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DEAR SALLY BY SALLY SHAW DEAR SALLY: I'm looking tor a husband tor my widowed mc ther-in-law, a very attractive woman of 45 who lives with us, She and I formerly got along i very well, but not since she has " her home with us. Our personalities constantly clash, and life is misery for me„ In my husband’s eyes, she can do no wrong- -but then he isn’t home all day, and his mother and I are. How can 1 get her married off without giving her (and my husband) the impres sion that 1 am trying to get rid of her (as I’d like to do)? BADGERED. DEAR BADGERED: Assum ing that your mother-in-law has any interest In marrying again, you can start the bail rolling by introducing her to a few eligible prospects. * * * DEAR SALLY: I’m a girl of 19, but look older. One of the executives in the department store at which I work has shown a big interest in me. He is a divorced man of 49, who looks much youngers, and has taken me to some very expensive places. So far he hasn't made . any passes at me, outside of goodnight kisses. I think I could fall in love with him. Do you think he’s too old for me? BABS, DEAR BABS: The very fact that you're asking me indicates you already know the answer. Give this 49’er back to the wo men of his own generation. * * * DEAR SALLY: My wife is a sweet and Intelligent wo'man, but when she has had one drink she becomes completely un strung, and begins to babble ou' words that are anything but "ac ceptable” in polite society. This Is really embarrassing to me at the parties and other func tions we attend. Always later at home, when the effect of her drinks has worn off, she is terribly sorry and promises never again. But still It keeps happening. Advice? HANK. DEAR hanv. T suggest that vou and your wile discuss this T seriously, and if she is as sweet and Intelligent as you say, she’ll listen. If she doesn’t want to ask f for a soft drlnx at these parties, you can help give her the ap pearance of “one of the gang” by quietly mixing her a ginger ale with a cherry in it. * * * DEAR SALLY: I’m a widow of 51, and it’s no secret in town that I was left sustantial ly well fixed in a financial way by my late dear husband. Since 1 am still considered quite at tractive, I don’t lack for male companionship--bachelors and widowers. However, my sister keeps claiming that these men are primarily interested in my money and as a result I am be coming more and more dubious whenever a man shows a more THE VETERANS’ CORNER EDITOR'S NOTE: Below are Authoritative answers by the veterans Admlnistation to some of the many current questions from former servicemen and their families. Further Infor mation on veterans benefits may be obtained at any VA office. Q - I am eligible for train ing under the Denendent’s Edu cational Assistant i program. Will 1 be allowed to enter train ing with less than half-time training load? A * No. The law will not per mit training under this program at less than half time. * * ■* Q - I am v,tinned to a nurs ing home because of disabili ties that qualify me for social security disability insurance. Is the cost of the nursing home excluded from social security payments In computing amount due for pension? A- Yes. * * * Q - Is there a final date for conversion of a National Service Life Insurance policy? A- It can usually be con- verted at any time the policy is current. However, there are some policies prefixed by “W” that cannot be converted if the renewal date comes after the insured’s 50th birthday. Ir, this ease, the conversion right must be esercised before the term runs out, * * * Q - May I drop out of col lege this fall without losing the rest of the educational en titlement X have coming? A- Yes. Under the current G. L Bill, your training does not have to be continuous. How ever, you will receive no al lowance when not in training. * * * Negro firms aqd individuals accounted tor 83 per cant of all minority participation inVA loan guaranty operation In 1970.’ * * * Dr. Andrew V. Schally, Chief, Endocrine & Polypeptide Labs, New Orleans V AH, is this yew's winner of VA's highest honor tor medical research-the William i'S, Middleton Award. I ' *** / Intensive care units are to be oonctroetcd at VA hospitals to Bn&lo, Providence, Shreve port, lowa City. Miami and Fay etteville, Ark., a- a cost of near ly $t million bringing the total member of such units to 93. than passing Interest in ■ 1 appreciate any advice have to offer. \v< WIDOW. DEAR WORRIED Wll Stop listening to \otir and begin thinking tot self! Any inordlnah* for money by any pe Inevitably reveal its- !! or later--but In tin accept the attentions 1 men in a positi e fu mind. People who >s' mistrust the mot in • ■ • succeed only in makit; selves unhappy and a■ than not unpopular. 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D., advisor on drugs to the World Health Organization and the National Research Council of the Na tional Academy of Sciences, writes; “The hook will be as useful to parents and teach ers, who have need of accurate information about drugs, as it is to the children.” WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT DRUGS gives plain facts, in plain language about dozens of drugs-marijuana, LSD, seda tives, stimulants, heroin, alcohol. Quoted throughout the book are personal statements from boys and girls, who tell why they started using drugs and the experiences that fol lowed, Many of them are now at Phoenix House trying to over come their drug addiction. One teen-age boy described his life in high-school as a heroin ad dict: “I lost a lot of friends In that time. I was beating them, conning them out of money. You see, I didn't care any more about friendship. I didn’t care anything about any thing except the drug itself.” A few years before, he might have been another student who said, “A lot of my friends were trying drugs. I felt left out. I wanted very much to be part of the crowd.” Dr. Gorodetzky and Dr. Christian advise parents who discover that their children are using, drugs not to panic. They should remain calm and meet their children’s problems with understanding and honest dis cussion. The child needs to know his parents feel his thoughts are worth attention and dis cussion. To parents who fear their children may be exposed to drugs in school, they advise honesty, an accurate presenta tion of the facts with open dis- cussion and respect. From ex perience lt appears that exag geration scare tactics, preach ing, and moralizing are not ef fective. WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT DRUGS is illustrated with full-color photographs and contains a glossary and tables of commonly abused barbitur ates, tranquilizers, and stimu lants. Published by Harcourt Brace Jovanovlch as a Cur riculum-Related Book, tt Is relevant to current Interests of young people and to topics in the school curriculum. It Is priced at $4.95. * * * VA says 24,500 disabled vets trained in its vocational re habilitation program during FY 1970. * * * Veteran enrollments in VA education programs for 1970 was up an unprecedented 31 percent over 1969. * * * VA is initiating on-the-job training programs in areas of public need-health care, ed ucation, recreation, welfare and pollution control. * * * 15,000 jobs were offered the 9,186 vets who attended the two dav New England Vietnam Ve terans Job Mart sponsored by VA and the Boston Globe.
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