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The engagement ring: Buy it with care “With this Ring” p. 15 By Amy Clarkson Staff writer Rings see any imperfections with the naked eye, " she said. “Occasionally, a pretty good grade diamond will have imperfec tions — but you can only see them with a lens." Kinlaw cautions not to buy a diamond with imperfections—the stone will not be as pretty. As for the style of ring, Kinlaw says that's up to the couple. The most popular is still the most traditional — the round brilliant solitaire. ‘ The marquis diamond is popular too, ” she said. "But it's also more expensive." Diamonds are still the most popular jewel for an engagement ring. Kinlaw says. Occasionally, someone will want a different gem for the setting, but dia monds are what most people in the area choose. ‘ Occasionally, someone will want a guard around the solitaire in a different gem stone _ sapphires or rubies." said Kinlaw. "But usually, they choose dia monds." Buying an engagement ring tops the list of one of the most important pur chases of a lifetime. Whether he goes alone or the two of you pick it out to gether, carefully select the ring — you'll want it to last a lifetime! The most important thing 'to look for, says Dorothy Kinlaw. is qual ity. "Always think quality first." says the owner of Kinlaw's Jewelry Store "Then think price If you don't have the quality, you lose out If It s poorly made, then you'll be un happy with it before too long " Kinlaw says there are certain types of diamonds her store will not sell Rings with thin shanks are on that list If the shank is thin. Kinlaw says, the nng will become twisted and broken too easily. When picking out the diamond. Kinlaw says to be sure to look at the stone's clarity — if there are any imperfections or cloudi ness in the diamond. "You need to make sure that you can't Advice for newlyweds ^ The very nearest approach to domestic happiness on earth is in the cultivation on both sides of absolute unselfishness. V Never both be angry at once. ^ Never talk at one another, either alone or in com pany. ^ Never speak loud to one another unless the house in on fire. ^ Let each one strive to yield oftenest to the wishes of the other. ^Let self-denial be the daily aim and practice of each. Never find fault unless it is perfectly certain that a fault has been committed, and always speak lovingly. ^ Never taunt with a past mistake. ^ Neglect the whole world besides rather than neglect one another. ^ Never allow a request to be repeated. ^ Never make a remark at the expense of each other — it is a mean ess. ^ Never part for a day without loving words to think of during absence. ^ Never meet without a loving welcome. ^ Never let the sun go down upon any anger or griev ance. ^ Never let any fault you have committed go by until you have frankly confessed it and asked forgiveness. ^ Never forget the happy hours of early love. ^ Never sigh over what might have been, but make the best of what is. (Cottager and Artisan) Long-distance weddings can be a breeze By The Associated Press Special Edition merged and sent to a long list. Here are some tips for planning a long-distance wedding: W Ask for help from home. Designate a friend or relative at home to be your surrogate. If nobody can assume such a responsible and time-consuming chore, ask friends at home to scout services and handle one or two small details. W Keep planning trips to a minimum by setting up appointments beforehand. Use the telephone to discuss general needs ahead of time and to screen out unsuitable suppliers. If Use technology. A computer can simplify the process of keeping attendants and guests informed. Create a newsletter with informa tion on the schedule of events, and for out-of-town guests, a list of local sights and how to get around. With a computer program, the newsletter can be created quickly, then mail- 'iK Keep phone numbers of service people hired, as well as details of agreed-upon services, in computer files. If Keep it simple. Select a caterer with ancillary services such as music and flowers and a single location for ceremony and reception. Allow six months or more for planning. The longer the lead time, the easier it will be to find services you need. W Consider hiring a wedding consultant if budget permits; consult ants are knowledgeable about local services. Look for someone who is pleas ant to work with and can provide recent references. To find a consultant, call the Association of Bridal Consultants (203) 355-0464, or check local listings under bridal consultants and party planners. T. Alexander's Quality Menswear Men are our ONLY business! 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