§ffsskFor And About Homemakers: Child Discipline Is Full - TimeWob During January, Univer sity Television will feature a number of stimulating ideas and helpful suggestions for homemakers. NOW, a weekly tclemagazine produced by Ruth G. Sheehan, University television editor, will present: The Berry Basket Man and ■ Patriot Peach Pie. flj January 7, Magic Meal,* January 14 4-H Cooking Skills I and Wffafs Bugging YourH Kitchen? January 21--How E I J[artMl||j| J DERICK LANCE McCURRY B Derick Lance McCurry, ■ infant son of Jimmy L. and I Anna Hughes McCurry of I Micaville died December 25th ■ in an Asheville hospital. I Graveside services were H held Friday, December 26, atß the Young Cemetery inH Micaville. ■ MATTIE B. SILVER i Mrs. Mattie B. Silver, 95,1 of Bakersville and formerly of I Burnsville, died Wednesday ■ in a Spruce Pine Hospital. She I was the widow of Cleve Silver ■ who died in 1966 and had I been making her home with a I daughter, Mrs. Irene Sparks I in Bakersville for the past! nine years. 1 Surviving in addition to I Mrs. Sparks are another I daughter, Mrs. Lucille Harrell! of Kingsport. Tennessee; onel son, Albert Silver of Spruce I Pine; one brother, Fredl Bodford of Burnsville; 81 grandchildren and 7 great-1 grandchildren. 1 Funeral services were held E at 11 a.m. Saturday ini Windom Methodist Church of I which she was a member. I Revs. Norton Craig, Don! Turman, Jeff Willis and! Clarence Buchanan officiated! and burial was in the Hyatt! Cemetery. , I MURPHY HIGGINS Murphy Higgins, 63, ofl Burnsville died Sunday night I at his home after a short I illness. He and his wife had I operated Higgins Rest Home I for the past several years. | Surviving are the wife, I Elsie English Higgins; two I daughters, Mrs. Willorie I Sands of Michigan and Mrs. j Christine Angel of Burnsville; one son, Dennis Higgins of Asheville; a foster daughter, Mrs. Madeline Billings of Maryland; a foster son, Leonard English of Philadel-I phia, Pa.; three sisters. Miss Margie Higgins and Mrs. Monnie Hensley of Burnsville and Miss Liddi Hensley of New York; four brothers, Joe and Lee Higgins of Asheville, Shelby and Luther Higgins of Newport News, Va.; 13 grandchildren and one great] grandchild. Funeral services were held at 2 p.m. Wednesday in the chapel of Holcombe Brothers Funeral Home. Revs. Jack McKinney and Richard Buch anan officiated and burial was in the Briggs Cemetery at Jacks Creek. | r-zrt j I CHIN HAIR REMOVED ' J PERMANENTLY i Stop tweezing those I unfeminine hairs from j your chin! i Let our | world-famous Kree I Dermatron method re move them perman-i ently. t Our accredited Specia list will make a personal analysis for you. . . . without charge or ob ligation. Just phone for an appointment. ELECTROLYSIS CENTER Os Yancey County On The Burnsville Square Phone 682-6711 or 682-3709 Mrs. Carmela Mandala Free is Banking and Pork Casserole,* January 28 (all Channels 7:30 p.m. Wednes day and 3:00 p.m. Fridays). DISCIPLINE Regardless of what age our- children are, one of the .most difficult jobs we as parents have is setting limits on the children’s behavior. James E. Van Horn, As sistant Professor, Family and MEWVtWM 11 1 rwi Lt) we mu be OPEN M dry. new .MB . p Vhj! T£WZ.£.FABRIC SOFTNeR*^ m)«MOIL ■ Iml-i IV aw ik detergent LIMIT ONE uMTV* fv $1.30 OK. tv\£)9JE \ PI I J x M JTr&.QUART JRR -"■Ml tP ll' FRENI'S.- J6qz..p>ox ■.. ■ NVJMHSDaW i T ijraiiit limit one uhth ft moße order . W aa, m m ▼jpr" y &J Hi —KRftFTSP£C(ALSr— ] MATO chips 9/t 7? ■AmxSm 1 ! f AMERicftNSiM6LEsa.9^ fiffifiSSiß ■■' 1 mm CR£m CHEES6 iggwi|S¥ g catsup foi cftßNAnoM..TftiL^. w^ vS n jyiaMl ®Ss?si. s^gtSuiil&i^ ( Bs v mfi&k nfpiWsi* AVCHEESE HALLS ro&« bakepcookies JLIT Child Development Extension Pennsylvania State Univer sity, suggests that “once limits or rules are set, we are faced with the equally difficult task of determining what to do if a rule or limit is broken. A thirteen-year old girl knew that she was to come home immediately after school. She knew the rule afid several times when the rule was "almost” broken, she t was told that if she broke it i again she would not be 1 allowed to use the telephone i that night. 1 One Wednesday night the girl failed to cone home directly after school. Whets she finally did arrive home, her mother v&ry calmly informed her of the rule and the consequence and the fact that the girl had broken the rule. That night she would not be permitted to use the telephone. No anger, no tears, and all went well until after supper. " ii* Homework time arrived. Silence from the girl’s bed room for one hour. Then in somewhat a state of panic the girl informed her mother that she did not remethbjfer to write down the English assignment. Poor girl! And she was having some trouble in English anyway. “Could I call Jane? She always knows what the English assignment is.” With that sentence the crisis occurred. The girl’s mother thought quickly about the English grade and told the girl to make it brief. When mother allowed the phone ' call, she fell into the trap. The girl was able to manipulate the parent into allowing her to use the telephone. There are times when a child breaks a rule and must suffer the consequence. But sometimes we don’t make certain that he or she does it. We set limits and conse quences but never follow through. In situations like that we don’t follow througj sometimes e der wlv Regardless of how stern-face we appear, if we don’t folio through, we lose much but ts child loses more. He or sh finds out that we really don mean what we say! PAGE 5