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ivounty- Society;, Nov 1. - W1 'i IV. 1 vr'f vf-''. . 1 Men, Bless Them; AreOur Toughest Audience ? ) HELEN CALDWELL CCSHMAN No matter bow we protest. w will still read every word of criti cism about our lex that men write and they write plenty. . Much at us sals, and we ehoffld take it that way. Some of It we should do well to read, and then rejwad , ana stop ana ponaer tneySiiuation. It doesn't really matter whether the boys are Justified in their re marks u they think we are lack ing in some particular we' might as well .be-i-because we haven't con vinced them otherwise. Let us face it we are really interested in men and anything that concerns them and especially in their opinion aDout us. no smart girl Indulges in retaliation that is a prime rule of behavior. It is stupid to seek of it is written just to poke fun revenge It usually, backfires. , Oh Your Money Buys More hi IV'. rnf UMHr'S r ivinsfon hi mi u - -., v; -sf, f . v' ' , ,' ,;.-,;- iiiiiliilliiiliil iMIIlllBI f .:rri:;s Of Tvt? : Doctors Announced Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Peocheff of Los Angeles have announced the marriage of their daughter. Dr. Dorr Is Marie Penchefi to Dr. Wil liam Benjamin Harris on Saturday, the twenty-first of June,; in Los Aneelas. - i -A, Dr. William "Harris is the eon of Mrs. Ruth Hargett Harris ox ureen ville formerly of BeulaviUe, He graduated from Beulaville High School, attended East Carolina Col lege and the University of North Carolina. He served with the Navy during the war. He has been interning in Los Angeles, i j.;' 4v' Ci !.fW ftf Mrs. Thomas Colston Edgerton Mrs. Thomas Colston Edeerton the former Miss Lois Herrina of Wallace whose marriage to Ensign Thomas Edgerton on Saturday. July Sth, in the Presbyterian unurch at Wallace, was an event of the summer social season. yes, we could1 point out how men fall to measure up to our standards but we won't not now. Instead let us examine an article writtei about some- things that are wrona wiin us ana a lew that are right Those faults we can overcome if we want to please the bojss and we jouy wen nave to do just that no matter what kind of life wo lead or wha"t kind of work we do after all, most of us work for men one way or another. , I Just read a lecture which la what it Is directed to us. about us, and at us, written by some man named Jerry Cowle. The title reads, "If chivalry is dead, writes a brave nian, it was killed by Hard I chivalry out of them.' nbcu ? uujeu. wucn or toupne i un ibi s reaa 11 ana see way the julep, type, sir, but on the faces of women wno nave suiterea,. wno have been to hell and back again oh yes. usually for some man., have found that serenity, the true quality not the bogus, pnony ou' you seem to admire, only on wo- ' men who have deep spiritual re serves, who can be uiet and cool end who are refreshing company, I have found that peace in many places, in crowded slums, in draw ing rooms, in the deep woods and all the women who possess it are women who are alive, vital, in terested in something except them selves. There is a difference be tween serenity and vacuity Mr Cowle and you may have your empty-headed languid helpless gal and keep her, too. We wouldn't want her around. ; The author continues by discus sing the problems that' he consid ers make us gals that way hard faced. And I shall quote him ag ain. "Sure you have your problems. It's problem number one for the modern girl she says 'I'm alone, and I have to bluff through some tough situations.' Lady, you're out classed in the bluffing league. What makes . you think you can bluff with a man bluffing is man.'s sacred precinct." Yes, Mr.1 Cowle, that last is valid, and so is your next statement "Lady, you have a -weapon ten times more, potent than bluffing. . It's called 'disarm ing. Just one of your dazzling smiles, and you can charm a bus driver after dropping ten pennies in the fare box maybe you don't know, that's the acid test. Try that smile you'll bring out the Sir Walter-Raleigh In a lot of men! If there aren't any, chivalrous men left, it's because you scared all the My,, my. ' BT EDNA HDLJES .V ONE .of the newest trouble shooters for the many re pair jobs) that pop up around the house , during the sum-; mer is a new plastic tape. Waterproof and impervi ous to oils, this tape is thin, black- and pliable. It stacks on contact, is not affected by prolonged sunlight t or( in tense cold ;-. .? tw .-) i. Every housewife conies up against a s pair of rubbers, now and again, that' are torp but must see service in some weather- emergency. ; This new tape provides, the right solution. And ,: it's equally igood for mending a leaky ice-1 E finc.ilaHno olpctric Plaatio tape mends a cracked Z?&; o , UmmM Md leave, tt redy W1&se it ls a rubbe;- . like ability to stretch " over cords, repairing rubber mats, twice its length, this tape is replacing putty around win fine for wrapping the , han- dows or. , for stopping up dies of golf clubs, t baseball leaky water pipes. ,,- fi bats and tennis racquets. It's It's uses could -make -a just ' as effectives for fishing lengthy list. With 1 jt, any. vwfa tnni hnnHlp nr n lpnkv housewife 1 can ' turn into an hose. And it turns in' a top efficient Mrs. Fix-It, thereby .New pustie tape i waterproof and impervioue. to oils, acJ di, p, r .v .ni,vtnn in .bino V. hiKir.nnd hflnnv. ; loosed sunlight or ccltf., It's ideal for -patching an lec-bac. Hunter Wells (Continued From Front Pae) staUrJ. Food is good and time passes fast right last.- -wnen l go to Japan they will take us to Kenyso Airfield and ny .us over. I'm riding in every thing you can think of . Helicopter hospital train came thru Soeul ships and now a Hospital plane what else could you ask for? : Better close now and give this right eye a rest write soon Love to aii,,H.un ter. ;,; s ' : HospiUl Japan. .IJY' July 7th, 1952 tzggi ; ceiio au . . -. -1." How are you doing in this hot weather? I'm doing fine; living good with a big fan right over me and -nothing to do but lie around and make sick call every morning. Got in Japan yesterday about S o'clock. We left the hospital ship yesterday morning about 7:30 and got on a Hospital train at Inchon which carried us to Souel and the Air Base. -. We left there on a big j-engine piane aooui i;au ana iook I - MMtm Vn,. J J. T-.- TIT. 1 1 u iuui uvui iiuc unjiaii, tt c miiu s Leading 110 No. Queen St. Phone 3706 Kinston, N. JULY CLBlRlinCE SALE 4. I ON SUMMER MERCHANDISE H DRESSES For Ladies and Children Silks and CotfonsT" Selling: y Atj'.-- m sC':-Price i pi Bathing Suits, Shorts, A Halters and Play Suits hi Selling At - , BEACHVEAR 3 ..X4 ' LOTS OF OTHER ITEMS SOLD AT i:;OFFf ? ', .WILL BE H ...... . i.i REDUCED PRICES 1 JUUiics . and ciuJuutUMMa' kmui .t'i;.' " TO WEAR DEPARTMENT ON f 1 -.ttWM j, :'.(:( urn - rmaTziirrr' t - ) ' Mr. Cowle begins by savlna that women's faces are setting hnrW these days. "If you don't believe me, just look at some of the granite faced women vou aieet on trains ana Duses, pulling up to stop lights, walking on the streets, or icuuiiik monev in tnn stores. Then take a look at onmo oi tne iaay executives, and the would be's. and the eaier hiur who can't wait until they too ca wear ineir nais in tne office. Grim purposeful,, wearing the mask of efficiency. -The trouble is, they can't seem to shed it at tw Yes, that's true in part and he Is right when says that the hard mask can't easily be shed general ly it becomes the face itself. Hard ness is not a nice virtue ami -, mud-riiiriK woman is over oiiit. r being hird. - T vt Then Mr. Cnu1az.T m... ...u.t. kind of -face he exhibite to the world goes on, "All right, tell me things are toueher mmv thai, 23If '2 the old manelia an1 -"""i' wnen a girl was expected to act languid and help less. No firm Unes on HER face you 11 say. She was about as placid" and expressionless as a cow. Well fv 2 Ta m,8flt M " sereni typretty darn close to beauty " Now dear Mr. Cowle, I shaU venture to agree wth you-land dis agree. , Certainlv ty calmness and repose ire ereatl ly 4o.be desired tamlR sYr l!;;,.But you mlse PM"V 1 .1. Se!fllty come from wiiAin-1 l is a state of mind and soul it is an essential tart -f"ul' i nd I have found neao, nw .Jl girls of the magnolia anH He says the second problem is ,ed at an airfield about 100 miles that we demand equal treatment. 1 5uth of Tokyo. ThejP put us in a Ana that we should relax our jaw , "m 'aa rriea us xo a Dig ouuu- r muscles and brush that chip off our shoulders-"" that if we let well enough alone, we'll get better treat ment in nine out of ten cases. Now, Mr. Cowle, women were chattel too long to be deceived by Such words. Actually we don't want better treat ment, we want equal treatment for equal services rendered but we Won't fight i about it not ob viously we have , learned in deaV ing with men that we can't be hon est a)nd straightforward but must be a coy so you say? Coy! The very word makes me shudder and gives me an urge to use you own weapon to vanquish you words to refute every statement you've made. , . Jerry Cowle accuses us of, aping fashion models by . trying to look bored here I concede that there are a few girls like 'that but not any smart ones. I do wonder where you have lived all your life, sir. A girl knows better than that most of -them do tiieyi knew that warmth and animation,., wholeness of soul are all self-evident virtues, and don't try to hide them. . They are simply and naturally charming, alert, interested in what goes on around them, Interested in ' other people even you, Mr. Cowles. ing wnere tne ilea cross gave us something to eat and smokes. , We got back aboard the buses and took an 80 mile ride to this Hos pital. It Is about 20 miles south i of Tokyo. They say it is about an nour and naif train ride to Tokyo, Hope to pull some liberty there before too long.'' , ; v'; ;; . i The.. Doctors looked at my eyes this morning.' . Don't know what they think yet They put drops iu them every day. I believe-they are then get a weeks R & R at Camp Fisher. Don't know where, Camp Fisher is. The only trouble is I don't have any money with me. I wasn't prepared for this trip. All I have is two pocket knives.. . The Red Cross gives us smokes, etc., so can't complain' I guess. - At least I'm out of Korea, but know I will have to go back only been here three months have 6 to go. Maybe I can get a rear job. J m jm Notmuch news around so I will close and I may go to the movie I can see -that well even if it 4j blurry. Write When you have time. Love to an, Hunter. New Address-- , PVC. Baxter Hunter Wells 121083 - Ward C, - ;,:v,;,- Marine -Directory Section, Navy No. 850 i,i"5'-'':-s ' . ..'-vK;j C-p, TO.' San Francisco, Calit Wounded Vets To Go Fishing In G Of II. C. Coast In 'Operation Wheelch. Raleigh. July 15 Because two I ,''.."- "' Raleigh sportsmen thought every- Ave Gulf Stream boats for a d bodv likes to have the chance to go ea. Boat arrangements were i 7 " .. . . r J I V.f- To Atlantic City S. O.' Johnson of Rosehlll is one of more than 180 Woodmen Field men to qualify for an all-expenses paid trip to Atlantic City, M. J. to attend a four-day field conference at Hotel Ambassador, July 21 to 24. . Those qualifying met quotas for membership applications from March 1, 1951 to May 1, this year. Mr. Johnson also (justified to bring Mrs. Johnson with him to the con ference. f .-i-.-'1 -' '-" , Frank Bettger iof Philadelphia, author of the best-seller, "How I Raised Myself from Failure t Suc cess)., wui; : oe principal guesi speaker .when President Farrar Newberry, Omaha, opens the meet s' Members Of Local . ' , Society Attend Wedding In Farmville ; " ' -Miss Martha Pickett and Cap tain A. R. Bland; II, USMCR at tended the wedding of their cousin, Miss Margaret Qulnn Coates to Charles Herbert Hale In Farmville Sunday. T" ' -' . f ... ; . ' Mrs. Hale is the daughter of the Reverend and Mrs. Edwin S. Coates of Farmville. Mrs. Coates is the is.i '.fil'.: VHEII HEEDED - Jfarnef wno ne?ds money io U3i man.who "desires to take advinUge' dunts,'or special Prices where: cash is neededjta a worthwhile. proposiUon, wUl find thto'bank ready to lend asst:M A fcw dollar; t tie jportune time frequently means success tor the undertaking 1 ,-,; , I. 7!' ;;; , "Make Our Bank Your Bank Ii Kinston Jloimt Olive y:-'J. going to be .a3rigbW-Justi,takesitimitff Monday morning. and I have clent of that to snare. I should be here about a month and Bettger will itejl how he built bis successful insurance agency. former Miss Geneva Qulnn of Du plin County and is a sister of Mrs. W. J. Pickett of KenansviUe, Mrs. J. B., Cooper of Wallace and J L. Qulnn of Chinquapin. She is the aunt of several prominent members of Duplin Society, Mrs, Vance Ga vin, Mrs. D. H. McKay, Mrs. A. B. Bland, II, and Miss Martha Pickett. Another niece, Miss Henrietta Cooper of Wallace, attended the bride as maid of honor. ' Ft' Mr-. and Mrs.' Ji- "A; .-'Lowell of Bowden Announce ihe marriage of their daughter; Edna Mae Powell to Corporal Ruben Cornell Sloan, son of Mr. ' and .Mrs. K.. G. Sloan of Calypso on Friday-; evening, July ii, at tne name oi tne iteverena R. Jx Crossnox to Warsaw., Mrs. Sloan will remain with, her parents until' her husband receives his discharge-in-August, .hv V Miss Betty Grey Nethercutt of Rocky Mount was honored Friday evening when Miss Lou Jackson Mrs. Lou Belle Williams, Mrs. m! M. Thtgpen and Mrs. J. D. Jackson entertained with a crystal shower in the home at th lattsu . Tk. home was decorated in lovely ar rangements of summer flowers, i , The honoree was presented a con sage of red roses and a gift in her chosen crystal pattern. .Mrs. Ne Ji ercutt, mother of the honoree, was also presented a rose .corsage. t f. . Mrs. M. M. Thigpen led a num ber of games and orizee wta m. aented Mrs. Wlnford Guy, Mrs.' J. "awn nrown, airs. , jim Sandlin, Mrs. James Thomas, Mrs. Orlando Albertson and Miss Nell Qulnn. The honoree was nrMpn-tAjt arl. diUonal gifts In crystal after which ub xuesis were, lnvttei intn dining room where the table war wer iaia in imported lace and held a lovely center arrangement of white mixed summer flowers. The buffet was ? banked 'with mixed flowers and flanked by Ughted tap ers, e.Mrs, Nethercutt poured punch pear. salad with; , pink whipped cream topped with- green cherry on lettuce, cheese wafers,. cak, nuts and mints were served from the table. ; v .;) ;..-..-!,., Among the ouf of town guests were MrtJ Orlando -AibxHu. Fort Dix, New Jersey, Mrs. Paul nunier ana, miss Daisy Burman of Warsaw, i . , . v deep sea fishing 35 Korean war veterans all of them 'Purple Heart winners will have A chance to try their luck in the Gulf Stream off the North Carolina coast. 1 Rod Amundson, Chief of the Ed ucational Division of the North Carolina Wildlife Resources Com mission,, and Phil Ellis, WPTF an nouncer and cdglnator of the Let's Go Fishing radio program, originat ed the idea of providing fishing facilities to wounded veterans at the U., S. Army Hospital at Fort Bragg.' . V' On July 29 ' the 35 veterans will head for Morehead City and board by' Joe DUJBose, a secretary o: Morehead City Chamber of I merce. The Wheelchair Fleet be made up of Cap t. George sworth's 'Dolphin',. 'The Blue ter,,; skippered by" Capt; Hi Fulcher. 'The Gulf Breeze' u WiUard Lewis, Skipper Bill ry'e "Amberjack; and another yet to be selected. ;' .Arrangements' at Fort Brag) beihg handled by Gapt. W- F. bins, - Chief reconditioning ol at the hospital. ; , 'ft.- . SMELLS Wiyi'islt 'af poetsleli'l'i k So little of the sense of smell? There are the odors I love well: Tbe smell Of coffee freshly ground; Or rich plum pudding, hpllycrowa- dj' , '-'""' " ' -' ). f '' Or duons fried an4 deeply brows- The tragfance oi i fuiny pipe; rne smeii oi appies, newiy ripe; And printer's ink, on leaden type, Woos by moonlight in September Breathe most sweet; and, I remem- : bet ..;.'-' , - . Many f smoky., campf ire ember, Camnhor.' turnentine' "and tea. The halum rf a dhriatma traa' J1 f rthere are whiffs' of gramarye ,? v-Cbristopher . Morley Get The D'lk That Is GOOD For Vou. fa I : t t ' A, m i. rM-ja'--rr.. .' 'TW ClCnnznSDaiiyJ Pit 2::b ?T rhnr" v GoldsboroiK. a -- llOM Iff Dcrcfhy Herring lloncrcd At Parly Miss Dorothy Raye Herring was the guest of honor at a party ma-king her (sixteenth birthday "on Sat urday, .July 12, , Her sister, Miss Gyf Herring, was hostess for the affair, which ,was followed by a theatre party. . '. Delicious refresh ments were Served consisting of ice cream and a birthday cake. Miss Herring received many lovely gifts. Among those present Jor the oc casion were the following: , The Misses Lou Gene SmithLTFaye Par feer, Geneva Potter, Christine Wil- W'ulWi3e Murry. Buth Ann Page Gaye Herring, and Dorothy Herring; EarJ King, Bobby Pag? iifus Butner, Douglas Smith, J. V Grady Lowder, E. C. Kind ivester Tew, George Bryan Weat t, and - Jimmy, Dortch and ' 8 ' ' The7 Peerless Baby Mattress is (be answer . to a mother's prayer. 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