Opinion Page THE BRUNSWiacfeftAtON Edward M. Sweatt and Carolyn H. Sweatt Publishers Edward M. Sweatt Editor Susan Usher News Editor Terry Pope and Dori Gurganus Sto.U WriitTs Doug Rutter Sjxwts Editor Peggy Earwood OJJice Manager Carolyn H. Sweat t Adivrtistruj I~Hroctor Tlmberley Adams and Cecelia Gore .JUtvertising Representatives Dorothy Brennan and Brcnda Clemnions Moore ..Graphic Artists William Manning Pressrruui Lonnle Sprinkle Assistant Pressman Tracy Smith Photo Technician Phoebe Clemnions and Frances Sweatt Circulation PAGE 4-A, THURSDAY, DECEMBER 26, 1991 Does County Need Its Own Veterans' Officer? Sometimes You Can't Tell What Day It Is When you're in the newspaper business, sometimes you can't toll what (.lay it is. Hull's especially true during the holiday season. When I arrived at work last Wednesday, a note on my computer terminal said. "Today is Thursday." I could have shot the messenger, but instead I gritted my teeth and real ized it was the ugly tnith. Just keep the Christmas spirit, he thankful lor the reminder from my news editor and get to work, a voice told me. When I got in my car in Maco, i' was Wednesday. Hut when I arrived in Shallotte later it was Thursday. I had somehow lost an entire day had driven right past it but not real ly. The culprit is the holiday season. In order to keep the weekly newspa per on schedule, sometimes we have to throw Wednesday right out the window around here. I'm not com plaining. I like holidays, too. and plan to enjoy Christmas and New Year's days with the family. 1 just Terry f T Pope - ? want to I ilc a complaint with the board of tnistccs that's responsible for scheduling two holidays on back to back Wednesdays. litis week, we will have an even shorter schedule, lor New Year's Day is upon us and Christmas is still in the air. It can give a journalist a bad ease of jet lag, even when he's gone no further than the drink ma chine out by the fire station. 'Rial means we have three work ing days instead of the usual five to prepare for the Jan. 2 issue. It's like cramming a week of school into three days. Throw in some last minute Christmas shopping, plenty of eating, ami the college football bowl schedule and it doesn't leave much time. One must set priorities. When you're pulling out your hair at work, things are still normal else where. You return home and ITuirs day is still Thursday and Friday is still Friday. The television schedule doesn't change, you're still running low on cat food and things are piling up for you to do over the weekend. Finally, you get through Thursday, which is a Friday, and then comes Friday, which is a Monday. So on Friday we work a busy schedule at the newsroom while Fridays at other places during die holiday season tend to Ik slow, a time for office par ties, reflection, taking unused vaca tion unie and making of New Year's resolutions. School is out and most people are at the shopping centers. Some mornings I have awakened before the alarm sounds and couldn't tell what day it was. linn's what it feels like this week. As I lay there beneath the warm blankets, my mind tries to think ol what happened the ilay before so 1 ean tell il it's a work day t>r weekend, whether to get up or just sleep late. It's the strangest feeling. I've thought ot whai it must he like nol (o have to worry about what day it is. Like dogs. IX) you think they care or know what day it is? \\V have learned to not hko having our schedules changed. I guess I've fallen into that category. ux>. We want our parking space open when we get to work. We want to go to lunch on time and for the whistle to blow at 5:30 p.m. sharp so we can go home. We want a part of our lives to stay routine, to slay on schedule. We want the baby U? sleep when we sleep, the dog to ask for permission to go outside at some time other than 2 a.m. But lor now Thursday is Friday, Friday is Monday, and Monday is Tuesday. It takes some getting use to. Docs Brunswick County need its own veterans' service officer? That may be the more appropriate question to be asking, rather than the one we're hearing, i.e.. that of whether one must be a veteran to be the most qualified person to deal w ith veterans' affairs. The question of need came up about eight or so years ago when the veterans' service officer was about to retire. The county seriously consid ered closing the office, but bowed under an emotional onslaught. Local veterans organized and lobbied heavily for the office to remain in business. It was an election year and incumbents were seeking re-elec tion; the vets won. And one of the most vocal leaders of those lobbyists, a military retiree, got the job. Now that veterans' service officer has retired and the question must surface again ? in different times. Brunswick County's not exactly flush these days; it's looking for ways to tighten spending while maintaining essential services. Veterans want a service officer. It's more convenient, it's more per sonal. They will tell you that 90 out of 1 (XI counties have a full-time veter ans' serv ice officer and that Guilford County has two. They will tell you that, according to the U.S. Veterans Administration, there are approximately 5.990 veterans living in Brunswick County, plus dependents and survivors, and that they need a local serv ice office. They will tell you that veterans' benefits and compensation are the equivalent of a small industry in Brunswick County, with an estimated S4.85 million coming into the county during 19l)| alone. Add on the mul tiplier factor of your choice and there's a trickle-down effect of pre dictable and impressive impact. Veterans will tell you. very loudly and clearly, that Brunswick County has a "moral obligation" to maintain a veterans service office, that through their serv ice to the country veterans have earned that extra attention from county taxpayers. But there is more to the story . Emotions aside, other than added convenience, what does a local of fice provide that isn't already available to local veterans through some oilier means? To listen to some local veterans, you'd think there was no other agen cy out there a veteran can turn to for help. Yet. both the state and federal governments have agencies that do nothing but work with veterans, the Veterans Administration and the N.C. Department of Veterans Affairs. There are at least three major national veterans' organizations ? American Legion. Disabled American Veterans and Veterans of Foreign Wars ? that offer some forms of assistance to their members. That help may extend to special service days or even a mobile office. Plus, many other government agencies have veterans' affairs special ists ? from the financial aid offices of state-supported schools to state Employment Security Commission offices. And veterans' concerns also get the attention of our congressional delegation. The N'onh Carolina Dept. of Veterans Affairs has a district office in Wilmington. It is to serve an estimated 38,000 veterans living in District 4, which includes Brunswick, New Hanover. Columbus. Onslow, Pender and Bladen counties, as well as veterans' dependents and survivors. The district office is staffed with two service officers and two clerks. The senior scrvice officer will tell you that in an "ideal world" the two of ficers would only rarely deal directly with veterans, and would deal al most exclusively with county veterans' service officers, providing techni cal support and help w ith complicated or "problem" cases. But it's not a perfect world, in more ways than one. For fiscal year 1991, Brunswick County has budgeted $57,958 ? roughly half its contribution to the Brunswick County Public Library and almost SI, (XX) per veteran? in local money to operate the veterans 'ser vice office. It gets no state or federal money for that purpose. Meanwhile, New Hanover's 14,300 veterans are being served by the district office in Wilmington, at state expense. New Hanover County hasn't had a local veterans' scrvice officer in 15 years, though lobbying is currently under way to hire one. Somehow or another, the district's two service officers and two clerks manage to support service officers in five other counties while directly serving in New Hanover County alone more than twice the number of veterans we have in Brunswick County. Thai's with an officer going at least two days a monih to each of the other counties. Still, we're told Brunswick County needs a veterans' scrvice officer and an assistant or clerk to serve our much smaller population of veterans. But the numbers don't appear to justify that. It appears that many of those 6,(XX) veterans only have occasional need of a veterans' service of ficer. In November ? a month in which activity at the office showed an ac tual increase ? the activity report shows 1 10 requests for service in person ami 117 by telephone; incoming contacts ? 125 written and 52 "other," outgoing contacts ? 11 5 written and 58 "other". Disabled American Veterans, Veterans of Foreign Wars, American Legion ? these veterans' organization in the United States offer education and public information to help keep veterans and their dependents in formed of their rights and of benefits for which they might be eligible. Some of the organizations also offer direct help in obtaining benefits, either through m.tvicc clinics on special days, or in one case, a mobile of fice. Some have specialists who actually represent veterans in claims pro cedures. It seems that help for veterans is only a phone call or a short visit away? and might not necessarily involve a trip to Wilmington in every instance. A district service officer already makes two trips a month to Brunswick County, providing technical assistance to the service officer here and helping with more complex cases. Following the model used by ihc Social Security representative who visits the county each week, that tunc could be just as easily be spent in appointments with veterans whose concerns cannot be handled by mail or over the telephone or who can't get to Wilmington readily. To ask the question again. Docs Brunswick County need a veterans' service office? Brunswick County has other, more pressing needs; de mands lor services that would reach and benefit a much broader sector of the community. For that reason Brunswick County Commissioners ought to seriously consider downscaling, or perhaps, eliminating the vetcrans'servicc office. 3 The In-Laws Had Better Like Coconut f - ? . ? We did something right this year. Often the Christmas holiday peri (xi is one of frantic rushing for the two of us. You probably have experi enced this at some time in your own life. Usually by this time during the holidays, after trying to meet dead lines at work and at home, I'm stressed out and sick with the flu or a virus of some kind, which puts us even further behind. Then 1 get cold sores and look as miserable as 1 feel and take it all out on you-know-who. Rut not Chrisunas 1991. We de cided some tasks were going to get done sooner at home, some how. Susan Usher some way, and that wc were going to celebrate Christmas this year with the joy the occasion warrants. We made time to participate in a Christmas program at church. We mailed greeting cards in mid December ? although we had to skip ^ flfik v the personal notes inside to manage that trick. We purchased or made all gills well in advance, and wrapped them at least two weeks before the big day. Hie box to my sister and her family in Indiana arrival there with more than a week's leeway. We've got a few cookies baked for sharing, but we're not going to try to sec everybody we know over the holidays. Just during midwinter. Our home and yard are decorated and are as clean as they're going to get. We wouldn't wince if unexpect ed company showed up. In fact, we'd welcome it. I'll confess there was one short period when it didn't Ux>k like ev erything would gel done. Bui il all worked out, and we're not feeling much pressure. When we head to Don's parents for Christmas Day, the packages will include something I hadn't found lime to make in a number of Chrisl mases: a fancy cake. To be cxacl, a three-layer white cake with lemon cream Idling and seven-minute frost ing, mounded with scads of flaked coconut and decorated with cherries and lemon twists on top. Now, I just hope Don's family likes coconut. Here's Looking To A Better 1 992 If someone had asked me one year ago whal I'd be doing by Christmas of 199), you would not have heard me say thai I'd be mar ried, living on the North Carolina coast and working at a newspaper as a journalist. Many of you out there have done what 1 have: changed my life drasti cally (and for the better) within a short amount of lime. It helps if you have supportive, patient people around you at these times to help you get used to all the new things in your life. My husband and I have been get ting used to living with each other after many years of being single. Luckily, he's very patient with me. I'm getting used to living where there arc no hills, no movie theaters and loads of new rules, spccch pat terns and terminology to learn. But, these are differences that ev eryone gets used to once they have lived someplace for a while, and I, tcx), will grow accustomed to them. Having a husband who was born and raised here helps. It's like hav ing a reference encyclopcdia with you at all times. For me, the most bizarre thing was to start working at this newspa per. Without having a day of jour nalism or photography school under my belt, I found myself hired and doing very unusual things. I've encountered new issues and public officials, had to report on sewer projects, town ordinances and school programs. And none of them Dori Cosgrove Gurganus have anything to do with my famil iar home slate of Georgia! And in the midst of all this learn ing, I've made some pretty embar rassing bloopers. I've taken photos of people that didn't come out because I didn't know how to set the camera when using a flash . ..through lour rolls of film. There have also been town offi cials and people in the public eye that I've misrepresented while ex plaining a new town policy or pro ject. What's nicc is that these people have been very patient with me, tak ing into consideration that I know little of the history of this area, and have not treated my mistakes loo se riously. Nobody has called for me to be tarred and feathered.. .yet. As I reflect on the hardest transi tion of the past year, I'm grateful that as 1 struggled, the people of Brunswick County have been sup portive. The town officials I've met and interviewed have always been help ful friendly, and have taken the lime to explain some of the history of lo cal issues and projects that I other wise wouldn't have known. It's also very encouraging to have someone I meet at a public event give me words of praise if I've done a good job on a particilar article. That son of thing makes me think I'm not making mistakes every time 1 sit at the computer. Actually, it's been very interesting learning about all the different com munities in Brunsw ick County. Each town council has a collective per sonality all its own, and I'm even beginning to be able to analyze cer tain issues and see how they affect different parts of each community. But 1 still have a long way to go. My colleague Doug Rutter put it well about a month ago when he asked his s ports-page readers to "give me time to grow," since he wits new to interpreting and repin ing sports events. I look forward to my own grow th at the Beacon in 1992, and ask that persons who read my coverage of their area continue to be patient with me. 1 have been lucky. Many people who make the mis takes that I've made don't last too long at their profession, but I have been allowed to leam from each mistake and that, hopefully, will equip me to report the news a little belter in 1992. But keep the tar anil feathers handy, just in case. LETTER TO THE EDITOR Postage Up, Service Is Down To the editor: I know what Gus Barbctta is going through about his paper (letter in Dec. 12 issue). I had been taking the News Reporter of Columbus Coun ty, where 1 was from, to keep up with the news from back home. It comes out twice a week and some weeks the Monday paper would get here after the Thursday paper would. Some weeks they both would come together and someumcs they both would come the next day. I just don't know why, if they can come 130 miles overnight one week, why can't they come every week like that? 1 got so mad writing the post offices to try to find out why it would take five to six days for it to get to me. 1 still would like to lake the News Reporter, but if I can't get it in two days, I feel my $31.50 a year would be a waste. (See POSTAGE, Following Page)