years ago by Dorothy Wordsworth to Coleridge: ‘Tes, do you send me a book for my birthday. Not a bargain book, bought from a haberdasher, but a beautiful book, a book to caress— peculiar, distinctive, individual; a book that hath first caught your eye and then pleased your fancy, written by an author with a tender whim, ail right out of his heart. We will read it together in the gloaming, and when the gathering dusk doth blur the page, we’ll sit with hearts too full for speech and think it over.” Announcing an Engagement. Your helpfui ideas are my main stay; please assist me now In making known the news of my engagement to about twenty girl frineds.—Connie. I am glad the department is of in terest: words like yours make me think that it is worth while when I am discouraged. Why not ask the girls to a luncheon or an afternoon, and tell the story by the decorations and favors? This is the way one girl did: The table had pink hearts sprinkled over the cloth, the plates vvere outlined in heart-shape by tiny flowers (forget-me-nots, arti ficial) ; the nut holders Avere wee slip pers of pink, the place cars were hearts; the centerpiece was a wedding cake with the two names and the date of the approaching nutials and the girls went into the dining room to the tunes of Mendelssohn’s famous march played by a member of the family who \ias a good musician. When luncheon was announced she started the march. which they know? You will find when each guest has a personal interest in the party that it will be a success. At one of the jolliest parties I ever at tended the girls each brouj^ht an old hat with trimmiiy^s; they were piac:*d on a table, from which the boys select ed a hat to trim with the “findings.” The girl to whom the hat^ belonged was his partner and had to wear the finished creation during refreshments. I assure you there was nothing dull or stupid about this affair. Corcerning an Engagement. As a rue how long should an en gagement last? Is it etiquette to tell the girl’s parents, if so, when? Who should make knovm the news? When is an engagement ring presented; is a diamond the only proper stone; what size and what kind of mounting is best, when the man is not rich?—Jas. P. The length of an engagement de pends entirely upon circumstances. Personally, I am not in favor of long engagements, unless absolutely neces sary. It Is the man's place to ask the consent of the girl’s parents. Her fa ther should be asked for the hand of his daughter. An engagement ring is usually given at o&.tt, but it need not be a diamond. It is best to consult the girl as to her preference, especial ly as to the style and setting; the size can only be determined by what the prospective bridegroom wishes to pay. Personally, I like some distinctive ring! as an engagement token, something individual, or an heirloom in the man’s family may be used. The question of i such a ring as to its cost and char-1 acter cannot be answered by an out sider. invitation and a call upon her at-houie cia; . Use Vcu.' Ca;-.:; In sendinr: r-'.'f ~ about thirty—Zor a biid2:o' is'h to write thera ou my cards?- Kona Perfectly proper to use vour ea-r- for "!)iidge” party invitntion'.- urit-‘! on them the day, date and hour n-V-. “R. S. V. P.” Inclose the cavf^i 1-,,,.,' velopes to fit exactly and p.oj-.t ten days before the partv is to place. A January Party. Will you please tell me ?.hs' serve at a j)arty In January'’ i rin >’.■ want to fix up a table. 'Wonlrj it ' proper where there will be li ,,,.- i;.-. teen couples to serve in ?1tnn? all seated and have even-thinj; ■:?, r plate for each one?—Ignorant. ' You may serve very as vo; suggest, have hot oyster or orea^n, ^ chicken patties, the latter with rooms to make them very del’cate ai.4 nice. On the same plate lay two ; hot rolls or a couple of small snv!,. wiches, a spoonful of salted nui?. olives and a cup of coffee. If ..on v. :h more remove these plates and pa- 5, frozen sweet of some kind with, fn;.:'.; cakes and bon-bons. Continued on Page Thre?. Party for Boys and Girls. I want to give a party for both girls snd boys. Our crowd is very bashful. What shall I do to break the ice?— Perplexed. Why not ask each one to bring a l>ost card bearing a picture about Mabel’s Questions. Please tell me in your interesting column the name of a good book on “Etiquette.” I am placed in an awk ward position. I met a girl this sum mer who called on me. I returned the visit then received an Invitation to her wedding. Must I call again be fore the event?—Mabel. In answer to your first question. I must ask you to send me a self-ad dressed stamped envelope, as I cannot give names or addresses in the depart ment You need make no call until after the wedding, when a call will be due her mother or whoever issued the ? ? ? ? 400—20^^—100 ? f 7 1 "Half a Block from Herald Sq," HOTEL West 35th St., New York City, On the block between Fifth Avenue and Broadway. Offers select accommodaiiona to discrimiaating people. ABSOLUTELY FIREPROOF and affords every facility for the comfort of guests. Situated in the very heart ol the city, in a very quiet neigh borhood, convenient to all sur face, Subway, and elevated rail way lines, and In the midst of the shopping and theatre dli- trlct. Rooms with Bath $2 and Up. Special rates for summer months. 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