DEAR SALLY BY SALLY SHAW DEAR SALLY: My parents f am to think that young peo ■ pie should hide their love, just as though they were ashamed of it. My fiance and I are very much in love, but every time we happen to set close together either at home or out some where, or If we happen to hold hands while we’re walking, my parents have fits. And If we should kiss each other, either in greeting or good-by, you'd think we had done something downright immoral! How about this? MONITORED. DEAR MONITORED: There are parents who just don’t like to see their children do these things--even though they them selves probably did much the same once upon a time. About all you can do is to try to make your loye a little more private, a little less demonstrative In the presence of your parents. And after all, true love doesn’t have to be proved by public display. * * * y DEAR SALLY: lam inreceipt 'of the "most unusual” invtta- tier, in my life -a “money shower.” This has thrown me for a loss. In the first place, if I were to accept I would not know just how much money I would be expected to “donate” to the bride. In the second place, if I were decline, I don’t know whether I’d still be ex pected to mail a gift of money. And In the third place, I can’t help feeling this sort of invi tation is presumptuous and in poor taste. How do you feel a bout it? H. M. DEAR H, M.: The same as you. And in your place I shouldn’t hesitate to decline. . nor should I mail any “dona tion.” * * * DEAR SALLY: My fiancee wants to give me a wedding ring when we are married, and I don’t like the idea. To me, a v ■ doing ring on a man's finger Vbrays marks him as a “hen pecked husband.” I realize of course that you are a woman, v. mt regardless of this I’d still appreciate your comments on this. MIKE. DEAR MIKE: Woman though I may be, the first still remains that there are many, many men today who wear wedding rings and are still anything but “lien pecked. ’’ Or course, whether you do or do not wear a ring is entirely up to you, but if your fiancee really wants very much for you to wear one, rath er than create any fuss, why not go along with her? * * * DEAR SAI.I Y: The members of m\ women’s bridge club customarily put up a SI.OO fee each, for prizes when we play. THE VETERANS CORNER EDITOR'S NOTE: Veterans 4uid their families are asking thousands of questions coneern ing the benefits their Govern ment pi ovides for them through the Veterans Administration. Below are some representa tive queries. Additional in formation may be obtained at any VA office. Q My only income is S2OO a month military retirement benefit biased on longevity. I am without dependents and, due to a nonservice incurred dis ability, I am totally disabled and permanently liedridden. Am 1 eligible for VA pension bene fits’ 1 A --If you waive your entire retirement benefit, you may be eligible for a tax-free VA dis ability pension of $2lO a month, which includes an aid and at tendance benefit, contact your nearest VA office. * * * Q -- I am a veteran rated 100 per cent for service-connected disabilities incurred during peacetime. Am I eligible for out-patient treatment of ail ments not related to military service? A-- No. You are not eligible unless you had some wartime service. * * * Q-1 am attending school under the GI Bill. What must I do to qualify for the increased educational allowances under the recent amendment to the GI Bill? A-- No action is required on your part. The VA will auto matically see that you receive the increased payments. * * * Q I am 65 years old and plan to retire soon. Can I con vert my National Service Life Insurance to the new Modified Life Plan? A-- No. The Modified Life Plan insurance is not available after six months have passed since your 60th birthday. * + * Q -1 am a Vietnam veteran who plans to start a small business. May I use the GI i loan for this purpose? J A-- No, GI business loans r are not available to Vietnam veterans. However, you might try the Small Business Ad ministration. * * * Veterans' reemployment rights to not differ for persons who are drafted and those who choose to enlist In the armed for-eas. Every now and then we are com pelled to call upon a substitute when one of our members Is unable to attend and I’m wonder ing if, in a case like this, it is proper to ask the woman w'hois filling in to put up SI.OO along with the regular members. SLAM. DEAR SLAM: Since the guest is already doing your club a big favor by filling in, she should not be asked to contribute any money. The hostess in whose home that meeting is taking place should, In appreciation of the guest’s courtesy, take care of the extra fee. COOKOUT VALUES!! ' SUPERR SEAFOOD VALUES!! SUPER RIGHT" ALL MEAT ! CHOPPED m jJ' y (3 lbs or more) CAP N JOHN'S FROZEN FISH DINNER FRANKS w 49= , $ 1 «“»» RJH m* or Ocean Perch« 39c 1-Lb. PA 2-Lb .4 4*7 “ ' SlXr CAP’N JOHN’S FROZEN FISH DINNER All lief Franks »;■ 85c sou* . A . BEEF . TURKEY . chicken j§ ah* <*>*mm=*►»*.« Dinner franks 63c B Pk °( |j | Shrimp or Sea Scallop w- 59c HAMS 49‘FRYERS 24 SUPER-RIGHT SMOKED HAM "SUPER-RIGHT" SMOKED HAM "SUPER R 1 - v iff; HT SMOKED HAM "SUPER RIGHT" FRYERS "SUPER RIGHT" FRYERS SUPER-RIGHT FRYERS Sl-F tl» * rR cR BOH rn SHANK on CENTER on CENTER on CUTUP OO BREASTS OH lEG “OC SPLIT—«r HALF lb. DJ C PORTION ibJ3 c PORTION lboU s: SIiCES lb. 3U C P R^DY ib. £Qc QUARTER lb.oU c QUARTER !b.yj c GIBLETS lh.J3 c Cantaloupes * Yellow CORN 3 85 c 10 s 59 c Tangjf Juicy Unions 12 llfPLsweet Delicious Nectarines 33c Fresh Crisp Carrots 2 -25 c .. . « .. H v ßoasted Salted Peanuts 39c isarileu ftuu? —--iinf koiucis ~Ketchup 2 49= 33= SRTaMBLC.**SO c ®3 99= WM j"* Facial Tissue % 29c *OO Donnar *?y DL OUR OWN WITH LEMON & SUGAR ADDED mm £ A&P OFFERS BIG SAVINGS - BUY IQc OFF LABEL nW U Hr W Tea Mix 59fi Gleem 6Sc 3bc' - LIQUID «n-'-; »o. 2?Y 49c^K 29c fJUNE PEAS 4 Lit s I OO piLISBURY FLOUR 60c "~ ~ ~ ±>l COHN - -29 c GERBER BABY FOOD 3 35= «Tl I fjI|COCKTAIL 3 89c TIDE DETERGENT t -81 cYy I mmm fM I ■MISSLrSL i ,1„, FLEISCHMANN’S „• 47c iflc'-T“cv *1 i gpMOSAlifiE ORIIBK A $ 1 flfi c ' %- . -w -/v 1 l 1U 0Z JARONLY I \ I SWEET PEAS 2 c-' 57c 20c ONE COUPON PER FAMILY • EXPIRES AUG 8, 1970 20c j • JANE PARKER ENRICHED COUNTRY STYLE ** ™Dt *. i-’ -.IK ; SHOP A&P FOR COOL DESSERTS—BUY MARVEL ICE CREAM WITH SHERBERT OR MARVEL EAD3 79 votM *OS JANE PARKER DINNER VALUE Bake W Serve tx 2 % 39c Blueberry Pies ’ 59c Coffee Cake : 1 59c Pink Lemonade 75c JANE PARKER FRESHLY MADE, LARGE -ans la - ,i • MINUTE MAID CONCFNTRATED BORDENS ELSIE STIX Supred Donuts X- 45c Lemon Buns 3 SIOO Orange Juice« 27c =»■’ 49c Orange Cream Bar ‘«£ 49c Jam Parker Marbia Pound Cake 2_£ 69c Marten Pies - Af,u - f ” cH •• coc °* mut custai,i) 3 St oo wivTkA.Tt-.S'*,vi - 1 : i. . 2 Al l *; • *s4 ? m<,l jjssVOj through s* ■ august t. im ”3mWWMMHBaWwiMiMigpB > ———BWiMI / Holden Brings Hartford Into Saint Aug.’s Al umni Fold HARTFORD, Connecticut- The Hartford St. Augustine’s College Alumni became the ele venth chapter in thirteen mont! s to be organized and/or reacti vated since Reter G. Holden, Sr., president of St. Augustine’s National (Reform) Alumni, was elected to that office. The Hartford chapter was organized last Saturda; even ing, by Mr. Holden, at 8 p.m. during a meeting which was staged in The Si. Monica’s Epis copal Church Rectory on 138 Palm Street. Father Cyril C. Burke, Rector at St. Monica’s, was appointed Acting President of the ::<• - .ilumr.i = apt.- hilt- Dr. George B, I, •llet .a proßiinent U-utL <• -■» Ist was named Acting ft. ice pre sident. Ml . Ho! h . for greater ah .. i. .ci -:. and acti- atn ,n >h, .y ,i■ , C f the air.a n.a' i - q ,-cial emp! asis on reernr ... > of stu dents trt k: and St. \nzustl ; - ir eai 30 ...i!h. . dollai u :■ . and de eh,.]-nil !m. in-' , pioi ect .Ho also if= r •,1 *o meeting. it! i f < ~in on Septemtx ■ I tl when the national i •- relation’ holds Its annual •confab by the sea’ on Virginia tch. The convention wdl! be Id in tiie Gay Vacationer Mo •1 Inn at 34th St. and Ocean rent. \ftei the meeting, the group, h! the exception of Father d Mrs. Burke, journeyed tc • is city’s exclusive La Scala’a stuarant where they enjoyed dertainment as the guests of and Mrs. Jeffery R. Mc ijrtne, an eminent Hartford : -yciiiatrist. The St. Aueites :i-i retired to the Me Alpines ' - ionable iiome in exclusive "■si Hartford, where the\ ate breakfast, . Eapter officers appointed ‘Te; Fr. Biuke, president; . -adler, \'ice-President, Dr. 'c Alpine Special Consultant on Group Behavior Patterns (to the National President); Mrs. A, Gloria Burke; Mrs. Margaret McAlpineSmith; Miss Anne Warren; Mrs. Maria Brocco and J, Albert Brocco. Mr, Holden motored to Hart ford with Charles E. Crowe (formerly of Dunn and Mt. Olive N, C.) and his twin daughters Alice and Alicia and the visit ing New Yorkers were the house guests of former Shaw Univer sity football and basketball star Donald (Moon) and Mrs. Alice Crowe Garner of Dunham St. Upon arriving at the Garners’ former North Carolina AS.T State University man Crowe jokingly said ‘(guess what Gar ner. . .Peter is here to organize ‘all three' St. Aug. alumni.” Garner, in THE CAROLINIAN RALEIGH. N. C., WEEK ENDING HAT AUGUST 1. 1970 St. Augustine's, said - “it won't work. -. .it won't work,” after- W’hich all three let go a burst laughter. Holden and Garner who had confront each other several times on the gridiron, Garner wearing the maroon and white of Shaw and Holden the blue and white of St. Augus tin’e talked about three hours as they relived those days when each played guard for his sehool. The two men’s conversation centered around that Coach Jtm ’ my Lytle, Shaw University team with the dream backfteld com posed of Claude (Ram) Govan: J (Hog) Fleming; Hollis Creecy, Thomas KeeandMara ble, Creecy and Fleming were halfback, Govan fullback and Kee and Marablo quarterbacks. Garner revealed -a 39 year Shaw University secret’when he said “wo were always worried about St. Aug.” St. Aug. during those years had a losing team while Shaw University was win ning seven out of a nine game card, * ♦ * Indians on reservations, who now represent about two-thirds of the more than 650,000 A merican Indians, are the coun try's most disadvantaged mi nority group. These people have an extremeh high unemploy ment rate and an average annual Income of less than $2,000. Some Indians on reservations earn as little as SSOO a year. Drive Safely 13