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j Duplin Times I Duplin Count y\ Newspaper THURSDAY, FEBRUARY H 1963. SB And Your Child r?' I Mb* gd?catt? Depwrtnmt Z ;; ; n?|fcihl?ii SUU Teacher* Caileg* JfcSent teachmjf under dhe wvmg of ji'hatoran tenders in Tar Heel pub '*C seh<ttOtm>l>itt worry confron ting most of (to students ?t the out iKc phil/jr*?iijr ^ fc- 'A* ' best way^leam orderly and con structive pupil control. This is why ; , M^.johfhfns are required to teach y ;,^^*enwnths^uwier the supervision * Errors in control ran be reduced, however, if tlie student follows cor ; tab tknetested principles of main tainihg condruetiv* discipline. The rules apply not only in school tut also at home where parents must control fWldren's behavior. Here are a few basic principles fpr better disqjpline: If a promise-is made, be sure to carry it A t Admit errdftV say you don't know the answer if ft" don't. Show ifliwgit in chfldreu's acti vities. Be speettfewhen giving direc tions. Maintdm rycod balance between dignitv aaS-b?i liarily. Project a jwsse of humor, hut don't overdWiw Exhibit poise-hnd self-control. Stop Iftie misdemeanors firmly, nawdmias as possible Try ? fin 1 pauses for misbeha vior rafter fiuir punish blindly. a Don't punish others for the offen ses of one child. Remove distracting influences that tempt misbehavior, such as seating a girl with pigtails next to a spirited boy. When punishment is necessary, make it a natural outcome of the wrongdoing, if Junior is misbehav ing while watching TV, remove his privilege of viewing the big oye. Look upon ohldren as people with emotions, goals, interests, and pro blems of their own. Try to under stand why they misbehave. Kor in stance. docs Junioir cut up because he's jealous of the praise his sister receives for her academic achieve ments? If so. find something that he does well and shift a little glory his way. Issue as few commands as pos sible. Try' to get children lo do things on the basis of good reason ing rather than because you told them so. Even permit the kids to partici pate in setting up staudards for their own behavior. Respect th? personality of each youngster and help him gain re spect among other children. View yongsters' misbehavior at least partly as evidence of poor di rection on your part, but not as a personal at front. Exhibit a positive attitude toward children. Try to build up each in dividual rather than tear down. Try to provide interesting, worth while learning experiences for your children. Langley Heads Program To Encourage Youth To Consider Career In Health RAiLE&GH, N,.C. - Wight Lang ley, a former reporter for The Rai ds*" TO tea, has been named direc tor of a MM( il0e program to en courage Tar Heel youths to consid er a career in a phase ef health J. Minetrae Pyne, President of the North Carolina Hospital Association has announced. Langtey will coordinate a pro gram designed to urge qualified high school youths to cltoose one of ISO different health careers. His headquarters will be in Raieigh, and his activities will be directed t?y the North Carolina Hospital Edu cation and Research Foundation. Married tfe the former Joan Knowles of Key West. Kla.< I.angley is a graduate of Rochester. N. Y . Institute of Teqjuology and also Boston Universitfkjle was gradual ed in Photography at Rochester In stitute of Technololy and in Journa Hsm at Boston University. He later was an instructq^t Rochester In Hospital Association President Pyne said that^Langley's appoint ment will accehjutt the new. actvie state-wide promun to recruit young people to serW"fhr'health careers. Pyne, who is administrator of Al amaape County Hospital in Bur lingtjfcdjWjIRttH the North Caro lina HwSftaf Education and Re aearch Foundutio nis now supported fiy 1M hospitals. 23 hospital auxilia ries, and a number of North Caro fijnda onMr-anaual basis for three t i. ? f I ' i . years. Pyne said the hospitals havt pledged nearly $20,000 annually; the auxiliaries have pledged $2,300; The Duke Endowment, $25,000: Hospital Care Association. $500; HSA Insur ance Service, Inc., $500; R. J. Rey nolds Tobacco Co., $5,000; and Z. Smith Reynolds Foundation, $15,000. I^anoley's appointment $s Health Careers Program Director is the in itial step in establishing administra tive procedures for the program. Pyne said projected plans call for developing five or six health career guidance and recruitment offices throughout the state. He added that the state would be divided into dis tricts. and the recruitment offices would work with junior and senior high school guidance counselors to explain health career opportunities Each recruiting district or com bination district will provide an ex ecutive or administrative committee of fve hospital administrators ap pointed for three-year terms. Payne noted that under Langley's direction, the program should in form students about the unusual op portunities which exist in health fields. He pointed out that oppor tunities exist for both personal growth and job satisfaction and al so for better incomes. "North Carolinians will gain di rectly from the program," the hos pital official declared. "The pro gram will recruit adequate numbers of people to work in hospitals and other health institutions to help re lieve the existing critical shortage of personnel." Special Tpurs of Private Residences 111 Colonial Williamsburg, Jan. ? Feb. Williamsburg,, Va.-Special candle light tourFof private residences in ?*? trill inaugurate each Friday evening the six Colonial jfobkeods to be held during Janu fftm* February, beginning Jan e*^2?j3dMSrHoUse ^ ill Alien J&nuary 11 and Janaary in. |^{ME2apudn?*25, the Palmer House. SMauiad and Mrs. James A* ijwrilt, wiH be featured along Slam tbe^AUan-Byrd and Norton lag rjbwj, the Allen-Byrd February l, a ^P> to Colonial Weekend parlici |b*au. Also featured on February It Ikdrtt tl l IhA Diiniamin Wo I lor HI gSgtOce M Mr. and Mr*. ^BEmV; and the Russell KH. residence qf Mr and HKal. Vernen. Spratley. The home f Mr. ana Mrs. Bkirke Davis, the ??MNrtt Muse, and the Car ^^HpAruarM STno, 'MI'M tury secretary-bookcase of maho gany veneer contains numerous pie ces of English-Worcested soft paste porcelain of the Dr. Wall period. Eighteenth-century wal'paper of Chinese design covers the dining room walls. Outstanding pieces are the English mahogany dining table and the George f wnlnnt dining chairs. In the hall of the second floor is a rare enrly 17th-century oak chest, which has unusual car ved and paneled ends dike the Iron', The Moody House, also a gue-t facility, features in the living room several Queen Anne arm chairs and an oak-secretary of the Sam? style. Pieces of sakglaze stoneware with polychrome decoration, En gllstvfitaftordahire, decorate the dining room At the Norton-Cole House, the res idence of Mr .and Mrs. Carlisle H. Humelsine, guests will see a varied collection of Igth-century porcelains in the Hying roam, including ah earthenware set of four children whp represent the four seasons. The Norton-Cole library contains an En glish mahogany breakfront of Chip pendale style, circa 1760. A hepple white drop leaf cherry table of Aide for The People "A nation that can afford all the comforts of our modern society cannot afford at the same time to perpetuate poverty through having children grow up ill-fed, ill-clothed, and ill-housed: nor can we punish children for the failure of their par ents." Dr. Ellen Winston, Commissioner In on* of the Deep South states lives a successful engineer who sev eral years ago married a girl from a prominent family. They have two children and the family is financi ally and socially well adjusted and happy. This engineer is a former North Carolina boy who was for several years a recipient of aid to depend ent children from . the county de partment of public welfare. The boy's father died when he was young. However, an older bro ther lived in the home who had a job was able to support bis mother and the yopnpcr brother for several years. Then the older brotlicr was killed in an accident. The mother was unable to support herself and the remaining son for she was suf fering from high blood presure and other health problems. She tried renting rooms in the home, but her doctor stated that she was not able physically to do the necessary work involved. The mother applied for assistance at the county department of public welfare and was eligible to receive aid to dependent children. The ycu n" son m is n -nn l student and nev er presented behavior problems. He too* pm-t in school activities and was graduated from high school with honors. He had also worked week ends for several years to help supplement the family income. He worked his way through college and was married. Then he was offered an out-of-state job as an engineer, a position which he still holds. He supports his family and his mother. The aid to dependent ehildren grant was terminated when he was eighteen years old and since that time his mother has not received any assistance from public welfare. Her health has imporved to the ex tent that she is able to rent rooms in her home and has a small in dependent income aside from the help she receives from her son. Aid to dependent children helped thii" family over a period of years when deprived of a father's support and the loss by death of an older son who had been supporting them, the mother and boy were unable to earn a living. The financial help given this family by public welfare made it possible for the young boy to complete high school and college and started him on the road to be coming a self-supporting man who could marry, have a family, and have adequate security to be able to help his eldery mother. Farm Briefs Marion DeVane, a Bladen County farmer, probably has the most uni que hot bed for staked vine ripen ed tomatoes in North Carolina. DeVane improvised for his unus ual hot bed. An old set of truck sca les was removed, leaving an open pit about five feet deep, 10 feet wide and 18 feet long. R. 'Harvey Morris. Bladen assis tant agricultural extension agent, explains that DeVane placed too soil in the pit and tomato seedlings were transplanted, watered ami fertilized. A plastic cover placed on top of the pit conserves heat from the sun and a gas heater. Two small fans are used to cool in hot weather. The main problem with the im provised green house is excessive moisture in the pit. Soldiers On Leave Can Earn Extension Soldier? on leave can earn aut nr->Hr five - day extension or a three-dry pass for being a success ful volunteer recruiter while on annual leave or delay enroute. AR 601-218 spells out that Rec ruiting Main Station Commanders ?re the granting authority tor the extension if the soldier is respon sible for the three-year enlistment of an individual. If the volunteer recuiter chooses a three-day pass, me- it frutting Main Station Coram snder rearrests the volunteer's wit to issue the pass when the indiv i . -. ' V!_V . / , . ? i Each Colonial Weekend also in i dudes a special Saturday morning 1 tour of the furniture and furnish ings of three of Colonial Williams burg's Exhibition Buildings - the George Wythe House. Brush-Ever ard House and Governor's Palace. Colonial weekenders will also dine at restored 18th-century taverns, es " ' '' ? r?Mi- I "Witter MADS YOU THINK! *4 Uncle Pefe From Chiltlin Switch SAYS DEAR MISTER EDITOR: You will recollect that here awhile back the fellers at the country store was in favor of reducing each state to one Senator and cutting the Hou se members in half. It was figgered that this move would pay off the national debt in -about 10 year. Well, Mister Editor, 1 got some powerful new fodder fer this cam paign. It is a wet) knowed fact that Senators and Congressmen has got to git votes,, and to git votes they got to spread,,U>e gravy on pritty thick back home. The figgers has just been released on how thick the gravy is gitting. The item I got here says that in 1962 we hid 2,538,390 civilians work ing in (iuvernrnent offices. This is a increase 46,015 over 1961 and they is estimating that in this year of 1963 the Mimber will go up anoth er 30,000. This rfcee shys it is now taking over all billion to pay these Guvernmefht Workers.' Congressman Earl Wilson of In diana says when he first come to the Congress 20 years ago, tie was in a state Of shock the first week from watching Guvemment secre taries polishing their naiis, reading movie magazines and writing let ters to their boy friends. And he says it is twict as bad now. He claims that today, in addition to all them other things, they is busy working cross - word puzzles, walk ing around in the halls with transis ter radios hung around their neck, and some of 'em is even knitting sweaters. It looks like the gravy is gitting too tick to stir and about the only way the taxpayers can thin it down a bit is to thin out them Senators and Congressmen. Farthermore, I see by the papers where, while the Congress was ad journed, we had 27 U. S. Senators and Congressmen, some of'em de feated in the last election, taking tours at Guvernnu-nt expense. They call 'em "fact finding" trips, but it seems they has to take their wives and relatives along to help git the facts. And I have took note. Mister Ed itor, that right now during the cold weather, most of the facts that need finding out about is to the South where it's warm. In the summer time the facts shifts to the North. Senator Harry Byrd said last week that the 46,045 civilian work ers the Guvernment added last year cost the taxpayers $257 million extra, and that the 20,000 they was figgering on adding this year would cost another $112 million. That's mighty hard on the taxpayers but one per leave, regardless of the number he may recruit. Soldiers interested in this prog ram should read the regulation and then contact their local Army recruiter while on leave for com plete deails and assistance. Volunteer recruiters may choose either reward, but can only earr iaual returns to his home station f i? ? t LL'. ?5 I reckon it's good fer the transister radio folks. We got a heap of fine and honest men in Washington, and we got some that ain't so fine. The fellers at the store i6 maintaining that if we cut the number in half, we can keep a better watch on which is which. Your truly. Uncle Pete I i "A Woman's Corner" By Ruth Turn age Home Service Representative Carolina Power & Light Co. For the typical family, the pur chase of home laundry equipment represents a major expenditure. It is important that the purchase be made wisely. Consider these points when buying: 1. Select a reputable dealer in your community-deal with an or ganization which you can trust. 2. Seleet the model which meets your laundering needs. a. Is your laundry chiefly cottons and linens? b. Where will your laundry equip ment be located? c. Is available space for laundry equipment in your home limited? 3. Evaluate models in terms of your laundering needs, not on price alone. a. Budget-prices washers and dry ers perform basic laundreing func tions well; they usually do not offer extra convenience features nor de luxe styling: they seldom provide special cycles. b. Medium-priced washers and dry ers offer more convenience featur es, usually provide a choice of laundering cycles for specialty items, and often offer more hand some styling. c. Top-of-the-line models of wash ers and dryers offer every feature provided by the manufacturer, of ten including automated control systems or "programmed" cycles. d. Combination washer-dryers sol ve the space problem, usually offer the same features as tep-of-the-line washers and dryers, and are usual ly lower in price than a washer and dryer pair. 4. Ask for a demonstration before making a final selection. Make sure you get an appliance that SATIS FIES YOU. 5. Determine the quality and ser viceability of the model you are in terested in before making the pur chase. 8. Before finally making the pur chase, be sure you understand all i conditions of sale, d. Does the quoted price include de livery? Installation? And warranty service? ; b. How will the dealer provide ser i vice for the appliance? His own . store? An outside organization? Social Security By: Ed DmM, Field Representative Poplin County Every person who walks Into the Social Security Office h?s a person al and individual situation Those who visit or call the office can be advised in accordance with facts presented by the individual. Much too often people neglect to contact the District Office because of what "somebody said," and do not ??* correct information. One man "heard that if you earn over $120*> you cannot draw social security " He heard wrong, and be cause ne foiled to contact his Soc ial Security Office, he lost some social security payments. The gen eral rule for determining when a person past retirement age can re ceive benefits If he earns over >1100. can beat be explained tp the iadivi dual concerned. Employees at the Social Security Office are glad to have people ask about the program. A lady who worked many years under social security qualified for a payment on her own work record because it paid her more than the short work record of her deceased husband. She "heard that all wid ows would receive an increase in social security," and she called the office to find out why her benefit check had not been increased. In her particular case, there was no increase because she was receiving payment on her own record rather than widow's benefits based on the record of her deceased husband. Another woman "heard that all benefits would be raidsed to $40.00.' She also called to see why her check had not been increased. Her check was for $32.00, and the rea son it was below $40.00 was because sh estarted receiving payments at age 62 rather than waiting for lar ger payments of $40.00 at n~e ?.i: therefore, no increase could be granted in her case. Still another man retired at age 65, and he "heard that you can go back and draw social security to age 65," so he did not file for his social security until be reached 67, expecting to receive benefits for tw oyears back. He lost a lot of social security payments by not con tacting the office at age 65, because retoractive benefits are restricted. A woman near here "heard that anyone who draws social security payments before age 6S " i'l always have a reduced benefit." In her particular case that was not true be cause she was eligible for a widow's benefit based on the earnlnrrs re cord of her deceased husband. That type benefit is not redjjced because it is applied for at a^ 62. All the above clearly show that it can cost your money If you go by what "somebody says," instead of getting ocrrect information from the social security neople Every case is a little bit different, don't go by what somebody says:" ask the Social Security Office about your case. There are four im'?orient times when the Social Security Office sho uld be contacted: It When the worker in the family dies, 2' When you reach retirement age. whether or not you retire, 3' When you reach age 72, regardless of your earnings;, and 4> When the worker becomes permanently and total 1 disabled. It is important to remember that someone must work the required period of tim ein employment or self-employment covered by social security before benefits can be paid. If you have any questions con cerning any phase of social secur ity. contact your Social Security District Office, 311 E. Walnut Street in Goldsboro. What Questions Vets Are Asking Here are authoritative answers by the Veterans Administration to questions from former servicemen and their families: Q-Is there an extent-of-time limit or an amount limit on a GI home loan? A-There is no limit on the amount of the loan in the case of a guar anteed loan. The limitation is on the amount of guaranty that can be issued upon the loan, which is 60% or a maximum of I7.S000. VA '??r?~ ' 7' --- - - - -- | Heart Is A Hard WorkeT 1 Valentino's Day with it* heart* in spire* mq*t lads (a think of love, courtship end dainty morsels of chocolate eamly. But to R?hert Janus, the licart means an organ that does enough work in 12 Havre t obviously a non union heart > to lift a 55 ton tank car one foot off the ground. Not content with such an unluippy comparison, Janus goes on to repoif that the heart pumps blood through about 100,000 miles of blood vessels -a distanc. equal to five round trips between New York and Sydney. Australia. insured loans, instead of guaranteed loans, may not exceed $26,668. The time limit is SO years. fi-Is there en age limit after whi ch war orphan may no longer be eligible for Educational Assistance by the VA? A-Generally the age is between 18 and 23, but In no case may the schooling assistance be continued beyond the 21st birthday of the ben eficiary. Certain war orphans you nger than 18 may receive this assis tance - fo rexample, those who are, handicapped. Q-Does the Veterans Administra tion recognise employee unions? A-Yes. During the past six mon ths the VA has recognized 128 em ployees' organizations at 117 field stations as well as in Washington, D. C. THE WAYSIDE PULPIT D. E. Earnhardt Children of God in the midst of crooks. Phil. 2:15 These crooks are the down-and outs and the up-and-outs. They are the Counts and the no-accounts. When I was a promising young student. I studied Sausage-olo^y. This means that everything that falls into the mixing tub must go ;''i the sausage. The only thing that saved me was that I did not believe it. Jediis said. When you have a feast in your home or in your chu rch invite the neglected and afflict ed. During my ministry I have always led churches out of debt and never into debt. Debt made them too sweet on financially successful men and dames that could lay a golden egg." ?->* in the human heart, crush ed by the temper, feelings lie bur-" ied that grace can restore. i'j i'' i . A men's heart U <*n'y shout the *?ie of bis fiat. yet l> pumps sm><ux TtateWWOg gAltebol Moott thro ugh ihis hody eaotuday. .? In IU first stage of development, the human heart is tike the heart of ? Ash-only a simple tub# Then it resembles the heart or a ftpg, than that of a smake When H'a ful ly developed, U resembles the heart of a bird. Janus, unfortunately, should know. He's science editor of World Book Encyclopedia. tMrs. Janus doesn' care she'd better get her heart-hap ed box of candy, of- atoe. MBU FACTS OF INTEBE5T BY: Cite V. Prldge The foundation stones of prayer The foundatio nstones of prayer urn the prayers yew say The base upon which the life of prayer is built is Simply "sayine your pray ers" regularly, devotedly and lingenlly. This is tlie auppflrt upon which nil further prayer mats. ? When to pray - It does not make any difference. Take ary tithe. R?t, once jroit take h. stick to It. All kinds of important matters crowd in And pinke demands. If you donot give Ood the time He de mands, you will become so Involved that you will pot have any time left to give Him. So take time - any time * and keep it. -. Where to pray - pray any where you want to, but having chosen a place, make it your habitual place of prayer. It could he as simple a I place as your armchair, in your I home. Select a place day by^day. go there to talk with Ood. ( How to pray-The wor ts spoken r (juld be simple and direct. They should be your words, it will make the prayers your prayers. Speak 10 God as easily and naturally as you would a friend. Use the words that rise most simply to make It a holy place. <' Fiction: Women with tlfe heart disease should not have childres Facts: with proper medical cafe, moat women with heart disease can bear children safely, Jfcys the Heart Association. Further, state and national coun sel are always availaoxe ?without charge to lighten the new mother* J homeaking burden. FOH THZ .FINEST'IN JOO MIN aT1- ? OU#Ltf< t TIMES WAAT AOS ? RING FAST RESULTS. >*-"*. 1- .j ":S k, T 7 ^ Vital Religion Leim Mr February 17, 110 s BIU. Material t Mark 7:1 through D?T?U*aal K?*lafi 1 CorlnthlaM ItlM. THERE is a form Of insanity in which the patient loves, not living human beings, but corpses. Only crazy people prefer dead things to living. And yet there are people so far from normal that they love dead religion rather man vnai religion. In fact, there i* 10 much non-vita] religion in the world, 10 much dummy religion, machine-madf imitation of the real thing, that aome people make the mistake of, guDDOsins dead religion to be the only going vari ety, the only kind available, and m they can't be Mooed tor want- , ing no part of it Vital rtUgiea to big In the time of Chriat, Jeaua had Hia trouMee and etrugglea with' men who had a dead aort of rati' ?ioa. Hi. vital religion ahoegbd them, even angered them, nig oouldn't underataod it. or w. and they didn't like Him One dC Dltewlaees' lereDCC Dawern un rninwfi religion and the religion of Jeeua, waa that they were mare noa cerned with triflea thee with big ger thiaga. They were rerp par ticider about matters that didn't ??tier. Thar were more partlcu iff about wftihiifi their htodf hud their dishes in certain prescribed ways, than about what want into their minda. At another time Jcaus reminded them that they were ao buay counting the little green herb* in their vegetable gardens that they netfltcted the greater thing, such as ju.tice and the love of OodT ReUgion la v|Ul when it it big, concerned with big MS thing, in true perepectivo. It b vital when it Ux.ka beyond the c'tr[ftinc winhc< mou viiiif truing, ueaii ?f* m * i it Is eaay It if easy to memOrlz< a 'Set of rules and keep theni-<t| ' tan be done without much think . 5 tag?than it is to think out, meytx desperately, what is right (a d? in hevr situations and conditions Jesus called the people who hat ?aisfetx': miikt'&vs wants and prefers. In Vital reli gioa there is no such gap. What s man who has a genuine case ol religion says, comes out of hii heart. As Middletoo Murry once said, "Jon would rsther' be njed by *s true man th?n /ion leased by.* liar " Insincere reli glon ip o^the death list because t being tfiPktad of thtag it ia, if xnnt *ver- Take two important szamsfssrs source of life to true religion. The sincerely religions man will do what (eeda and Strengthens the fjith.within him. the insincef#; CSKmmlg W real heart-interest I mWocer his people, does not feed on the "bread of Me." he does not seek God in prayer (ua less !>??*.scared to death). And of oMirae his religion cant bo -r-Vttfh. , v jA'; iffaohJng backward* ? tjb* aVftttfrpeople who have one inaihtt argument (they think!) for not doing aomothing they pUtjBjy ought to do: "I've never keapa a memory book, hut no hope cheat ia not vital. It may be an ^Mtini^antlgue, aqnalnt akel * Tradition la not a had thing ia itaeli. But whan tradition become*, I I ft Hidld tor the Phariaeea who or poaed ieoua, a aubatitute for pe* aooal and Vving faith; what* I mw&srssS'i ward inateattjof forward, when it ao occupier our miada that ?t < thluhthe onlpgood day wha Yea tfr&'Uafegad heK"th^d'ad and prejndlcea. and would aubatl I lute their dead minda (or our Uv inj ones, then tradition haa killed THE DO PL 1N TIMES j,? | % Published each Thursday in Kenansville, N. C., County Seat of DUPUN COUNTY Editorial, business office and printing plant, Kenansville, N. C. 4 RUTH P. GRADY OWNER and PUBLISHER RUTH P. GRADY, EDITOR Entered At The Post Office, Kenansville, N. C. as second class matter TELEPHONE?^Cenansvflle, Day 29 9-2171?Night 29 9-2141 SUBSCRIPTION RATES: $3.50 per year plus 11c N. C. Sales fist in Puplin Lenoir, .Jones, Onslow, Pender, Sampson, New Hanover and Wayne coiim ties; $4.59 per year plus 14c N. C. Sales Tax outside this area In North Cart* lina and $?50 per year plus 17c N. C. 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