2% Saily (Tor UM Orgasm Day appreciated by all comers BY LAURA FRIED STAFF WRITER A banner reading “Hey Come Over Here (no pun intended)” wel comed students passing through Polk Place to Orgasm Awareness Day events. Alongside the curious glances and shy giggles from passers-by, students could learn that it takes 116 muscles to climax and that using a vibrator to treat women for hyste ria was a common medical practice until the 19505. The event, co-sponsored by Choice USA and Feminist Students United, was meant to be educa tional as well as entertaining. Anna Potter, a member of the Choice executive board, said the group’s members hoped the day’s events would enlighten women about their bodies. “We want to empower women,” Potter said. “Without control over our sexual lives we don’t have con trol over our reproductive lives.” Crisis center in funding quagmire After 30 years, looking to expand BY NICKI JHABVALA STAFF WRITER It’s been more than 30 years since its opening, but the Orange County Rape Crisis Center still faces the same obstacle. The nonprofit volunteer center that provides support and educa tion about sexual violence to the community struggled to get off the ground due to a lack of funding. Today, as the center seeks to expand and serve more clients, the financial problem persists. “We’re in a situation where we need to grow and need to increase our services and the number of people we reach in the community,” said Margaret Barrett, the organi zation’s executive director. The crisis center relies heavily on government funds, grants and contributions from United Way, as they provide nearly half of its financial support. In an attempt to increase the amount it receives from private companies and individuals, the crisis center is holding its Annual Holiday Auction at 5:30 p.m. Sunday at the Sheraton Chapel Hill Hotel. “We have a lot of community support because people realize that (sexual violence) is an important issue,” said Cutler Andrews, the center’s event coordinator. “But funding is a reality for all nonprofit organizations. There is so much of a need, and we’ve got to find a way to keep our doors open.” The event will include a silent auction of items ranging from gift certificates to artwork, a live auction, a musical appearance by the band Equinox and a variety of refreshments. “This is a chance for people to contribute to our mission while participating in an event that allows them to bid on items and buy holiday gifts,” Barrett said. The crisis center also will have a raffle, with a prize of two nights in New York City’s Ritz-Carlton Hotel. “This is a great way for students and other members who can’t attend the event to contribute by just buying a raffle ticket,” Barrett said. As the 18th holiday auction the center has held, event organizers said this year they hope to bring in $53,000 an increase from the $46,000 raised at last year’s event. Though the crisis center is not in the same funding predicament as it was in 1974, the organization always is looking for additional revenue for its general expenses of services, such as its 24-hour crisis response line and community edu cation programs, officials said. Andrews said the program serves almost 400 clients a year for sexual assault support and reaches more than 10,000 people through its education programs in the local schools. “It is important that (the auc tion) is a success because it helps us to serve the community,” he said. “It’s a vital event for us, in that it brings in a lot of needed funds, and it’s also a fun event for people to come to because we have such a wide selection of things to choose from.” Contact the City Editor at citydesk@unc.edu. An estimated 100 to 150 people stopped by the event, including a surprising number of males, event organizers said. The festivities included games such as a race to see which partici pant could correctly put a condom on a banana the fastest. The event also presented a sex toy museum featuring a vintage vibrator from 1924, a table of fun facts about orgasms and a raffle for a free vibrator. 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Students who attended the event said it was important for women, whether or not they’re sexually active, to be educated about sex. “Movies always show sex, but they never show how to practice safe sex,” said Harriet Ashcroft, a fresh News man from New York. “It’s important to teach women about safe sex since we’ll all be exposed to it.” Judit Albert, a junior from Transylvania, said she was sur prised that female sexuality is viewed as taboo or offensive to some people in the U.S. because the country portrays itself as a country of freedom. “People should not be afraid to talk about sex education,” she said. “To say the word ‘vagina,’ have pictures of vaginas and see that they’re not monsters is important.” Because of the success of the day, Monroe said she hopes there will be another Orgasm Awareness Day in the future. “We can’t change everybody, but even if we get some people think ing about it and spread the infor mation to their friends, we can get the ball rolling,” Monroe said. Contact the University Editor at udesk@unc.edu. FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 11, 2005 .'.SHy -j|gßV-> X" C| W gff - m jßm|| DTH/BETH ELY Junior Jennifer Monroe of UNC's Choice USA shows freshman Harriet Ashcroft how to put on a condom correctly at Polk Place on Thursday. 7