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Extension Home Economic News PrenuptlaJ Plu Love may be wonderful the second time around, but it can also be more complicated, especially if the new union involves children and property from earlier marriages. As a result, some couples are making prenuptial agreements. Among the issues that can be solved with a prenuptial agreement are these: How will assets or debts from a previous marriage be handled? Who will be appointed guardian of each child? How will property, including the principal residence, be distributed to heirs when one or both spouses die? Who gets the family heirlooms? You will need to make your agreements before the marriage ceremony, and both parties will want to be represented by an attorney. Review the agreement periodically and make changes as needed. When Children Fight When your children start annoying each other, what should you do? Well, don't do anything at first. Often children can settle their own squabbles, and that is good. After all, the kids won't always have you around as a moderator, so they need to learn how to get along with each other on their own terms. If things start to get too violent, though, you will need to step in and separate them. And you might want to isolate them from each other for awhile. Send each one to a different room for a cooling-off period. Keep in mind that you can't keep children from fighting. It is all part of sibling rivalry, but you can try to help make life easier for all your children. Try to make each child feel that he's special. Treat each one as a unique person and give each child some individual attention. -If pos sible, give each child some space and possessions of his own. That may help to cut down on some of the family feuds. Thinking Thin la Important In Weight Loss There is more to losing weight than eating fewer calories. You have to learn to think thin, too. This means that as you change your eating habits, you should usd imagery to picture yourself in new roles or situations. No doubt about it. Mental rehearsal can be useful for getting a picture of how a thin person behaves. Imagine yourself going to a size 10 rack and trying on clothes that fit, or imagine going to a family dinner and not overeating. Then try to get involved in activities that take you outside of yourself. Instead of dwelling on the difficulties of losing weight, get involved in activities that you like and that can give you a chance to prove how effective you are. Volun teer at the local hospital, renew an old acquaintance or take a course in something that interests you. Next, take care of some of the other problem areas of your life. Consider taking classes in' stress management or time management. Or get involved in ? serious, or ganized exercise program. And by all means, strive to improve your self-esteem. Perhaps you previously thought of yourself as a person who was weak-willed or poorly motivated about weight. Right now, today, start thinking of yourself as a person who knows how to manage weight. Then, if you have a set-back, don't feel bad. That's what being human is all about. Just go right back to your low-calorie eating plan. And get right back to your new self-image, too. Care of Grass Brass trays, wall hangings and coffee pots are usually pretty easy to take care of. Usually a regular dusting and an occasional washing in lukewarm water is all the care that brass requires. Note that 1 said luke warm water. You should never use hot water on brass. Many brass objects are lac quered to prevent tarnish. Hot water can loosen lacquer, causing it to peel. Once this happens, you will have to remove the lacquer with a thinner before you can retackle the tarnish problem. If brass needs special attention, you can remove soft particles by scraping with a wooden spoon, plastic scrubber or rubber spatula. Then wash with a luke warm, mild detergent water. Simple oxidation usually responds to commercial brass cleaners. Or, you can make your own brass cleaner by combining one part non-sudsy ammonia to two parts denatured alcohol and two parts of distilled water. Add enough whiting to make a thin paste. If whiting isn't familiar to you, you can buy it at art, paint and hardware stores. Once your bass object is cleaned, apply a thin coat of tung oil to give it a soft luster, or cause a clear acrylic or lacquered spray. Remember, it tarnish should penetrate the finish, you will have to remove the lacquer before you can tackle the tarnish. Baying Clothes for Someone Else Buying clothes for someone else may not be as easy as it sounds. But, you can avoid some pitfalls by planning ahead. One way to be a smart shopper is to get the person to talk about what clothing styles and colors he likes bert. Listen to what he says. After all, you are shopping for him, not yourself. As you shop, think about the person you are buying for and try to answer these questions: Does he need this? Will this item fit into his wardrobe? Woud he choose this color or style? Be especially careful of size and fit. Some clothes need to fit well. If you are selecting a dress shirt, you will need to know collar size and sleeve length. If it is pants you are buying, you will need to know waist and inseam sizes. If you are shopping for someone who lives close by, suggest window shopping together. If the person sees something he likes, ask him to try it on. Then ask the clerk to hold the article. There are some clothing items that are just hard to buy for other people, so you might want to steer clear of these. For example, some men are particular about ties and socks. Also find out if the person you are buying for has any allergies. It would be a shame to buy a wool shirt or sweater for someone who is allergic to wool. A -<ther way to solve the clothing que:,. * ;s to use a gift certificate. Just bv are the certificate is large enough to pay for the item you want the person to buy. For Efficiency And Economy Use efficient bulbs that produce the most light?lumens?for the amount of energy consumed? watts. Remember the formula: Effi ciency = Light output (Lumens(di vided by Energy Input (Watts). * * * Savings also come to consumers who look for biilbs that last longer. Many consumers have found a good buy in lighting to be the new 8<j>ft white light bulbs from Syl vania. These are guaranteed by the company to last five percent longer than shorter-life bulbs without sac rificing light output. They bIbo cost the satae as those shorter life bulbs. The bulbs are available in wattages ranging from 25 to 100. Classified Ads MULTI-FAMILY YARD SALE - Back room Turnar'i Rastaurant. Sat., Dae. 7?:00 a.m. until 12-6-1t-pd TWO APARTMENTS FOR RENT 2-BR. LR, Kit. & bath. Baulavilla. Call Avon Oil Co.. 298 3950 12-26-4t-pd QUILTS FOR SALE - 1 Double Wedding Ring, 1 Star, 1-Pinwhe*l All hand quiltad Ruffled pillow* Alao 1-ua#d atarao. 1 u?ad full-aii* bookca** bad, quilt atand 1 farm pump. Call 298-4943 or 298-3369. 12-12-2t-c-ma LOST - 2 Klttona, 6 mo* old. On* mala with whita on paws, under neck. One fe male tabbv If ?*en pleeae call 296-0861. Reward. 12-6-H-pd-gr FOR SALE 1979 Mercurv Monarch Grey, 6-cvl AC, new tire*, runs good, stereo cassette. Call 296-0451 CTF ? LOST - BASSET HOUND DC Airport area. 2-vear-old female, blue collar. Reward 293 5181 or 296 0034 12-5 1t-nc Legal Notices NORTH CAROLINA DUPLIN COUNTY NOTICE OF SALE As Administratrix of the Estate of Hattie Jamas, de ceased. I will offer for sale for cash on Saturday. 0#c,71b" 7 1986. *t lf>* hour 0 A M.. at the residence of the late Hettie Jamas, Route 2, Rosa Hill. N.C., thefollowing articles of personal property All household and kitchen furniture 1 -1976 2-door Pontiac Any other personal property of the late Hettie James Advertised this the 4th day of November, 1985. Pearl Jamas Oavions. Administratrix of the Estate of Hettia James. deceased Route 2. Rose Hill. NC 28468 Phillips & Phillips Attorneys At Law P.O. Box 727 Kanansvilla. NC 28349-0727 12-6-4I-PAP-28 NORTH CAROLINA OUPLIN COUNTY NOTICE OF ADMINISTRATION The undersigned. Mary Brodgen Mullla having uuell (lad at Executrix af tha Eatata of Troy Dawitt Mullla. dacaaaad. lata of Ouplln County. North Carolina, thia ia to noflfy all paraona having claims agalnat aald aatata to praaant than) to tha under - aignad on or bafora tha 14th day of May, 1966. or thia Notica will ba plaad In bar of thair racovary. All paraona indabtad to j aaid aatata will plaaaa make immediate paymant to tha undaralgnad. Thia Sth day of Novambar. 1985 Mary Brodgan Mullla. Exacutrlx of tha Eatata of Troy Dawitt Mullla P O. Box 355 Kananavilla. NC 28349 William E. Craft Attornav at Law P.O. Box 6 I i Kananavilla. NC 28349 12 5 4t WEC NOTICE OF ADMINISTRATION Having qualifiad on the 12th day of Novambar. 1985, aa Adminiatratrlx of tha Eatata of Walter R. ISam] Davia, dacaaaad. lata of Duplin County. North Caro lina. thia ia to notify all paraona, firma and corporationa having claima againat the decadent to exhibit tha aama to tha undaraigned Lou Anna Davia Powara. Adminiatratrix. on or bafora tha 21et day of May. 1986. or thia notica will ba plaadad in bar of thair racovary. All paraona. firma and corporationa indebted to the eatata ahould maka immediate payment. This tha 12th day of No vember, 1985. Lou Ann Davia Powara. Adminiatratrix Estate of Walter R. ISam] Davia P O Box 188. Beulavllle. NC 28518 Phillipa & Phillips Attorneys at Law PO Box 727 Kananavilla. NC 28349 12-12 4t-PBP PUBLIC NOTICE Notice is hereby given that tlia audit of all County Funds for the year ended June 30, 1985. is on file with the County Finance Office, Room 221. Courthouse Annex. Kenansville. NC This notice is being done in accordance with Federal Revenue Sharing Regula tions This the 27th day of No-1 vember, 1985. Russell Tucker Finance Officer 12 5-15-c-RT NORTH CAROLINA DUPLIN COUNTY NOTICE OF EXECUTRICES The undersigned Elizabeth M. Hinaa and Jannia Q Kitchin, having aualifiad on November 12. 1986. at Co Exacutricaa of tha Eatata of Lula Quinn Parker, lata of Duplin CountY. this ia to notify all paraona having claims against tha Estate to present them to the under signed Elizabeth M Hinas or Jennie Q. Kitchin. in care of Allan. Hooten & Hodges. P A., 106 South McLewean Street. Kinston. N.C. 28601, on or before June 5. 1985, or this Notice will be pleaded in bar of their recovery. All parsons indebted to tha Estate are requested to make immediate payment to Eliza bath M. Hinas or Jannia Q. Kitchin. in care of Allen, Hooten & Hodgas, P.A., 106 South McLewean Street. Kinston, N.C. 28501. This the 5th day of De cember. 1985. ESTATE OF LULA QUINN PARKFR Elizabeth M. Hinas end Jennie Q. Kitchin, Co-Executrices Allen, Hooten & Hodges. PA. 106 S. McLewean St. Kinston. NC 28501 12-26 4t c-AH&H NORTH CAROLINA DUPLIN COUNTY FILE NO. 86-CvD-540 IN THE GENERAL COURT OF JUSTICE DISTRICT COURT DIVISION NOTICE OF SERVICE OF PROCESS BY PUBLICA TION JANET LEIGH GORE FEDERSPIEL. * Plaintiff VS OANNY RAY FEDERSPIEL. Defendant TO: DANNY RAY FEDER SPIEL PLEASE TAKE NOTICE that a pleading seeking relief against you has been filed in the above-entitled civil action. The nature of the relief being sought is as follows: The Plaintiff seeks to obtain a divorce on the grounds of one year's sepa ration. You are required to make defense to such pleading no later than January 14, 1986; and upon your failure to do so the party seeking service against you will apply to the Court for the relief sought. This the 27th day of November, 1985. PHILLIPS & PHILLIPS BY: David T. Phillips Attorney for the Plaintiff P.O. Box 727 Kenansville, NC 28349-0727 Telephone: 919-296-0215 12-19-3t-P&P-42 Next Day Service Quilts - Blankets Bedspreads Smith Cleaners Warsaw.N.C. 214 N. Front St. Phone 293-4416 I^/s?iitnTinas^O * % I Family Restaurant I Pink Bill NX. December 10th 6 P.M. <4 I ? X?l I Special y Senior Citzens Nile > Fish and Shrimp Plates S4.00 Ea..j Tea To* Included. Everyone Welcome Bring The Kids ! "Reduced - Must Sell" For Sale By Omar - Well Martaad brick house ?ar Janes Km SM 3 BR, 2 Ba. LB., D.R, breakfast area ant 2 car garage. Hanhwod floors wtt canal and all oranic lalhs. Electric heat an! i cntral A.C. Rage, Refrigvator and D.W. ?4a,tBD Cal 2MB or (7DD9SMZ72 I PIANO TUNING AND REPAIR Jimmy C. West Registered Piano Technician Box 502. Warsaw Kenansville - 296 0219 WELDING SHOP 1 Mile North of Kenaneville. Hwy. 111 Bolte. Steal. Welding 6 Cutting Supplies JAMES HARPER Ph. 296 1807 F 4 J SALVAGE Cabinets. Doors, Windows. Bath Fix tures. Furniture. Tile. Ranges. Heat. Air. Water Heaters. I ots Mora. F 4 J SALVAGE 2717 W. Vernon Aye.. Kinston 522-0806 Nhh-t>>hrinip-Oyfclcr* ^niull l.inc Ot Croc cues call or come by Bill SMITH SEAFOOD MARKET Main St 568-4193. Pink Hill. Open 8:30 6. M F. Sat 8:30 5 Season's Greetings and best wishes fora happy and safe 1986. i Your Nationwide agent wishes you the happiest of holidays, and a new year full of health and joy. D.L. Scott Rt. 2, Scott's Store, Mt; Olive Phone: 658-5222 < ? ^ Ethro Hill, Highway?U, Pink Hill Phone: 468-3310 HI NATIONWIDE 1 M INSURANCE Nationwide is on your aide Nationwide Mutuai Inauranca Company Nationwide Mutual Fire Insurance Company Nationwide Life Insurance Company Home office Columbus Ohio BUILDING MATERIALS - - ? - I M - Headquarters: r ? ? BUILDING SUPPLIES ? ROOFING ? CARPET ? FLOOR COVERING ? HARDWARE Toll Free No. 1-800-682-0075 BLIZZARD BUILDING SUPPLY 405 Walston Ave KINSTON I THE KINSTON OB-GYN ASSOCIATES, P.A. Thank you for your visiting us over the years. We now have a toll-free * 1 number 1-800-682-6802 for your convenience. H. Fleming Fuller, M.D. Sam L. Parker Jr., M.D. 1 Rudolph 1. Mintz Jr., M.D. Samuel J. Gilmore, M.D. NC FRESH VEGETABLE I., GROWERS ASSOC. TRADE SHOW, SCHOOL CMEK X COMMERCIAL EXHHH70R5 Oecember 12, 19& 5 8??-5w f LENOIR CO. EXTENSION OFFICE hC II, Irii. SmMi <A \Un?c* IPEgpgrcLL -(* iCARPtTS^S YEAR j ? Direct from the Mill Prices <s? ? ? We Carry Our Own Accounts ? No Waiting ? Over 300 Rolls of ** Vinyl 8t Carpet in Stock ? Our Own Professional 0 Installation ? Lowest Prices ? ? ;?We're Bigger Than We Look, | Displaying 28,000 Sq. Ft. of # Furniture & Carpet in a 14,000 Sq. Ft. Store ?? ? I L REDERICK I L Furniture Company | 1 Carpet. Furniture, Appttancee. Vinyl Flooring, Well Covering, 01ft Acceuor.ee I , Iwy. 117 Hose Bill ftoit 289-3448 I %
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