#' Yancey Extession Service
r And About
Homemakers
By Mary M* Deyton
What are Little Children
Made Os?.. Rearing children is
a tough job. It takes energy,
maturity, knowledge, and per
haps, most of all, guts.
Knowledge can come from
understanding the growth and
development patterns of child
ren, homemakers learned in at
tending meetings of Extension
Homemakers Clubs this month.
For example, parents need
to realize that growth is a per
sonal matter; that each child
grows in his own way and at his
own rate. If there is one thing
a three-year-old child can't be,
it's a five-year-old.
This growth oomes from with
in. Parents can encourage or
hinder, but the driving forces
'Out Our Way'
By Mrs. Jim Arrowood
Mrs. Tillie Brooks and daugh
ter Dena horn Hardin, Ky. are
visiting her other daughter,
Marla, up on South Toe.
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Mr. arid Mrs. Frank Fox and
daughter,Mrs. James Fox went
to Winston Salem Hosp.this week.
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Mr. JimArrowood is back in
Johnson City Hospital.
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Mr. and Mrs. Joe Kennedy aid
Mrs. Maude McLean of Johnson
City were weekend guests of Ida
Byrd.
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Mr. and Mrs. Roy Laws and
daughter Norma Fox visited the
Arrow oods.
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Mr. and Mrs. Frank Fox and
Mrs. Claudine Arrowood went
to Johnson City on Sunday.
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The Woman's Christian So
ciety of Boring's Chapel Metho
dist Church met with Mrs. Jim
Arrowood Friday and a very in
spiring program was given by
Mrs.Harmie Briggs and Mrs. Lou
ella Honeycutt on Education.
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Mrs. Basil L,Harrin from Ft.
Worth, Texas is visiting friends
in Tennessee and Asheville. She
is Mrs. Arro wood's Aunt.
News Report
From Fairview
Rev. Bill Grindstaff delivered
an interesting and inspiring mes
sage to the meirbeis of Fair
view Baptist Church on Sunday.
Mr. Eric Ganley has been dis
charged from Spruce Pine Hos
pital and is doing nicely,
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Mr. and Mrs. Reid Ballew
have been visiting their son and
family in Greensboro, N.C. and
will be going from there to Dan
ville, Va. to spend some time
with their daughter and son-in
law, Mr. and Mrs. Bobby Walton.
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Miss Lizie McMahan who
has been in Spruce Pine Hosp.
for several days has been taken
to Memorial Mission Hospital
in Asheville.
Ray Cook of Dysartsville,
N.C,, formerly of this section,
was at Fairview Church Satur
day night and he and his fami
ly did some beautiful singing,
3|o|o|e
Mis. Scott Thor of Charlotte
was visiting her mother, Mrs.
Mae Hus kins of this community
last Sunday,
Dean’s list
Asheville-Buncombe T echnl
cal Institute announces that
Unda K. Morrow of Burnsville
has been placed on the Dean's
List for the summer quarter.
Students must attain a 3. 3 qua
lity point average in subjects
and be recommended by their
respective department heads.
that push a child to grow physi
cally, emotionally and intellec
tually are carried inside him.
So the parent's job is to clear
the track, guide the child with
loving acceptance and—relax.
Parents need to realize that
a child's growth is gradual and
orderly, but uneven, and that
growth has certain characteris
tics common at particular staj^.
For example, from birth to
two years, a child's main con
cern is trust. He is completely
dependent on others but if his
needs are met, he learns to
trust his environment.
The two-year-old, howeveij
wants to know "will you let me
be me?" He's curious which is
fortunate, because he has a lot
to learn. He's also possessive
and changeable. He may cla
g mor for a toy and indifferently
toss it aside when he gets it.
The two-year-old needs the
security of certain limitations
placed on his behavior, but he
needs enough freedom to deve
lop his will and not always to
expect defeat.
The three-year-old is fairly
peaceful. He generally tries
to please because he likes adult
approval and will seek atten -
tion and sympathy from adults.
He's more civilized than a two
year old.
The four-year-old is usually
bossy and boastful, aks ques -
tions and talks constantly. He
has a strong need for corrp an
ions hip and will alibi to protect
himself and his friends when
they get into trouble.
The five-year-old wants to
try out his ideas. He is a joy
to adults, he loves to talk with,
run errands for and help his par
ents. He's sensitive to praise,
dependable, serious and busi -
ness like and likes to feel inde
pendent. But when he's with
his friends, he needs supervision.
He tattles, hits, pushes and is
a poor group member.
Knowing what behavior to
expect from a child at certain
ages may help parents offer
guidance in a constructive,help
ful manner.
For mare information on
growth and development of the
young child, contact the Home
Economics Extension Agents,
County Courthouse, 682-2113.
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Mrs. Jerry E. Clevenger
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Miss Nancy Gibson, daughter
of Dr. and Mrs. SmithH.Gibson
of Covington, Ky. and Mr. Jer
ry E. Clevenger, son of Mr. and
Mb. I. E. Clevenger of Burns -
ville, N.C. were married Au
gust 26 at 4:00 p. m. in the Firct
Baptist Church, Burnsville . Rev.
Harold McDonald conducted the
ceremony.
The bride wore a floor-length
dotted swiss gown with butterfly
sleeves and skirt ruffle trimmed
in venise lace. A matching
broad rimmed hat trimmed in
a long veil completed her at
tire, and floweß were daisies
made up in a nosegay bouquet
and surrounded by pink roses.
Maid of honor for the bride
was Miss Ruth Ann Gibson, her
sister, of Covington, Ky. She
wore a floor-length floral cot- ,•
t ton gown and carried a nosegay j
of multi-colored daisies and
mums.
Mr. I. E. Clevenger was
best man for his son. Usheß
were Mr. John Cahill of Cleve
land, Tenn. , Mr. Larry Gibson
of Covington, Ky., Mr Billy
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Hudgens of Laurens, S.C. and
Mr. Tim Warren of Marion,N.C,
A reception followed the ce
remony in the fellowship hall
of the chinch.
Following a honeymoon trip
to Myrtle Beach, the couple
will reside in Kaiseßlautem,
Germany where the groom is
serving with the U.S. Army.
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Mr. and Mb. Ralph Ogle of
Rt. 6, Burnsville announce the
marriage of their daughter Ca
thy to Bobby Silveß, son of Mr.
and Mb. Bill Silveß of Bums -
,«s=tf?lle, N.C. The wedding
place in Spartanburg, S.C. oir
September 3.
The bride and groom are
both graduates of East Yancey
High School. Bobby is employ
ed with the Northwestern Bank
in Statesville where they make
their home.
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Miss Marquita Jane Buchanan
and Robert Gary Gibbs were mar
ried Saturday, September 1 at
8 o'clock p, m. in Pine Branch
Baptist Church, Spruce Pine.
The bride is the daughter of
Mr. and Mrs. Maurice Buchanan
of Spruce Pine. The groom is
the son of Mrs. Ruth Gibbs of
Burnsville.
Attendants of the bride were
Sandy Buchanan of Spruce Pine
and Debbie Hunter of Charlotte.
Sandy Boyd of Spruce Pine was
the flower girl. The matron of
honor was Mrs. Lynn Fry of Char
lotte. All were attired in orchid
and purple floral dresses with
matching wide brim hats.
BOOK CORNER
Krs Glodys Colette f
The Last Years Os A Rebel
by Elizabeth Salter. 1967. Pp.
203. Houghton Mifflin Co. ,
Boston, Mass.
"Dame Edith does liven tip
the English scene a bit. " So
spoke the English critics of the
'• modem poet, Dame Edith Sit
well, concerning a literary
feud with this most controver
sial lady of letters. The glow
-1 ing accounts of her battles with
the press, in which she gave no
quarter and expected none, are
related in The Last Years Os A
Rebel, by Elizabeth Salter,
Dame Edith's young Australian
secretary.
In sprite of Dame Editlds
scathing remarks, she reserved
her snobbery as a weapon
against the snobbish; it had no
bearing on her affections which
could be gained as readily by
a housemaid as by a duchess.
Surrounded at her eccentric
• tea parties by the great and not
so great—from a manicurist to
W a bank clerk—she entertained,
she listened, and she commen
ted. At no time did she talk
down to her guests. Basically,
Dame Edith was a very human
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The ushers were Mart Thomp
sen of Salisberry, Marvin Buch
anan of Spruce Pine, Charles
Robinson, Bill Randolph and
Charles Henry Phillip* of Burns
ville. Ring Bearer was Chris
Hollifield of Spruce Pine and
the best man was Keith Harris
of Micaville. v/
A reception followed the ce
remony in the fellowship hall of
the church. Mb. Marcella Pit
man and Mrs. Juanita Ellis, aunts
of the bride, served at the re -
ception.
After a wedding trip to Dar
lington and Myrtle Beach, S.C.
the newlyweds will live in Burns
ville, N.C.
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woman who, after so many
years of fame, was still reach
ing out for sympathy and af
fection.
Moreover, fame had not come
easily—only after a lifetime of
battle far recognition. The re
sult was that it endeared her to
all struggling young writers and
artists. As always, when she
came upon what she regarded
as great talent, Dame Edith
put her offers of help into prac
tice, and promoted their en -
deavers at her famous tea par
ties, luncheons and exhibitions.
Although Dame Edith was
most unpredictable and a crea
ture of contradictions, the Eng
lish loved her all the more.
They saw her as a character
who refused to conform, thus
evoking their seal of approval.
It goes without saying that
* Thareau had her (as well as
others) in mind when he stated:
'lf a man does not keep pace
with his companions, perhaps
it is because he hears a differ
ent drummer. Let him step to
the music which he hears, how
ever measured and far away. "
THE YANCEY JOURNAL SEPTEMBER 20, 1973 1
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Mrs. Robert Gary Gibbs
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