THE MORNING POST: SUNDAY NOVEMBER 20, 1904. The Way to Won, That this Is and 1s to be a ; ,on goes without saying One after the other all the various features ofthe wardrobe have succumbed h crae. end those whose purse will not admit of having silk and chiffon velvet for all dress and outdoor garments may take heart of grace, for the cotton aves. the velveteens, are Just a. highln favor as are their cousins of the more costly kind. , But. nevertheless, there are some lux urious designs which demand the more costly production, and these well repre sent the acme of extravagance. For example, there are exquisite carriage and evening wraps of which velvet Is the foundation, a foundation upon which is lavished many of the real laces, luxurious and expensive furs and an amount of hand embroidery which almost passes belief. One such example Is a recent Impor tation from that home of luxurious ex travagance, the Rue de la Paix, be loved of the entire world feminine. Here a ficelle or ecru chiffon velvet is used for the foundation garment, which might best be described as a sleeved cape or dolman, for It partakes of the nature of both. The fit Is easy over the shoulders, and from there the gar ment falls In full and outward folds to well below the knee, the cut being well nigh to circular. Panels of the real hand some Irish crochet, not cut. but made: to the shape, are posed at Intervals ur i the full cape portion, and the velvet being cut away from beneath these there is a backing of double white chiffon provided. The sleeve is an extreme oddity. The arm's eye is at about the natural point, but larger than ordinary, so as to ac commodate comfortably the full sleeve of the evening gown beneath. Cut in a kite shape, the sleeve Is so draped that the excess of fulness falls from the back of the arm to the elbow, hanging loose lv. and the lower part is on usual lines, with a wide cuff of chinchilla, meeting the velvet portion. Around the collar less neck and down the frcnt there Is a stole of rich, thick chinchilla, the gray of the fur toning in well with the ecru velvet. The hats that accompany these luxu rious wraps are more than likely to bo In velvet likewise, with lace, ribbons and plumes for trimming. There is a delightfully wide variety as to shapes and styles. It really would seem ns though the milliners, as well as the dressmakers, had gone to history for their Inspiration, and it were well to r-e so. for never before has there been such necessity to have the hat in consonance LUC In the velvet hats the brims are all of them wide and picturesque; while the crown Is the point of departure for the style. There are high-steeple crowns. nc.ir.lnnf frowns dram rrnwno n n-l " "O" - - - - -' . 'l. flat mushroom shapes with no crown at all hold their own in the season's styles amazingly. There Is evident a very decided lik ing for the hat of black velvet, with a bunch of fluffy white ostrich plumes for trimming. This is a style which, when developed in a becoming shape, will prove about the most useful ad junct, for it can be worn appropriately for both daylight and evenfng wear, and look "in the picture," as our artist friends say, at all times. And the craze for velvet has reached such proportions that when the gown Itself is not of the pile fabric the trim ming simply must be. Vests, collars end cuffs; revers. broad or narrow, sing'.e or manifold these are all ex pressed In velvet upon the cloth, mo hair, cashmere and taffetas frocks. The ceinture, or girdle, needs to be care fully managed when planned in velvet, for this material has a tendency to ap parently increase the bulk, and unless very deftly handled the result will not be all that was hoped for. The velvet coat, for wear' with vari ous toilettes. Is another" item on tlv season's catalogue; and here the rich '"signs of the Louis Qulnze period find adequate development. The body por tion they are always cut in two sec tionsmay be either closely fitted or bloused. as best becomes the figure, al- The Ever Popular Shirtwaist, Silh and Chiffon Velvets In Delicate Shades For the Tailored Blouse. The shirtwaist more than holds Its wn as the seasons come and the sea sons go. Unlike most other styles. It has not had its ups and downs; it has gone upon its uneventful career un troubled by the vagaries of fashion, and kept the same even vogue throughout. Indeed, it has come to be as stable in lt way as are any of the necessaries of life. The only ripple upon the surface of Its prosperity is the tendency occa sionally by the extravagant to use rich and luxurious materials for its fash ioning. Thus' one sees In some of the exclusive shops plain and severe shirt waists of the sheerest chiffon velvet, and in such delicate shades that they seem to belong to the ballroom or opera house rather than to the early morning hours that are supposed to be devoted to more strenuous pursuits. For winter wear flannels are highly favored this season, and the term flan nel will serve to include the soft French production, the Scotch flannel that Is woven with a twist in the warp, and the Bilk flannel, better perhaps known as soielalne. for all of -whicih unshrinkable Qualities are claimed. Early In their career the shirtwaists were supposed to follow the fashions in sleeves, but gradually the regulation shirt sleeve, pretty nearly , the same cut as the masculine arm covering, has come to be established as the correct pattern for all of the wash variety. This is seen In linens, cheviots, madrasses and the like, as well as in the flannels and assuredly Its simplicity and the ab-v sence of frills brings it through the try ing experience of the laundry In better shape than a more elaborate design could expect. The velveteens In the new colorings are vastly favored, for they fit In welL both for the plain tailored requirements and the drRsir .. ... . .. a weiu ah or the raspberry shades, from the lightest to the. deepest, show up well In this, and to the large range shown Bome one or another of then tlntlntrs is mre to pmve though 'the blouse is now considered somewhat less of a novelty than the fitted garment. The hip basques with the characteristic pocket flaps can be either closely fitted or rippled, accord ing to the height, style and taste of the wearer. The slender girl will find the rippled basque very becoming, if sho has height as well as slenderness; but her more developed sister would better cling to the fitted variety, as best set- ting off her good points. Velvet In Favor For Dressy Appearances Evening Wrap In Velvet, Lace Anl Fnr. An ecru shade of chiffon velvet makes this imported wrap, and panels of Irish crochet, the real -hand-made lace, are posed effectively, the velvet being cut away beneath. The coat is extremely loose all around, the only semblance of fit being over the shoulders, from which the fuli folds fall In circular fashion. The sleeve is odd and original, with a bag-shaped puff at the elbow that pro jects far to the back. Around the col larless neck and down the . fronts a broad band of chinchilla is used, and the same fur furnishes the loose cuff that finishes the sleeve. Lnxnrr In Velvet And Lace. The most popular and assuredly the most 'practical of evening wraps are those that are built upon cape lines. Indeed, many of the best of them can be best described as sleeved capes, so loose and full are they. The model of the picture is In .creamy white chiffon m m XV becoming. With the black and darker colorings In velveteen as well as In velvet, the real lace collars and cuffs that are such a fad, show up delightfully. At first thought there seems to be something Incongruous in the combination of real laces and a shirtwaist. But here Is where a nice discrimination must be ex ercised; for while some of the real laces are in the extreme of the vogue in this connection, there are others that It were almost a -sacrilege, a sartorial sacrilege, to use except when one is en grande toilette. The coarser and less valuable kinds are what are used with the shirt waist or shirtwaist suit. The torchon a recent restoration to fashion's favor Cluny, Maltese, the Irish crochet, the Italian filet and the Russian guipures, all of these and their congeners will go welL But to think of using a piece of real point d'Alencon, or Brussels, or Duchesse or Bruges perish the thought! For more utilitarian wear there are very serviceable blouses of slclllenne, and the new weaves in this are as soft and sheer as a foulard silk would be. "Very often a skirt is fashioned with "this blouse, for there Is no letup to the voguo of the shirtwaist suit. Belts are a very Important Item with the shirtwaist. The -new figure lays such emphasis upon the curves of the waistline that much care must be used In their selection. - The absence of any pouch or bagglness in the front brings the belt Into greater prominence than heretofore. In the case of silk or velvet or even flannel shirtwaists there Is often a belt-oi&de of the -naterial, for this has a tendency Jto -lengthen the waistline; whereas, a belt of the skirt material, or of some contrasting stuff, will undoubt edly maJse it appear shorter. The slender curve of the waistline can be cleverly emphasized by making the belt fairly high In the back and bringing it around to the front with a decided slope, this slope being confined to the upper edge only.' ,-. ' 1MB velvet, with much Cluny lace and hand embroidered motifs 'wrought in chenille threads of piquantly contrasting shades. The lace makes the upper part of the wrap and the sleeves as well, the shoul der portion being continued in stole de sign down the fronts, where the fasten ing is concealed under a mass of plisse chiffon rufilings. All around the gar ment is bordered with the chenille wrought medallions, these heading a thick chenille fringe, wfclle over the shoulder on either side Is posed n Rus sian sable skin. the little tails and claws hanging - over the arm and the head portions meeting in the center of the collar at the back. . The Separate Velvet Cont. Separate coats and wraps in the heav ier velvets are among the popular items of the season, and of these , the Louis Qulnze shapes are the most admired. The upper part of the coatls loose and on the blouse, order, while the h!p, basques are cut- to follow the curves of the figure closely, rounding off at th. fronts to display the gown underneath. The shallow cape collar, the fronts and puff sleeves are all elaborately deco rated with ecru macrame. The smart turban which accompanies this coat Is of white Irish crochet with a broad black velvet binding on "the edge of the brim; and the sole trimming is in the long lyra plume which passes all around the hat. with the tip falling over the brim, to rest on the hair at the left side. . . 1V3 belts, and the shops are showing any number of devices wherewith to shape the belts instantly. Three or more shades of ribbons are often sewn together, rows of shirring stayed with feather bones decorating the back and sides, and the front having either a rosette or bow to conceal the necessary hook and eye, or else a handsome buckle of small design. Some sm-rt belts with chatelaine bags en suite are shown in the more pliable furs, moire astrakhan and yetta, which is a calfskin with the hair left on, be ing among recent novelties. Tight Fitting Clothes. The art of tight-fitting gowns, bodices and Jackets is once more in'hlgh favor, and the tendency of the swell costumers is to get away from the straight-front corsets, as they have proven to be in jurious to the figure, as they spoil the shape of the "wearer by giving a strong tendency to round shoulders .because of the lack of support given at the back by the so-called straight front models. The latest Parisian models are as a re sult now differently, designed, and the bodice foundations are always made in three side pieces and the full puffed sleeves have a clw.-e tight-fitting lining. Flecked tweeds and loosely woven materials of .every description are in great vogue for morning gowns, and there is but little trimming being used on these models. The most popular shaped skirt for street wear during the morning is the five-seamed skirt with square projection- at the hem about 12 inches deep, cut in one. with the front and side pieces. But should the material. be. too narrow the step-shape .be 'addet. on- last season's sKirt that is too narrow at the hem can be easily .made wider by opening the seams 12 or 16 inches above the hem. and should the garment be too close fit ilf VeVh h,P a at the back the wais.band can be -untacked and two tCJ ft,,? Ut aWay f,m the to to increase the fullness. This will enable last years VVSe,y imuale lne rand-new mm mm mm mm WW m mm 7 t-c- J : V '.X . "01 m, To Love or to Be Loved? Unfortunately, that eccentricand often irascible little blind god. Cupid, fre quently so allots a uman's life that she finds herself able to count with reason able certainty upon two chances . of matrimony. Possibly in all cases the love of the husband and wife is of unequal proportion, hence the question arises as,, to whether the woman who is fortu nate enough to have more than a Hob son's chance should marry the man whose love she possesses, but whom she likes herself not quite so well, or whether it would be better to marry the man she herself most passionately loves, but who. she is well a'ware, has little more than a lukewarm affection for herself. Of the average w-man it can safely be said that she would be wiser rather to give her life to the man whose love seems so broad and vast that sometimes it reminds her of her own love, not for hi: , but for that other one, the reality of whose lov she but too well doubts.' In choosing between the most loved an-1 the most loving man, the woman who wishes to marry will, in nine cases out of ten, find greatest happiness In accepting the latter, always provid ing that she has some liking and affec tion for him. She should be most care ful, however, not to allow him to marry her under any false Impressions. That is to say, she should expiain the exact state of her feelings towards him, and that it is on account of his great love for her that she is quite content to trust her future life and happiness in his hands. . When this Is done the man's love for the woman he marries wi.l invariably make him determined to gradually win the true affection of his wife, until it is equal to that which he has for her. , Kindness, tenderness and fidelity will be the three guides to his conduct, and It will, indeed, be a stubborn heart which is not touched nd won by such a man. A PLUME-DRAPED CHAPE A U. . There Is evident 'a very decided fancy for the chapeau smartly turned up at one .side and a full ostrich plume to drape it. The one in the picture fol lows this style. Black paon velvet covers the shape, this disposed in bia3 folds around the drum-shaped crown, puffed easily upon both upper and un der brim, with a band of the. folds ut cither edge. There is a deer ba.nrlfr.ii i in the head size which sol ves to lift the I shape off the fap, c;iitig it a vrv h- t r. . m MS.. VJL-L, rears ,4 PL wmm fc-V ritt3 - ,Ht k w v' ytzz " ' jn rz x.1 r i tw :-:i i II l i J. , ' ' .' 1 aaBx 3 V 'S. VM j; IT.".-.------"" 1 me.- mm 'VI??. 4 an One's Clothes. In the rush of modern life we ir. i ing many previous gifts. Amor.g 0 the art of wearing. our clothes best advantage will soon have h? h' obsolete. All the money a wo, spend on dress will not hlp to , ?n her look smart if she lacks this branch of knowledge. It is not so the dress we wear as the car which we put it on that makes the Mi ference. French women possess t w derful sense of the fitness of J' They are said to endow the poorest' r ?" ment with elegance. The Viennese f i low their Parisian sisters closely' some insist upon Destowina: the Vnm our beautiful American. Wcn-p-onn,0!! and exquisitely trim in her ridln hnhS or tailor-made costume, the Enel';h woman can compete with the VlVpe, The healthy freshness of her be'aui!' the delicacy of her coloring, shoul-i w ' the golden apple from her" competitor, were It not for the fact that the don air soon takes the crlspness out ni chiffon, and lace frills do not thrive in a fog. n The woman who cannot sperd m,. on dress generally studies the sales-tb results are disastrous and make her re semble a clothes peg in a-second-hand shop. But. then, again the woman who Is rich beyond the dreams of avarice is often a mere block in the hands of her dressmaker. She Is overhattod. over dressed and over-bejeweled. Her an! pearance is spoiled by superfluous and unnecessary adornment. The root of the evil is that we havs all. rich and poor, to dress In a hurv and this is fatal to the harmnny of appearance. We have no , time to ro member that this color disagrees With that, or that true lover's knots a-e slightly incongruous when past )'). w8 pitchfork our clothes on anyhnw Rnj the result is an untidy display of varied finery in which woman as the r:rt;;re Is overshadowed and dwarfed by- the frame." The art of putting on clothes was the pride of a past generation. AVe have only to look at the old world ras. tels and miniatures to assure ourselves that the grace with which our a tires', .tresses wore their scarfs and shawls was the result of thoughtful study, The Empress Josephine was famed fnr her knowledge of the art -of wearlne her gowns and court trains with dignity and grace. Past the first bloom of her youth, she eclipsed all the beauties of Nal poleon's Court by her bearing on the day of her-coronation. The art of putting on our clothes wisely and well may be acquired, like anything else, by dint of ratience and perseverance. We must study what suits us best and discard the caprices of fash ion. Be careful not to mix up the Em pire styles with those of Louis Seize or 1830 periods. It Is often by taking some thing off. not by adding to our toilet, that we perceive a marked Improvement. We must bear in mind that the drcs Is only a background for the woman and If the eye Is distracted by a variety of fallals the wearer is the chief si;( ferer. The Grecian drapery, the lorR lines of an Empire gown, are modi ! we may glean ideas from. A hat tilted to the right angle may prove most he coming, while the least deviation would make It appear ridiculous and ugly A corset, a bodice or belt must be prop erly put on and adjusted to the natural waist line before it can be made to lit satisfactorily. The way In which we wear a coat, throwing back or closing, the revers. makes all the difference, and how much we will have to study the graceful methods of wearing those most difficult garments, the Empire scarf and the shawls of the 30s, if they are to be re vived with the threatened crinoline. The science of detail should claim our attention, for men often Judge us hy some trifle we have overlooked. Gloves, shoes and pretty stockings should, with dainty underskirts, be worn In proper order, and with a view to time and place. Openwork stockings are bad form in cold weather, and great heat alone Justifies their being employed for out door wear. Shoes and gloves also have their time and place and should by no means be neglected by the woman wh) wants to excel in the art of wearing lief clothe Velvet With Lacs and Plume: Ihe veIvet-cnvrArt b!i?tips w! shops are showing In such w; artistic variety lend themselves fully to the efforts of th amnt' ner. The trimming may be m'i! tie. Just as one desires, v sn; favorite combination for a 0,r: one which will meet with day lng needs. Is In black velvet, -ti-crown entirely cove - villa1 t':.e : fabric, while the velvet is 1 I . . . . .1. Un'" f iujn over tne onra. Jiac v kj is shirred to fall In fascades ar.J disposed around the crown in rows, the lower ones falling v ' edge of the brim. This latter !:'"' a little at the left side-, win-v of fluffy white ostrfbli plumes w this making for a very lr sy