6 MONDAY, NOVEMBER 24, 2008 Stye fttilij ®ar MM Established 1893, 115 years ofeditorialfreedom ALEX LEE GUEST COLUMNIST Sophomore political science and English major from London. E-MAIL LEEACL@EMAIL.UNC.EDU Americans need to bring back chivalry Like any foreign national studying at an American university, I can’t help but continuously compare U.S. cus toms and culture to that of my homeland. Usually these “com parisons” are little more than imperialistic rants, but some issues show a significant divide between the British and GUEST COLUMNIST American mindset. One such issue is a concept we’ve seen shrivel from a code of conduct held in the highest regard into an ideal whose name cannot be whispered on cam pus without evoking the rage of numerous feminist groups. I am talking, of course, about chivalry. Chivalry at UNC is perceived as giving up a seat on the P2P to that girl whose friends have to carry her on or holding open the UL door so it doesn’t hit the person behind you in the face. It’s a poor reflection of our society that I need to point out that these are not chivalry, they are simply good manners. American culture indicates that being overly friendly, smiling politely and pretending to agree simply to avoid conflict represents honorable conduct It doesn’t Unnoticed acts of honesty, bravery and compassion, previ ously dictated by human decency, have become replaced by social climbing and the jungle-law atti tude of modern culture. This point is where the real split between British and American cul ture becomes evident Not for the first time, I was informed last week that myself and all Englishman are “blunt cynical and old-fashioned.” This is likely true. English edu cation prioritizes honesty and fair treatment rather than avoidance of truth for social appeasement British boarding school seeks to foster the growth of young ladies and gentleman into well-rounded, respected members of society, rather than churning out students with As in math and English. American education seems far more focused on the perfect GPA, expanding a resume and flattering the right people to get ahead. Dishonesty With our fellow students represents a lack of the courage needed to speak ones’ own opinions and is a disservice to our peers. To find within each of us the inner mettle to discard social opin ion and to be honest and straight with each other and ourselves, regardless of the consequences this is the nature of chivalry. Gentlemanly conduct in recent years has been condemned as condescending and anachronistic. The idea of “women and children first” is contemptuously viewed as a pompous attempt by men to impose a double standard. Men of UNC, do not let this assuage your nobility. Whilst a bevy of shrieking feminists going down with a sinking ship might be an attractive notion, the gentleman’s code of ethics must remain intact simply because the alternative shameless indi vidualism is far worse. Contrary to popular belief chivalry is not an excuse for male pompousness or for the imposi tion of double standards. In a modem setting the “knight in shining armor” is androgynous. Our university years represent a stage in our lives when we make decisions that will shape us as individuals and dictate what kind of men and women we grow to be. Male and female Thr Heels, from whatever background, should seek to leave university not only as accomplished academics, but as individuals of strong character pre pared to perform those unnoticed dutiful acts of compassion and courage that society needs. ALLISON NICHOLS EDTTOfL 90-4086 NALLSONOEMAH-UNC.EDU OFFICE HOURS: MON., WED. 2-3 P.M. ERIC JOHNSON PUBLIC EDITOR ERICJOHNSONOUNC.EDU EDITORIAL CARTOON By Terrence Nowiski, Western Front Save the trees UNC should celebrate cultural, religious diversity with more not fewer decorations in the library Don’t be a Grinch. Instead of removing the Christmas trees from UNC’s libraries this year, the University should instead deck the halls with holiday ornaments of more cultures and religions. Asa school that prides itself on its diversity, UNC is acting imprudently by simply remov ing Christmas trees from Davis and Wilson. A much better idea would be to embrace our diversity by showcasing other winter celebrations, like Hanukkah, Wastingaway Orange County Swnmissioners have studied waste transfer site issue enough, should make a decision The Orange County Commissioners should make a final decision on a location for the county’s new waste-transfer site at its Dec. 11 meeting. Because Orange County’s cur rent landfill is reaching capacity, a waste-transfer site is urgently needed. Chairman Barry Jacobs said that at the December meeting the board might select a site, propose to revise parts of the selection process or start from scratch. The board already went back to the drawing board last Look both ways Town right to think about improving pedestrian safety, but there’s more to be done V ■ vhe town’s testing of anew I pedestrian crossing sys- JL tern last week shows an impressive openness to innova tion and a special sensitivity to safety on and near campus. After several tragic accidents involving pedestrians in the past year, it’s good to see the town looking for innovative ways to address this problem. While this new crossing scheme doesn’t directly remedy the major cause of the accident in October (driver error), the town is still right to address the broader issue of pedestrian safety. The new system at the inter section of South Columbia Street and Cameron Avenue allows pedestrians to cross in JOIN US: The Daily Tar Heel is hiring for the spring semester. APPLICATIONS DUE TODAY We're looking for about eight columnists who will produce hard-hitting, insightful, well written and well researched columns with local relevance centered around a theme of their own choosing on a biweekly basis. We’re looking for about eight to 10 board members who will write unsigned editorials on behalf of the DTH. Members must attend a one-hour meeting on Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday each week to brainstorm and pitch idem. Each board member can expect to write at least three editorials a week. We’ra looking for at least two cartoonists who will produce creative, original editorial cartoons weekly. Please visit Union 2409 or www.DaiiyrarHeel.com under 'About us' for an application. Apportions are due at 5 p.m. today. Contact Editor Allison Nichols at allisoncnichotsOgmaß.com with questions. Opinion HARRISON JOBE OPINION CO-EDITOR HJOBE@EMAIL.UNC.EDU GRES MARGO LIS OPINION CO-EDITOR MARGOLIS.GR£G@GMAILCOM Kwanzaa and the winter sol stice, as well as Christmas. First, the Christmas trees in Davis and Wilson are an annu al tradition at UNC. Removing them would dis appoint the many students who have come to expect decorations dining the holiday season. Secondly, for those who do not celebrate Christmas, it would be an appropriate and illustrative statement about the cultural diversity of the University if the libraries put up holiday decorations from other religious and cultural November and since then its selection process has been highly transparent and fair. It’s time to bite the bullet and make a decision. Certainly, no one wants a waste-transfer site in his back yard, and there has been a great deal of public opposition about the various proposed locations. More than 250 people showed up at last week’s public forum. Not only has die board done a good job at soliciting pub lic input, but it has taken into account the impact of the waste transfer site on the community. Last November, the board all directions even diago nally —as all the lights are red for one cycle. Town officials are interested in testing the system for poten tial expansion to other highly trafficked intersections in Chapel Hill. The changes have been pro posed as part of an effort made by town officials to remedy pedestrian safety issues. In October a Chapel Hill 'fransit bus driver failed to yield at a crosswalk at the intersec tion of South Columbia Street and Mason Farm Road, subse quently striking and killing a pedestrian. There were also two pedes trian deaths this past May one close to campus on the EDITORIAL BOARD MEMBERS LISA ANDRUKONIS BEN BUCK JAMES DING MICHAEL LEWIS ANDREW STILES SARAH WHITWORTH traditions. By doing so, UNC would add to the rich diversity of this campus, rather than subtract from it. And from a purely aesthetic perspective, sprucing up the libraries a little bit during the final exam period would be a nice holiday respite. A Christmas tree, menorah, and kinara together in the lob bies of Davis and Wilson would be an uplifting and welcoming sight. But more importantly, it would underscore the student body’s diverse background. rescinded its decision to place the waste-transfer site in the Rogers-Eubanks community after public outcry. And the board commis sioned an additional study to analyze the community impact of each of the proposed sites. The commissioners have shown due diligence in their decision-making process. It would be hard to fault them for making a hasty decision at this point Plans for anew waste-trans fer site need to be finalized quickly before we run out of space. comer of Manning Drive and South Columbia Street. The town should also con sider other pedestrian safety measures, like placing reflec tors on crosswalks to help with visibility at night or having more concrete islands, like on South Road on campus. These measures would make pedestrians feel safer and help drivers remember to be on the lookout. It is certainly beneficial for town officials to test to deter mine what changes might pre vent driver errors. While new crosswalk schemes are important, pedes trian safety is still up to the good judgment of drivers and pedestrians themselves. QUOTE OF THE DAY: “From the looks of it, it seemed like they wanted it a lot more than we did.” E.J. WILSON, UNC DEFENSIVE END FEATURED ONLINE READER COMMENT: “If Carolina did win this game, you’d all he quick to rub it in (like a rival would).” ON "SENIOR DAY SPOILED BY WOLFPACK WIN" LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Reports of Mardi Gras Indians arrested untrue TO THE EDITOR: In response to a Friday night online article regarding the marchers arrested on Franklin Street, I wanted to be sure both the University and town commu nity were aware that the report of the arrested marchers being members of the Mardi Gras Indians, who visited campus on Friday, was not true. Though they led an approved musical procession through the Quad earlier in the afternoon, they were having dinner with a group of students at the time of the reported incident. I really appreciate the Daily Tar Heel’s swiftness in remov ing the article from the internet; however, I did want to be cer tain that anyone who had read the article was not left with false impressions of the Mardi Gras Indians. Indeed, anyone, who spent time with them or attend ed their lecture earlier in the day, would agree that they brought a message celebrating unity and community. It was CUAB’s honor to host them, and we want to thank them for so generously sharing their stories and their culture with us. Tom Allin Senior American Studies Getting rid of Christmas tree in library goes too far TO THE EDITOR: This has gone way too far. The decorations and month-long break have already been named “holiday” instead of “Christmas.” This is a “spirited” tree in the library, it does not represent the Christian Christmas which is considered to be offensive. Really, how offensive can this tree be, especially to end a 30- year-tradition? It’s funny how we can take down a “Christmas tree,” but not take down decora tions representing other faiths. Is one faith more offensive than another? Again, the Christmas tree itself does not represent “Christmas” the meaning comes from whatever you asso ciate it with. Why not protest the malls for displaying trees? Our country is too concerned with not offending someone, when in turn, they are offending more people Close your eyes ifyou don’t like it and put the tree back! If we are trying to be politically correct, let’s represent AIL friths and not exdude a certain one. Leslie ReveUe Sophomore Communication UNC should have place for N.C State to get revenge TO THE EDITOR: In response to the article “Red spray paint mars UNC," Nov. 21,1 believe that it is very hypocritical of our campus to repeatedly paint the N.C. State Free Expression TVrnnel without offering a legal alternative for State fans to “return the favor.” If we have any respect for the integrity of our campus’s many historical landmarks (which State lacks) we should offer a location for our rival schools to communicate their hatred for SPEAK OUT WRITING GUIDEUNES: ► Mease type: Handwritten fetters will not be accepted. > Sign and date: No mare than two people should sign letters. ► Students: Include your year, major and phone number. > Faculty/staff: include your EDITOR'S NOTE Columns, cartoons and letters do not necessarily represent the opinions, of The Daily Tar Heel or its staff. Editorials reflect the opinions of The Daily Tar Heel edito- ■ rial board. The board consists of seven board members, the associate opinion editor, the | opinion editor and the editor. Both} QJar Heri our superior institution. Wes Saunders Sophomore Political Science Letter about Alma mater was incomplete as edited TO THE EDITOR: If online comments are indica tors, it seems that Mr. Hopper’s letter (“Singing of Alma mater should be classy, not rude,” Nov. 16) about the Fight Song was not appreciated by fans. One wrote, “Seriously, DTH, why did you print this?” Agreed! Why was his letter printed if the majority of the important content was removed? If there isn’t enough room to print the letter without signifi cantly altering the tone or mean ing, then it should not be run. Mr. Hopper’s original letter was about returning compassion and tivilily, not “destroying tradition” or the fun, competitive spirit of the games. This slapdash editing of his letter has prevented any sort of meaningful discussion, leading angry students to accuse Hopper of being a “closet Duke fan” ouch. Next time, have a little more care in which words are removed, and try using a scalpel instead of a chainsaw. Tanner Huggins Senior Peace, War, and German v k ' * Allegra Torres ■ Junior Communication Studies 'Project Heal' slogan was; offensive, inappropriate ; TO THE EDITOR: On Nov. 13 at Player’s Nightclub, “Project Heal,” a camf pus organization, whose “misj sion is to engage undergraduate students in international servict experiences to facilitate cultural*; ly relevant and locally driven sus tainable development in Lawra and Kumasi, Ghana,” hosted 4 Wild, Wild West-themed party to raise money for their organi zation. As their efforts abroad are certainly commendable, I would encourage them to first understand cultural issues right here in America. Their party’s original tagline, “Poke-A-Hotass with Project Heal,” presumably a pun ob Pocahontas, was used to supporf the original theme of cowboys and Indians. As an American Indian student here at UNC, ths event was highly defamatoiy and offensive. Lately, there has been a lot of talk about an inclusive campus community. Yet at this institu tion of the people, America’s “first people’ (who still exist) don’t feel welcome because of blatant ignorance such as this. Once contacted about th< event and the offensive descrip tion, the group changed the theme of their party yet the tagline remained. But this is not an attack on a particular organi- % zation just a friendly reminder to make an effort to understand and know before perpetuating ignorance. Tyler Thomas Senior Carolina Indian Circle President department and phone number. ► Edit: The DTH edits for space, clarity, accuracy and vulgarity. Limit letters to 250 words. SUBMISSION: ► Drop-off: at our office at Suite 2409 In the Student Union. ► E-mail: to editdeskOune.edu ► Send: to P.Q. Box 3257, Chapel Hill, N.C., 27515.

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