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Ed. Note: The following ar
ticle, which appeared in the
October -2; 1966 edition of the
Winston . Salem Journal and
wm!l' Tta,ns a samPle of
what the boys in North Caro
lina schools think of the girls
they date. We thought it only
fair to include this article in
answer to last week's write
up of the girls rating the guys.
"Give us equal space."
This demand has been made
by - college men. across the
state ever since an article ap
peared . telling ALL about
them and their dating habits.
ine article was based on in
terviews last spring with doz
ens of girls at eight of the
state s colleges and universities.
The girls were quizzed about
the males at the state's "Big
Five" UNC, N. C. State,
Duke, Wake Forest and Da
vidson. Ego - deflated college men
have protested the damage to
their images, and college girls
primarily those at Salem
have p r o t e s t e d the damage
that they feel the over - gen
eralized, comments have done
to their social lives.
Whether this damage was
real or imagined remains to
be seen. But one thing is cer
tain. The men should have
their say.
And they have.
Student correspondents at
the Big Five and at the Uni
versity of North Carolina- at
Greensboro polled the men at
their schools early last week
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for their opinions of college
girls.
Many of the men, still
smarting from the generaliza
tions about them, stressed the
impossiblity of generalizing
about females. Others, how
ever, tried.
And the men at Duke un
questionably succeeded.
DUKE
Duke males admitted that
they confine their dating pri
marily to the Duke coeds,
whom they describe affection
ately as "East Beasts." But
they emphasized that they
date them for their "proxim
ity, not for their promise or
promiscuity."
The most vehement said
"Duke girls are ugly, ugly,
ugly, ugly."
"Duke girls are egotistical,
rich, very intellectual," said
still another. "About the only
good thing you can say about
them is that they're good con
versationalists in a non-party
situation."
"Duke girls," said another,
"are either Southern grits who
try to maintain their femininity
or Yankees who couldn't get
into Radcliffe.",
"The Duke girl isn't plan
ning marriage when she looks
into your eyes," complained
a Duke male, "she's calculat
ing your financial potential
and social prestige.
Duke girls are too smart for
their own good, said a Duke
male. "They play at being an
intellectual for two years and
put up a permanent wall of
defenses that has to be brok
en down if you're to have a
meaningful relationship."
Then, as if all this hadn't
been enough, another said:
"Their only ploy foi finding
date material is a bus trip to
the West campus library
That's where youH find the
really desperate girls peek
ing out from behind an ency
clopedia." The Duke female fared little
better elsewhere in the state.
At nearby Carolina, a Jun
ior said "they are fine as long
as they date Duke men, but
most of those guys are too
smart to date them."
Opinions at Davidson rang
ed from "stuck up" to "you
feel as if they are themselves
on a date."
"They have status and
aren't worried about the im
pression they make," declared
a Davidson male.
Duke girls made one David
son boy think of "long hair,
pierced ears and slide rules."
The good ones, he said, are
"all dated up for the next six
months."
Even the "nice guys" at
State were critical. "Too so
phisticated in the stereotyped
way," they said.
The Duke coed can be very
nice, they agreed, but she re
mains a bit distant.
urtc-G
The girls at the Greensboro
branch of the University are
the favorites of most college
men for both quality and
quantity.
"You can date all the good
looking girls you want to at
UNC-G and still not date them
all," raved a Wake Forest vet
eral of many UNC-G dates.
"And," he said, "you don't
have to be on your -best be
havior when there are 4,000
girls to choose from."
"You get the feeling," said
a Wake male, "when you date
at UNC-G that the girls real-,
ly appreciate your sex because
they've been caged with 4,000
other girls all week long."
But, warns another Deac
on, "by the time the majority
of the unmarried ones are
-seniors they are the most hus
band - hungry bunch of fe
males I ever saw." Said a
Duke male, "all they want to
do is get married and away
from there."
"The UNC - G girl appreci
ates small things," added a
Duke male. "She'll write you
a long letter thanking you for
a dinner date. A Duke girl
may not even thank you for
taking her out, and she may
not speak to you the next
week."
Another Duke male describ
ed UNC-G as the state's "most
fertile field for dates." The
girls there,' he said, "jump at
a date with a boy who looks
like promising steady materi
al, and they've always got at
least three friends they'll fix
a buddy of yours up with."
"They aren't good party
girls," said a Duke male. But
he wasn't complaining
"They'll try," he said, "to be
extremely affectionate to
make up for their lack of li
quor capacity."
Carolina gentlemen rate
these girls as their "most pop
ular dates," and State men
consider them "lots of fun to
be with, good conversational
ists who know how to enjoy
themselves and act like ladies
at the same time."
"I know whatever I do, I'm
not going to get kicked in the
teeth," said a State man. "I'll
just get a nice definite No."
To get a date with a State
male, "all she uses is a line
about how she loves football
games, followed by a big
smile."
On the homefront, it's an en
tirely different story, however
There are now about 500
males on the formerly all-female
campus at Greensboro
and most of those polled said
simply, "I don't date here."
By going there, said one
male student, "Most of the
guys are drawn closer to the
girls they have at home."
A sophomore complained
that "a forest of pin curlers
between me and the instructor
makes me sick. Girls here
have not waked up to the fact
this is a coed not a woman's
college. I realize I'll have to.
take this from my wife, but
I'm not married to 4,000 girls
on Saturday morning."
Another sophomore compar
ed the UNC-G girls unfavor
ably with the girls back
home in Yankeeland. "A girl
in the North," he said, "looks
good every day. A girl down
here looks like hell during the
week and good on weekends."
While the majority of the
UNC-G males complained
about the "big brother atti-'
tude" of the coeds and their
preference for UNC - Chapel
Hill males, one graduate stu
dent was happy.
"This," he said, "is a buy
er's market."
CAROLINA
"Dating a girl at Carolina
is like going to a Weejuns con
vention," declared a male at
nearby Duke.
"All the Carolina girls,"
said another Durham student,
"fit the image of Betty Coed,
with their McMullen blouses
and little pearls and pierced
ears. You have the impres
sion of seeing the same girl
a hundred times."
The majority, said others,
"are at the Hill for husbands
. . .- and are so excited about
transferring from some small
girls' school they just go out
of their minds."
Only "a 10 per cent of real
far-out types" break from the
conformity, which requires the
Carolina coed "to hide any
sign of intellectualism." In
this 10 per cent, said a Duke
male, "you'll find your civil
rights . demonstrators, yohr
free-love advocates, your de
nouncers of the middle class."
On homeground they're equal
ly unappreciated.
The Carolina gentleman con
siders the "special breed" of
girls on his campus handy
Friday night dates 'but looks
elsewhere for Saturday night
company especially on big
weekends.
'During the biggest week
ends of the school year," one
gentleman explained, "it is
not unusual for half the girls
in the dorm to go away for
the weekend and for their
places to be filled with out-of-town
dates."
The long - standing verbal
coed and the Carolina .gentle
man subsides he said, "only
when they each need a date
in a hurry."
The complaint at State is
that "girls at Carolina feel
like they are Miss Ideal and
that you'll never have a
chance to see anything bet
ter." But the State men feel that
the girls in Chapel Hill know
how to "party, party, party."
Wake Forest men agree.
"They've got it!" raved
one.
"The ones I've seen over
there are tough, and, what's
more, they don't mind letting
loose on a date," said anoth
er Wake male.
And, said still another,
"Carolina coeds are more
aware of just about any situa
tion than the girls I've found
elsewhere. They like to play
hard and are ready for a good
time on a weekend.".
At Davidson, Carolina coeds
are considered "good" be
cause "they raise hell."
MEREDITH
The men at State consider
Meredith girls the "cream of
the ctod" but they don't fare
so well outside of Raleigh.
State men described "good
ole Meredith girls" as "fun,"
"not so Duritanical as is gen
erally thought," "friendly,"
"good dancers." "good conver
sationalists," "cute" and "ap
preciative." One went so far as to say
thev are good "marriage ma
terial." But not many miles away
the Duke males sav "Mere
dith girls ar like the girls vou
went to high school with,
clicouish. cute and conceited."
"Thev all seem to want to
be elpmontary school teachers
and look a lot like UNC girls
without bovs."
They're "the personifica
tion of, sugar and soice and
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innocence ?t least for two
year, until they transfer to
Carolina."
All a Meredith girl needs to
get asked for a date by a
State male, said a State male,
"is an introduction."
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