THE CASQUHIAN
RALEIGH, N. C., SATURDAY, APRIL 17, 1963
DEAR SALLY
BY SALLY SHAW
DEAR SALLY: I supose there (
fcre lots of men, like my husband, i
wiio tend to become over-impress- <
ed with their "cuteness” and '‘ro
mantic charm” when they get i
Into their 50's. My 55-year-old
fnan is constantly 7 embarrassing
tne with his flirtatious manners
towards everything female, and es
pecially with my women friends
whom I have in my home now
and then for bridge parties. I've
tried to laugh off his fresh re
marks and “wolf-like” manner
isms towards my friends, but it’s ;
becoming more intolerable all the j
time, and I’m sure these women j;
are beginning to dread visiting my i
home for fear of running up a- ’
gainst my gray haired Casanova. :
Can you give me any advice? IN' i
k STEW.
DEAR IN A STEW: You can i
have it out with Casanova. j
Tell him how much he is hurt
ing your feelings and emhar- :
tassing your friends, and ap- i
peal to his sense of right. If
this does no good, about the
only thing you can do is be
gin arranging your dates with
your friends away from home, j;
or else manage to have them i,
in when you’re sure he will be
away.
DEAR SALLY: In former years,;
when I was employing sitters for
my young children, I certainly |
never permitted any of them to j
invite their boy friends in to sit
with them. But now I have just
discovered that my 15-year-old
daughter has been entertaining
boys during her baby-sitting jobs
in one particular home with the j
full consent of her employer. I am I
not trying to excuse my daughter, j
but, don’t you think the woman
for whom she works should have
checked with me first on this
point? What shall I do- MRS. T.G.
DEAR MRS. T.G.: The em
ployer is way out of line and,
indeed, she need not have
checked with you first in or
der to learn this setup is all
wrong. Lay down the law to
your daughter. Tell her posi
tively no more sitting jobs un
less she promises faithfully
that she will sit these out a
lone!
DEAR. SALLY: A buddy of mine
went with a beautiful girl for sev
eral months, and then broke off.
I asked him if he minded my dat
ing her and when he said no, I
began going with her, and she and
I hit it off wonderfully right, from
the start. In fact she has told me
she enjoys my company more than
that of any other boys she’s ever
gone out with, and I know I’m fall
ing hard for her. But now this
buddy of mine keeps telling me
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will eventually come back to him
and that she's only going with me
to make him jealous, and that she
will evtnau&lly come back to him
I’m sure he’s dead wrong about
this. Should I tell him off? D.J.
DEAR D.J.: Some buddy!
But what woud you gain by
telling him off? Time will de
cide this one. A'our girl’s sub
sequent actions will speak far
more eloquently than any
words from you or him.
DE.AR SALLY: I’m a girl of 23.
and have been going with a good
looking fellow of 24 for almost a
year. We get along marvelously,
and I enjoy our dates very much.
There’s ony one bug in the oint
ment of my happiness. The only
time he speaks any words of love
to me or tells me that I’m the only
girl in the world for him is when
he has taken a drink or two over
his quota. At these times he's vol
uble and eloquent about his great,
undying love. Then later, when I
remind him of the things he said
to me. he'll look at me with a puz
zled expression on his face and
say, “Did I really say that? I real
ly must have been loaded!” This,
of course, hurts me very much
I have heard that it takes liquor
in some cases to loosen a person's
tongue and make him say the
things that are really on his mind.
Do you think this might be true
in the case of this fellow, and that
if I just bide my time, he will come
out with expressions of love in a
more r.autral way? WONDERING
DEAR WONDERING: Now
really! Can you seriously be
interested in a man who has to
drink too much in order to be
\ come romantic? A relationship
like this isn’t rvorth keeping
up!
MR. W ALTER M. RAINES
Funeral rites for Mr. Walter M.
Raines, Jr. who died at Wake Me
morial Hospital. Thursday, were
held Sunday at 3:00 p.m. from the
Raleigh Funeral Home Chapel.
Rev. Ben Foust officiated. Burial
followed in Mount Hope Ceme
tery.
Survivors include his wife. Mrs.
Sylvia W. Raines, 422 S. Blood
worth Street; one son, A1 Bobby
Raines, three daughters, Maude
Elizabeth. Martha Ann and Gwen
dolyn Raines, all of the home, and
■ his father, Walter Raines, Sr. of
Washington. D. C.
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During Reconstruction, a Negro
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