Sanderson-Jarman Wed Yvonne Carol Jarman and Victor Glenn Sanderson were united in nqarrlage on Saturday, November 2, 19SS-, at three o'clock in the after noqn at Smith's Presbyterian Church of Pink Hill. The Rev. David Wil I ingham officiated at the double-ring cerfcmpny. "The-bride is the daughter of Mr. ahd Mrs. John Harold Jarman of Pink; Hill and the groom is the son of ?nd Mrs. Kenneth Sanderson of . Beulaville. The bride is the grand daughter of Herbert Guy and Lettie Jarman. and the late Johnnie and Johnnie Agnes Smith who lived at Pink Hill. TTie groom is the grandson of Levy and Belle Sanderson and JaOies and Ruby Mobley, ail of Beulaville. A program of traditional wedding music was presented by Edgar Wells of Tcachey, painist. Mrs. Mary Gold Bell of Albertson sans "Looking Through the Eyes of Love," ''Whither Thou Goest," and "The Wedding Prayer." The couple spoke their nuptial vows in front of an altar centered with a 15-branch candelabra and two tree candelabras. A double kneeling bench, ferns and green flowing palms flanked the center arrange ment. The front entrance was ad orned with ferns and large white bows graced the wrought iron rail ing. The ceremony began with the lighting of the altar candles by Avery Jarman and Ricky Sanderson. Escorted to the altar by her father, the bride chose for her wedding a formal gown of white organza over taffeta. The fitted bodice was fashioned with a sculptured neckline of Chantilly lace on a wide yoke of English net. The bodice was deco rated with bridal pearl accents on silk Venise lace and Chantilly lace. Rolled ruffles of organza adorned the shoulders and lone tapered sleeves ' of organza and lace which extended to calla pointes over the hands. The A-line skirt of organza over taffeta was softly gathered at the sides and back and fell gracefully from the basque waistline. Lace and rolled organza ruffles adorned the hemline and swept into the cathedral train. Scattered motifs of lace decorated the train. The headpiece was a derby ? hat accented with lace and pearls - with an organza brim with an I attached pouf, pencil-edged, finger ; tap-length of silk illusion. She carried - a silk- cascade bouquet of white and " mauve roses interspersed with gyp I sophfla and English ivy. ? - Ms. Lisa Bell of Albertson served - as maid of honor. She wore a Victorian stvle, formal-length gown of rose satin with puffed sleeves. She - carried a hand-spray of silk mauve ? roses sprinkled with babies'-breath I and ribbons. ? Bridesmaids were Mrs, Kaye S. Williams of Pink Hill, sister of the groom; Ms. Joy Albertson of Beula I ville. and Ms. Tracey Smith of Pink ; Hill, cousin of the bride. They wore - dresses identical to that of the maid I of honor and carried a hand spray of I silk mauve roses sprinkled with ? babies'-breath andxibbons. - . The flower girl was Abby Jo I Smith, cousin of the bride. She wore ' a mauve taffeta tea-length dress with ? a wide sash. She carried a wicker basket holding silk mauve and white ; roses and white flower petals that ? -she scattered down the aisle. The groom chose a formal tuxedo I of grey with a white shirt and grey vest, bowtie and miniature mauve rose boutonniere. Kenneth Sanderson served his son as best man. He wore a grey tuxedo with a white shirt, grey vest, bowtie and miniature mauve rose bouton niere. Groomsmen were Marty Williams of Pink Hill, brother-in-law of the groom, Avery Jarman of Pink Hill, brother of the bride: and Ricky Sanderson of Beulaville, brother ot the groom. They were dressed identically to the best man. The mother of the bride chose a street-length dress of pink crepe with lace inserts down the full length sleeve and bodice. The mother of the groom chose a street leneth mauve dress with lace inserts on the bodice. Both wore miniature mauve rose corsages. The wedding was directed by Mrs. Lynda Stroud of Pink Hill. Ms. Janice Byrd presided at the register and Ms. Ellen Houston was program attendant, both of Beulaville. Rice bags were given out by Kelly Smith of Pink Hill and Anitra Branyan of Virginia Beach, Virginia. Before the bride and grixpn left the church, their guests joined them in releasing a multitude of burgundy and white helium-filled balloons. The bride is a graduate of East Duplin High School and Lenoir Community College, where she earned an A.A.S. degree in business administration. She is employed by Thomas Turner, Accountant. The groom is a graduate of East Duplin High School and is employed by National Spinning Co., Inc. of Beulaville. After a wedding trip to Williams burg, Virginia, the couple will reside at Route 2, Pink Hill. Cake Cutting Following the rehearsal on November 1, a cake-cutting given by the bride's parents, was held at the church. The wedding cake was decorated with mauve and white rosebuds. A flowing fountain was also used. Ms. Zelda Smith of Mount Olive, aunt of the bride, served the wedding cake. The punch was served by Mrs. Jackie Branyan of Virginia Beach, Virginia, cousin of the bride. Also assisting were: Mrs. Linda Rhodes, Mrs. Joyce Tyndall, Mrs. JoAnn Jones, Mrs. Beth Chltty and Mrs. Ruby Mae Smith. Other re freshments served were fruit and vegetable trays, Mexican meatballs, pastry cups of chicken salad, lemon and cherry fillings, open-fa.-cd sand wiches, sausage balls, beef ball with . assorted crackers, drummettes, orange balls, lady fingers, tempt-me truffles, mints, pickles and nuts. Other Coarteelee On September 21, a bridal luncheon was given by Mrs. Joyce Tyndall of Kinston at the Ullage Green Tea House. On September 27, a floating miscellaneous shpwer at Smith's Presbvterian Oiiirch in Pink Hill was given by Mrs. Linda Rhodes, Mrs. Geraldine Tucker, Mrs. Jo Ann Jones, Mrs. Donna Smith and Mrs. Nell Rogers. On October 4, a miscellaneous shower at Lyman Fire Department was given by Mrs. Peggy Sanderson, Mrs. Janet Eubanks,, Mrs. Bma Grey Walton and Mrs. Kaye S. Williams. On October 12, a lingerie shower was given by Ms. Lisa Bell, Mrs.; Kaye S. Williams, Ms. Joy Albert son and Ms. Tracey Smith at the Bell home. On October 19. a barbecue was given bv the groom's parents adQ Lyman Fire Department. Organizational Meeting Dec. 2 For Duplin Hospice There will be an organizational meeting for Hospice in Duplin County on Monday, Dec. 2 at 7:30 p.m. This meeting will be held in the auditorium at James Sprunt Tech nical Institute in Kenansville. Judi Lund, executive director for Hospice of North Carolina, will be the guest speaker. The meeting is sponsored by Home Health and Hospice Care, Inc. For more information, contact Phyllis Hardy at 658-5083 or 1-800-722-3842. Hi?pice. What is it? Perhaps in the past few months it is a term you have heard frequently. Hospice is a program that provides support and care to terminally ill patients and their families during theTinal stages of the disease. Terminal illness knows no bounds of race, sexi or financial status, and it is important ihat support be available to both patients and families during this difficult time. 'Hospice is a concept ? a way of caring for those who are suffering. The word derives from a Latin word meaning "a wayfare for weary travelers." The term originated in the Middle Ages when the monks provided havens of rest for those traveling to the religious crusades. Dame Cicely Saunders started the hospice movement in 1967, when she opened St. Christopher's Hospice in London. The first hospice in the U.S. was started in 1974 in New Haven, Connecticut. Today there are over 1,000 hospices providing care in the U.S. and a large number are being developed. What is hospice care today? There are several kinds of hospice care. St. Christopher's Hospice in London is an inpatient facility. Terminal pa tients move into this hospice building to live until they die. Restrictions regarding visitation, food, etc. that normally govern insti tutional care are waivered and families are free to come and go as necessary. Another type of hospice care is provided through an inpatient ward at a hospital. As with the free standing hospice, restrictions are waivered for this unit and hospice care is done on this ward. The third means of hospice care, the most popular, and (he type that will be offered in this county is in the patient's own home. Historically, dying at home has come "full circle" and more and more people are expressing desires for arrangements as such. Support and care will be given to the patient and family within the comfort of their home. In hospice care, it takes team effort to provide the care necessary to assure quality of life. Who is a part of that team and what are their roles? First of all, (he patient and family are treated as a unit. Patients with terminal illness are as diverse in their values and lifestyles as any other group of people. Their physi cal, spiritual and emotional needs remain unique throughout the final life phase. Patients are encouraged to express their priorities so that needs can be best met. Family members are encouraged to parti cipate in the patient's care as much as possible. The physician plays a very im nitrtonl rulp in hivcntpp pflfp Hp generally refers the patient to hospice care, and if the referral comes from another source, he must give his consent for hospice care. The doctor is a key member of the hospice interdisciplinary team and provides the essential contributions of reviewing the patient's diagnosis and status, prescribing medication and treatment for symptom relief, ' participating in patient care con ferences, and provides overall medical supervision. The nurse involved in hospice care is responsible for assessing patient needs and providing direct nursing care as needed. The nurse is available to the patient and family 24 hours, seven days a week. A social worker is an important member of the hospice care team. The social worker will also make an initial assessment to determine the patient and family's psychosocial needs, and can work with that family to provide counseling and to coordi nate community resources. The patient's minister can also provide spiritual counseling for the patient and family. If there is no affiliation or preference, hospice will provide a minister if requested. Volunteers are an important part of hospice care, and can be utilized in many different ways. In hospice care, volunteers are essential in the provision of quality care. Let's look at some of the ways volunteers can be utilized. First, many volunteers prefer to do direct patient service. With this kind of volunteer work, services are rendered to both patients and fami lies in a way that supports keeping that patient at home. Some of the services ihese volunteers might pro vide include silting with a patient to provide respite time for the family members to run errands, read to patient, household chares ? what ever (he patient and family need. Volunteers who choose to provide direct patient service in hospice must complete a specially designed train ing session, and individual interview with the director of the hospice program. Another way one might serve is as a bereavement volunteer. Hospice affirms the need for continued support of the hospice family after the death of the patient and con tinues to be available to that family for as long as there is a need. These volunteers are also mandated to complete the training and interview. Hospice care cannot be an indi vidual task. To be done in the most productive manner and one so as to assure quality of life requires team effort. It's everyone working to gether to make the road less lonely. ?? _ Celebrate Golden Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. Eugene Small of Route 1, Pink Hill, were honored with a reception celebrating their golden wedding anniversary on Sunday, November 3. The reception was held at the Veterans oi Foreign Wars Hut in Pink Hill and was hosted by their children, Mr. and Mrs. Robert B. Small Sr. of Kinston, and Mr. and Mrs. Frederick E. Small Sr. of Virginia Beach, Vireinia. Approximately 115 guests attended. They were greeted by the couple's son and daughter-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Robert B. Small Sr. Mrs. Betty Sue Cecchini of Pink Hill, niece of the couple, presided at the guest register. Refreshments were served by Mrs. Barbara Davis of Pink Hill and Mrs. Gara Barwick of Deep Run. Punch was served by Mr. and Mrs. Frederick E. Small, son and daughter-in-law of the couple. 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