THE PROGRESSIVE FARMER, APRLI 18, 1899. F" At Fifteen. If Thou Must Love Me. Elizabeth Babbett Browning, in "Sonnets from the Portuguese." If thou mut love me, let it be for naught Except for love's sake rnly . Do not say, I love her for herfcmile, her look, her way Of speaking pently fir trick of thought "0 writer, eo widely known and Jjved, has been so little writt n about as E zibeth Barrett cvniag- Until recently nothing iisins to be a biography of her has ,iMi.ihpi in hr nativn land and u Kuw letters, of which there are many, iveonly appeared ia fragments with ft ay responsible editorship. ITm mystery which has enveloped Yrs Browning's personal career has CissJ quite a mythology to spring up oui ter name, and the mystery haa tjy been increased by the publica (;s3 cl the thoe as3umi2g to have au- "::ricy in these matters. E inbHh Birretc was born m Lon :aon Marca the fourth, 1809 The i:her. Eiard Moulton Barrett, was West Indien slaveowner wno en- ;uragei the little E' ztbath in her iriy efforts in writing and to this :c:urasement she probably owed m:q of her eucccss in afterlife. Of ter mother little ia known, except that pe waa several years older than her bsbaai and that, despite their dia )ir.ty in ae, ehe waa tenderly loved if him. Eizitoia's csilihood was a very appy cue; the greater part of it waj vptin her father's country home at B.D?e E,d, Hertfordshire. She was jemarkabiy prccoeicua, reading Homer in the cngmal at eight years of age. ie siid that in those days the Greeks Kere her dernL'rd find she dreamed tnrec Agcemnon than Moses, her IiaCa D.nv. Thfl rpjulfcpf this waa an epic"' cn the baule of Marathon pi Hr. Barrett wid bo proud of the 1 rcc'u:;:oQ inat; he had h.ty copies ct "priaiedand retributed. Sae says: wrote veis;s very early, at eight erscid aui cljer. But wtiat U lees i nt: e-irly fiiney turned into ") ann r :aiQrd i:nme." Thus Eiizocb'a catldnooi passed, j riding much, in writing her ear vcr-o, am m j jining with others - - ag? m th-3 eoj ymsnta tha -r-"- i-icrest cmiaren. vvnen aoout jt.'teea 'jtara of &ge eho fell from a f.rj ucl ia eorno wav iniured her ;:ne gj '.enou-ly that ehe euffered 3 Ia h.r seventeenth year ehe pub 'pted her teay on Mini and abated the Prometheug of --eCQyiud. Abjuc tnia timo her -thtr ai2d aua Erzibeth, hereelf an vl d, w.ia left the chief consoler of e: fi-lowtjd Taitier. and to some de F3, the guardian of her younger s. VUJ " r3 the a-eet memories connected fi'-h it forever. "Beautiful, beautiful 3," Mi&a Birrett wrote long after. 3CJ. yet. not fnr tLH whole whole Nrli'a beaaty would I stand in the 8hm9 and the shadow of them any re; it would be a mccery like tak ? back a broken fl ) wer to its stalk. " te lacQilv suent two vearsatWid --uth aad then went to London where Wrut bought a house on Thin street. His daughter's continued :,:e cy aLd tailure of healtn kept her or.iHkq conflued to her room, but "!sa'd un prevent her living her own 1?et hf? of 'Aiinfiil auirationn. Sir b'-ocmiug known in tha world Ine prv.88 writings as well 5 t-r r om gave tier an enviable rep Hu.n unicng the writers of that 4 r hc-r health's sake Miss B :rrett ' -aae an unwilling exile to Torquay rtnore than a vear and thpro the v. eiy occurred which, as she wrote M If - , erne, - lorevpr " Her favorite brother, 1 n a i "aru, who had gone on a visit to was accidently drowned while gxpet as a half blown, honeyed rose, she standa On life's fair mornirp, when the crystal dew Is on the erps, ftDd all -e sky is blue As th"86 that bend above E ysian lands. Trp tarda of tirre, for her, are golden eands. To ber rapt vision, all the earth is new; There is naught false, because her heart is true; An untried power lies in her slender hands. Behind her. childhood's careless, cunny days. Before her. like an open, unread hook, An unlived story, all the future lies. She walks no more within the chidioh ways; A deeper meaning shows in tone and look, A woman's soul ia in her dreamy eyes. New Orleans Picayune Tnat falls in well with mine, and certes brought A. sense of pleasant ease on such a day." For these things in themselves, Beloved, may Bp changed or change f t thee and love so wrought May be un wrought so. Neither love me for Thy own dear pity's wiping my cheeks dry A creature might forget to weep, who bore Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby. Bat love me for love's sake, that evermore Thou mavst love on, through love's eternity. The Passion Flower of the North." fis ling and it was long before she re covered sufficiently from the shock to be taken home. After her removal from Torquay to Thinpole street she passed many years in confinement to a sick room where few except members of her own family were admitted. Among these exceptions were her de voted friends, Miss Mitford, Mrs Jam o-on and above all, her friend and dearest cousin, Mr. Kenyon, to whom she a'tsrwards dedicated Au'ora Leigh. And so life passed on for this woman, but, in spite of ill health, it did not pass without its fruits. Lying day after day with her dog. Flush, at her feet, she read books in almost every language and wrote the verse which will always live in the E iglish lan guage as some of its most beautiful songs. Shut out from the outside world ehe kept herself in harmony with it; things bright and lovely were hers by nature and on all around her she shed the beauty of her sweet and noble mind, unspoiled by the intense suffering she must have endured. Ic waa Mr. Kenyon who first intro duced Robert Browning to Miss Bar rett. She had read and admired his writings ljng before and to see and know him was only to love aa women of her nature are capable of loving. The etory of their love and marriage is a truly idealistic one. It was a true union of heart with heart, soul with oul. Himself in the prime of man hood, strong, robust and energetic, Mr. Browning could but feel p'ty for a being who?e life was outwardly so nar row, and with pi y ca' . j a dcarre to fke her in his arms to comfort, to oaro for this woman, whese life was so fuli r f F.uffiring. Tni3 feeling grew until he at lat, in an outburst of love an,l devotion, b?ged for tne consum :jm ion of his hfe'd desire. She, wo in .n like, fearing to be only a burden to iho min ehe lovrd, told him that bia hopes? could never bo realized; that her Ufa w uld ever be one of solitude, devoted to her writings. But, as the flays wenc on, she real z d more at, d mere Lia undying devo ion to herself, aud. touched, as every woman is, by the love of a good and noble man, ehe at la?t yielded to his wishes and prom ised to become hia wife He knew frrm the fi-sn that she would be an in curabla invalid, and yet he apked for nothiDg more than the right to tak care of her, to comfort her, while life should last. mm EoOrt Browla tm 1S4S. fk'lT'J'k. r Ic was durng his time that ehe wrote the most beautiful, the mo?t im pa3aioned love songs the world has ever known the sonnets from the Por tuguese. Mr. Browning did not know of the existence of these poems until some yeara after their marriage. He was unconf cious of the fact that while he loved her with a love that knows no end, her soul fourth this song: k 4 -'CTn I 'I love thee to the depth, the breadth. toe neigns My soul can reach, I love thee with the breath. Smiles, tears of all my life; and if G A choose I shall tut love thee better after death." On September H 1846, Elizabeth Barrett was married at the Maryle bone parish church to Robert Brown ing, and immediately after the newly married couple started for Italy, by way of Paris. In spite of the anger of her father, who never forgave her for the step ehe had taken, her married life was ever a happy one. Blest with love of hui band and child, epent undes the bright skies of Italy, where her health im proved wonderfully, it could hardly be otherwise. Tne poem, "Casa Guidi Windows," was written while she lived in Flor enee and took its name from the old palace which was her place of residence while there It was in this relic of ancient royalty that many Americans learned to know and love this woman, whose genius has so enriched the world of literature and whose sweet verss have bound England and Italy together by an unbreakable chain. Mrs Hawthorne thus drs'riba the personal appearance of Mrs. Browning: 'V ry email, delicate, dark and ex pre-g.ve, ehe looked like a spirit. A. ! ciuud of hair falls on each side of her face in curls so as to partly veil her features, but out of the veil looked sweet, sad eyes, r using and far seeing and weird. Ekir lairy fingers looked too airy to hold, and yet their pressure was very firm and strong. The small est possible amount of substance en clo8 s her s :ul, and every particle of it is infus -d with heart and intellect. I was never conscious of so little unre deemable, perishable dust in any hu man being." After all, bright, useful lives must come to a cloee as well as others; gen ius must lay down its arms before the cocq lerer, Djath, and take its flight into the vastness of eterity. And so 'The Passion Flower of the North," as ehe ia often called, leaving a hu3 band whose perfect love had beautified her life, a child whom ehe loved with all the wealth of a mother's love leav the bright temple of Fame, whose glit tering pinnacles then ehone brightest around her, entered into a temple far more beautiful, "whose Maker and and Builder is Gl-d." She died at F.orenca at half past four in the morning of June 29, 1861. in the fifty third year of her life, of congestion ot the lungs. Oa July lit all that remined of Eng land's greatest poetess wa reverently bore to the lovely little Protestant cemetery, which looked out toward Fiesole. There where the tall cypress es wave over the grave, where the eunny ekies smile above, and beauti ful mils keep watch. thfv laid her. Tous lived and di3dElzbeth Bar rett Browing, truly one of the greatest poets who hae sounded the strings of the mystic lyre in any ge What more fitting epitaph do we wish than her own words: "'Sleep soft, beloved,' we s centimes say, But have no time to charm away Sad dreams that through tha eyelids creep ; Bit never doleful dreams again hall break the hftpp 8 umoer when H giveth his beloved fleep." Eva Heitman in The (Greensboro, N. U ) Uoile,e M s aee m m m "IRONING SHIR TS, COLLARS AND CUFFS " We find a rather grave error -n our arfcle with this title in less weekV Progreesive F-trmer. The pararapn column 2 banning, "After all th rrs of the shirt is ironed," should read s follows: "A.fter all the rest of the shirt is ironed, 'av the biflora bord under the bopom, cake a dampened cloth and rub th bosom from top downward; even af ter thif precaution ifc ia well to lay a piece of old muelin over before jreflping with the iron, this will re move any surplus starch or lump of starch, which may lurk unseen to spoil the work of an otherwise perfect laundrying. The bosom must be ironed until dry, and if the irons are scorching hot this can hardly be ac compliabed without yellowing. It can readily be seen that an iron medium hot ia best for this purpose, that is, one not hot hot enough to scorch, and yet hot enough to dry well After the bosom has been ironed dry. then tak the polishing iron again, and having dampened the at ire bosom lightly wi h a damp cloth, rub and poiisi till the desired gloss is obtained. The damp ening of the linen prevents it from "blistering." or, in other words, from separating it from the the linings, as it would be apt to do if pressed to" long nr much. If you find that c liars or cuff have this appearance, dampen them lightly and re-iron and you wfll find that tha "blistered" portion will adhere to the linias without difficul ty. In polishing, uae only the roua led part of the front of the iron, uae it as hot es maybe wi;hout scorching, work rapidly, rubbing up and down the shirt bosom and never crosswise. Now for "helpa" in regard to making search. Gum arabic is quite commonly uaQd, this gives a greater etiffoess and it helps to k?ep the articles stiff longer. Dissolve gum arabic in water until it is about as thick as common mucilage," etc.. etc. All that part of the article batween the two sets of asterisks was inadver tently omitted las: week. Our Social ChatJ IDITED BY AUNT JENNIE. R A. LEIGH, N. C. Here is a column for everybody ladles, gen tlemen, boy 8, girls, fathers and mothers Everybody is invited to write on subjects of in terest to them. Never mind if you are not perfect as a writer, give us your thoughts and we will see that they are in good shape oefore they are published. Thk Progressive Farmkr ia a paper for every member of the family, and young and old alike are its patrons and its friends. We hope to unite these thousands of our friends "In a oond of frlendsaip that wiU be a help and an inspira tion to each one of us." The friendship ot each of our read ere. the confidence of the old North State's sturdy sons, and the trust of each of her daughters, is what this paper aims to win "by helping each one of them to do more, to be more ana to enjoy more in this beautiful world." We hope this soirit will animate each letter, and breathe through every page. Address letters to "Aunt Jennie," care of Thb Pkogressivb Far utR. Raleigh. N. C. Las week I spoke of housa cleaning but there are other and just as import ant things that must be done or at least are as conducive to the happiness of woman as an clean house. Hid you thought that that leaning, bent old fenca has caused the good wife many mo ments of worry? Fix it up for her; it will add so much to the appearance of the place. A "handy" husband is a treasure but one who takes no interest in his surroundings lacks much of being an ideal husband. Did you mend the hinge on that gate cr docs the person who wishes to open it have to lift it every timet There is nothing more pleasing to the eye than a wed kept place and few things more disgusting than to see every thing "run down" as the last named state of affairs is evidence ot somebody's laziness or indifference. I do not approve of a woman's managing a man's business unless she finds that she must. Neither do Itbelieve that it is a man's duty to give out the meals unless there is no woman at home who can. Be mutu ally helpful. The husband should help the wife with her flowers, fix the boxes for her, dig trenches around the porches and bury planks on either side of it, thus forming a nice receptacle for either roots or seeds of the vines she wishes to have shade it this sum mer. Dj not fret if she plants vines near all the unsightly fecces, broken walls etc , for they will add so much to the appearance of the place in mid summer. No place looks home like without flowers. B i sure to have some even if they must be of the most com mon varieties. "Wood bine" is one of the prettiest of our wild vines and un less you have tried it you have no idea how gracefully it adapts itself to odd corners in the yard. It is not difficult to grow and stands transplanting nicely. If the chickens "boss" things and will not allow you to have fl )wers on the ground try having some stout posts put in the yard and place your pot, bucket, or box on top of them and I think Mistress Hen will acknowledge her defeat ard you will be delighted with the success attending your ven ture We little folks had our fl:iwersin the garden and what a pleasure they were to us, and how generously we gave others of the treasures Nature had so lavishly bestowed on ua. Allow the little folks a place for individual gardens and j ou will be surprised at the interest they will take and at the variety of vegetables and flowers they will make grow in so small a epac3. D n't forget to cultivate heart sun -uine; and there is nothing so con du9ive to it healthful growth as out door exe ciee. 'A friend in need is a friend indeed " How I realized the truth of t lis old alage when I received Wedge Wood's" letter. It was the first to reach me after last week's dearth of tetters. H?r three boys are to be com mended and how glad I would be to know them. Tneir mother I have met out ehe does not recognize in "Aunt J6anie" an oil acquaintance. Many cnanks for your nice letter and we nop that you will come often. R ulins, letrer, is interesting and her neighborhood a model one. Would there were more such aa she describes. Sie also tells ua what traits she thinks an ideal young man should possess Hurrah for the boys who read our letters and dare enter the discussion of that seemingly dreaded subject, "flfbich is most selfish, maa or wo man?" 8ee what one boy thinka of it Read Jack's letter this week. B the way this is his first visit but we give mm a cordial invitation to come again. I am delighted to know that our cir cle has effjrded Happiness somerec reation. Many thanks for your inter est in O ir Chat. Your letters are al ways readable and helpful. I am glad you are interested in the proposed de bate. Tne ice ia broken by Jack this week and I hope eaoh of you will give expres sion to your thoughts on the subject. A letter from one who suna himself Srtnno has just arrived but it is such an interesting article tbat I feel that it muat bo given a place thia week. We nope to hear from him often. Aunt Jennie. THE TUESDAY EVENING CLUB. Dear Aunt Jennie: A.s I promised to tell you of our Tuesday evening Club, I will eay it ia the Social Chat that furnishes the entertainment. To me, country life would bo monotonous if we did not use our powers to make it otherwise. S3 that is why I have called the Social Chat, 'Tuesday Evening's Progressive Club" and it ia with pleas ant anticipation I await the coming of The Progressive Farmer and am wo fully disappointed if the water courses prevent the mail reaching our office. I think our neighborhood needs a Farmer's Club so there would be some it?rest created for our boys in farm u.g. I wish wo had a man, in our midst to cirry on such a club and explain in tensified farming, etc. I think we need such men in our neighborhood to cause the young men and boys to love the farm and make it profitable. This mountain country is fine for everything and above all for good health When I first came hare I was almost an invalid suffering from a complication of diseases; notable to do anything. Now I am real strong ; do all the work of a good eizei family with ease; can walk two miles to church; and have not taken any medi cine since I moved here nearly four years ago. I wish more people would move here such as are seeking a healthy climate and are interested in farming. The scenery is grand. I will not attempt to portray it with my poor pen for words are inedequate. April is here with her showers and sunshine, making the grass green, warming the soil, and bringing the beautiful flowers every where. I wish Mrs. Fillyaw were my near neighbor so we could take a stroll to gether for wild timers. I found 25 different varieties when I was out for a walk one evening. Some of them were beautiful. Tne mountain nearest us is covered with the sweet scented Trail ing Arbutus. I took with me a peck basket and brought it home full of it, and it remained fresh for many days when placed in water. I have a great many Cosmos, Radsage, and R d and white cypress seed that I would divide with any one who wishes them. I am muca interested in the debate and hope it may prove a grand success for there is nothing to be compared to a debating society to bring the young folks to the front. I have seen the good effects in years gone by so I hope to see our Chat advance along that line. Happiness. ROLLINS TALKS OF TEACHING AND GIVES SOME ADVICE TO THE YOUNG MEN Dear Aunt Jennie: Aa it has baen some time since the date of my last let ter, I will answer to roll call again. Joa, I enjoyed your letter bo much, because I have taught school myself. Indeed it is a pleasure to witness a lie tie child's mind growing and expand ing, and one doesn't feel that he is living for naught when he is help ing these little minds to enlarge. It ia an interesting study for the teacher to of notice and learn the different natures the children so many, and yet every one different. Oathe whole, I think teaching is more enjoyable than disa greeatle. I feel proud that I can say more complimentary things about my neigh borhood than I can about some others I know of. I live in the country where the scenery is not so pictureeq ae as that in Switzerland or along the Hud son, but where every one cultivates his own ground, makes a good honest living, and in general is healthy happy and contented. Our young peo pie are bright, jolly, industrious, and, above all. are very temperate which is the best thing tbat can be said of any one or any place. To be thoroughly happy, and to make the m ?st of lif e one must ba temperate in all things It is the highest and noblest life one can aspire to. or ever attain. If we wish to establish the principles of temperance in life, and make them the controlling power through life, we must begin with the youth. Then they nave high aspirations to be good and true. Tney know nothing of the dark -ide of life, and naturally avoid it. Bat if a boy is neglected to be reformed af.er he ia grown, it ia like trying to straighten a tree after the sapling haa been bent and twisted, for the tree ia inclined aa the twig ia bent. If Aunt Jennie doesn't think me too silly, I will tell Careleaa Tom wtiat kind of young man, my ideal ia. First of all, let him be a consistent Christian with a heart tender enough to shed a tear, and think it no crime Let him strive to keep the fifth com mandment, and have more respect for hia parents than to call them "ole man" aud "ola lady." When a man gets big enough for this, the seams in his veat needs to be made smaller it not, they tease or give room some way or other. L t him aa cheerily extend a kind ness and pleasant words to his mother or listers, aa he would to hia "best girL" If he neglects hia duty towards t&em, he most asauredly will towards hi wife. Lit him have more respect for him Be f and his Creator than to use wicked and profane words, and chew the filthy Indian weed. Let him be strictly temperate, inielli gent industrious and economical. There are many other graces that will add much to the perfect gentleman, and beauty is not, by far, the first thing to be considered; but if my ideal ia to be handaome very well, so let him be, with dark hair and dark eyes, if you please. Bat for fear of making some one tired, I will stop and leave the fl sor for a more able speaker. 'R )llins." Dear Aunt Jennie: Well, last week's paper finds you grumbling aa if you had been forgotten. And but for Misa Jennie Acton and Mrs. Fdyaw, it doea seem you might be excused for so thinking. Bat there are some who do not write and yet they read and think of Aunt Jennie. I have been in terested, pleased and amused at the discussions and much good common sense shown by ycur contributors uncles, aunts, nephews, and nieces. The "old bachelor," the "old maid" and the young folks have all talked well. Now if you will all pardon me and Aunt Jennie will admit me, I will have a word with you as the "old wid ower." Of course all the old bachelors and old maids are satisfied with their lot. The old batch, will continue hia own house keeping arrangement and the old maid will stick to her knitting or fancy work they are satisfied. But what of old widowers? etus hear how tbey manage. And any good advice will be thankfully received. With four or five little darlings to feed, clothe, to instruct, to patch for, wash for, and take through the bath room every Saturday night, to be with them in the house and at the same time or them in the field, how would you manage that? Ol course the wid ower ia a good cook, a splendid laundry woman, neat at patching (he learned that while enjoying the bliss of batch.) but when it comes to cutting and bast ing and sewing their little dresses and knee-breeches, what do you dD then? Then you will want something nice for Sunday and there will be the fashion plates to follow and Grace will want this and Joe will want that and every one must go to Sun day -school. How do you get up all these things and send each one off just as though he or she had the very Deat and most thought ful of mothers? These questions are all a botheration down here and the way we are answering them we will not say, but I expect little Joe and darling Grace would thank you all to help them in finding a true s )lu2ion to the puz zling problem. I waa once a boy, but not exactly like Cousin Jennie Acton's brother. I waa always getting som9 new pic ture or frame for my room, and the fact waa I wanted my room to look f qually as tidy and neat as sisters'. And if she presented me with any little ornament or useful article for my room I was determined to go her two better. My little boys are beginning life the same way. I don't blame Cousin Jennie for de ciding to be an old maid for the trials of the wife are many and severe, but when I would sometimes tease my dear companion, now in heaven, she would always eay the happiest part of her life was in our home, M s akes are often made in marriage no doubt of that but there nef d not be so many. Mr . Ayer, in the World, says any woman of good common sense can keep any man's love after marriage if it ia worth keeping. If we determine to be happy we can be, and if we decide to be miserable we can be, Good common sense and love ought to lead U3 aright. Sersnno. THREE HELPFUL BOYS, KTO Dear Aunt Jennie: S emg and ap preciating your real distress, in getting only one letter from the Chatterers this week I thought I would help just a little, by telling you about our three boys Three cheers and may Gt3 bkeathe five,noble,helpful ones in your splendid letter this week. O ie morning f ueling feeble (I'm fif ry one years oid) I elept 'till O d Sol" waa up an hour and winking in my eyes. Much astonished, I dressed hastily and went down to the Kitchen. To my utter aetonishment one little boy was parching coff 3e and it was beautiful too. Another was making soda biscuit. The rice nice as it could be was simmering on the nack of the stave and on top of the reser voir was a plate of crisp sausages. And he laughingly remarked 'if eggs were not selling so high I would have scram bled some for breakfast." I waa proud of my boys and just had to rub my pyes to see if I were not dreaming. Thia little boy keeps the cwa out to grazs, finding spots of juicy grass here and there, our bucter bsing nicer, richer and sweeter than when we had to stall feed them in the winter. The largest boy cornea in as general "handy man," keeps store, helps milk the cows, sits up and nuraes tha sick as cendrly as a woman, and help? keep every thing straight. You eay, "Wnat the husband ;be seema to be ignored ?" D,ar me, no, indeed. Ha walks a mile and looks after twenty tu'keys, laying in the wood, has two hundred egga setting, cultivates two hundred a ?rea, and keeps the rest of us atraigfet, ari he says all tne credit he gsts is. Y ju ought to be a head of the re35 of u, your boysare so smart. " 1 juac loveboys because the mo3t of thra look like orphans especially the bachelors I will close by expending a special invitation to the five boys to visit us promising to introduce them to aa many splendid young ladies, fresh from State Normal now out in the world, some of ita workers 'Wedge Wood."